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How To NOT Be Boring | 5 Tips To Be More Interesting

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4 Conversation Starters: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/small-talk-tips-conversation-starters/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Best Grooming Tool: http://amzn.to/1YrOnCJ Tiege Hanley Skin Care: http://www.tiege.com All promotion and advertising inquiries: [email protected] Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Best Grooming Tool: http://amzn.to/1YrOnCJ Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAmAlphaM My Businesses: Alpha M. Consulting: http://www.aaronmarino.com i am alpha m: http://www.iamalpham.com Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com Squirrel Lab: http://www.squirrellab.com MENfluential Media: http://www.menfluential.com StyleCon: http://www.mensstylecon.com Tiege Hanley: http://www.Tiege.com The other day, Alpha received an email from a viewer questioning whether he's boring or not. He reads the email. In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro talks about being too nice and being boring. Girls don't think you're 'too nice'. She just wasn't attracted to you. Alpha adds that being boring is an epidemic of massive proportion. We are replacing experiences and learning with technology time sucks, killing time, and entertainment. Steps to Be Less Boring 1. Boring is a state of mind - people aren't boring. We feel boring. Proclaim instead that we are awesome, amazing, and interesting. 2. Be well rounded as an individual - don't just focus on one or two specific things. You need to seek out inspiration and education from the world around you. Don't isolate yourself. Learn about the world around you. Seek knowledge. 3. Try something new every single day - routine and interesting's kryptonite. Try new food, take a different route to work, listen to something else in the car... break the ruts! 4. Seek and engage someone new in a conversation every day - don't stay in a social bubble, interacting with the same people. Learn from new people to enhance your life experiences and interpersonal relationships. 5. Constantly seek self improvement - experiences create life! Try new things!
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san amazing way (1 day ago)
But the people who I talked to the most are my best friends and when I talk to other people they are boring or complete dick
Jasper Zaan (2 days ago)
Do more
Altay Kızıltaç (7 days ago)
Which ads gonna pop up im waiting
Dhruv bahl (8 days ago)
1st video of him without sponcer . He didnt sell anything.
Fortnite Geek (14 days ago)
I needed this. I have already screwed my life by not being social in my kid years
Autism (16 days ago)
Generally boring people are the same people who only eat vanilla ice cream, go to bed on time, wear turtle necks, have a daily schedule, bowl cuts, and know how to use chopsticks.
Akshar Patel (18 days ago)
self improvement is masturbation in Tyler we trust
Roldan Rosario (18 days ago)
Last part was dope.
Oh yeah yeah #4036 (18 days ago)
I just act out and be the class clown and a handful of girls like me bc of that
Tamer Gazawe (22 days ago)
great video.. i am a really nice positive person who likes to see everyone smilin' (by everyone i mean by whoever deserves it), no one might will believe this (if any1 made it till this far (👏thank you )) but i met my girlfriend on a game called "fortnite". we started speaking on discord, daily, and for hours... we improved and started calling... now we r slowly improving into face timing... but the sad thing is that i won't be able to meet her till years... and we both know that its hard for us.. really hard cuz who did this before!?!? how can we manage ourselves? once we started loving each other, we didn't know the obstacles that could face us.. one of them is that we can't be together soon... but we do love each other. this makes me wanna cry so bad... btw i think im getting boring.. i know i am... i need help😅 i will do anything for my girl😢 whoever made it this far into this comments, i seriously appreciate you. hope you have a great life and a bright future☺
Chris Eats Toast (22 days ago)
When ur trying to change the channel and accidentally fuck ur cat
ikaw nah (23 days ago)
our pldt connection sometimes is so boring. so slow.
Prince Hans (24 days ago)
*WE* are awesome *WE* are Amazing *We* are Venom
TheChosenOne (24 days ago)
Who will watch ur stuff if were not on the computer though ?
Joshgarcia Cariga (25 days ago)
you sir has thought me a lesson. tknk you so much man. also you look a lot like Rumlow in Captain America The winter soldier. :D
Michelle Sithole (26 days ago)
When your so bored and boring u just have to google "How to stop being boring" , the struggle us real fellas✊😝
Damo (26 days ago)
You're delusional you're not nice. "Boring is an epidemic" lol
Paper Boi (28 days ago)
I’m called a nice guy and fuck it
Margerette Shaina Cruz (30 days ago)
I can't believe this video is in my recommendation,, yt literally know what i feel
PerfectedToast (30 days ago)
Plenty of fish in the sea? Isn’t the sea full of sharks? Fake guppies? Greed? I hate that saying.
Apollo Marttinen (30 days ago)
There's a lot of fish in the sea, but you know what else there is? Trash. There's a lot of trash
Wanston Wanston Wans (1 month ago)
How to not be boring 1.watch alpha m youtube channel
Maddie's acount (1 month ago)
Whenever I stay at someone in particular they get bored and say "your boring I wish so and so was here" and it really hurts my feelings 😕 so I want to prove them wrong
Anshul goswami (1 month ago)
Dear alpha I am so funny person, I realy cant control my this habit Plz give tips to control this
imagine having alpham as a father
Nawel Paparoti (1 month ago)
Tips on how to grab a business wisely..
Mustafa Kamal (1 month ago)
You are so fuckin awsome man!
Jœ Adzman (1 month ago)
Inspiration 💖
The Figsoledierz (1 month ago)
Amazing video
fastandfilthy (1 month ago)
this guy is looks like he would be casey neistats brother
ron smith (1 month ago)
I totally agree! To many people are stuck in the auto correct world. Engaging with others through conversation helps you become a better communicator and learning more about yourself. It’s fun to do and by stepping out of your comfort zone broadens your ability to grow!
Pragyan Thousen (1 month ago)
you r boring
Luxxias (1 month ago)
if you’re watching this video and thinking “wow im sad im watching a video of not being boring” this is alpha m. kiddos you’ll get a social advantage over everyone
Dinesh Sokkam (1 month ago)
Love ya..😍👌👌
Manos Goulielmi (1 month ago)
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Rama S (1 month ago)
My mother fuckin dry convo It happened about 5 mins ago That’s how I ended up here Me: goooddd morning 💕 Idiot: hi Me: have any plans for today? Idiot: no ME: *triggered* I swear imma murder him if he keeps going. I mean.....he has depression..I don’t know if it has anythin to do with the dry ass texting :’) He should be fkng thanks full cuz I care about his ass I’m like he’s babysitting Except for I’m 1 year younger lol
Dat King (1 month ago)
Attraction is Key.... not from one side but from both. (I'm single)😭
Pewdiepie q (1 month ago)
i love your videos!! everytime i search stuff like this i see your videos and i watch them!
eating is gr8 (1 month ago)
4:12 You know alpha dude taking about shooting yourself and slitting your throat isnt funny and don't bring them up like that because there are people who do those stuff to them selves for serious reasons and what you did is just wrong your a hypocrite 😕😒😡
Queen Bitch (1 month ago)
It's ironic. I was up all night watching YouTube and this is the video that put me to sleep
DIESEL BOYS (1 month ago)
I do the same stuff. Right dirtbikes hunt then when the faggots in soccer think there more bad ass then me I beat the shit out of them. I currently have 7 red cards this season. My team play 27 games. I missed about 14 of hem cause of red cards. All the girls surround me. So it’s not about doing the same thing it’s about doing what makes you happy. And if you have passion then you can get the girls to like you
IRobot (1 month ago)
Video starts at 1:43
santhosh valiyakolleri (1 month ago)
Your are talent
Eduardo Santos (1 month ago)
After watching this video, I subscribed to your Chanel right away!
Elisha Rajesh Elisha R (1 month ago)
How to talk when we are bored
Elisha Rajesh Elisha R (1 month ago)
I am so bored that I am going sad
jonathan salazar (1 month ago)
Your videos are interesting :3
Thãnos (1 month ago)
Hmm...i just feel so sad that watxhing how to be perfect brave boyfriend and not to be boring...why god....
Aka Semaun (1 month ago)
Directions unclear.. dick got stuck at ceiling fan
Doge Plays (1 month ago)
I feel bad for everyone her so sad Alexa play SWEET HOME ALABAMA
klimax KINGST (1 month ago)
Thank u so much
Mrmich5371 (1 month ago)
First 30 secs and I am bored off my ass. No thank you
Major Peg (1 month ago)
I'll jerk off to something different everyday, that makes me interesting
Perry Conrad (5 days ago)
Lol that’s funny
Two Tone (5 days ago)
Dude we are brothers
Chris Sawyer (18 days ago)
Same here
Daremonster (1 month ago)
I start to date for the first time in like 4 years and I'm a boring mother fucker literally need help. 😂😭
fiore. (2 months ago)
i'm a girl which i think doesn't make me agree any less bc man life happens to everyone and this video just helped me so much bc i just realized i'm a lazy bitch and i better move my butt, not to be interesting but to be someone and make myself grow in any sense i want. you rock it man
peter MacKenzie (2 months ago)
I have wanted that Rolex SINCE I WAS BORN!
Henchman zzz (2 months ago)
You right that social bubble 🧐
Henchman zzz (2 months ago)
Always the sad true
Chuck Norris (2 months ago)
you need a really good sense of humor then you dont have to rely on conversation as much
Kelvin Wellington Andoh (2 months ago)
yeah its good to be nice
Joey fordf150s (2 months ago)
He looks gay
Jun (2 months ago)
Sorry i thought he was holding a calculator for 2 sec
Clement Okoye (2 months ago)
There goes the comment section.:)
Lou is (2 months ago)
"Try somethings new every day" I guess I will watch another new movie and play a different game
Bodhi Perry (2 months ago)
Think exactly the same i think im too nice then too grumpy and now; just a boring guy....
shigsho (2 months ago)
Lose your cell phone and DON'T talk about Star Wars or Trump.
Chris Vũ (2 months ago)
I bookmarked this video 2 years ago. I was watching in awe and thought how could I ever be like that ? Time goes by fast.
SinisterXan (2 months ago)
2:01 Your welcome :)
Daksh Gupta (2 months ago)
' You're gonna want to shoot yourself if you have to listen to Barbara talk about her son Tom anymore... ' Sending across a message to Barbara from Shark Tank lmao?
Santiago González (2 months ago)
i didn't knwo there were over a thousand Barbaras with a son called Tommy.....
You got a new subscriber
verity (2 months ago)
stupid tips. super useless tips.....asshole!!!
Brayden Owsley (2 months ago)
It's just hard for an introvert. I need to fix it but idk how
Joint Lucas (2 months ago)
It’s annoying cause I get called attractive but then 1 month later they say they don’t find me attractive anymore I used to be a sick puller back in high school and college now I’m 23 and I can’t do anything
nayeem patwary (2 months ago)
So boring vdo
Terence Estores (2 months ago)
I fucking love alpha m😂🤟🏻
gamerprince1999 (3 months ago)
Still though a lot of these tips are things I thought of and developed myself lol
gamerprince1999 (3 months ago)
Everything said in this video are pure facts. I agree with everything. Especially the technology bit. I need to take a fucking break from video games and Twitter browsing :/
Good luck D (3 months ago)
Can you make a video on how to make it not awkward in front of a girl? Like if you agree
Hi people I don't Know (3 months ago)
when do girls get there period? anyone seeing is at 2018
xiin (3 months ago)
nah, the fact that you're watching a video about how to not be boring is actually showing that you are aware of yourself, your flaws and you seek self-improvement. Stay positive, think positive, open your ears to everything, take every circumstance from your daily-life with another perspective like "what is this trying to teach me?", or "what is this showing me?" , "what can i learn from this?". The way we see things and perceive life differs just because of our way of seeing those things. Stay at peace, we're all blessed y'all. (sorry for mistakes, i'm still learning english)
CAPRICORN WOLF (3 months ago)
I am so fn interesting.
black fat ninja (3 months ago)
Just get some shit that gets you high and see results in morning
lulu alf (3 months ago)
1:48 true words right here
Thazetube (3 months ago)
Why am I even watching this all the girls I hang around always say I’m so entertaining lol
DabbaYabbaDo (3 months ago)
Thazetube it may be different when you get in to your teens
Gremlyn (3 months ago)
there is a bug in your eye
Davy van Oss (3 months ago)
thanx for your inspiring words! very usefull to me, imma put that magic to work !
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Leslie Scout (3 months ago)
appreciate it... appreciate ya..
3omar star (3 months ago)
Alpha you look sick , are you ok ?
jsg040 (3 months ago)
Tamer Gazawe (22 days ago)
+Mushy Kush hay. can we help each other?
Mushy Kush (2 months ago)
jsg040 I've done it but I dunno what to do outside
Ethan Blickenstaff (3 months ago)
Alpha, you are the man.
Limahs O,fey (3 months ago)
Not even 3sexnds in buh
Raifrazif2 (3 months ago)
The way to not be boring especially for a teen is to not bring a phone to school or any outside activity. This will prevent them from constantly looking at their phones outdoors and experience the outside activities and actually learning new things.
adriel gomz (3 months ago)
Step 1: Smoke pot
Tyler Mann (3 months ago)
You can be nice just be direct and confident when you talk to her. Have some game ,be interesting , throw in some sex jokes smile , laugh you’ll be straight . Don’t think about it
2:15 "....WE are also interesting, and WE Are Venom!"
Hamett Racing #RR (3 months ago)
Your my biggest inspiration
Flexi gaming (3 months ago)
how to talk to girls on phone?
Lukas 1179 (3 months ago)
I have a question. Would you rather be with a boring/bland persionality type of person or be with a cocky/annoying/arrogant type of person. Basically would you preffer being in a quite peer or with a loud/obnoxious one.

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