My Ex Called Me Drunk
More and more people are derailed or confused in their breakup recovery because of an ex calling them intoxicated and acting completely different than they have been when for the past few days, weeks or even months after a breakup.
So many people that we coach have been reaching out to us saying something along the lines of “ my ex called me drunk and said they loved me what should I do?” In can be a tricky situation to handle because on the one end you feel good about finally getting some positive emotions from your ex significant other but at the same time you don’t want to put too much stock late nights drunk calls.
That’s why we felt that this video was relevant, it can provide you with context to ensure that you don’t get manipulated or blamed for your exes behavior…and potentially regain the upper hand in the process.
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my ex did this last night, i didnt answer because my phone was on silent , but this is a pattern that she seems to be stuck in , even the first time she dumped me (second time now) she did the same things. she called me like 5 times at 3 in the morning, left me 2 voice males and like 6 texts telling me to come get her, when i asked her what was going on in the morning, she acted like it was an accident and didnt mean to call me , lol wtf
My ex drunk called me, I ignored 4 times. Then said 'ok then'. Then said 'it's important' like 10 minutes later. I answered when I was called again because of this. Yet, nothing was said. It was another 'hi how are you, wuu2'. LITERALLY.
What should I do? I told them to not call again. I want to get back together ideally, but over time I am leaning towards not getting back together. It's not the first time this has happened either exactly a week of of no contact and since breakup. I've had 3 calls, I answered the first 2. But ignored this batch, and calls it 'important' just to get me to answer... for real. The second call was pretty hurtful and selfish, so I cut off this third one short too.
Coaches he all on point about everything you guys are saying when he's drunk he reached out to me I didn't listen now we're going through this breakup or so-called called Break Up Now I drunk dialed him curse him out on his girlfriend at the time now I feel stupid and Ludacris wake up the next morning saying what I did I that down my guard and I would like to reach out to you guys privately but I don't know how is it Anyway I get inbox you just getting into the YouTube channel
Can you tell what does it mean when my ex make contact me & after 2 days there's no sign of contact & then again contact me through 3 different communication mean..?? & She contact & tires to meet my best friends..??
Hello there.... I really need your help with my situation.
So me and my ex girlfriend broke up 2 months ago and from that day onwards, I've been continuously begging and pleading her to come back(even though I knew it was wrong) and I failed every time. Actually, I started no contact a month ago and in a weeks time, my ex broke down and came to talk and I also know that she always cried in school as she missed me. I gave her a love letter and she was quite excited and wanted to surprise me on the 31st of December by proposing me!(yea i came to know). But idk what happened.... A week ago she told me that she was gaining interest and wanted to come back but again lost her interest. I tried convincing her even today but it didn't work. She said that she is happy that I've changed (cuz i used to get angry and fight with her a lot) but she doesn't want to be in a relationship..... But she wants to be friends because she shares everything with me. I've started no contact today after that moment by telling her goodbye but i Don't think this situation is salvageable. Please help!
At this moment establishing a friendship is critical. In order to show your change, she can see this when you have a friendship and this will possibly change her mind.
Hello Nat and Adrian, i’ve been watching your video constantly, i look up to you thank you for sharing your knowledge!. November 26th my boyfriend of 11 months (of living together and he asked me to marry him) told me it was better if we took a break. It had been a tough few month because he was overly stressed with work, his cousin died of cancer and his father had to go through surgery. My father also had a bad accident and I was struggling finding “my perfect job” (i’m a doctor, he’s a project manager engeneer). I saw him getting further and further away from me and I became so insecure I became needy and a crybaby. He told me it was better for now if I went back to my parents’ and we took a break, that he couldn’t say he doesn’t love me and he will wait for me, but I need to be independent and realize I don’t need him to be happy “because he could die under a bus tomorrow and i wouldn’t know what to do”.he thinks I was too sad when he was away all september and october in serbia for work and he felt guilty I was always there home waiting for him to come home. I worked hard those months but he wasn’t there to see. I think my heart broke. The next days I only replied to his few texts and for three weeks we didn’t contact eachother at all. Of course on christmas eve (our first anniversary) he sent me a text at 8 pm where he says he thinks about me a lot, he wishes the things had gone differently and merry christmas. I debated whether or not reply, at 1 am i responded “best wishes to you and your beautiful family!” And i got a “how are you? I have to give you back a lot of your stuff” “like what?” “Like presents and things you forgot” “sure, as you wish” “if you’d like we could meet tomorrow or the day after tomorrow or in january when i come back from my new years eve trip”. I almost passed out, cried all night and never replied. I felt like he wanted me out of his life forever and as quick as possible. The next day I thought it could be an easy way to see me without exposing himself too much but I didn’t feel ready to meet him, i would have crushed in front of him and didn’t feel like i had that much of a change to offer. So I didn’t reply. These days three of the best plastic surgery clinics i applied for in Milan called me back saying they want me working there, i went back to the gym with the goal of learning how to run and started a spanish course (he’s half spanish, but not entirely for that reason). I came closer with old friends. I began loving myself again. But there’s this empty spot right in the middle of my heart. What should I do next? What’s the plan?
Excuse my English, i’m Italian and pretty emotional right now.
Spending time with yourself for personal development is important with getting in tune with your emotions. Also, being social and keeping busy is key. Remember to stay positive and confident. You know what you deserve and never settle for anything less.
In 2016 I had in a long distance relationship for a few months, I try to recover her for 6 months without good advice for my ex coach, now she dont want talk to me because we havent a relationship anymore. And she love her ex, but she single now. What can I do? I think we have a future with a good things. Please,help. I dont want move on.
I have one question.
I talked to my ex on Sunday. I was kinda surprised that she was really open to me. she told me everything was going on in her life. when I didn't ask about it. she it's struggling and going trough hard times. should I tell her that I'm there for her. should I talk to her and comfort her? she was crying. i feel she was telling me this so i understand her and be there for her?? what should I do? how do I attract her without making look like a friend. I want to make her feel good around me and feel the spark.
Hi coach Adrian I listen to every video that you guys post, I wanted to ask you if you would make a video on "my girlfriend came over to my house drunk and we had sex on Christmas Day" when I was on no contact. My ex-girlfriend is so confusing I don't know what to do she ignores my text messages but yet reaches out to me when she wants or stop by the house to check on me what do I do?
Thanks a lot for your efforts ❤
But should I show my ex that I am still interested about him without saying it or just pretend that I am not at all? Knowing that the no contact period worked so well and we are friends now and our friendship is so good but he is dating someone else.
It's since 3 months that we rebuilt our friendship. Sometimes I catch him looking at me in class, he makes jokes and try to make me laugh me, he asks me about my life and my interests, he doesn't show any resistance if i touch him... And I am sure that he noticed my change. So yeah there are so many signs show that he still care about me but maybe he thinks that I moved on and forgot about him. What do you think coach? What should I do exactly?
I’ve been watching you guys for a few months now and you gave me so much hope that things would have gotten better. Unfortunately my ex has another gf and now they are having a baby. How do you get past news like this..
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