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🌸 How To Let Go & Move On After A Breakup 7 Step Process| Self-Love Master Class ™ #98 #SelfLove

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Thank you I needed this
Sahara T. Malali (26 days ago)
Thnks nce advce
holly dillard (28 days ago)
i miss him so much and i just don’t know what to do
Carol Dudley (24 days ago)
Queen hilowle (29 days ago)
I,m also side chick. My boyfriend has wife and says he will leave her but i don't believe that being side chick is so bad😢 unhappy life darkness it,s horrible feeling i ,m leaving this relationship cause i make my self low i don't deserve to be side chick 🏃‍♀️💔 there are plenty of men in this world it,s hurts 😥me to let him go because I love him but my worthy is important i,m Done 🙅‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️ good by good boy
Hawk Ray (1 month ago)
This is so helpful! I especially like what you said about meditation and changing your visions with the person. That last bit made me cry.
Catherine Mutende (1 month ago)
Thanks a lot I hope it gonna work
Gameitup Tothemax (1 month ago)
Loving someone still weeks after they dumped me by text , is messed up . I miss her so much . The last time i saw her we was happy ☹😢😭
Angela Williams (2 months ago)
🙏🏽🙏🏽 Blessings
La Leona (2 months ago)
I wonder why I can't let go of these bums I meet - they do nothing for me - oh it has to be that low self esteem of mine. Well I got rid of both of them (lol) yeah two losers - they look different but they are the exact same dude. So I am not blaming them I have to look within. So now I blocked them both and not looking back because obviously I have to work on me.
Nadira Branch (2 months ago)
Awesome video
Michelle Coley (3 months ago)
Great video!!!
Renee Mullings-Lewis (3 months ago)
Thank you ♥️♥️♥️
LishaMarie LeeLee (3 months ago)
This help me so much ! Thank you! A break up is tough but I got this! Working on myself and moving on with my life
Renee Mullings-Lewis (3 months ago)
Yes you’ve got this!! Sending you lots of love! ♥️♥️♥️
George Spangler (3 months ago)
Very good,,,,I was always there for her, honest,loyal trustworthy and faithful,,,and everything I betrayed myself to be,,,and she left me after 13 years of living in my home and me paying the bills,,the last 6 years i raised and loved two of her grandchildren,,,so it was her that wasn't who i thought she was,,,I know it is her loss,,and the guilt and regret also went with her,,because I have done..
George Spangler (3 months ago)
+Renee Mullings-Lewis Thanks it's the story of my life,,,I was married 17 years before the relationship I wrote about my wife left me and our young children for another man and then died 2 years later chasing the loser she left us for,, filled with regret and guilt and even wearing the wedding ring I gave her when she died,,last thing she ever said to me was she knows she's going to hell for what she did to me and our children,,,,yes Renee I've lived through things people should not have too....
Renee Mullings-Lewis (3 months ago)
So sorry to hear ♥️
Wolf Line (3 months ago)
I was in a relationship with a guy for a year and I found out through social media that he got engaged a few months back and all his friends help cover up the lie. When I confronted him he said he’s only marrying her because his family is putting pressure on him(mind you we come from a south Asian household ) and he doesn’t want to lose me. How do I move on from this I feel so lost and confused like what’s wrong with me? Am I not pretty enough, smart enough, funny enough? This has really shattered my views on relationships.😰😰😰😰
Renee Mullings-Lewis (3 months ago)
You deserve someone who will love and cherish you. Don’t give up on love. Sending you love. You are worthy. ♥️
Daudi Chanda (4 months ago)
Thanks for the video and it's so educative.
kirill vivych (4 months ago)
Thank you much!
Jack Nil (4 months ago)
Just came out of my 6 years long relationship...She was having an affair behind my back for last 1.5 year. She ended that affair about 2months ago, and then i found out about it....I was absolutely devastated! I broke up with her about a month ago....in last few weeks she gave me all the details about the affair....i was also hoping that i could give her another chance...But, after knowing all the details, i dont think i can ever see her as the person i knew before.... we met few days ago, we talked about all this, about what went wrong in our relationship, we cried, cried and cried...we hugged...kissed so passionately and said goodbye!! I know i wasn't a perfect boyfriend, we had problems in our relationship...But, my love and loyalty was always there for her through all those ups and downs in our relationship... Funny how i always thought, if somebody cheats in this relationship, it'd be me...I never thought in million years that she could do something like this (but, i had the gut feeling that something fisshy was going on lately).... She also suffered enough at the end of that affair with all those blackmails from the other guy, and the guilt inside her....(i read their conversations)..... But, that trust she broke can never be repaired ever again. This feeling of intense emotions, pain, hurt, sadness, anger, confusion is beyond anything i ever felt (only the people who went through this situation can relate)...first you get cheated on by the person you trusted the most, then you have to let them go even if you still love them, it's so heart breaking, suffocating! Makes me sick mentally and physically!! To the People who are having problems with your relationship (espesially people who are in long term relationship), before you make any wrong move like this, please sit and talk with partners with openness and love...talk about the problems you are having, the needs that are not being met lately, just have an honest, respectful and matured adult conversation with your partners, look at some blogs or videos on youtube to get an idea to fix your relationship, try and find out the problems...Then decide whether to stay or break free. BUT, PLEASE DON'T CHOOSE THE EASY AND SELFISH PATH OF CHEATING! We had this conversation, and right when things were looking good...BAAMM!! It was just too late....
Planner Junkie Life (1 month ago)
Literally same!!!! Except he proposed to her while we were still together... smh
Aphline Rayne (1 month ago)
+zerr bear I will do this,, thank you so much
zerr bear (1 month ago)
Aphline Rayne don’t give him the power to use you. Ignore, block, tell your friends to do the same. Don’t ever let another guy tells you that you are an option. Don’t beg for someone to stay in your life. You should be your own happiness. Having a partner would be a good addition, but not a must. Remember, you attract what you are. If my bestfriend could go through uni having the same classes with his ex who turned everyone against her, so can you! Now she is married with a lovely daughter.
Aphline Rayne (1 month ago)
+zerr bear I will try my best to forget him forever,, another problem we are in same university
Aphline Rayne (1 month ago)
+zerr bear the problem is that he keeps on texting me even right now and if I ignore he calls, If I reject the call he texts my friends to talk to me and the worst thing he told me he has another gal and he is not interested in me anymore no Matter what I do to have him back😫😫😫I have tried so much as a woman any time he needs me am there for him now am being told it is like he is using me and his true girl friend is far away from him,,, I have to let go of him but he will regret losing me 😫😫😫
Dani Candace (4 months ago)
your voice is soothing!
Małgorzata Martyniuk (4 months ago)
Thank you so much for this video. It helped me so much to see clearly where am I now. My heart is broken but I feel hope. Your positive energy and reasoning gave me relief. Lots of love
D M (4 months ago)
Your so amzing I love that way you explain love you so much I am going through heart break he left me xx
VID RAHUL (4 months ago)
Your voice! You should sing!
Nick Alexander (5 months ago)
Step one makes me feel suicidal; Nevermind these steps. How do you suggest I deal with the lack of the deep intimate bond I shared with my partner for over 3 years and now do not, and do not tell me to meditate because that doesn’t make up for shit.
Nick Alexander (5 months ago)
Your advice to talk to a Mature Couple is of No help because unlike me they are still together with their partner. You were of No Help. Sorry, I have to be Honest.
Kaitlyn Cassin (5 months ago)
So helpful. It's hard to let those hopes and dreams for the future go, but I needed to hear what you said out loud. Thank you.
invisiblem0vement (5 months ago)
Thank you so much for this video.. We had to break up at the end of last week, she gave me the best 4 years of my life and we helped eachother to grow a lot, but it was hard for me to understand some of her problems, she felt that i didn't respect some of her thoughts, to the extent that i really messed it up by not talking to her for a day, but i just didn't know what to say. It was an LDR and I'm so happy we got to meet, but she couldn't keep on trying, and I'm slowly coming to terms with that.
Molly A. Badgett (5 months ago)
You are a fabulous woman and a great coach. My particular problem isn't that I don't think I'm worthy; I have a hard time finding someone else who is. My ex was not necessarily my "soulmate," but he had all the attributes I have ever wanted in a man (and, yes, admittedly, a few I didn't want but they weren't material to my love for him). The last time I found someone I clicked with so well, so effortlessly, was 30 years ago. I have to have a man who is genuinely funny and smart -- really, really smart. How does someone find that ideal combination again? And that doesn't even count the physical attraction that can't even be explained (he also had a beer belly that never bothered me one bit; on anyone else, it would've been a deal-breaker). That is the problem; how to find another man who will be the perfect "click." They just don't come around every day.
Nu Journeys Counselling (6 months ago)
I ❤️ your videos Renee. Thank you 🙏🏽
Imtiyaz Ahamad (6 months ago)
You simply stirred up my heart's wire so hard that I feel a simple thanks is not sufficient to express my gratitude to you.
showfish (6 months ago)
Thank you for this video! ❤️
Bunny and FRIENDS! (6 months ago)
Synolve (7 months ago)
This is a great video which such awesome advice!!! Love 💗 your videos! Many people have to learn to move forward. The advice you shared can really be applied to any area of your life when you need to accept what is and move forward.
Alessia (7 months ago)
Thank you so much
Nick Alexander (7 months ago)
None of your advice helped me but don’t feel bad ,everybody says exactly what you advise and none of this has helped me at all.
Renee Mullings-Lewis (7 months ago)
Nick Alexander don’t worry I don’t feel bad. These videos are not a replacement for one to one work. You may simply need a bit more support. Consider working one on one to go deeper into your unique experiences with a coach, therapist or counsellor. Best of luck my friend!
Imani Harrison (7 months ago)
Nick Alexander some how distracting one self is better. Honestly most of this needs discipline. I’m currently going through one myself. I don’t know anymore but try your best you will be fine it will fade
Gg Lin (7 months ago)
you are awesome, thx for making this got us , your wisdom comes in time .. love from California a very.heart broken woman 💔💔💔
Camille CE (7 months ago)
Would if your ex's is in a rebound relationship.. ??
Walter Estrada (6 months ago)
Camille CE good for u and good luck . Keep on living .👍
Camille CE (6 months ago)
+Walter Estrada it's unfortunate it was a girl.. I already with another girl unfortunately better than my ex girlfriend
Walter Estrada (6 months ago)
Camille CE let him go even faster . He don’t deserve u . U deserve much more than that .
Jeff Wolfsberg (8 months ago)
This was helpful thanks. Currently dealing with a broken heart.
Renee Mullings-Lewis (8 months ago)
Sending love to you. Glad this video was helpful. ❤
Maria Parks (8 months ago)
How do I get over the anger? I feel robbed of my time, plus I got my tubes tided for him and now we aren’t together. He took everything from me. My joy, my happiness, he took my smile .
Tina Bennett (1 month ago)
Erma Gayther "
That is such a tough one to get through. I had a lot of delayed anger because I didn't think it was healthy to be angry. I learned to express it physically (gardening, punching a pillow, karate chop) and release it energetically by repeating a mantra, journaling, coming back to peace and asking anger release its grip on you. One thing that really helped me was to realize that people who do hurtful things are actually hurting inside. It allowed me to have compassion for my ex. I hope you can move through it.
Walter Estrada (6 months ago)
Erma Gayther I’m sorry about what happens to u . My fiancé of 4 yrs did the same thing to me. I’m very mad at myself sometimes cause I never saw it coming but it’s ok . I have learned how to love myself again and I accepted the fact that she betrayed me . I did and gave her everything including her career. It was really easy for her to forget and move on
anne rezentes (6 months ago)
+Jesus is King my heart breaks for you and this terrible betrayal.
Jesus is King (6 months ago)
Oh my goodness, I know exactly how you feel! I gave my all to somebody for 4 years I loved him so much, and everything he said to me was a lie. I found out so much about him and I am so broken over it! He never loved me, he never cared for me, I wasn't who he wanted, but he made me believe that I was, and told me that he never wanted anybody else. He said so many heartfelt loving things to me and they were all lies! I didn't find out that he had just one woman, he had several and now he has met the one that he wants to be with. It's really hard to realize that you were never good enough, it was like he was only with me until he found someone better. It's very hard to find out that you were never loved that it was all a lie. I can't get over the lies, it's so hard! So I'm very sorry that you're going through the same thing. I certainly know how you feel. I too am very angry about the time that I put into this relationship to find out that it was one big gigantic lie!
Scorpio Moon (8 months ago)
This is really good information!
lidia Panettiere (8 months ago)
This is very helpful! I am going through a 6yrs relarionahip and i get sad not bc i miss him or want him but bc i finally realise he never loved me. I know some day i will be in a better place :)
runneryg (8 months ago)
Great video and what a great looking woman. thx for helping.
Briana Anthony (9 months ago)
Thank you for this. Iam going through alot of emotions right now.
Ithaca Baines (9 months ago)
You help me
Joshua Bairos (10 months ago)
Everyone thinks boys won’t feel emotions after a break up but probably more than girls do
Joshua Bairos (10 months ago)
Omg thanks so much my gf dumped me because she thought I cheated on her because I had a friends that was a girl
Dani V. (3 months ago)
I’m in the same boat. my boyfriend thought I was cheating on him and the truth is that I wasn’t. Never did. but before I could even GRASP reality to explain to him the truth, it was over. and I’m..so fucking depressed. It was abrupt.
Our Love Grows (7 months ago)
+right miss if she thinks he cheated on her, there will be no point in trying to convince her otherwise. If he tried to show he didnt, and she still went on with it then there is no point because she will not listen.
Lala Johnson (8 months ago)
I bet he did tho emotional cheating is the same thing as physical cheating confiding ing another woman all bad.
right miss (8 months ago)
You should do everything to prove you have not cheated on her
Alexis Balchunas (10 months ago)
Thank you ❤️❤️
Nu Journeys Counselling (10 months ago)
I ❤️ your videos Renee!
mutatedfetus66 (1 year ago)
This video helped a lot. I just broke up with my girl friend because she was a chronic liar. I found some things out this morning and just decided ours views just weren’t aligned. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to do but I know my worth and know I deserve what I put out.
Achilles94627 (7 months ago)
I understand.  I ended things with a girl in a long distance relationship a few weeks ago.  I felt like she was putting in minimum effort and I felt very under appreciated.  The truth is I still have feelings for her, but if someone doesn't  appreciate your time and friendship then the best thing you can do is leave.  Sometimes we can become so engrossed in one person that we lose perspective of the bigger picture and we forget to value our own self-worth.  It's difficult ending a relationship when you have such a history together and so many good memories, but sometimes you need to recognize when a relationship has run its course.
right miss (8 months ago)
hugs. It is hard to do that. but that's our life journey, we learn from the past, then we will find the one that will never hurt us in that way
maryam mohammadpour (8 months ago)
U deserve to be happy u deserve somwonw who makes u happy. Whether thats alone or with someone else
Afmin's Vlog (9 months ago)
mutatedfetus66 I feel you 👍
A.J. the Yogi (1 year ago)
Went through hell and back 9 years of a rollercoaster ride she got me locked up many times jumped me with her mother just abusive
Esther T (1 year ago)
This video helped A LOT and deserves way more views/likes. Many videos on Youtube give pointless advice like "drink tea", yes that may help but this is soooo much better and can really help someone. Great job!!
Alexis J (1 year ago)
That was amazing Boo! I needed that!
Emily Olifant (1 year ago)
Selfa Moche (1 year ago)
Finally I found what is good for me. I've been crying a river for days
Kristina Richardson (1 year ago)
My problem is neither of these. I just cant understand why he deserves to move on and be in a happy relationship after messing over me and the girl hes currentlt with. I dont get it!
Francis Perez (5 days ago)
Tabitha Hallford (1 month ago)
Becouse holding on to the anger doesn't hurt him. It hurts you. Why you wanna hurt yourself again? The best revenge is being happy without him.
Lavender Temple (5 months ago)
Kristina Richardson this how I feel 😭😭😭
Sãdï Berry (1 year ago)
If he cheated on you with her and now is with her, he won’t be happy. It’s karma .
Kathrine Rose Castro (1 year ago)
I am in the same boat a couple of months ago. He ended our 9 year relationship and within two days he is in a relationship which he pertains to as his "soulmate". I was so devastated and I always asked how come he get to be happy but I had an epiphany I turned 360 and picked my self backed up I warched a lot of Tony Robbins and how to get over break up videos it's not an easy process but I focused on myself. I watched videos about self love, meditate and self actualized. In time you will slowly not care as much anymore.
Denise Thompson (1 year ago)
I was lead to your healing sight. Thank You
Neka Middleton (1 year ago)
This video blessed me, thank you 😊
Kirk V (1 year ago)
Most people think a man who has been broken up with shouldn't feel sad or be emotional. They say things like man up and there's more fish out there. I don't agree with these phrases. To me I feel everyone has their special way about them and I don't find it so easy to forget and to go find another person to be in a relationship with. However I'm trying to face the reality that I'm no longer with that person and I do need to find a way to MoveOn. It is really tough to do.
Cassandra Amore (2 months ago)
I hear you I feel the same way I was living with someone he was playing a role for 10 years it's a hard way to find out but life goes on just got to learn to move forward and I will and I know you will to
Gerardo Pulido (11 months ago)
Definitely true. It sucks to think the woman you once loved and loved you back doesnt want you anymore. No cheating, nothinging like that. Simply that they dont want to be with you.. Thats where im at. I hope you’re doing better man
oaklandsoldier (1 year ago)
Kk V amen. I agree
Courtney Carroll (1 year ago)
Thank you so much for this video, I'm going through a VERY emotional break up. I am struggling to love myself after making that person my happiness. It helps me keep hope that I can get better through such a rough time.
Nona Vermeiren (2 months ago)
I just broke up. I just need one thing now. Cry... I can't cry.
king james (4 months ago)
me too😢😢
Chastity Holloway (4 months ago)
are you over it yet? lol serious question because its 1/12/19 and im just now seeing this video and im going through a terrible break up so im wondering how you feel a year later
Lilly Soulet (6 months ago)
This made my cry while reading it idk why. I can relate
A.J. the Yogi (1 year ago)
My X girlfriend dogged me out i have to accept it and move on and don't look back
Deniedby Jaj (2 years ago)
after being with someone for 12 years. only to now I guess realise that, you weren't what or who that personal really wanted. it hurts to think someone can be so heartless to stay in your life so long knowing it wasn't what they wanted. and I hate myself for not seeing or realising. because I now see that there where loads of signs. I feel so broken and lost.it isn't so much that the person is gone but more of how could I be so stupid to not see. I hate myself more than anything. just want to die. I keep hoping it will get better over time. but every where I turn there is a reminder of my stupidity and blinded. how do I stop the hurt? how do I move pass the pain in the pit of my stomach 😢😢😢
Hyejin Song (1 month ago)
I really wonder if you have gotten completely over it and have moved on since you wrote it 2 years ago. I am in the same situation now and really wonder if I could ever be able to get over it..
Achilles94627 (7 months ago)
You've done nothing wrong and you're not stupid.  When we have feelings for somebody we have a tendency not to see the "signs".  We don't notice their imperfections and we see all their faults as positives.  That's why they say love is blind.  We so badly want it to work that we ignore or dismiss any bad behaviour - behaviour which we would otherwise never put up with were we not in love with them.  It will get better over time.  Try to live in the present and not dwell on the past.  The present is the only reality there is - the past is really just an illusion in your head.
Caresse Hanley (1 year ago)
Tamika McCuin (1 year ago)
Deniedby Jaj I'm going through exactly what you described right now. After 15 years , I feel so bad for not wanting to see the signs. Thank you and I hope all get better for you.
Kathrine Rose Castro (1 year ago)
Deniedby Jaj Don't hate yourself. Love yourself be positive it will get better.
davignon lengo (2 years ago)
i'm going through a breakup, i really Thank God for getting me through this video. thank you for your advices,it really helped.
Renee Mullings-Lewis (2 years ago)
Awe I'm so happy that this video came right at the divine time. And I hope that you're feeling better <3 Thanks for watching and for the love. <3
Aisha Fields (2 years ago)
What a great video! It resonates with me so deeply. Thank you so much <3
Renee Mullings-Lewis (2 years ago)
Aisha Fields you're so welcome!! 💜💜
Necola Lewis (2 years ago)
You give really good advice, because of you, i know how to handle certain situations. Thank You sooo much.
Renee Mullings-Lewis (2 years ago)
Necola Lewis you are so welcome! 💜💜
Sam Vue (2 years ago)
you are my tube friend 4-ever.
Renee Mullings-Lewis (2 years ago)
ladybug Vue awe that's so sweet! Thank you darling 💓
Sam Vue (2 years ago)
girlfriend I love you , you are speaking my freaking life. you really open my eyes and mind wider now. Thanks
Renee Mullings-Lewis (2 years ago)
ladybug Vue yay and so happy that this struck a cord 😍
stephberri (2 years ago)
amazing channel just subscribed and followed on ig. would be awesome if we could collab
Renee Mullings-Lewis (2 years ago)
stephberri 💓💓💓

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