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Stop DRESSING Like a Child! Stop Wearing LOLITA Dress! My Reaction!

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Beautiful Villian (4 days ago)
Actually, I share sweet Lolita style with you. I like wearing dress with lace. I'd rather dress than t-shirt and jeans. I like to tigh ribbon on my hair. I've been doing my style for years. Yes, people kept blaming and made gossip, but I did not care. Lucky me I'm not a sensitive person, but let's think about other who are sensitive. They feel hurt, indeed. So I never told anyone to change or judge them from outshell. Yumi, you just ignore one who hurt you. The way they hate people is the way they hate them selves, too. I always think they blame in themselves by blaming others. Just be you and yes it is your channel so you can do anything, lol.
Eva Rios (5 days ago)
Does it really matter how she dresses, it's her own style. She looks nice, other people have their own style so they shouldn't be talking. How about look at your own style and judge yourself instead of others. It's not right destroying someone else's confidence.
Rudy Ramirez (9 days ago)
I do know about lolita I really want a dress
Heilu Kamei (10 days ago)
S hater everywhere....hater gona hate hate... Don't let them get u yumi.... U are sooo cute and beautifull.....😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘they are just jaelous.....i love your style......seriously... And i always...look forward to your diy and style.... 😍😍😘😘😘😘let them say whatever they want.....just trust yourself..and we are on your side..
Taehyung's Deep voice (10 days ago)
Well, big Madame. Always tells me. To dress like a doll! So I don't see what the problem is....
shadow trooper262 (11 days ago)
We should kill the bastards that said bad things to you.
Mattie (13 days ago)
If I had the wardrobe I’d wear lolita every...freakin’...day! You keep being you.
tree003a (16 days ago)
you are better dressed than most women I see. so beautiful and feminine is your style.
灰月色 (18 days ago)
But I like Lolita tho why do they say you dress like a child??? Some Lolita dress are dark and when I meant dark they are really dark not for child!
ingrid JB (19 days ago)
there will always be people trying to spread bad vibes but that doesn´t matter, you are beautiful and an inspiring woman to so many people
Carolina Ramirez (20 days ago)
I just prefer cute stuff. It doesn't matter how old someone is.
Amy Setzer (24 days ago)
U need to ignore everyone that's being mean, u do u girl they are just haters, and bullying, so I'm a Washingtonian to,, and I currently live in Portland Oregon and the Motto there is keep it weird, and people dress and are whoever they want to be so u do u as long as it makes u are happy, I do have a couple questions does your husband treat you good I know it looks like he does on videos, but you never know behind closed doors because u are beautiful, and u deserve not to be talked down to like a child, I think slot of people are thinking that, cause some sarcasticsism can go either way just as long as u are happy, thank u and love love your channel, oh do u guys plan on having children???
Natalia _chr (25 days ago)
I love your style! Don't stay sad okey?you are a fantastic person with amazing talent!(sorry my English
Mlymoon v (25 days ago)
Just be yourself always ! 💕💖 this is the most important . i love uuuu 💕💕💕💕💕
Riku. (26 days ago)
Be yourself ♡♡
EspressoBug (26 days ago)
I think Americans often associate cute and not intentionally sexual as childish. And that makes me sad because I love cute things. I want to wear what makes me happy. And as a mother, none of my children wear things that resemble Lolita fashion unless I sew something specific for them. Children are much to messy and fussy for all the frills and lace. I love the idea of cute styles taking over in the west. I wish we had more detailed and beautiful clothing normally. I prefer it over fast fashion.
Mo StuffxD (27 days ago)
👏👏👏 educate em! Tell em! lol i like how she managed to be savage and put people in there place just by being honest and sincere
Erika Phillips (27 days ago)
You do you!! Dont change a thing😍your perfect!!
Mizuka chan NightCore (30 days ago)
Dobt believe them
Rhinorawk X (1 month ago)
Western women aren't familiar with femininity, they are convinced that femininity is a product of the patriarchy. And thus they attack people that make them feel foolish i would guess. I dont really get it, i wish women would embrace their sexuality and stop trying to be a dude, its not attractive in any way.
Sugary Teacup (1 month ago)
Lolita is for anyone! Don't worry about a thing, Yumi! :) I think you look adorable in lolita! Don't listen to the mean people! I've been bullied about lolita, too. But you are strong enough to get through this! :)
Soba (1 month ago)
I love your dress where is it from/ if its a tutorial can someone send me the link
Andrea Gavaldon (1 month ago)
I love that you explained about the type of fashion and the history of it. I know how these people feel about you. They should mind their own business and you can dress however u like. We are all unique people in this world and we all have different styles of clothing that us people in this world like to wear. And I feel like we should be liked by some people that may like the personality of them and their different likes that we all have.
Nichole Angel (1 month ago)
Don't change your style girl it fits you that why there jealous because that can't pull it off
Justloveit 456 (1 month ago)
Don't worry, the people who are hating on you are only saying the mean things in a moment of weakness and jealousy. Your beautiful and amazing the way you are! You are adorable as well, so dress the way you want. You could wear a bikini in every video if you wanted to!😂😁😂
Isabel Saenz (1 month ago)
Lol I don't like lolita I love like love love lolita don't listen to those haters they hate all they want but you pick doing lolita this is your job and destiny :)
dionne king (1 month ago)
your very awesome 💖💥💝💞💗💚💓💥💟💙💚💛💜🖤💫❤💕💖💗💞💝💥💙💥💝💝💟💟💗💖💚💛💕💓💜❤🖤💫💖💖💖💖💖
Lolwa Allunicorn (1 month ago)
Aww look at those comments Let’s just wait for a next video And then you will get hate again I feel sorry for you those people Are just heartless humans 😢 And Lolita is not childish if You don’t know what Lolita is Then shutup and again it’s not Childish
sakuramusimsemi chan (1 month ago)
I love you yumi, and thanks for sharing abt cute things <3
jomayra hernandez (1 month ago)
Leave her alone just let her live
Chantelle Palmer (1 month ago)
Don't pay attention. I wish I could pass off those clothes. I think you're adorable and I enjoy your diy videos!
delightful l (2 months ago)
girl don't listen to them you be you
Felicia Aribam (2 months ago)
Why does they think cute dress is a child's dress... 😂 lol
dearydarling (2 months ago)
When someone asks me how old I am I say that I've been a girl child for 44 years. I cant say i don't dress kind of child-like or doll-like because if you're raised in America you probably will see it that way. That doesn't mean I want people to see me as a little kid, but part of accepting me for who I am is to accept that I'm not very serious or super mature. It just never was something i turned into. I'm affectionate and playful and i like cute things, and my relationships are with men who are kind and love to care for me and be protective. They (im poly) like cute and sweet instead of a more mature womanly type. I get mad when people say they're perverted to like me the way I am. It would be more perverted to not love me the way I am. Its not a fetish or anything like that. Its my life. I love your style Yumi and you're super talented. Your creations are so beautiful. I see this style as child-like but in all good ways, not bad. I respect that you see it as an adult style for yourself.
Sakura Eclipse (2 months ago)
Oh come on people these dresses are so cute why would anyone it’s only for child plus I want to dress like that but I can’t.....
chrissygreen24 (2 months ago)
People judge to much 😒 I get told that I dress like I shop in the kid's section. Then when I wear clothes that show off curves, I'm told to cover up or that I need to change. When I wear jeans and a shirt I'm apparently boring and lazy. You can't win with some people.
EpikPink (2 months ago)
But when someone wants to dress emo everyone wants you to kill yourself. Hipocrits
Alisah Walker (2 months ago)
I absolutely love your style and there is nothing wrong with what you wear I personally look up to you for your fashion
Madana Yunda (2 months ago)
Anime is cartoon but for the teen not a kid, do what ever you want!!!
Juliia (2 months ago)
I relate completely. I used to wear cute accesories in my hair, my favourite was really nice, red ribbon. I loved wearing that! But people started saying "oh my gosh she's so cringy" "she's weird" "u look like a child" and that was just a fucking hairpin with a ribbon. I couldn't handle it anymore and I stopped. I wish that someday I'll wear it again...
Linda. Sue Sharma (2 months ago)
I don’t wear Lolita style clothes but people have always told me I should dress my age . I don’t like clothes people my age wear . I dress like I want to . I wear what is comfortable for me . You look adorable in Lolita dresses . I think people should be able to wear what they like . You don’t dress provocative or offensive. Dress like you want to Yumi. You are so sweet and adorable . Don’t let what others say bother you ... just keep being the sweet Lolita dressing Yumi that we all love 💞💞💞
Makari, Aleksandra (2 months ago)
Just own it girl! I'm half Chinese and seriously.....lol, I bet the haters don't even know the Lolita fashion is how BRITISH not Japanese, had the dresses when they were too young to marry. Looking young, there's nothing wrong with that. Own it and screw the haters. Plush, the look suits you and I guess they don't like how the style makes one look better than them. It induces a sense of innocence and purity. Stay pure! PURRREEEEEE
Xiao_Kitann.Meo-Chann (2 months ago)
Their just jealous you actually know how to make good clothes.
Yukki KAWAII (2 months ago)
mas ve o meu lado eu quero usar lolita fashion e nao posso pelo que as pessoas pensao
Yukki KAWAII (2 months ago)
sinto me triste
Yukki KAWAII (2 months ago)
tu es fantastica como es nao mudes es perfeita
wattana pich (3 months ago)
Lolita is not childish. It is about art.
Wonderland Artwork (3 months ago)
To be honest, the people who get offended over, let's say a non asian wearing a Kimono, are Japanese AMERICANS who have hardly any connection to their eastern culture but make a big deal out of it because they're a minority. I think it stems from the fact that foreign culture was made fun of a lot in America but this victim mentality has to end. I'm not going around telling tourists in my country that they can't wear Lederhosen because they're not german, even if they think all the stereotypes are true. It's rude! Just like someone telling a JFashion fan that they're not allowed to wear what they like because they're not japanese.
Vivien Ye (3 months ago)
Someone told my friend she 'dressed like a baby' when we were together ( she was wearing lolita styled clothing), and I was like "Woah, what high maintenance babies wear lolita dresses."
Lina Rosales (3 months ago)
yumi, u r so beautiful and cute. and japanese. i just love this video but i was disturbed by the fact that u seemed so upset and feel the need to defend or justify ureself to whomever these small minded haters r who say u dress like a child. make ureself happy, girl. u will b miserable trying to live ur life for other people. u know why people say negative things like "stop dressing like a child"? bc they r mad that they cant rock lolita or whatever style u may b wearing when they say that. most people r so miserable wit their own lives that they cant stand to c anyone else happy. excuse my french but, FUCK THOSE PEOPLE. i wear lolita and mori and i think ure great. not everyone can wear japanese fashion and look good. and they r mad. lol. keep being u. love u, yumi!
kookiebun JeonJungkook (3 months ago)
No child dresses like Yumi :) Yumi is beautiful! I love what she wears and what she makes! I honestly want to be as creative as her :D Children wear non matching clothes that look kinda boring.. they never wear lolita! Forget about them Yumi!
taegi girl (3 months ago)
i dont think dressing like a child is bad. some children have good fashion😸
Yosra Alghamrawy (3 months ago)
I love u as you are , please do not lessen to hater 😞 just do what you love because all you do is beautiful
cam loon (3 months ago)
i love the way you dress, it so pretty
myah c (3 months ago)
you dress beautiful you dont have to explain yourself keep your natural beautiful fashion
Neoqueen Akina (2 months ago)
Excuse me, yuki but can you please tell me where you bought your dress. Its very cute. Also don't listen to them there just jealous they don't look young and beautiful. Plus you are so talented at making clothes that are cute.
Neoqueen Akina (2 months ago)
Wonderland Artwork Thank you.
Wonderland Artwork (3 months ago)
Neoqueen Akina she got it on https://www.bodylinetokyo.co.jp/?lang=en but lately they have been gearing more towards cosplay than lolita fashion... I recommend lolitawardrobe.com, devilinspired.com and glitzywonderland.com if you want to buy affortable lolita clothes
Emily Weathers (3 months ago)
I love the way you dress..
Devin Sinclair (3 months ago)
A lot of people forget that fashion is different world wide. America has become boring. Hence why I LOVE your videos and started doing my own!
Diet water production (3 months ago)
I still dress like a child too so don’t listen to those bad opinions. Your fashion inspire me to change my trends which turns out to be successful
Mr Chu (3 months ago)
玉米姐姐,我超爱你的,别管那些傻子,他们只是嫉妒你
Merry Phangestu (3 months ago)
i think yumi so blend with lolita style or other style..so yumi be fighting.. cheerful.. just do and wear what style u like ..okay? cia yo!! 😊
Alison Gray (3 months ago)
Some people are just mean
xxiivx xxx (3 months ago)
this is j fashion! i love ur style! i'm a asian and its pretty normal for petite girls to dress like that in my country
Emily Elizabeth (3 months ago)
You have a style that a lot of Westerners don't understand because the cut, style and pastel colors reminds them of party dresses worn by little girls. There are also a lot of people (esp. Insecure girls) that are jealous of your internet notoriety and cuteness at 26 and will do anything to try to tear you down to make themselves feel better for not being so "kawaii" (ha ha). Listen, you are unique and beautiful, and your videos are lovely works of art. Do not let ANYONE bring you down for not understanding you. Sending ♡.
さんゆき (3 months ago)
It’s super fine to wear cute clothes in any age 😊 I’m Japanese and I think these clothes suits you a lot because you’re cute!!!! 🐱👑
Wondervaninah (3 months ago)
I really love this floral Lolita dress you are wearing!! Dress like you feel you want to. People will always judge you whatever you will be doing. One of the reason I subscribed to your channel is because you are you and you do you! You are a beautiful soul and keep doing it, you also actually inspire a lot of people out there. Also thank you educating us ^^.
Tut Secret (3 months ago)
I don't know, but if dress like that to go to a job interview or go to work like that they won't give the job or keep me in the job for success. They will think I have psychological problem. But if your husband is really treating you nice behind the scene, then no worries.
ikta solork (3 months ago)
your amazing. I really enjoy making lolita dresses for my friends, who are all in there late teens (Looking good shouldnt be restricted by your age). Everyone loves to wear them and I started of making my dresses from your youtube toturials befor I branched out. BTW I love your dress in this video.
Vivi Ka (3 months ago)
People hate what they are not. Or they font understand. If they dont like what you wear or what you do.. I dont see no one with a gun to their heads making them watch your videos. And dont they have a mom telling them if they got nothing nice to say.. Shut it !! ?? Unbelievable how people got nothing better to do but to purposly try to hurt others. Its sad that in 2018 they still have such close minded persons.. And the worst is we let them get to us. Your great your videos are amazing your ideas are fabulous. I love it love it love it. Wether your 10years old or 90years old you rock it girl keep.it up. And ignore those who doesnt understand your fashion. <3<3<3
xXm0niCaEaTz0mBiezxX (3 months ago)
Who cares about the haters they are jealous because we have the confidence to wear what we want to.
elen archo (3 months ago)
They can't understand that the Asian culture and fashion has a different point of view. This is why they have second thoughts about you or even your relationship. Don't give a fuck. Learn to love yourshelf without others option.
Bawi Piang (3 months ago)
im asian to im japanes
iPastelRainbowi (3 months ago)
I like ur style tho, It's my style too xD Ignore the hatersss <3
Alisa (3 months ago)
Don't let mean people tell you what to do. I'm 18 and wear sweet lolita at least once a week. Lolita is about elegance and modest beauty and you definitely look that way! Do what makes you happy!
kii - (3 months ago)
Wait but where’d you get your case? 😅 it’s adorable I need to get it
Jing Wen Zheng (4 months ago)
My family they say the same thing that I no longer wear that type of clothes I'm 27 and I'm single, but she's already a married lady and the truth is no longer looking good
Daph.Gwiyomi (4 months ago)
I can relate to Yumi a bit. I wear kawaii fashion and am starting lolita fashion. I get strange looks in public and sometimes get laughed at. I get told to grow up or get called a child. What no one seems to understand is that I feel comfortable in what I wear. Kawaii and lolita fashion make me feel feminine and help boost my confidence. I have always had a hard time feeling comfortable with my appearance whether it be my body image, my skin color, my hair, my face, anything. But when I wear kawaii fashion, those thoughts slip from my mind. I love the clothes I wear and the shoes and the ways I style my hair and make up. It's the side of me that I can surely accept. So it bothers me when I get told I'm wearing children's clothes or when I get asked what I'll be wearing when I'm 30+ years old. It's also heart breaking when I get laughed at in public or notice people pointing, staring, or whispering about me. Kawaii fashion also helps represent my personality a little more than just regular clothes. My personality is very bubbly and kind and I feel kawaii fashion helps show that. I do own regular clothes, most of which resemble Kfashion, but kawaii fashion is like my go to. It makes me feel better about myself and makes me happy. I'm not a child nor am I trying to look like one. It's just the clothes I love to wear. I have the right to wear whatever style I please just like everyone else. So to anyone who feels the need to judge, please realize that some of us have a reason for wearing kawaii fashion whether it's for the fun of it or it helps our self esteem.
Sara C (4 months ago)
I honestly love your clothes it’s always so cute! Don’t let it get to you, many people love what you wear.
Lorna Middleton (4 months ago)
I think it's really important for Westerners to hear someone from an Asian country remind us that wearing another country's fashion isn't an offence. Nobody is being mocked or disadvantaged by the sharing of cultures. As Yumi said, she'd be happy to see people from other cultures wearing qipaos or hanfus. We get so caught up these days wondering if what we're doing will make us stand out or look silly, that we try to crack down on anyone doing anything outside of the norm in case we or they get in trouble for it. Good on you, Yumi. Keep wearing what you want to wear.
Glitter R (4 months ago)
You can dress,act and look how you feel and you like and less care about how other’s want to see you dressed
Goregous (4 months ago)
I felt like she’s more mature in this video Tbh
Dannica Gaut (4 months ago)
Pll say shit that there are going to regret
Kiraii yamako chan (4 months ago)
Your fashion is awesome!! Its so cool and i love it i want be you💖💖💖💖🎏 (Sorry for my bad english, Im for mexico)💖💖💖💖💖💖
Wonderland Artwork (3 months ago)
Kiraii yamako chan your english is fine, you just made two small mistakes: "it's" instead of "its" and "i want to be like you" instead of "i want be like you" hope that helped ^^
Annie Subscribes (4 months ago)
Idk what they are talking about I love your dresses 💕
DiNa (4 months ago)
You look so cute I hope that i can wear like you but i can't 😭😭
randomcthulu (4 months ago)
You look adorable, don't worry about what they say, many may just be jealous that you look young for your age and they only wish that they looked that way. Such beautiful clear skin :D.
Jamie Crawford (4 months ago)
I think you are awesome and adorable..
Jenny ann (4 months ago)
I like your dress
shortcxke (4 months ago)
i've never seen a single child wear clothes similar to lolita at all
Cakie Kitty (4 months ago)
shortcxke Same. I've seen them where T-shirts and leggings/jeans, but not anything remotely adorable and cute as lolita style. Wear*
Senpai 78 (4 months ago)
Youre nice. I love you so much.( im lolita)
Wonderland Artwork (3 months ago)
katerina katerina ooo a lolita from greece! what's your favourite brand? :D Hi from germany btw!
Rex Boy (4 months ago)
Shes in her 20s and shes allowed to wear what she wants. She may be in DDLG or something, like I said, shes allowed to wear what she wants. She looks great in these styles. Leave her be.
Sinb-yah (4 months ago)
Seriously, i want all your dress but here in my country it's a big deal when they saw you wear a dress like that:<
Expensive Toothbrush (4 months ago)
Is there something WRONG with wearing things that make you happy? STOP STEREOTYPING and GET OVER IT. Yes you ignorant fools, some people like cute clothes! How shocking! People like wearing this fashion because it makes us feel confident, pretty, and happy. If you have a problem with this fashion (WHICH IS IN NO WAY SEXUAL) then please get help. Is there something wrong with expressing ourselves with cute clothes?
Those people must be ignorant...you shouldn’t have to explain yourself. You are beautiful like you are and your husband and family love and support you...so just be happy and forget the rest. I love your style....I could never wear it but that’s just me...I’m past 40 and overweight so I have another style of clothes that I feel comfortable in.....but I would like more 50’ s style dresses I think and I would love to wear a petticoat....they’re so cute....
ALAN LAWRENCE (4 months ago)
Anyone who knows anything about fashion knows that adult modes become child styles. The 1920s and 30s are my favourite periods. The moment women started to wear short skirts and dresses, so did their children. Look at any fashion plate from any period and you'll see little girls dressed in matching versions of their mother's clothing. Bottom line... Wear what makes you feel good my dear. It will make others happy to.
Jazzy J (4 months ago)
Be who you are don’t let anyone stop you from being yourself this is coming from a decora girl
LizzyGrace 42 (4 months ago)
Aaaaw I love your style! People have no right to judge the way you dress
GoddesSilverRose (4 months ago)
I love this video, you are such a beauty and you have a kind heart. Welcome being here, I love how you dress. I am getting back into Lolita clothes due that I miss it so much. I love you so much and thank you for helping me knowing that I will never outgrow my love for Lolita clothes!
Koko Habel (5 months ago)
Yumi-chan don't let those creepy jealous people to bring you down...!! We love u so just ignore them and move forward ✨💖 Japanese are Asian,, you are Asian doesn't make any difference you are cute , you love what you do! Keep on I'll be your fan for ever 😊 You gived me too many hacks & I'm thankful thnx 💕💕
Xuen Zhi (5 months ago)
I'm also a anime lover , I don't think that it's strange to wearing cute costume
acarriere30 (5 months ago)
Yumi King i don't think it's a bad thing being called a child it means that you are young a cute.

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