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5 Eye Contact Tips | How To Communicate With Your Eyes

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Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://aaronmarino.com/confidence-course/ Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services: http://www.aaronmarino.com Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.aaronmarino.com http://www.iamalpham.com and http://www.peteandpedro.com, talks about 5 eye contact tips to ensure you are communicating the best that you can with your eyes. This is a how to communicate with your eyes tutorial and advice video. These 5 eye contact tips will have you looking great and talking it up with those amazing eyes of yours! Maintain eye contact- seems simple right? Wrong! It takes skill and finesse to do it right. Aaron Marino of alpha m. says it's comes down to a balance of eye contact and breaking gaze. It's uncomfortable talking to one who locks and loads. Eye contact is good but if you ever talk to that guy that takes to a new level of intensity, it's too much! But for those who look everywhere but you, you tend not to trust them. There's a delicate balance that needs to take place.Eye contact is critical component of the communication process: maintaining eye contact as well as properly breaking gaze balance. Here's how to do it: 1. Holding a gaze should be 5 -10 seconds or someone can feel uncomfortable. Break gaze and take it back. It makes the conversation feel better and less intense. 2. If you are speaking to multiple people, group, or audience, shift for every 2 -3 seconds. Constantly be moving and adjusting. Look people in the eye. 3. When you are the one listening, the same 5 -10 second rule applies. When you break, make an acknowledgement. 4. Pay attention to what your eyes and eye brows are saying. Facial expressions are a big deal with how we are received. 5. When you break gaze, don't look toward your phone. Put your phone in your pocket or bag.
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Lex Chickenfeet (3 days ago)
You look like chester bennington from linkin park :’<<
Keshav (5 days ago)
I like this guy not gay thou
Johan V (10 days ago)
Dude I have bad social anxiety. If I stare into your eyes you'll get just as terribly uncomfortable as I am. This sucks btw! ;) When you look at people in the eyes you must necessarily have an 'open/positive expression' on your face. Unfortunately, the anxiety doesn't allow that most of the time. You're not in the moment, reacting properly to what people are saying and your facial expression is either 'neutral/cold' ' (at best) or 'negative/down' ' (like someone is holding a gun to your face). Ahhhhh sweet social anxiety :) I'm Lovin it!
faiiza khan (11 days ago)
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Highlander (12 days ago)
Protip it helps when you are devilishly handsome like this guy.. Me however: ఠ_ఠ
Name (13 days ago)
*Some body talks to me eye has left the chat
The Pompadour King (17 days ago)
The picture is SO FUNNY!
Shoaib Khan (18 days ago)
My problem is that I am unable to directly look into people’s eyes when I am trying to converse with them. Embarrassingly, I find my eyes tend to indirectly look at people’s sexual parts, for example, breasts, thighs, penis and so on. This condition occurs with whoever I am having a conversation with, i.e., men, women, young, old, work colleagues friends and relatives. I have no real control over this and I have suffered from this condition 3 month ago. I was about 22 or so. I am gradually bringing my anxiety under control but I would very much like to treat this problem as it would help treat my anxiety and enable me to socialize with people without fear. I would like to know what the problem is and how it can be treated. Thank you.
Shoaib Khan (18 days ago)
Hi ... i feel so bad for myself . Bcz when i talk to someone then my eyes falls on boobs .while i have nethier control over it and nor want to do so. Making eyes contact with someone is so deficult for me. Guyes help me wht should i do. This time i feel social anaxity .
Tri Hardcx (24 days ago)
4 years ago.. where did the time go
Saul Espinoza (27 days ago)
good tips
Ryn (1 month ago)
What about when people are walking towards you in a hallway. I just avoid eye contact and low key ignore them or look at the floor. Is that rude?
ZebraDoctor144 (1 month ago)
The soul patch was not the move😂
Wolfie Slays (1 month ago)
Lmao I’m alittle blind so it hard keeping contact bc I try so to see there eye lol 😂
Oceanna Carver (1 month ago)
God I really should have practiced this more. Those social people are way ahead of me. I was too busy being a socially awkward introvert who has social anxiety dammit.
KPEC3arrival (1 month ago)
alpha m. Another great video! I agree about how rude it is if I'm trying to talk to someone who is more interested in the cell. One time I met this girl, but no matter what happened, she couldn't pull away from the cell. I asked her a question, she ignored me and looked into it again. I noticed it didn't buzz or ring. I said, later, and left her there. Hope her cell can give her what, evidently, I could not....
XBlakKatZ (1 month ago)
I watch boobs while talking instead lol
vita zumer (1 month ago)
Lol on my school we had a dance/party. I slow danced w this boy. And while we were dancing, he was looking me in the eyes for 10min+. I was so uncomfortable. It was so awkward i couldn't look him in the eyes. So i was constantly looking all over the room.
Harvey Fong (1 month ago)
Who should move away from eye contact first? Male or female and what the reason
WingedArchon (1 month ago)
I broke gaze sometimes by making eye contact.. how did I do?
naoba khuman (1 month ago)
How come you are so dope!? Teach me confidence coz I'm an introvert.
Adore Nebula-Haze (1 month ago)
Eye contact. This guy will give you the creeps. I don’t know who he is but the stare is intense https://youtu.be/U54cUxMkbx4
Saif Tutorials (1 month ago)
Watching in December 2018..! I really needed this.
YoungKing SoSad SA (1 month ago)
your lock and gaize was funny asf!!!
Sahil Nagi (1 month ago)
*U HAVE POOP IN YOUR LEFT EYE*
Zed A (21 days ago)
Shut up smelly indian
FJ.Illustration (1 month ago)
I'm still battling with my OCD and social anxiety. I hope it will work.
Crackmind 10 (1 month ago)
This man is crazily hilarious 🤣😂
t millz (2 months ago)
Should have watched this before my interview today yeah I have alot of pain in my eyes
Odyss K (2 months ago)
Yaaaaaah, I'm that guy looking everywhere.. But it's because I'm so anxious that people will feel awkward if I do look them in their eyes. I find it so defficult.
The Fascinating Stud (2 months ago)
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Native2458 (2 months ago)
Eye contact is so tough, especially during job interviews.
-Its Kirbo- (2 months ago)
Im taking life advice from a fruity guy wearing earrings at 2 in the morning. What am I doing with my life?
peter nuon (2 months ago)
Break gays
Koutique 03 (2 months ago)
You should be an actor
Christian Ayala (2 months ago)
What if I have a staring problem?
Eva Love (2 months ago)
I actully hate eye contact xD I HATE IT!!!!!!!!! I CAN MAKE EYE CONTACT FOR 3 SECONDS OR MAYBE 2!!!!!!!!!
Potato magic (2 months ago)
me too ;(
Anant Singh (2 months ago)
Thx bro
winden ribon's (3 months ago)
I have autism and I'll make an exterm amount of eyecontact its strong too I see surprise when I do it oh I love it too and hugs kisses well I'm not about to suck enyones lips or do the hot dog dipped in ketchup thing eww
MivecMelaka (3 months ago)
Break gaze, thank you. Im doing it wrong lol.
Neolusion (3 months ago)
Wait not making eye contact makes you untrustworthy? I've never heard that before but damn I'm apparently really untrustworthy lol
y33tboy (3 months ago)
Eye contact is fucking weird but without it then it’s gonna be awkward
Oh Yahoo Gaming Channel (3 months ago)
Nice video
Jasmine Lidia (3 months ago)
I work with a girl that just stares at my soul when she talks to me and she doesnt blink. Very uncomfortable
Jerome Productions (3 months ago)
Thank you man.
hei hei (3 months ago)
If i try my best to keep eye contact, i can't hear a word that they say
Josh Stahl (13 days ago)
hei hei bro same
Mouleeshvar S (3 months ago)
1st one is cok rrect. When some girls talk they don't brea
APZX GAMING (3 months ago)
im just here cause i have social anxiety
Shubham Maindola (3 months ago)
Thumbnail 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
ANDavisCC (3 months ago)
oh my god I'm going to be counting in my head now..
Anthony Bunch (3 months ago)
This guy is the super cool type of dude to have on your sales team :-) Or night out on the town. I bet he can talk the Panty-hose off a chick without her even noticing! Lmao😄
Diana D' Alexandridus (4 months ago)
You looks like Hugh Jackman
Redgrits (4 months ago)
Watch this at the slowest speed
Tejus Wadbudhe (4 months ago)
Thank you
latheef Dj (4 months ago)
Any from 2023?
Prasanna jyothi Vaka (3 months ago)
2030 😜
Sabi Anim (4 months ago)
I don't know why you remind me of a goat
TEGUH MUHAMMAD SOFIAN (4 months ago)
Pliss subtitle
PR Editz (4 months ago)
You made my day and you belong to hollywood coz your expressions are awesome
Emily Hale (4 months ago)
Me: “All I have to do is look at them!” *looks up how to look at somebody’s face*
Chewy (4 months ago)
I cannot look at people in the eye no matter what! I look and look away and look everywhere when I know I’m supposed to look in the eyes but just physically can’t because it somewhat hirts
NA (1 month ago)
Chewy find out if you're autistic
Lucy O'Connor (4 months ago)
Does anyone else get dizzy when they make eye contact with someone
ASHISH GULERIA (4 months ago)
I'm inspired will his videos a lot... And I'm gonna impress a girl right now....!!!
sameer walikar (4 months ago)
It's a very good lecture
flint flurry (4 months ago)
Once we were planning for an activity n I made a mistake n she was giving me a long ass scolding. So I decided to lock my jaws and stared perfectly in her eyes. N then she began to become uncomfortable 😂😂😂
LJ64 (4 months ago)
It's really hard when the person has massive boobs or has them nearly out with no bra.
nehalahmed Sajib (5 months ago)
How to stop eye contact.Because i feel uncomfortable myself.and i am so deep
Muditsh Sharma (5 months ago)
I m confused about breaking the eye contact in between. How to do that properly ?
Michael Munoz (5 months ago)
eye contact is confidence. like driving on the street to observe offensively or defensively to react immediately.
cody james (5 months ago)
Never look down. It makes you look unconfident.
louis louis (5 months ago)
Lol ITS TONY MONTANA
Lilliana Gomez (5 months ago)
So regular ppl skills
Nil Rammy (5 months ago)
I went to a grocery store yesterday, and i had an eye contact with a guy.. thats unintentional for me, but I hold my gaze for a while and he is doing the same thing and I break the contact, and went to the other side of the store, and when I look back I found him there, looking at me with interest.. 😁 and I was like woooh! Whats just happen , is that the power of stare? Or having an eye contact...
RapidStream 8676 (6 months ago)
Lol it would be so funny if this was commentated by Stevie Wonder
Es Koroma (6 months ago)
I could watch someone for over 10 secs and the person can tell I still just can't deal with breaking the gaze
Rabithgold 48 (6 months ago)
What if I’m making eye contact but I’m daydreaming and not paying attention
Rabithgold 48 (6 months ago)
Whenever I try to make eye contact I always feel awkward
Pedran50 (6 months ago)
I’m that guy :( oh well
BRANDS_ EYMAN (6 months ago)
lol that thumbnail was 👌😂😂
Angel Kid (6 months ago)
I can't look at both eyes at the same time
victor dll (6 months ago)
But what if i don't want to break gays ?
Beo GnR (7 months ago)
What if i told you i did the longest eye contact today like 8 seconds i guess , the girl started it while walking and i did the same it was awesome feeling idk why but just good lol she had a smile on but she is older than me like milf i guess 😂
yousef yassen (7 months ago)
Guys I have the equation for eye contact it needs a lot of explaining first of all eye contact is about focus when you look at someone's eye your focus on their overall face or mouth but your eyes is looking at their eyes , so don't look to their eyes and at the same time focus on it because he's gonna feel it and you gonna feel it and it will be weird , let's recap; look in the eyes focus on the mouth and also to what he is saying don't focus on the eyes and finally be confident , take care.
Brandon Farrar (7 months ago)
Republicans could learn something from this.
RSFsanchez _ (7 months ago)
I feel creepy when i do it
Poopie pants (7 months ago)
THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN NOT WANTING TO LOOK AT PEOPLE CAUSE U DONT FIND PEOPLE INTERESTING AND NOT LOOKING AT THEM CAUSE YOUR SCARED.
mounika sr (7 months ago)
Really good video...
Wizard Abhiii (7 months ago)
I feel laughing when teacher makes eye contact with me 😑
Susana Marquez (7 months ago)
He is so funny!! 😀
Stranger Danger (8 months ago)
1.Don't have eye contact for more than 5-10 seconds 2.In speaking to a large audience , make sure you have eye contact two seconds or less with each person 3.When you break gaze , still let the person know you are listening to them 4.know how your eyebrows look when you are maintaining eye contact 5.Do not look at phone when breaking eye contact
Avid Inspiration (8 months ago)
Prolonged eye contact
Kian Siong (8 months ago)
There's a dot on youe left eye on the right side
chris dias (8 months ago)
I generally get a lot of weird shaped cystic pimples and hence I try to avoid talking to people altogether as when people generally try to talk to me I catch them subconsciously feeling disgusted looking at me, and hence have no confidence to talk or even look people at all, forget about eye contact and I'm too poor to do anything about it, I have had no friends for a long long time as is pretty obvious and generally end up talking to myself most of the days . But now I'm just used to it and don't give a f*CK any more. F*CK people and f*ck my life. Life sucks
Ashaun Walwyn (8 months ago)
I don't do any eye contact at all
Gabriel Guzman (8 months ago)
I might need botox for my eyebrows because they tend to get narrow for some reason when I smile and when I adjust it to make it look like my forehead has creases which makes me look worried or nervous
PrimeTWild (8 months ago)
Thanks 👌
Kaif Siddiqui (8 months ago)
Your content are good but you waste 50% of the time
c63 amg 2013 (8 months ago)
everytime i look at someone we fight
Paul Khoury (8 months ago)
c63 amg 2013 this is what’s happening to me either
THE MASTER (8 months ago)
This guy should be my mentor
Jugger naut (8 months ago)
eyecontact with just a small brake every 5 seconds? im screwed
Stevoshky (9 months ago)
The phone thing is so annoying. I hate 📱 LOL My Dad constantly checks his phone mid conversation and its like so we here to chat or what?
Warrior Of Allah (9 months ago)
I know people who straight gaze through the whole conversation, so right back at you, i dont like people who challenge me. I will stare you to eternity until you learn to drop your gaze once in a while like normal people do in a conversation.

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