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5 Eye Contact Tips | How To Communicate With Your Eyes

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Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://aaronmarino.com/confidence-course/ Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services: http://www.aaronmarino.com Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.aaronmarino.com http://www.iamalpham.com and http://www.peteandpedro.com, talks about 5 eye contact tips to ensure you are communicating the best that you can with your eyes. This is a how to communicate with your eyes tutorial and advice video. These 5 eye contact tips will have you looking great and talking it up with those amazing eyes of yours! Maintain eye contact- seems simple right? Wrong! It takes skill and finesse to do it right. Aaron Marino of alpha m. says it's comes down to a balance of eye contact and breaking gaze. It's uncomfortable talking to one who locks and loads. Eye contact is good but if you ever talk to that guy that takes to a new level of intensity, it's too much! But for those who look everywhere but you, you tend not to trust them. There's a delicate balance that needs to take place.Eye contact is critical component of the communication process: maintaining eye contact as well as properly breaking gaze balance. Here's how to do it: 1. Holding a gaze should be 5 -10 seconds or someone can feel uncomfortable. Break gaze and take it back. It makes the conversation feel better and less intense. 2. If you are speaking to multiple people, group, or audience, shift for every 2 -3 seconds. Constantly be moving and adjusting. Look people in the eye. 3. When you are the one listening, the same 5 -10 second rule applies. When you break, make an acknowledgement. 4. Pay attention to what your eyes and eye brows are saying. Facial expressions are a big deal with how we are received. 5. When you break gaze, don't look toward your phone. Put your phone in your pocket or bag.
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Smith (2 days ago)
Good vid
Sanjin Craft (3 days ago)
am I only one wondering do I look people in left or right eye
I think you are actor more than alpha
Paulette Junious (6 days ago)
short, sweet and straight to the point!!! very good video!!
ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ BTS (6 days ago)
I always look away when someone makes eye contact with me ,even with strangers
DJ Killer (10 days ago)
I thought you are the Hydra member from Capitan America winter soldier
J•M •D (18 days ago)
Lol this dude doesnt look like an alpha. He sounds and looks soft.
Legendary Quincy (21 days ago)
Master looks so young in this video. Hahahaha
Naruto Uzumaki (23 days ago)
My brother was speaking to a girl yesterday and i don’t think he broke the gaze at least once and it was like a 10 minute talk with a stranger we were walking to the movie theatre and a girl approached him to talk about medical stuff because that her job and he literally break gaze
Primthos (1 month ago)
I said love you for pissed off...
Primthos (1 month ago)
no. does not sound so simple. that's why I am here..
Saramiah Jenkins (1 month ago)
I have an interview in a few hours and I’m StReSsInG
Joya Trif (1 month ago)
My school counsellor makes like super SERIOUS eye-contact, like... I thought you were supposed to makes me feel comfortable..?
F S (1 month ago)
What did people do before YouTube 😅🤷🏽‍♂️
Shadows Of Agony (1 month ago)
2:51 he says I love you haha <3
Judy Johnson (1 month ago)
Yall are trying to be like Aliens, talking without using your mouth., I've heard tell. I personally don't like it because it's freaky and people cannot stay out of my face (Get Out)!!!
nick laddam (1 month ago)
Thanks Alpha. New sub here. Always late to the game but I'm a quick learner. And for all you guys out there afraid of eye contact with other dudes lest you seem gay... don't be ridiculous. You're either gay in life or you're not. Get over yourselves. Wusses.
john miller (1 month ago)
Common scense.
Gina Chris (1 month ago)
I like your eyebrows!
Mohamed Redha (1 month ago)
If you can't make eye contact, there is also a possibility you are have some sort of Autism.
Smoovy Rp (1 month ago)
I do expiremets 😂 i stare at randoms in the eye and see their reactions
Ndnx dnsnsn (2 months ago)
I cant even make eye contact with this guy 🤦‍♂️
Macana 191 (2 months ago)
You should skip the earrings
Shawn Kelly (2 months ago)
Okay but what’s up with the off centre soul patch?
Mahbub Lamon (2 months ago)
If I contact only one eye , what will happen.
Hank Roubicek (2 months ago)
If you are needing to establish eye contact with several people,think 3-5. This means look at 3-5 people for 3-5seconds. If interacting with one person, look down when contemplating a response and look at the other when responding. Eyes establish rapport and equalizing the status of both parties engaged in the conversation.
Khoa Nguyễn (2 months ago)
Now this is what i need
Viper (2 months ago)
Omg alpha looked so young in 2015 and now 3 and a half years later he looks old kinda He looked 30 here but was 39 Now he looks 35 but is 43.
try batman (2 months ago)
He's so smart
Liz Valenzuela (2 months ago)
Your funny I love your energy!!
Dupre Media (2 months ago)
Thank you for this!
Gunjan (2 months ago)
I can't make an eye contact and that's why people think I'm arrogant and unapproachable I'm sick of this please help me out😦
Jefferson Huang (3 months ago)
Your neck is on fire holy
Mark_Bad_BA (3 months ago)
I use sticky eyes , When i am threatening someone or if i feel i have to do it or even if i want to gain respect
Angel Garcia (3 months ago)
Love it when i look at someone then i take there breath away.
Secret agentjay (3 months ago)
2:57 - IDK what da fk you think your face looked like, but that's a "Seriously, dude" face and no one can argue with that.
Lex Chickenfeet (3 months ago)
You look like chester bennington from linkin park :’<<
Keshav (3 months ago)
I like this guy not gay thou
Johan V (3 months ago)
Dude I have bad social anxiety. If I stare into your eyes you'll get just as terribly uncomfortable as I am. This sucks btw! ;) When you look at people in the eyes you must necessarily have an 'open/positive expression' on your face. Unfortunately, the anxiety doesn't allow that most of the time. You're not in the moment, reacting properly to what people are saying and your facial expression is either 'neutral/cold' ' (at best) or 'negative/down' ' (like someone is holding a gun to your face). Ahhhhh sweet social anxiety :) I'm Lovin it!
Faiza Daud (3 months ago)
Elijah Michaelsonb
Highlander (3 months ago)
Protip it helps when you are devilishly handsome like this guy.. Me however: ఠ_ఠ
Name (3 months ago)
*Some body talks to me eye has left the chat
The Pompadour King (3 months ago)
The picture is SO FUNNY!
Shoaib Khan (3 months ago)
My problem is that I am unable to directly look into people’s eyes when I am trying to converse with them. Embarrassingly, I find my eyes tend to indirectly look at people’s sexual parts, for example, breasts, thighs, penis and so on. This condition occurs with whoever I am having a conversation with, i.e., men, women, young, old, work colleagues friends and relatives. I have no real control over this and I have suffered from this condition 3 month ago. I was about 22 or so. I am gradually bringing my anxiety under control but I would very much like to treat this problem as it would help treat my anxiety and enable me to socialize with people without fear. I would like to know what the problem is and how it can be treated. Thank you.
Shoaib Khan (3 months ago)
Hi ... i feel so bad for myself . Bcz when i talk to someone then my eyes falls on boobs .while i have nethier control over it and nor want to do so. Making eyes contact with someone is so deficult for me. Guyes help me wht should i do. This time i feel social anaxity .
Tri Hardcx (3 months ago)
4 years ago.. where did the time go
Saul Espinoza (4 months ago)
good tips
Ryn (4 months ago)
What about when people are walking towards you in a hallway. I just avoid eye contact and low key ignore them or look at the floor. Is that rude?
ZebraDoctor144 (4 months ago)
The soul patch was not the move😂
Wolfie Slays (4 months ago)
Lmao I’m alittle blind so it hard keeping contact bc I try so to see there eye lol 😂
Universe Milkshake (4 months ago)
God I really should have practiced this more. Those social people are way ahead of me. I was too busy being a socially awkward introvert who has social anxiety dammit.
KPEC3arrival (4 months ago)
alpha m. Another great video! I agree about how rude it is if I'm trying to talk to someone who is more interested in the cell. One time I met this girl, but no matter what happened, she couldn't pull away from the cell. I asked her a question, she ignored me and looked into it again. I noticed it didn't buzz or ring. I said, later, and left her there. Hope her cell can give her what, evidently, I could not....
XBlakKatZ (4 months ago)
I watch boobs while talking instead lol
vita zumer (4 months ago)
Lol on my school we had a dance/party. I slow danced w this boy. And while we were dancing, he was looking me in the eyes for 10min+. I was so uncomfortable. It was so awkward i couldn't look him in the eyes. So i was constantly looking all over the room.
Harvey Fong (4 months ago)
Who should move away from eye contact first? Male or female and what the reason
WingedArchon (4 months ago)
I broke gaze sometimes by making eye contact.. how did I do?
naoba khuman (4 months ago)
How come you are so dope!? Teach me confidence coz I'm an introvert.
Adore Nebula-Haze (4 months ago)
Eye contact. This guy will give you the creeps. I don’t know who he is but the stare is intense https://youtu.be/U54cUxMkbx4
Saif Tutorials (4 months ago)
Watching in December 2018..! I really needed this.
YoungKing SoSad SA (4 months ago)
your lock and gaize was funny asf!!!
Alina Zachia (4 months ago)
*U HAVE POOP IN YOUR LEFT EYE*
Zed A (3 months ago)
Shut up smelly indian
FJ.Illustration (4 months ago)
I'm still battling with my OCD and social anxiety. I hope it will work.
Crackmind 10 (5 months ago)
This man is crazily hilarious 🤣😂
t millz (5 months ago)
Should have watched this before my interview today yeah I have alot of pain in my eyes
Odyss K (5 months ago)
Yaaaaaah, I'm that guy looking everywhere.. But it's because I'm so anxious that people will feel awkward if I do look them in their eyes. I find it so defficult.
The Fascinating Stud (5 months ago)
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Native2458 (5 months ago)
Eye contact is so tough, especially during job interviews.
-Its Kirbo- (5 months ago)
Im taking life advice from a fruity guy wearing earrings at 2 in the morning. What am I doing with my life?
peter nuon (5 months ago)
Break gays
- Overkoze - (5 months ago)
You should be an actor
Christian Ayala (5 months ago)
What if I have a staring problem?
Eva Love (6 months ago)
I actully hate eye contact xD I HATE IT!!!!!!!!! I CAN MAKE EYE CONTACT FOR 3 SECONDS OR MAYBE 2!!!!!!!!!
Potato magic (5 months ago)
me too ;(
Anant Singh (6 months ago)
Thx bro
winden ribon's (6 months ago)
I have autism and I'll make an exterm amount of eyecontact its strong too I see surprise when I do it oh I love it too and hugs kisses well I'm not about to suck enyones lips or do the hot dog dipped in ketchup thing eww
MivecMelaka (6 months ago)
Break gaze, thank you. Im doing it wrong lol.
Neolusion (6 months ago)
Wait not making eye contact makes you untrustworthy? I've never heard that before but damn I'm apparently really untrustworthy lol
y33tboy (6 months ago)
Eye contact is fucking weird but without it then it’s gonna be awkward
Oh Yahoo Gaming Channel (6 months ago)
Nice video
Jasmine Lidia (6 months ago)
I work with a girl that just stares at my soul when she talks to me and she doesnt blink. Very uncomfortable
Jerome Productions (6 months ago)
Thank you man.
hei hei (6 months ago)
If i try my best to keep eye contact, i can't hear a word that they say
Kathleen Last Name (29 days ago)
Yes. Either stare into their eyes while listening intently, stare away while listening intently, or spend the while time counting 10 then looking away, maintaining a correct facial expression and have no idea what they just said.
guii Silva (1 month ago)
Literally me, I just can focus on what the person is saying and doing at the same time
Steven Claes (2 months ago)
Same! You're high sensitive...
Josh Stahl (3 months ago)
hei hei bro same
Mouleesh (6 months ago)
1st one is cok rrect. When some girls talk they don't brea
APZX GAMING (6 months ago)
im just here cause i have social anxiety
Shubham Maindola (6 months ago)
Thumbnail 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
ANDavisCC (6 months ago)
oh my god I'm going to be counting in my head now..
Anthony Bunch (7 months ago)
This guy is the super cool type of dude to have on your sales team :-) Or night out on the town. I bet he can talk the Panty-hose off a chick without her even noticing! Lmao😄
Diana D' Alexandridus (7 months ago)
You looks like Hugh Jackman
Redgrits (7 months ago)
Watch this at the slowest speed
Tejus Wadbudhe (7 months ago)
Thank you
latheef Dj (7 months ago)
Any from 2023?
Prasanna jyothi Vaka (6 months ago)
2030 😜
Sabi Anim (7 months ago)
I don't know why you remind me of a goat
TEGUH MUHAMMAD SOFIAN (7 months ago)
Pliss subtitle
PR Editz (7 months ago)
You made my day and you belong to hollywood coz your expressions are awesome
Emily Hale (7 months ago)
Me: “All I have to do is look at them!” *looks up how to look at somebody’s face*
Chewy (7 months ago)
I cannot look at people in the eye no matter what! I look and look away and look everywhere when I know I’m supposed to look in the eyes but just physically can’t because it somewhat hirts
NA (4 months ago)
Chewy find out if you're autistic
Lucy O'Connor (7 months ago)
Does anyone else get dizzy when they make eye contact with someone
ASHISH GULERIA (7 months ago)
I'm inspired will his videos a lot... And I'm gonna impress a girl right now....!!!
sameer walikar (7 months ago)
It's a very good lecture
flint flurry (7 months ago)
Once we were planning for an activity n I made a mistake n she was giving me a long ass scolding. So I decided to lock my jaws and stared perfectly in her eyes. N then she began to become uncomfortable 😂😂😂
LJ64 (7 months ago)
It's really hard when the person has massive boobs or has them nearly out with no bra.

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