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I'm A Virgin | Let's Talk About Sex, Virginity, And Confidence

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STD Video: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/stds-knowing-the-risk-and-reality/ Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/alpha-m-confidence-course/ Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com http://www.aaronmarino.com and http://www.peteandpedro.com, talks about sex, virginity and confidence. So, the other day Alpha got an email from an 18 year old virgin whose confidence is being affected because he thinks that women aren't going to be interested due to his lack of sexual experience. Alpha issues a disclaimer that he's not recommending premarital sex and not a sex or relationship expert. He just has had an applicable experience. Alpha tells his story about his virginity and how he first had sex which was uneventful and a disappointment. He regretted it because he wished it was with someone he cared about. He also talks about society, social media, and how sex is portrayed currently. He thinks that sex should not be shared casually. It's special and should be shared with someone you love. Your virginity is not something that you lose. It's a gift you give away-- and you can only give it away one time! You don't need to worry about what others are doing or reporting on social media. Having sex doesn't make you cool. Let it happen naturally. When it happens, it happens. In the meantime, build yourself to the best person you can. Sex can have lots of repercussions. And if someone doesn't want to date you because you are a virgin or you want to remain a virgin, they aren't worthy of your gift
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Alex Diaz (17 hours ago)
I am glad I lost it before 30, let alone 40. Lost mine at 28 and I'm much happier than not having sex.
First Name Last Name (2 days ago)
I'm 2,045 years old and still a virgin. Name? Ha! Perhaps you know it already: Ahasver. Yep. It's all true just don't remind me. Should I remind you how it happened? How I mocked Jesus on the cross. And how then and there he cursed me to walk the earth forever until His return. Damn this earth! Jesus come quickly! Save me that cursed wandering Jew, Ahasver, from this rock imprisonment! I've been to every nation earth 1,000 times over and still am I no closer to accepting your free gift of salvation! Have you made my heart cold in order that I may suffer longer?
2 Nate's (6 days ago)
Great vid, I'm a Christian and believe that it should happen after marriage, and it should mean something .
Daniel Hooper (6 days ago)
premarital sex is the best sex to have when losing it
Adam Aston (6 days ago)
I'm 19 and still a virgin, I'm one off them people who wanna wait for the right person
Lmao I never had anyone in my life let alone anyone who I can text. Virginity is expensive than a Rolex nowadays.
Outlaw (9 days ago)
I haven’t lost my virginity yet, you know why? Cuz I never lose 😁
Black Onyx (9 days ago)
Fucking stupid girls in high school get fucked at least once. Hard to find a girl who’s a Virgin after high school and nonexistent after college. What sucks is, these girls won’t fully mature until they’re in their mid-20’s. I think of it like this. High school girl is a brand new BMW with no miles. At about 25 years old. She’s got wear and tear and 75,000 miles on the odometer. Not the kind of car you want but that’s the majority.
Zabeer Hossain (10 days ago)
CHHIREE SHERPA (10 days ago)
Not something you loose... something you give!!😤😁🤣😂
CHHIREE SHERPA (10 days ago)
Yep ...a virgin........no girlfriend 😫
Olympus Healer (10 days ago)
Tnx. now im able to continue life
Luis Gracia (11 days ago)
I have yet to give my virginity and I’m gonna be 30 soon. Im in it for love, and promiscuity has killed love.
Luis Gracia (11 days ago)
Virginity is the only social sexual taboo! And it should be no stigma to be a virgin at 18
Jellyfish60 (12 days ago)
18? Pff I can barely remember anything meaningful from my teen yeas. Lost it to a prostitute at 21 and in the last 7 years had 3 long term relationships.
KowboyM (12 days ago)
Hey Alpha u and I hav the same story, I shoulda waited too, normally I wouldn’t giv in to peer pressure but that time I did :/
BONG SONG LYRICS (14 days ago)
I was thinking can we call us virgin if we musterbate?
BONG SONG LYRICS (14 days ago)
I'm a 21 year old guy and i'm still virgin. I thought I'm the only one but thankfully now I know there is more people like me
jelly fish (16 days ago)
"I'm a guy with a video camera and a big mouth"
Domo (17 days ago)
I'm 1379 years old and I'm still a virgin
grim reaper (17 days ago)
Anyone seen the movie The 40 year old virgin so
Blueschy (18 days ago)
It's never going to happen with me
leblblb (23 days ago)
I fucked a really fat ugly bitch for a really cheap price. She was also on her period. It was very gross but I proud of myself. I never had a girlfriend and wanted to feel what sex is. Shit is not important. You understand it when you are really alone.
Jack Heltzel (23 days ago)
42, hetero-virgin...lol
Nikos Guf (23 days ago)
I am 20 lol
Lakersfan332 (23 days ago)
“When it happens let it happen” but I’m gonna be a virgin my entire life?
R3V1V3R (24 days ago)
i just know i will never lose it, i am WAY too ugly to...
Real shit tho i almost fucked my substitute teacher back in 5th grade, man i wish i didn’t pussy out. SHE WAS FINE ASF
i lost my virginity to a toaster oh yeah yeah
pernada boriusz (25 days ago)
I am a virgin loser
Anthony Cruz (25 days ago)
I'm a 14 year old boy and lost my virginity recently lost my virginity to a guy that I didn't like. Don't lose it young, and especially to someone you aren't in love with.
Bett Ronald (25 days ago)
I am 24 years old
Raúl Aragón (25 days ago)
I'm 21 and virgin, that kind of sucks.
JoshDezigns (26 days ago)
Watching video in target bathroom at glory hole will tell if the thick bitches came thru
Joshua Salinas (26 days ago)
Took my gf's virginity yesterday, we love each other very much. I wish she would've been the one I lost it to tho. She is my best friend, we aren't married yet, but we will be in time.
Alex Alonzo (26 days ago)
I’m 14 and this girl who thot I was hot asked if I wanted to have a threesome, and I ain’t no homosexual so I said no, but then I realized I missed my opportunity because the other person was her hot friend
I lost my vrginity at 14 with girl much older than me. Now I'm 26 and had about 50 partners maybe...but you know what? It was only about my ego. With time I understand only feelings make a sex great. So boys my advise is look for your soul mate while f4k1ng everybody around you XD
Spencer Strickland (28 days ago)
I love you Alpha. Your story is just like mine. (The only difference is it was with a guy.) I'll stay subscribed to you forever because of this video and your honesty.
rorey lawrie (29 days ago)
I’m 14 and I lost my virginity
Tntpker (29 days ago)
i scrolled through the comments and man what a bunch of insecure people here, and that includes the people who lost their virginity and are boasting about it LOL. why would u care what any1 thinks of u 4 REAL (if ur a virgin and self-conscious). just do whatever u like to do in life, whether thats banging chicks or doing math/ chemistry/gaming. NOBODY GIVES A FUCK.
João Rodrigues (29 days ago)
I'm gonna be honest... This is your best video. Thanks..
rohirrim 98 (30 days ago)
When i lost my virginity it lasted like half an hour...not a brag on my part just saying how much of a slut the girl i lost it with was...i mean it was like the grand canyon down there...
I gave up the Vcard at 26. Married at 26. Connect the dots. I was so bad the first time that my wife had to reach down and physically "guide me in" because I couldn't seem to hit the target.
bob saget (1 month ago)
Any other 20 yo kissless virgins out there? It drives me crazy but it's mostly cause I don't go outside or make an effort to meet girls
Topli Naćos (1 month ago)
no sponsor? XDXDXD
Arsj Khan (1 month ago)
Love love love brother 💝👍
Arsj Khan (1 month ago)
Well said as always.... You are a good mentor as always
ozone! (1 month ago)
I lost my virginity at 15, I don't exactly regret it as me and the girl I were with ended up having a more than a year long relationship, and I did love her. I know that isn't long when it comes to adults but for a relationship between teenagers, I think that was long. I do sort of feel like I shouldn't have lost it that young though.
Jimmy Hopkins (1 month ago)
Don’t really understand why people think less of you if you’re a virgin. Okay you had sex, good luck with your fucked up life paying child support at 16
Tntpker (29 days ago)
why would any1 care if youre a virgin? Please explain to me this, bcz i dont follow. How would the fact that youre a virgin affect THEM in any way? Would they feel 'ashamed' or something because they're hanging out with a virgin? If youre befriending people that think less of you bcz ur a virgin, u have bad friends/family and should probably disavow them and search for new ones.
Matthew Burns (1 month ago)
I’m 19 and still a virgin
Jeff Wood (1 month ago)
I am a virgin, i am 15, i never touched a girl, i wish i wasn't single at least
Bond (1 month ago)
This is such an old video but I agree with the gift statement 👍
Wackle (1 month ago)
I am a 278906 y o virgin and I am proud!
Xander Michels (1 month ago)
pff... 18? i am 22 turning 23 still haven't lost my virginity because i never lose :D also going for nofap cause i wanna see if it has health benefits
Gerardo Herrera Jr (1 month ago)
Team no kids Unite 👊
M A (20 days ago)
Alexander Zurba (1 month ago)
I'm 33, and I never did it, I'm a virgin, but I'm okay with it, it's no competition, I believe when you're ready do it, right?
Michael Schofield (1 month ago)
Thanks for making this video
Bruno Qirim (1 month ago)
I’m as old as the pyramids and I’m still a virgin, I’m about to smash this weekend. Y’all pray for your nigga !
Patrick Conroy (1 month ago)
Tip: If you're a virgin and you feel the need to lose it, just buy a prostitute. Otherwise you may get latched onto some complete psycho and lose a year or more of your life. I did. It's not worth it.
Enrique Garcia (1 month ago)
Look, I'm 19 1/2 and still a virgin and most of my friends have lost their virginity already and I felt self-conscious about it. I was 16 when I started to get jealous of their stories of losing their virginity, it was of course until I heard one of them talk about how he had almost knocked up a girl by not wearing a condom and her not taking her birth control. It was also until I realized that maybe I want to wait until I meet someone who I connect with and who likes me for me, not to mention it is also a good time to really focus on myself in the emotional and physical aspects of my life( job, car, good income, possibly school etc...) I also look back at my parents and their struggles because my parents had me in their teens. The point is that just because others are doing it(figuratively and literally) doesn't mean you should too. It's all about peer-pressure, if you know it's probably not the best time or the most convenient, don't do it. Really think it through. Think about it this way: the person who you're going to sleep with, do you really like or love them that much that you're willing to possibility ruin your life and theirs. In conclusion, it's best to wait for the right moment than it is to rush it and possibly stunt your love life or your life life. Food for thought my peeps.
Here our virgins stand From all around the world Waiting in a line To hear the battle cry All are gathered here Victory is near The sound will fill the hall Bringing power to us all We alone are fighting For women that is true We only ride to live the fight We're here for all of you Now swear the blood upon your steel We'll never try Stand and fight together Beneath the virgin sky Brothers everywhere Raise your hands into the air We're virgins, virgins of the world
Avalegg (16 days ago)
Did you make this yourself? Well done!
Trickster00 (27 days ago)
I am serious about what i will tell you. You can literally make a song with the way this comment was written . Good luck 🍀
KirkeGaming (1 month ago)
24 Virgin here
Lil Notoriginal (1 month ago)
everyone braging about being 20+ and virgin😂😂😂
Ayşegül Şafak (1 month ago)
wow, mrs. alpha man!
46 year old virgin here, and I never kissed a girl either. You virgin gentlemen will get to a point where it wont matter anymore
the knight (1 month ago)
You are strong man
Kape Skies (1 month ago)
im 13 and im not a virgin and me and my girl been dating for 8 months and i lost it 3 days ago and i think it was the right choice
jake hagel (1 month ago)
it's a bit sad but no one really looses their virginity to some one they really care about.
Otto Vuorio (1 month ago)
Being an adult virgin nowadays is like pretending not to be a jew while being around nazi's.
giorgi abesadze (1 month ago)
You got it fucking take it bitch
WILSON (1 month ago)
I wish I was a virgin. Females ruined my life....I also did the same
Chris Ordinola (1 month ago)
I lost my virginity at age 20! Don’t feel mad it comes naturally also don’t ever pressure the girl or woman to have sex with you. If you do failure is certain. It comes naturally when you’re dating someone. If you’re just out looking for some action good luck! Have a lot of confidence in you’re self in who you are moms raised a soldier not a bitch!!! Good luck to you the virgins.
x RaSoR (1 month ago)
im 19 and lost my virginity with 17 and im proud of it!
Zafir Uzoma (1 month ago)
Nobody dies a virgin, life fucks us all
Tntpker (29 days ago)
eyy only real one here LOL
Frederik Olivier (1 month ago)
I lost mine at 17😁😂
Charlie Thurston (1 month ago)
Lost my virginity at 15 to a whore
plato (1 month ago)
Now THIS IS a true alpha.
Riley de Amaru (1 month ago)
What kind of retard thinks like this...
Gaming Monkey (1 month ago)
There are two answers people give when you ask if they’ve had sex. A. “Yes” B. “Can’t be saying that now”
Kyle Noe (1 month ago)
I was 19 when I lost my v card.
Suomalainen Varis (1 month ago)
If I could just squander no single thought nor let me be disturbed by such a thing, I wouldn't even care if I die as a virgin. Rather, I'd be focusing more on other aspects of my life. Any tips on how to be OK with being a virgin?
Jan Fricke (1 month ago)
I am 14 and still virgin and I am not joking. All my friends already lost it and I really would like to lose it till 15 .
Spirit Song (1 month ago)
Eat Shiit (1 month ago)
im a 29 year old virgin
David Lamont (1 month ago)
I'm a 13 year old en am no a virgin no joke
Jonas Mosgaard (1 month ago)
When it happens, it happens. No need to rush it.
The Rooster (1 month ago)
I never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl or sex I have a lot of chicks at high school wanting to fuck me and even touching me and shit but I guess I’m waiting for the right women. Good things happen when you take things slow.
my play peter (1 month ago)
12 I saw 8 and 10 years old banging damn I'm still looking for my girl lol
Ajdin Adams (1 month ago)
_Alpha is better father than my biological father._ This is the topic that no one in my family talked with me about in my puberty. *_Thank you Alpha!_*
D 6 (1 month ago)
everyone is talking about how old they are and never had a gf... I'm 11 and i already have an ex
Ayush Kumar (1 month ago)
I'm also virgin till now
kicking every Thang (1 month ago)
Thank you ☺️ I now don’t worry about it now and will tell my friends the truth of who I am and what I’m about and that these females most of them don’t deserve my seed :) thank you man I felt ashamed a bit and now I don’t thank you so MUCH 🙏🏼
Brayan Maldonado (1 month ago)
one dolla snake (1 month ago)
Moldy no
LiquidGamingChannel (1 month ago)
Back then, children think about how to negotiate to their "enemies" so that they could play together. But many children now think about how to get laid.
RosPat (1 month ago)
What’s a virginity
Legiontd Legiontd (1 month ago)
For me sex is kind of meh.
M Tomo (1 month ago)
Whatever happened to CHASTITY
Michlep (1 month ago)
lmao, I was literally about to do what you did. I was thinking about messaging that girl that I really dont fancy and I know i would bang bang. But i wont. cheers boi
Fujtajblus (1 month ago)
I dont care about it really... what concerns me is that I keep running into chicks who just want to hook up or have a short term relationship or fuck on a first date if I do not want to do that... If I do not show them in some way that I want my dick inside them (preferably in first 15 minutes), they just ghost me. Like.. I have things I need to work on.. my "women skills" are not that sharp lately, but still.
Pissed Off Billie (1 month ago)
I honestly plan to be ‘The Forty Year Old Virgin.’
M A (20 days ago)

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