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How To NOT Be Boring | 5 Tips To Be More Interesting

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4 Conversation Starters: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/small-talk-tips-conversation-starters/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Best Grooming Tool: http://amzn.to/1YrOnCJ Tiege Hanley Skin Care: http://www.tiege.com All promotion and advertising inquiries: [email protected] Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Best Grooming Tool: http://amzn.to/1YrOnCJ Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAmAlphaM My Businesses: Alpha M. Consulting: http://www.aaronmarino.com i am alpha m: http://www.iamalpham.com Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com Squirrel Lab: http://www.squirrellab.com MENfluential Media: http://www.menfluential.com StyleCon: http://www.mensstylecon.com Tiege Hanley: http://www.Tiege.com The other day, Alpha received an email from a viewer questioning whether he's boring or not. He reads the email. In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro talks about being too nice and being boring. Girls don't think you're 'too nice'. She just wasn't attracted to you. Alpha adds that being boring is an epidemic of massive proportion. We are replacing experiences and learning with technology time sucks, killing time, and entertainment. Steps to Be Less Boring 1. Boring is a state of mind - people aren't boring. We feel boring. Proclaim instead that we are awesome, amazing, and interesting. 2. Be well rounded as an individual - don't just focus on one or two specific things. You need to seek out inspiration and education from the world around you. Don't isolate yourself. Learn about the world around you. Seek knowledge. 3. Try something new every single day - routine and interesting's kryptonite. Try new food, take a different route to work, listen to something else in the car... break the ruts! 4. Seek and engage someone new in a conversation every day - don't stay in a social bubble, interacting with the same people. Learn from new people to enhance your life experiences and interpersonal relationships. 5. Constantly seek self improvement - experiences create life! Try new things!
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king star (13 hours ago)
I'm fucking boring at school
AJ Hubbell (2 days ago)
Thank you.
akshay kumar (2 days ago)
Your smile is enough to get me like you...,
Christopher Harman (4 days ago)
Alpha, I've just recently stumbled across your YouTube channel and I must say, I'm pretty impressed. As a cocky ass, confident person, I still found these videos,not only entertaining, but motivational and inspiring. Keep that shit up!
Fuz Beatboxer n (4 days ago)
I still like my girl but I don't smile any more and I don't know why
InfinityWarlord (7 days ago)
Kau sape nk ckp mcm mana nk jd cool haa jantan? Buduh
Tumelo Mabeta (7 days ago)
Under Ratted (8 days ago)
Next video how to be less shy. Hello there new subscribers love ya.
S!ddhanth Sanford (10 days ago)
Bro.....u r boring...
Review Asian Movies (11 days ago)
Why is there a dot on your left eye?
Elmo Jones España (11 days ago)
Please help me i have a problem with my girl ive been always fucked up. How to convince her to give me another chance? :(
Cvlok (12 days ago)
she hasn’t been in a real real relationship, but she’s so fucking dry. i just tell myself she’s new
Honest Fella (13 days ago)
haha.. LUV this guy..
icewalowkumm (14 days ago)
Casey Graves (15 days ago)
Just make yourself better duh!!! Golly G I wish I had thought of that let me just go be better. Certainly haven't been trying that
person iller (17 days ago)
Got aynthing for depression??😂😂
Bernie stokes (3 days ago)
Anshul Shirbhate (19 days ago)
Alpha,salute u man.Your channel is the best channel for fashion,fitness and daily routine tips......
I like Trains (20 days ago)
Thumbnail on fleek
Kylee Studios (22 days ago)
Gets started at 2:02
Destruction Murder (25 days ago)
Can we just appreciate how cute he looks in the thumbnail 😭😂
Bernie stokes (3 days ago)
Weeeeeew... chill fam
thegoranimal (25 days ago)
Love yourself, take care of yourself, be respectful to others and be like a child, curious, don’t take things too seriously, fill your life with passions and help people. How’s that?
xX shadow Xx (25 days ago)
Me: *looks at views* Me: Im not alone :')
Juanderful Vlogs (28 days ago)
I will be super honest with you! At first glance, I thought you were another douchebag! But I come clean to sincerely apologize to you! I can’t stop watching and listening everything you say! I subscribe after two videos and, although, you sell stuff, that shows me that you practice what you preach! Thank you! I truly needed this kind of videos! Kudos and keep going up and forth!
No you (1 month ago)
Video starts 2:00
Georgie-boy1533 (1 month ago)
From what i have learned its not that ur too nice or ur to boring ,its the green paper u got in ur pocket
SURDINHO JR (1 month ago)
Amy Buttholez (1 month ago)
Im sure you get this a lot, but I love that spot on your eye! Very unique and not boring!
siYo FixeD (1 month ago)
bro, there's a difference between experiencing new things and having a quiet personality.
Wizdumb (1 month ago)
Alpha are you theee voice from drama island???????
ツLory (1 month ago)
What is it on your eye?
Raju (1 month ago)
That was helpful for a lot of people.
Coffee Jaytee (1 month ago)
I wanted to hang out with this guy but i cant engage him in our conversations (i might have even aided him in his sleep when we texted each other)
Eris Demollari (1 month ago)
U scream too much , ur boring
Someone Iusedtoknow (1 month ago)
I don't think that being BORED with someone -or saying you are boring to someone frankly like that- is a judgement that anyone has the right to give!! May be this person is too immature to see the bigger picture that God has drawn, so that this "boring" person has been put in to your life !! May be this "boring" person is stuck in life somewhere and trying to get out, or trying to secure a better place for himself, or doing something he's forced to do just to get out of a bigger problem, or trying to reach his life purpose & the dreams he believes he deserves, despite what every one else think they know about him, or handling too many things at the same time... Or may be he's being used !! or has been given a false sense of self & safety by his parents and needs help!! ... Sometimes a closer look on the circumstances of a person will make him more interesting... Everyone has a story behind him or her, every one is doing the best he/she can with what he has, at these special circumstances... 'Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always.' -- Brad Meltzer After all a confident smile can be the most important quality some one can wear to grab the attention of the person in front of him :) Here's some DRs advice though for every one https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to-become-a-more-interesting-person/ & I like the 2 arms in the air victory sign too much btw :)
ivan rubio (1 month ago)
If you're watching this. You know yourself you're boring and that's sad.. Same for me.
Ar._. Vi (1 month ago)
This was the best tip in his channel his right lets get out there thnx dude🖤
T - Gay (1 month ago)
Barber's son Tommy got roasted XD
Fuzzy Psychology (1 month ago)
I’m a girl watching this to better help myself with my crush who’s a guy. You’re awesome and women watch your stuff too!
Professor Ankar (1 month ago)
I hate being boring when people are expecting you to be cool like your looks
The one guy that disrespect the is just different
Not attracted because we're too nice . Nice is boring.
Abhishek Kempanna (1 month ago)
bro you are an amazing person! Thanks for giving realistic suggestions.
FAnimaniac (1 month ago)
People aren't boring, we feel boring? Um, sorry but no this isn't true. I'm boring.
★ ilivill ★ (1 month ago)
God gave you them shoes to fit you So put 'em on and wear 'em Be yourself, man, be proud of who you are Even if it sounds corny Never let no one tell you you ain't beautiful
★ ilivill ★ (1 month ago)
​+Irbx Generated Name who else has said that? :D
Irbx Generated Name (1 month ago)
★ ilivill ★ Eminem reference?
Marmalade Stex1591 (1 month ago)
What I find Annoying & Dull is when You are having a good Multi Conversation & then "On No Anecdote Alert!", People can Kill the Tennis Rally Type Conversation by Introducing a Usually Over long Anecdote!.
A.M Klaklinski (2 months ago)
Alpha I need help im not smoooth!Or any tips lmfaoo
Gamer 27 (2 months ago)
This is the most boring video ever!I literally fell a sleep
F[] T[] (2 months ago)
Who else hangs out with the “cool kids” but is still just another person in the background of the group😪
Sam Burgess (1 month ago)
F[] T[] get some real close friends trust us bro
Home Business University (2 months ago)
There is no charm equal to tenderness of heart. Jane Austen
Tropical Avocado (2 months ago)
Back at the old vids
eva rivera (2 months ago)
lol the person i want to talk to is an introvert and introverts hate small talks
eva rivera (2 months ago)
+armin harper i remember that time she still talks alot like nonstop now this past weeks she didnt talk,i guess shes just recharging,but it hurts now because she talks with her other friends not me
armin harper (2 months ago)
As an introvert i can assure u that being an introvert sucks in our world where everything is about showing off and acting in a dominants fashion or get crushed by everything and everyone.
mrsnoozer 887 (2 months ago)
I'm doing something new. Rn watching a dude tell me about how to be less boring
Расул Хириев (2 months ago)
Damn, Alpha, you are right! Boring is state of mind! I always find myself when I'm bored that nothing is interesting. Brain is being slow, no good ideas. But when you kick ass of some selfish bullies or something like that , your mind pops with ideas.
Isabella Arroyo (2 months ago)
My friend called me boring and mean well I mean my Ex bff who I'd known since 1st garde and NOW I'm a junior in high school
Your mom Gee (2 months ago)
Im more obnoxious then funny
johnmeye (2 months ago)
Good stuff
HighFlyer098 (2 months ago)
whats whit his eye?
franc kie (2 months ago)
Thank u
The Raybans (2 months ago)
shut up nigga thats why you have a dot in your eye
Nexter5722 (2 months ago)
Dusk (2 months ago)
I got some hobbys to be less boring I got parkour And card trowing And knifetrowing That last one was a bit too dangerous
Anibal Osbaldo (2 months ago)
Yes it was.
Dusk (2 months ago)
Those 3 million people who watched this video wants more freinds
Bräñdí hïké (2 months ago)
u inspire me so much..jus wanna let you know dont I normally comment on youtube videos this means alot to me
Monfared Tina (2 months ago)
LitZy Wizzy (2 months ago)
Wow this videos boring
Aayush Singh (2 months ago)
fightnight14 (2 months ago)
If you find my being too nice "boring" then you're not for me. As simple as that
Daniel Andrei Rusu (2 months ago)
I totally disagree with Alpha M, in the beggining. The reason why a woman dumps you is because she thinks you are too nice/ a pussy and being too nice is an issue.
Jack Hamilton Morris (2 months ago)
2:10 and just like that my depression was cured
SWITCH TO PEACE (3 months ago)
Video starts at 2:01 Thank me later
Bernie stokes (3 days ago)
SWITCH TO PEACE (3 days ago)
+Bernie stokes super man 😎
Bernie stokes (3 days ago)
You the man 👌
Nick Britten (3 months ago)
Sorry, your video was too boring... only joking lol, it was good. A person should never take life too seriously though. A GSOH goes a long way in this world.
shartrez little (3 months ago)
I loved our advices and i love way you talk
Jasper Zaan (3 months ago)
Do more
Altay Kızıltaç (3 months ago)
Which ads gonna pop up im waiting
Dhruv bahl (3 months ago)
1st video of him without sponcer . He didnt sell anything.
Exterior Shock (3 months ago)
I needed this. I have already screwed my life by not being social in my kid years
Ethan (3 months ago)
Generally boring people are the same people who only eat vanilla ice cream, go to bed on time, wear turtle necks, have a daily schedule, bowl cuts, and know how to use chopsticks.
Akshar Patel (3 months ago)
self improvement is masturbation in Tyler we trust
Roldan Rosario (3 months ago)
Last part was dope.
6969696 subs challenge (3 months ago)
I just act out and be the class clown and a handful of girls like me bc of that
Tamer Gazawe (3 months ago)
great video.. i am a really nice positive person who likes to see everyone smilin' (by everyone i mean by whoever deserves it), no one might will believe this (if any1 made it till this far (👏thank you )) but i met my girlfriend on a game called "fortnite". we started speaking on discord, daily, and for hours... we improved and started calling... now we r slowly improving into face timing... but the sad thing is that i won't be able to meet her till years... and we both know that its hard for us.. really hard cuz who did this before!?!? how can we manage ourselves? once we started loving each other, we didn't know the obstacles that could face us.. one of them is that we can't be together soon... but we do love each other. this makes me wanna cry so bad... btw i think im getting boring.. i know i am... i need help😅 i will do anything for my girl😢 whoever made it this far into this comments, i seriously appreciate you. hope you have a great life and a bright future☺
Chris Eats Toast (3 months ago)
When ur trying to change the channel and accidentally fuck ur cat
ikaw nah (3 months ago)
our pldt connection sometimes is so boring. so slow.
*WE* are awesome *WE* are Amazing *We* are Venom
TheChosenOne (3 months ago)
Who will watch ur stuff if were not on the computer though ?
Joshgarcia Cariga (3 months ago)
you sir has thought me a lesson. tknk you so much man. also you look a lot like Rumlow in Captain America The winter soldier. :D
Michelle Sithole (3 months ago)
When your so bored and boring u just have to google "How to stop being boring" , the struggle us real fellas✊😝
Damo (4 months ago)
You're delusional you're not nice. "Boring is an epidemic" lol
Paper Boi (4 months ago)
I’m called a nice guy and fuck it
Margerette Shaina Cruz (4 months ago)
I can't believe this video is in my recommendation,, yt literally know what i feel
PerfectedToast (4 months ago)
Plenty of fish in the sea? Isn’t the sea full of sharks? Fake guppies? Greed? I hate that saying.
Apollo Marttinen (4 months ago)
There's a lot of fish in the sea, but you know what else there is? Trash. There's a lot of trash
Wanston Wanston Wans (4 months ago)
How to not be boring 1.watch alpha m youtube channel
Maddie's acount (4 months ago)
Whenever I stay at someone in particular they get bored and say "your boring I wish so and so was here" and it really hurts my feelings 😕 so I want to prove them wrong
Anshul Goswami (4 months ago)
Dear alpha I am so funny person, I realy cant control my this habit Plz give tips to control this
Черный бумер (4 months ago)
imagine having alpham as a father
Nawel Paparoti (4 months ago)
Tips on how to grab a business wisely..
Mustafa Kamal (4 months ago)
You are so fuckin awsome man!
Jœ Adzman (4 months ago)
Inspiration 💖
The Figsoledierz (4 months ago)
Amazing video

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