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I'm A Virgin | Let's Talk About Sex, Virginity, And Confidence

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STD Video: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/stds-knowing-the-risk-and-reality/ Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/alpha-m-confidence-course/ Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com http://www.aaronmarino.com and http://www.peteandpedro.com, talks about sex, virginity and confidence. So, the other day Alpha got an email from an 18 year old virgin whose confidence is being affected because he thinks that women aren't going to be interested due to his lack of sexual experience. Alpha issues a disclaimer that he's not recommending premarital sex and not a sex or relationship expert. He just has had an applicable experience. Alpha tells his story about his virginity and how he first had sex which was uneventful and a disappointment. He regretted it because he wished it was with someone he cared about. He also talks about society, social media, and how sex is portrayed currently. He thinks that sex should not be shared casually. It's special and should be shared with someone you love. Your virginity is not something that you lose. It's a gift you give away-- and you can only give it away one time! You don't need to worry about what others are doing or reporting on social media. Having sex doesn't make you cool. Let it happen naturally. When it happens, it happens. In the meantime, build yourself to the best person you can. Sex can have lots of repercussions. And if someone doesn't want to date you because you are a virgin or you want to remain a virgin, they aren't worthy of your gift
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flat cat (6 hours ago)
Great words
Charles Victoria (1 day ago)
If a GUY makes fun of a dude for being a virgin, that GUY is the REAL loser. Do YOU DUDE!
Shiloh Lofgran (3 days ago)
Wahoo! Great vid!
BinaryFour (4 days ago)
27yo , still virgin no gf ever , worst thing is i'm good looking , i'm just too fucking shy . well i write this rn cause i'll probably give/loose (whatever you wanna call it cause at some point it's a burden) my virginity with a friend . i was in my bed , procrastinating as usual and being sick of myself . and i just texted her "hey , what if we were sex friends ? xD" first she said "wft man xD" i said "xD" she said "ok" i just acted casual about it . fake it until you make it . she's not my type , i don't wanna make my life with her , still i'm gonna do it with her cause guess what , i'm tired to wait for the good one . i wanna learn sex , wanna know how to please a woman , wanna be experienced about it . and yeah , i'll not be ashamed of being a fucking 27yo virgin who lies to his friends anymore .
It's your finest video there.. your presentation is soo perfect to the context.. I liked it to the core
SteadyNeurosion (8 days ago)
Yep... 29, haven't ever touched a girl in any capacity... I sometimes wonder what it's like to be a real man. Or a woman. Either one must be nice.
Colton Is gay (8 days ago)
Hey virgins scrolling down the screen
Priyan Prince (8 days ago)
Yo man. Thank you
Mcpizza (9 days ago)
I like, that he can have a serious conversation and be super flamboyant the next its kind of alleviating
Shaq Daddy (9 days ago)
“It was a total disappointment” savage
Nich Gorman (9 days ago)
I was literally exclaiming "No" repeatedly when doing the act... Trust me, save yourself for someone you really really care about, preferably marriage because there's more commitment.
Shotgun93Alexander (13 days ago)
I had sex once but I didn’t enjoy it as I should have
Alexander (13 days ago)
I am 17 and I am virgin. I had some chances , but they were not worth it
If anyone is ever worried about their "size".....just remember what my dad told me..." Girls are born virgins, with tight holes. If they stretched it out to a gaping sewer drain before you got there, that's on them."
I'm just waiting for the right women, but I just don't click well with this generation so it makes it difficult but if it happens it happens and if not well there just wasn't anyone good enough for me so it doesn't bug me that much.
Drew Emaas (14 days ago)
Perfectly well said🤘👍
Jeremiah Florida (15 days ago)
Your nothing but a legend.. Haha
Evan Lynch (15 days ago)
Repent for your sins! Jesus loves you
Saif Al-shmmari (16 days ago)
No sex until you get married. U will thank me for that
yaboi natee (17 days ago)
If gun lose it saturday😏😏😏😏😜
Blajor M (18 days ago)
21 soon and still virgin because i want to have it with the right girl..
Some random Guy (19 days ago)
Jean jacket with a tie? Hmmmm what’s next ripped jeans?
Jaheel Henry (21 days ago)
This man is the best! god really bless you alpha. thank you.
Erske Perske (21 days ago)
I can fuck you
Aryan Singh (21 days ago)
Well Im 20 years old and Im proud to be a virgin. If possible, I would like to die a virgin. Looking at society and girls these days Im gonna say - Im fine dude no thanks✌🏻
Rpvisuals inc. (21 days ago)
Not a virgin but it has been a min.
being a virgin may be putting a toll on my confidence. I am turning 18 in 2 months. I think im gonna fuck this summer or at least pay a prostitute
Anthony Cruz (23 days ago)
Lost my Virginity at age 14. My biggest regret
Diego Serrato (23 days ago)
Yo, I respect all you dudes out there confidently owning your virginity and choosing to wait for the right person. That's seriously cool shit
MikusLove Soul (24 days ago)
I'm not really shamed of my virginity it's just that I don't want std's or being used.
Danny Steven (25 days ago)
Lmao I waiting tell I'm married
Serpico 7 (26 days ago)
Great video Friend! I'm 48, still a virgin. And there were plenty of opportunities for me. It was just to sacred for me to give up. And when relationships never worked out, I was always remembered as good man who walked away.
Ravindu Gayan (26 days ago)
I'm 25 and still a virgin, was searching rightful woman to marry and have sex. Not found yet and parents searching for a girl and here call it "arranged marriage" kind of ashame😢
the fact i had the chance at 14 and blew it probably means im gay
WorstTeamEU (25 days ago)
Adam Daichendt (28 days ago)
Your not a virgin!! How is that possible?😋
Brandon Pech (28 days ago)
I lost mine at 15. In Mexico things are a little different.
Marcello Cubas (28 days ago)
For someone that sells face cream you look like you aged 20 years within 3 years.
Maksym Porokhnavets (29 days ago)
who cares you're a virgin or not.
paigeguitarplayer (1 month ago)
no shame being a virgin i lost mine at 21 id rather stay a virgin then get some nasty diesease. shit aint worth it and its getting worse and worse as time goes on
Bikelife Curtis (1 month ago)
I watched this video a good 6 months ago and thought i wouldn't mind losing it to anyone, now i get what he means cause i lost it to the wrong person and it just didn't feel real ya know, i regret it aswell but now I'm having intercourse with my current gf its been kinda on and off for 5 months and i lost my virginity on one of our "breaks" cause i was mad at her but my god do i wanna go back in time, rn everything is g and the whole on and off thing only happened because of this one girl creating drama in the group but she got kicked out so yeah everything is going like the best it can go, glad i have her to myself cause doods she's amazing ommgg🤣❤
Green Bastard (1 month ago)
You hear that SARAH you’re worthy of my GIFT!
Clay White (1 month ago)
Dont be like Elliot Rodgers Guys
Clay White (1 month ago)
Im Losing my Virginity In The Summer Of 2019 at the beginning of 16 years old, and Im Losing it to a Girl that is also a virgin and Shes The Best Girl Ever, and we planned where and when so Oof. HOW Lucky Am I
Joshua Kozee (1 month ago)
im a 24 yr old virgin, I think I may have made a big mistake by letting this happen to me.
MissLadyG99 (1 month ago)
Keeping living you will find out that others are making worse mistakes than remaining a virgin. I'm sure their are men/boys who are AIDS patients that would gladly trade places with you. No sex in the world is worth losing your life and health over.
The Blender Arsenal (1 month ago)
21 year old virgin here. It's a bit of an ego-bruiser, and it doesn't help my confidence. Or rather, lack thereof. Never dated either. And it's not like I haven't tried. Every girl I approach shoots me down faster than a bullet. It's hard not to think there's something wrong with you when girls say no at every turn. Once, I even tried to chat up the 'school slut,' if you will, and even she laughed in my face. Seriously? A girl with standards lower than the ground, and even she shoots me down because, somehow, I don't fit them. How else am I supposed to take that???
Tyler Clark (1 month ago)
Fake it till you make it boys. If you’re not confident then pretend you are and it will come!! You will have learn to step out of your box eventually start now
Digital2Pulse (1 month ago)
Don't worry guys Master Chief is a virgin
Tenny (1 month ago)
All these Beta Males. Get good kids, get laid already.
Fjorald Cacaj (1 month ago)
You're a virgin? I swear you're like 40 years old, you still believe that you shouldn't have sex before marriage, what is this the 17th century
NaimishTank Music (1 month ago)
I love the way you think and i feel the same way about sex..
Blake The Human Cat (1 month ago)
18 years old? I'm 23 and still a virgin. I would rather wait for the right woman rather than some filthy whore
Spec trum (1 month ago)
Dude... I masturbated alot of times. I watched thousands of porn videos and i know everything about this now tell ME I never been with girl never had sex so... Am i virgin even after masturbation?
koolwhip 64 (1 month ago)
I respect this man so much
Arturo Barrios (1 month ago)
I'm letting it happen naturally and I'm about to be 30 lol. I'm not a bad looking guy either, shit. 😂
xDreamer (1 month ago)
Arturo Barrios dude just go on tinder bruh it's time fuck that
Chris Hermosura (1 month ago)
This quickly turned in that whkme abstinence talk they gave us in middle school.
Chris Hermosura (1 month ago)
18 year old? That’s cute. Lol:
issei san (1 month ago)
We muslims can't loose our virginity until we get married 😭😭
Mr mc E (1 month ago)
I'm 8 and not a virgin
Stefan F (1 month ago)
I have a big nose,and I am not confident with girls...hope my nose isn’t growing anymore and go talk with girls😞
Mr mc E (1 month ago)
my nose is nice
Echo Space (1 month ago)
I’m 14 and a virgin
Jonah T (2 months ago)
19 years old, first girlfriend was very sex forward. She dumped me because I wanted to wait.
xDreamer (1 month ago)
Jonah T bro not sure if your for real but that shit happened to me. I waited to long and she left and got it somewhere else. Just shoot ya shot next time
Will Kershaw (1 month ago)
Jonah T She obviously was the wrong one. Good thing it ended quickly.
I'm 14 not a virgin becuase of my extremely low standards
the_G_killer (2 months ago)
15 still no gf that kissed me i just had 1 gf but we didnt kiss
Mr mc E (1 month ago)
Bruh I'm 13 and have kissed someone BB GUN LOOKIN BEDBASS
Emanuel Burgh (2 months ago)
Everyone who lost their virginity and feel like they damn accomplished something. If you fucked an ugly bitch just to brag that you are not a virgin anymore you're a loser. In college I saw everyone having ugly bitches over into their dorm probably to fuck them.
Mr mc E (1 month ago)
You're a loser for calling woman ugly bitches
Eggrollius (2 months ago)
Does your uncle count?
Mr mc E (1 month ago)
What about ur cousin
Brandon Mooney (2 months ago)
I’m 18 (well, almost) and I’m still a virgin. I go both ways. I have never had sex, but that’s not to say that someone has never had sex with me
mcm Bradshaw (2 months ago)
Ha!! I lost my virginity at 14!!
Mr mc E (1 month ago)
Grease_witherspoon (2 months ago)
I am 30 and I have had sex
Balance and Composure (2 months ago)
Porn is the devil & I'm not even religious.
Agent 14 I A A (2 months ago)
I’m 17 and still fresh in the box 📦
andrei mujdei (2 months ago)
I never lost my virginity because I never lose!
Iffy Edem (2 months ago)
I’m 18 and still a virgin(I received my first kiss this year, and my second partial bj) but I’m fine with being one. I’m going to college in five months soo if I loose it there , eh who cares 🤷🏻‍♀️
Will Kershaw (1 month ago)
Iffy Edem I’m in the exact same boat as you brother
M'hamed Raboudi (2 months ago)
I am a 13 still a virgin. Fuck
Jonathan Yepez (2 months ago)
I’m 19 and I’m a Virgin and never had my first kiss
SHUBHAM KANYAL (2 months ago)
"Giving the gift to someone who deserves it" 👍👍I like it
Deni Cnex (2 months ago)
My first time was being raped. I feel the same down there. But Heartbroken and mentally it affected me a lot.
Jay Dawg (2 months ago)
I've kissed and had a girlfriend but still a virgin 💪
Masu Goupil (2 months ago)
Alphas outfit today is shit ngl
Aryan Kumar (2 months ago)
kimisho soup (2 months ago)
Guys sex is nice but !!!!! You are not missing out on much lol just let it come naturally dont beat yourself up if you are a V
Caleb Price (2 months ago)
I’m dead. Still looking for the right ghost to give it to.
Tank The Pitbull (2 months ago)
I lost my virginity to a prostitute at 19.
Will Kershaw (1 month ago)
Tank The Pitbull atta boy
TML 913416 (2 months ago)
Im an 18 going on 19 year old virgin, idk what to do if I should lose it or keep it. Plus I have never had a girlfriend.. :/
Cesar Castillo (2 months ago)
Being 40 and a virgin wasn’t easy. My life sucked And i was miserable. I’d think to my self “how am I this old and a virgin”? But then I bought some teige Hanley. And now I get laid everyday. Thank you teige Hanley. c:
Anvit shetty (2 months ago)
I’m 17 and Never had a GF! I never Kissed anyone nor Had Sex🤦🏼‍♂️😂
demon6937 (2 months ago)
26 and still virgin my friends are not I'm not good with women.
Adam T-Road (2 months ago)
Wtf are you wearing first ???
Fat CJ (2 months ago)
I knew it
Hungur Gaming (2 months ago)
I am 14... What am i doing here? 😂😂
SokE Cool (2 months ago)
Is masturbate lose your virgin
Fallen AngelBlack (2 months ago)
Thank you, just, tank you
Marvellousdeath115 (2 months ago)
20 year old virgin here. I’m happy I’m a Shia Muslim. I’ve had over 10 women want me, but I didn’t want them. I didn’t want to settle for less than what I deserve, and you shouldn’t either. A true King/Queen shouldn’t settle for a princess/prince, cuz they’re not at your level, no matter how high they seem to be.
Humble Wonder (2 months ago)
Mad respect for you bru Great message
Kristupas LTU (2 months ago)
Should I date the girl who really likes me, but I don't like her that much. I'm asking because I'm 17 years old and never had a date... Should I practice dating, talking (and possibly kissing) on that girl?
Kamaro3XVII (3 months ago)
Lost my virginity to a fine ass blonde escort with a killer body paid $70 bucks for an hour and boy did she know how to rock my world. Best $70 dollar spends I ever spent in my life.
InfiniteWarr1or (3 months ago)
Gave it away when i was 20, although she wasn't anything special :)
Xavage Boy (3 months ago)
I am virgin but I have my hands
Thomas Ryan (3 months ago)
What I have noticed is that virgins before marriage tend to come from a more stable family structure, while those who have a lot of sex before marriage tend to have more family issues/ lack of connection. Virgins don't hate yourselves, because your family loves you and your commitment to waiting is a good sign of future success in marriage and family connection. Virginity is a gift you give once! Save it for the right person.
Jay Elston (3 months ago)
Everyone should do what they believe is best for them. If someone wants to wait, it's up to that person and it isn't anyone else's business - period.
S U P R E 〽 E (3 months ago)
First time having sex the girl said “Are you sure you’re a virgin” I WATCHED WAY TOO MUCH PORN I KNO WHAT IM DOING GIRL LMAO

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