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Chinese call me yùmǐ (玉米) in Chinese pronunciation.
Non-Chinese call me yumi in Japanese pronunciation.
I was born and raised in China.
I migrated to the US with my parents several years ago.
I graduated from University of Washington.
Now, I'm married and living in the US.
My husband is amazing. He is creative, good-hearted, caring man.
He likes building stuff (like me) and making jokes.
We're living happily ever after in a small&warm&sweet&fun world.
And we share our sweetness on this channel.
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You are adorable, whenever people feel uncomfortable about something they go hard on the judgement. But I am here to tell you to continue being yourself because most people are scared as hell to be themselves. They are just projecting their fears onto you Ms. Yumi. Keep doing your thing!!
Im Nigerian, and I always felt scared to wear Chinese, Indian or Japanese fashion because of offending people :(
Like, everyone just wants you to dress “modern” or in the basic trendy styles or in your own cultural fashion but damn I want to wear a Qi pao, Its so cute but people are like “ you’re insulting their culture “ ughhh it’s so hard :(
Don't listen to people saying those things, any style is beautiful. Be it Lolita, vintage, princess, fashionable or just normal clothes, people need to stop being nosy on other people's way of dressing.
Yeah, they have never tried the style at all so they are a bunch of trash talking losers. Besides, you can just remember us people in your comments defending you and other Lolitas honor your taste in fashion. :D
If you want an example of the fact that foreigners can wear Asian clothing...especially Lolita fashion...Check out LOVELY LOR...She is Canadian and wears Lolita fashion (she has even been in a number of Lolita fashion documentaries) AND her GF is a Goth...They are really nice people from Canada...
I myself am Alternative, Goth, Darkly Inclined, Rock, cool styles, Artistic styles, 80's style and I'm 41 and I feel like it doesn't matter, because you should be happy and being creative makes me happy...Those who dress in Alternative fashion are not hurting anyone by being creative and happy...There is no age limit to being yourself...It doesn't matter what you wear as long as you are a nice person...
ALSO...QUEENIE BLACK is Goth and she is 50 and a beautiful and a lovely person...SKULL GIRDLE is Goth as well and in her 50 and a cool person...OFHERBSANDALTARS is Goth and 32 and cool...ITSBLACKFRIDAY is Goth and in her 20's just like YUMI and is the sweetest person...THEKILTEDGOTH is in his 60's and a lovely human being...
YUMI is a really nice person as well and being a nice person and doing something that makes you happy is all that matters.
Have a beautiful day! 🌈 🎃😎☀️🌞🤗👽🤖✌️🖖🤘🙏🏽☯️ ☮️ 🕊️
This is what you tell them, Yumi: you pay my bills, you buy my food, you buy my clothes then u can tell me what I can and can’t wear. Ignore these idiots!! Let them sit out there and look like fools, cause that’s what they are, idiots and fools.
"Dont care their words because they are not your parents." I always tell this sentence to myself when l'm depressed. Dont feel guilty you are not wrong. Dont be sad you are fine. They said that becuase that is not their style. Lady, when you are brave enough to show who you really are, show them all that you better than them. Rise and shine like the sun and glow in the darkness like the moon.
This is what l think since l've watched your video. Lady, you are a cute , lovely and brave girl. (If something went wrong , l'd do apologize. I'm thai.😁😄😋😊)
Love you,from Thailand.❤💛💚💜💞💙
I like Lolita Fashion. I live in Germany and it is not that easy people have a lot of prejudices. My problem is that I have many interests and sometimes they do not harmonize. like my tunnels and my tattoos but I really want to wear lolita fashion.
Look here. In Japan, cute is cute. In America and other countries, sexy is sexy. No-one should be trying to change other styles. If they are not satisfied with your style, they shouldn't try changing you. They should change their attitude.
I feel like these people come from a mindset in which they see women as so sexual that such a modest and innocent fashion can only be related to children. This is my only theory considering you won't see a single normal child wearing lolita, even if they beg. These people can bit me because there's not one sane parent that would break the bank so their toddler can rub dirt into their sweets print OP.
Yumi.... don't worry about what these people say. You look lovely! My question to your critics would be: So what? How is my "childish" attire damaging you?
You keep on dressing the way you do! I still remember that one harajuku girl I met in Chicago. She was very patirnt with my happiness at seeing her. For real, your style is cool, and requires a LOT of thought.
Yumi... 💖 Don't mind these POOR people that can't understand the simple concept of fashion. I don't know how this kind of dressing can be sign of flames... 😂 It's absolutely STUPID. (Sluts and company are true scandal...💩 Lol).
You are pretty just the way you are, child or not, people don't get to decide what they should wear or do, yourself get to decide what you like to wear or do😡. I really love your styles and the clothes you make are so cute😄👏
I want to change how i am. In looks and of what i like to do. Not like a faze, more like i want to express what i like to do more. I love to take selfies with filters. My friends call me cringy. I like to wear cute clothes and ponytails. I wore a really cute pink dress and two high ponytails. My friend came to me and said "You look like a harajuku doll" me-" in a good way?" friend "no" i want to wear cuter fashion but im scared of the judgment.
They're just jealous because they can't wear what u are wearing at outside. You are who YOU ARE. Don't follow what people want to see on you. I guess American people really not use with "Japanese fashion" becoz mostly I see they prefer sexy and hot fashion style. Please keep making clothes and inspired us with your great ideas. Take all the hate comments as your inspiration to be better, yumi. We always support you (:
Actually, I share sweet Lolita style with you. I like wearing dress with lace. I'd rather dress than t-shirt and jeans. I like to tigh ribbon on my hair. I've been doing my style for years. Yes, people kept blaming and made gossip, but I did not care. Lucky me I'm not a sensitive person, but let's think about other who are sensitive. They feel hurt, indeed. So I never told anyone to change or judge them from outshell. Yumi, you just ignore one who hurt you. The way they hate people is the way they hate them selves, too. I always think they blame in themselves by blaming others. Just be you and yes it is your channel so you can do anything, lol.
Does it really matter how she dresses, it's her own style. She looks nice, other people have their own style so they shouldn't be talking. How about look at your own style and judge yourself instead of others. It's not right destroying someone else's confidence.
S hater everywhere....hater gona hate hate...
Don't let them get u yumi....
U are sooo cute and beautifull.....😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘they are just jaelous.....i love your style......seriously...
And i always...look forward to your diy and style....
😍😍😘😘😘😘let them say whatever they want.....just trust yourself..and we are on your side..
U need to ignore everyone that's being mean, u do u girl they are just haters, and bullying, so I'm a Washingtonian to,, and I currently live in Portland Oregon and the Motto there is keep it weird, and people dress and are whoever they want to be so u do u as long as it makes u are happy, I do have a couple questions does your husband treat you good I know it looks like he does on videos, but you never know behind closed doors because u are beautiful, and u deserve not to be talked down to like a child, I think slot of people are thinking that, cause some sarcasticsism can go either way just as long as u are happy, thank u and love love your channel, oh do u guys plan on having children???
I think Americans often associate cute and not intentionally sexual as childish. And that makes me sad because I love cute things. I want to wear what makes me happy. And as a mother, none of my children wear things that resemble Lolita fashion unless I sew something specific for them. Children are much to messy and fussy for all the frills and lace.
I love the idea of cute styles taking over in the west. I wish we had more detailed and beautiful clothing normally. I prefer it over fast fashion.
Western women aren't familiar with femininity, they are convinced that femininity is a product of the patriarchy. And thus they attack people that make them feel foolish i would guess. I dont really get it, i wish women would embrace their sexuality and stop trying to be a dude, its not attractive in any way.
Lolita is for anyone! Don't worry about a thing, Yumi! :) I think you look adorable in lolita! Don't listen to the mean people! I've been bullied about lolita, too. But you are strong enough to get through this! :)
I love that you explained about the type of fashion and the history of it. I know how these people feel about you. They should mind their own business and you can dress however u like. We are all unique people in this world and we all have different styles of clothing that us people in this world like to wear. And I feel like we should be liked by some people that may like the personality of them and their different likes that we all have.
Don't worry, the people who are hating on you are only saying the mean things in a moment of weakness and jealousy. Your beautiful and amazing the way you are! You are adorable as well, so dress the way you want. You could wear a bikini in every video if you wanted to!😂😁😂
Aww look at those comments
Let’s just wait for a next video
And then you will get hate again
I feel sorry for you those people
Are just heartless humans 😢
And Lolita is not childish if
You don’t know what Lolita is
Then shutup and again it’s not
When someone asks me how old I am I say that I've been a girl child for 44 years. I cant say i don't dress kind of child-like or doll-like because if you're raised in America you probably will see it that way. That doesn't mean I want people to see me as a little kid, but part of accepting me for who I am is to accept that I'm not very serious or super mature. It just never was something i turned into. I'm affectionate and playful and i like cute things, and my relationships are with men who are kind and love to care for me and be protective. They (im poly) like cute and sweet instead of a more mature womanly type.
I get mad when people say they're perverted to like me the way I am. It would be more perverted to not love me the way I am. Its not a fetish or anything like that. Its my life.
I love your style Yumi and you're super talented. Your creations are so beautiful. I see this style as child-like but in all good ways, not bad. I respect that you see it as an adult style for yourself.
People judge to much 😒 I get told that I dress like I shop in the kid's section. Then when I wear clothes that show off curves, I'm told to cover up or that I need to change. When I wear jeans and a shirt I'm apparently boring and lazy. You can't win with some people.
I relate completely. I used to wear cute accesories in my hair, my favourite was really nice, red ribbon. I loved wearing that! But people started saying "oh my gosh she's so cringy" "she's weird" "u look like a child" and that was just a fucking hairpin with a ribbon. I couldn't handle it anymore and I stopped. I wish that someday I'll wear it again...
I don’t wear Lolita style clothes but people have always told me I should dress my age . I don’t like clothes people my age wear . I dress like I want to . I wear what is comfortable for me . You look adorable in Lolita dresses . I think people should be able to wear what they like . You don’t dress provocative or offensive. Dress like you want to Yumi. You are so sweet and adorable . Don’t let what others say bother you ... just keep being the sweet Lolita dressing Yumi that we all love 💞💞💞
Just own it girl! I'm half Chinese and seriously.....lol, I bet the haters don't even know the Lolita fashion is how BRITISH not Japanese, had the dresses when they were too young to marry.
Looking young, there's nothing wrong with that. Own it and screw the haters.
Plush, the look suits you and I guess they don't like how the style makes one look better than them.
It induces a sense of innocence and purity.
To be honest, the people who get offended over, let's say a non asian wearing a Kimono, are Japanese AMERICANS who have hardly any connection to their eastern culture but make a big deal out of it because they're a minority. I think it stems from the fact that foreign culture was made fun of a lot in America but this victim mentality has to end. I'm not going around telling tourists in my country that they can't wear Lederhosen because they're not german, even if they think all the stereotypes are true. It's rude! Just like someone telling a JFashion fan that they're not allowed to wear what they like because they're not japanese.
yumi, u r so beautiful and cute. and japanese. i just love this video but i was disturbed by the fact that u seemed so upset and feel the need to defend or justify ureself to whomever these small minded haters r who say u dress like a child. make ureself happy, girl. u will b miserable trying to live ur life for other people. u know why people say negative things like "stop dressing like a child"? bc they r mad that they cant rock lolita or whatever style u may b wearing when they say that. most people r so miserable wit their own lives that they cant stand to c anyone else happy. excuse my french but, FUCK THOSE PEOPLE. i wear lolita and mori and i think ure great. not everyone can wear japanese fashion and look good. and they r mad. lol. keep being u. love u, yumi!
No child dresses like Yumi :) Yumi is beautiful! I love what she wears and what she makes! I honestly want to be as creative as her :D Children wear non matching clothes that look kinda boring.. they never wear lolita! Forget about them Yumi!
You have a style that a lot of Westerners don't understand because the cut, style and pastel colors reminds them of party dresses worn by little girls. There are also a lot of people (esp. Insecure girls) that are jealous of your internet notoriety and cuteness at 26 and will do anything to try to tear you down to make themselves feel better for not being so "kawaii" (ha ha). Listen, you are unique and beautiful, and your videos are lovely works of art. Do not let ANYONE bring you down for not understanding you. Sending ♡.
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