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How To Deal With Social Anxiety | 5 Tips To Overcome Anxiety

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Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://aaronmarino.com/confidence-course Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services: http://www.aaronmarino.com Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com and http://www.aaronmarino.com, discusses 5 tips to overcome social anxiety. Social anxiety is something that can be beaten if you take action and control of the situation. You deserve to be happy and experience great times with good people. This video will help you deal with social anxiety and provides some helpful tips to overcome anxiety. Do you get nervous and a little self conscious when you walk into a room of people you don't know? Butterflies and anxiety are normal when getting up and giving a speech in front of people. Social anxiety is beyond that-- it's an absolute fear. It's so strong that it prevents you from going places and doing things. It's limiting happiness and the ability to socialize. Social Anxiety Triggers Aaron Marino of alpha m. says social anxiety an irrational fear of embarrassing yourself or getting intensely scrutinized. Alpha covers triggers: meeting new people, being the center of attention, making small talk, public speaking, being called out in class, eating in public, going out on a date, using a public bathroom. Do You Have Social Anxiety? Warning signs are stressing and being anxious about doing everyday things; worrying for weeks before an event; feeling that you constantly being judged or picked apart. Behavioral symptoms are deciding not to go to attend an event, bringing along a friend, standing in the background, or drinking before going to an event. If you have more fear than fun, take the steps to get your social anxiety in check. Getting Social Anxiety Under Control 1.Challenge your own negative thoughts. 2.Learn to control your breathing. 3.Face your fear. 4.Seek professional help such as a therapist. 5.Medication.
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Ghanashyam Sharma (19 hours ago)
Great
The Flaming Bullet (1 day ago)
I literally have no friends since year 5 because of social anxiety
Michael Butler (1 day ago)
I hear that taking a improv acting class helps with social anxiety. Does anyone else know anything about that? If it help I would give it a try!
Jozmy Costa (1 day ago)
Lol
Paulius Talaišis (1 day ago)
i tried control my breathe in public wc and now peoples think im really sick
Lovey Gerse (2 days ago)
My social anxiety makes me scared of my own family. I wait for them to leave the kitchen, to cook my own food, and they get mad at me for cooking late then I start to break down and hate my life ...
Chewy 79 (2 days ago)
I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have social anxiety.
Ye, ik theres great things out there but I can't go out for my anxiety, soo.... knowing that, only makes me more anxious :D
*iS iT mE?¿*
Lerzoos Lercoos (5 days ago)
Therapist are fake they won't help u if u don't pay I understand I have to pay but when I'm saying that is fake is because they won't help if u don't pay
Jonathan Miller (5 days ago)
Yeah. Dude, I agree w/ everything that you're saying. I try so hard to overcome this that I have to push and force myself just to face my fear but for me, this is actually not social anxiety. It's because I'm autistic, have Autism and also have P.T.S.D., etc. that I may never get treated for and recover from.
martin pikart (5 days ago)
Yesterday I blacked out in front of the whole class.... I didn't even feel nervous... It never happened to me before like that. Sometimes I felt like I was going to pass out but I always stood my ground and made it through..... This time not.... Now my arm hurts.... F**k:)
Mohannad Salti (5 days ago)
Note: If you are naturally social anxious(Because it is mostly genetic) and you were able to overcome in some way, you need to keep doing the mental and behavioral activities that made you confident or else you will revert back to the way you were.
KingJF85 (6 days ago)
My social anxiety started at the beginning of year 9 (9th grade for those Americans) because my voice started to break. Every time I read out in class my voice would go squeaky and loud and it felt terrible and this one prick started laughing and made a lot of the class laugh and kept doing it each time I read and I got really shy and then developed into social anxiety (btw this happened 2 years ago). Before this I could confidently raise my hand in class to answer questions and read out loud but now it's just not the same. In year 7 I would socialize with the popular kids but now I can't and always talk to the unpopular kids who have the same problem as me. I want to go into teaching but my anxiety will kill me.
Sammy Jayne (6 days ago)
thank you for calling me gentleman, gentleman.
Clash Smchitcle (7 days ago)
Im a fucking loser who shouldnt be, i hate that i can be so much more but i will always hold myself back
RL Supernova (7 days ago)
Is it just me or i can't even stand comfortably around people, I keep changing poses/positions
Liz Valenzuela (7 days ago)
👍👍👍😘😘😘😘😘
Roman Coinberg (9 days ago)
You know the topic is serious when he doesn't throw out sponsors
Barbara Blinn (9 days ago)
Hi
Soring Angel (9 days ago)
It's so hard to have a crush when I'm struggling with social anxiety. I feel like he hates me and when he looks at me, i feel like he judging me. It keeps me up at night just worrying about it. 😭🙁
Cruel Delta (6 days ago)
It is normal to feel that way when you have a crush. I had same thoughts back when I had a crush. Just try to be friendly with him and talk to him when you think its appropriate. I don’t think there is any reason for him to hate you. Best of luck!
5555 6969 (11 days ago)
This is good stuff.
Hello Boy (12 days ago)
Judge me come on try it.... With this attitude I reduced the thought 'what others will think' to almost negligible, now I have mindset meeting new people that the other one is shy and then talk comfortably. Don't judge (or do it come on) but I was a awkward shy boy back in school but now I'm in college and it doesn't feel the same like it was in school. Walking and thinking what others are thinking. Now I laugh that what an awkward idiot I was.
Gacha Husky (13 days ago)
I sweat so much whenever I talk to someone that I don't feel comfortable with
XxChopHeadIx Xx (13 days ago)
Social anxiety made me shave my eyebrows off
Regan Peters (14 days ago)
I have serious social anxiety bc I always think ppl r making fun of me but these tips actually helped a lot and I appreciate this man for his advice he helped me get over my fears thank u
Jack Galloway (14 days ago)
I'm starting boxing tommorow and in really nervous
Gaiden Shinji (10 days ago)
Hey i've tought about that too, tell us how it goes...
komix !! (14 days ago)
*gudging intensified*
genius kid (14 days ago)
You look pretty young in this vid
Spartacus Sparte (15 days ago)
Even writing a comment on ytb is a challenge for me
AshW (15 days ago)
1) No people are actually harsh in real life and are constantly judging by you. I've already been rejected by some guys because of this and social anxiety. I get social anxiety because of 1). 2) And I am not fat, ugly, stupid, or in unreasonable amounts of debt.
sal (15 days ago)
I’m scared for my own birthday but everyone’s pressuring me for this big party
Nirvan Naik (16 days ago)
I am so shy that people I know I hesitate and enable to talk and talk very less in public and I think I have social anxiety.
siva suriya (16 days ago)
After i see you buddy in thumbnail for this topic...my mind believes 100% i don't know why! I get anxious when it comes to count money! Coz I'm not good at math.but some how trying to fix myself😊
Typical naps (17 days ago)
Thinking about being all awkward in large crowds makes me literally burst into tears but at this point idk if it’s social anxiety or just regular anxiety
Alex Ignacio (17 days ago)
After years of watching Alpha M. Content, I still don't know what's in his eye
dylxn- Fortnite (14 days ago)
And you haven't learned that it's a birthmark?
Of course not (17 days ago)
I just want to be myself again, I would take that over 2 billion dollars
Bone Lord (18 days ago)
goin to prom and the first party of my life tm fuck it
RedRed plays (19 days ago)
So I live in Philippine I was depressed and I stayed at home for 2 years, all those loneliness made me feel very anxious of people around me and my cousin's bf started a telling our family that I'm gay because I'm antisocial I mean that's fucked up and that got very angry and also self conscious I hate that they think I'm gay just because I'm antisocial
Callum Black (20 days ago)
I’ve always been extremely shy and quiet, but my worse time was when I had to speak in front of the whole school and I couldn’t breath and ending up fainting and it was so embarrassing the next day😫😪
Cxitz (20 days ago)
Yep I have social anxiety, I have an bf and I want to be confident to go to him and say hey, but I’m scared of getting judged because of my voice and when I get invited to places and I say nope. My bf invited me to eat out with him and my brain is telling me stuff but I’m gonna ignore it
Mustafa Sheikh (21 days ago)
even watching this video is making me anxious. because someone is talking to me hahah
That Guy (23 days ago)
Man you should be a life coach
saarthak dalal (23 days ago)
Today I stammered while talking to my friend's parents.I accidently gave them the wrong information
Elizabeth Murphy (24 days ago)
Anxiety fucking sucks!! While everyone’s getting ready for prom tonight , I’m sitting in my house trying to be supportive. As much as I want to go and buy the dress, do the makeup, get my hair done, my anxiety and depression tell me I don’t want to go. It makes me feel anxious for the people going to prom, like how are they not nervous!?!
Bobert 547 (25 days ago)
At school im fairly quiet and dont talk to too many people. If im at home or in public im talkative and goofy. Idk what it is about school. I just cant make friends.
Freya Catherine (26 days ago)
I’m going out on Saturday with new people and I’m soo anxious I never socialise ever I never go out and I always sit at home doing nothing by myself . Wish my luck I’m so nervous 🤮😕💜 I will update the next day
Your right. (27 days ago)
Im an introvert, im very shy and quiet bcoz of that i dont make friends in highshool. Im a loner, I always feel out of place at school they think im a weirdo, im such a pushover they always bully me making fun of me, embarrassing me infront of the whole class. I lost all my confidence to talk to anybody. I just wanna die already but i cant even hurt myself.. Pls giv me advice , im going college this year.. Pls help
dudewheresmycar47 (28 days ago)
I’m going out and face this world. It feels very uncomfortable. But I still keep pressing on.
Abhayan P.s (27 days ago)
Good luck bro
Marieke (28 days ago)
I always think if someone walks by, walking in the front of me or i see someone sit on a bench that i have to walk by. That they gonna attack me or somethin. Or interact with me. Am i dumb or wtf do u have that please let me know
Makeela Conley (28 days ago)
I worry so much about what others think about me and it's time to stop. I've been lied on gossiped about scrutinized teased and spoken unkindly words about and it sucks. God is my vindicator and he knows my heart. I will move forward with confidence now matter what. I must believe in myself
Mia Treadwell (28 days ago)
Things no one knows about me: I’m not actually that introverted, I like going out and having fun with my friends I’m just way to scared to I actually don’t mind sport and I like to join in but I act like I absolutely hate it and act terrible at it so I won’t be pressured to make mistakes and so I don’t get any attention and I don’t want to try bc I have this weird thought that people are going to think on it and judge me for going from terrible to bad but actually joining in or people cheering me on I absolutely love acting I’m just way to scared to in front of anyone I’m to scared of go anywhere without a friend even with a friend I’m still scared, I can’t even go across the school library and borrow a book even in the mornings
Fanta Master (29 days ago)
I even have a hard time leaving my house, it's gotten that bad.
Marieke (28 days ago)
Same
Hasan Surmovi (29 days ago)
i m scared to walk in public, the reason is i m 21yr 5ft tall people stare at me..
Abhayan P.s (27 days ago)
Same here bro...
Akira Roman (29 days ago)
I am scared of seeing my friends in public.
Abhayan P.s (27 days ago)
I don't even have friends :(
knihxman (29 days ago)
At this point Having social anxiety actually makes me want to face the fear. Only reason I’m going to college and afterwards I’m moving to a place near the beach so I can constantly try getting out of my comfort zone
Quinton Henry (1 month ago)
I think it's time i should go see a therapist. This has been eaten me since my teen years and I'm only 24
Mr. Ripper (1 month ago)
Quinton Henry . A therapist wont make u more socialize, u just gotta get up and talk to people
Izzy williams (1 month ago)
I have social anxiety not to extreme but I have work experience and I was meant to go with my friend but she couldn’t and now I have to go to a place I don’t know and people i don’t know on my own and I’m REALLY anxious and I want to quit I keep playing over and over in my mind but I’m not allowed to quit and I need help my family just say stop being lazy (because I don’t go out a lot) and it’s all in your head and I need advice.
Jane Smith (1 month ago)
More like bad times and evil people. People are nasty therefor I feel uncomfortable around them.
Macus Alexander Liew (1 month ago)
I have this social anxiety before, but right now I'm working on it. I'll just keep in mind that we're all going to die anyway so why let these fears and insecurities prevent me from doing things that I wanna do?
dpolww dw (1 month ago)
went to a party gathering today aunt called to sit n talk around straight up 5 people looking at you i wanted to die right there
Polly 2801 (1 month ago)
Start of the video: 3:20
DarkAdrielm (1 month ago)
I have exteme social anxiety to the point i want to die. I can't go apply for a job i cant go to school everyday. I hate how i am.
KingOfPentacles97 (1 month ago)
Ppl dont. Let ppl put u down, why would u give them the power to do that to you, is it enjoyable ? It gets better ! If you have dreams why would you sabotage ur hapiness because of the guy that walks by in the cafeteria that actually doesnt give a fuck at all about you
ur mum (1 month ago)
I think I have social anxiety, I keep telling myself I don’t, but I get anxious around my own family, I hate this feeling
Zola Animates (1 month ago)
well idk do i have social anxiety most of the time the peoplr i know for a long time i can talk comfortably but with people idk or known but not to long im afraid of talking to them im afarid of being judge ,especially boys girls too but mostly boys....
Stephanie Booth (1 month ago)
the fear is unreal sometimes. Its quite challenging to keep a conversation but also be focusing on what everyone else is saying aswell.
Jayvier Brock (1 month ago)
That's why I'm a virgin 😔
Freya Catherine (26 days ago)
Jayvier Brock I’ve never talked to a boy properly and I’m 15 .
Taylor Green (1 month ago)
Quiet people have the loudest minds
PrimeTime BX,NY (1 month ago)
I think this happens if you've been judged, made fun of, bullied in the past or u weren't a crowd type of person as a kid
PrimeTime BX,NY (1 month ago)
Sometimes I don't want to go outside because of my social anxiety
Dr. Somil (1 month ago)
Try going to the store and just asking the cashier how their day is going. Will give you practice
nice guy34 nice guy34 (1 month ago)
Dam dude that's me 6 year and counting sucks
seb aye (1 month ago)
#6- suicide
SimoPS4 (1 month ago)
90% of this matches up to how I feel daily
ImBoReD (1 month ago)
I feel awkward just being myself 😐 I constantly feel like people are always staring at me no matter where I go. If someone looks at me I usually give them the death stare but it's not that I hate them.... it's just that I feel like their judging me without even knowing who I am, not to mention I find it really hard to trust anyone these days. I don't really like making conversation not only because I feel depressed, but I'm just bored by what people have to say and I no longer feel enthusiastic about shit. I feel like my entire existance is just a big waste of time.
Chris McLean (1 month ago)
I remember this one story from when I was in 4th grade… So I go to this French class for an hour everyday at that school, I SUCK at French so I just used Google Translate, I was satisfied with myself on the day of our presentations and felt prepared! When it was my time to share I began and my French teacher stopped me and began telling me in front of the class that she knew I used Google translate, and she began turning that into a lesson to teach to the class, I was standing there trying to hold back my tears (I was 10) she noticed some tears falling from my eyes and this is how it went... T=teacher M=Me T- “Are you crying” M- “N-no I’m fine” T- “No I think your crying” M- “No no I’m fine” T- “Oh I didn’t mean to make you cry” M- “oh oh hehe it’s fine I’m fine!” Yeah, she said this loud and clear in front of the whole class! After she sent me to the bathroom to wash my face and I sat in a stall crying, she kept meeting with me saying stuff like, “oh I’m so sorry if I embarrassed you”. I never forgot that moment, I felt guilty, I felt anger, I felt embarrassment, and I felt like running home and sitting in my bed and eating junk food. That’s all I do, I’m just a worthless idiot who cancels plans with friends and does that.
32mace (1 month ago)
I wanted to say something but i started crying
32mace (1 month ago)
Everytime i think about socialising i start crying
Divesh Bisht (1 month ago)
Reading every one comments helps me alot to feel good....after dealing with this fu**ing anxiety...it s like oh atleast i m not alone... 😢👍👍😊
Technical Broma (1 month ago)
I'll try to improve myself about it. Thank you for uploading such videos. 👌
Marie Hélène Damiano (1 month ago)
One thing that i’ve noticed that has helped me is that no one gives a shit about what you do.Even if you embarrass yourself the other person’s life goes on and they’ll forget about it in at the MOST a week.They don’t watch your every move either.Even if it isn’t the best thing to do another thing that helps is dressing well and convincing yourself that you’re better than everyone else.After a bit of doing that you’ll start to feel better and you can be yourself.
Nihaal Sandim (1 month ago)
My sister is soo good at socializing and im the complete opposite people love her even though she hasnt done anything commendable while im a constant trophy winner and have great achievements compared to my sister besides my mom no one gives a shit and always just comcers themselves with my sister i really envy her
abzfab channel (1 month ago)
I feel like I got social anxiety I don't go out so much
abzfab channel (1 month ago)
I'm scared to have a panic attack I suffer with elepesy phosgenic sezuries cerly parsley left side
Aatma Khatma (1 month ago)
I just blurt out something else when actually talking about something else and i am clumsy and....
Hayden rodgers (1 month ago)
I have anxiety to the point I can’t cross a road if a car is there because I don’t want the person in the car to stare at me , I can’t speak in front of people higher than 6 I also can’t even phone someone sometimes because I feel awkward I just feel like I’m getting judged 24/7 I try not to care but can’t help
M.S. CREATIONS (1 month ago)
When I go for buy something in the market, people stare me i become nervous 😣😣
wetwilly (1 month ago)
I had social anxiety extremely bad in high school. I was going to drop out because i had to give a speech. I have faced my fear and it does help alot.This video has very good information. good Job!!
Johnny Wilkman (1 month ago)
I have severe social anxiety bc of dark circles
Monztuh Angel (1 month ago)
I was going to get some breakfast tacos from Stripes but halfway there bailed and settled for a McDonald's drive thru fml. I was confident before I left the house then failed
Orbit Bolt (1 month ago)
So this girl invited me to her house and I have never really communicated with her parents and like an hour ago I started freaking out and she was on FaceTime with me and I just was so stressed out but this video really helped me I am going to follow tips 1-3 thank you!
perro casi lobo (1 month ago)
I hate it because i blush alot, so everyone knows im nervous and laugh at me, they might think its no biggie but it is to me.
GlaceonGirl (1 month ago)
I have anxiety when I need to ask certain teachers questions, not because they’re scary or anything, but I don’t want to approach them.
Kodoneru (1 month ago)
I’m sure a lot of 14 year old kids watch this
MadGaMeRz (1 month ago)
Guawn Guawn
Misbahuddin Syed (1 month ago)
Anyone in 2019!
Tammie Wong (1 month ago)
Thank you!
SuR K (1 month ago)
first time relating this much to a comment section on a video.
soyboy (1 month ago)
If I see someone walking the opposite direction towards me...I cross the road to avoid eye contact
Geralb Aliu (1 month ago)
I dont know man you made me cry 😢 everything yoi said is related to me you changed my life you made a another person
Nelvin John John (1 month ago)
People think IAM an ediot and it makes my anxiety worse.

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