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Relationship Video: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/relationship-advice-what-we-can-learn-from-young-love-and-relationships/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com Favorite Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com My Services: http://www.aaronmarino.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming and relationship expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com , offers some relationship advice to a young viewer. As adults, we can learn a lot from young love and relationships, but you are probably not going to like what Aaron Marino of alpha m. has to say. When it comes to relationship advice, it's much easier for those who are not involved or emotionally connected to a relationship or situation to give a better perspective and solid advice. When our heart is attached, you tend to rationalize things when your head knows better. Crazy usually trumps hot in the end. Jacob (16 year old) sent an email to Alpha about a month ago about his 2-year relationship. Recently, the relationship turned long distance. She started making new friends who are male. Apparently, her new *friends* get angry when they mention Jacob, which she tells Jacob. Her friends say that she and Jacob won't last. She asks how he feels when he hears that. Of course, he gets upset but tries to remain cool. He has every right to be pissed off as it's a natural emotion. His girl is starting to try to play him like a fool. He has many factors playing against him: They are both young. They live far away from each other. She is telling him about her male friends. Trust issues are already starting to come up. The road will be tough he continues to try to have a relationship with her. You have decide what you want to deal with or not. A month later, Jacob sent a follow-up email asking how to break-up with her without hurting her. Alpha advised for him to be a man, call her, wish her well, and be up-front with her. Adults can learn from this situation. You have to decide what you're willing to put up with. Draw that line. If that line is crossed, you have to be willing to walk away. It's about respect and your own self preservation and dignity. We teach others how to treat us, which goes for your friends, co-workers, parents / family, and the person that you end up in a relationship with. You have to be selfish and understand / acknowledge what you deserve and willing to put up with. So many times, we get into relationships and stagnate. We allow people to treat us poorly. A relationship has to be cultivated and nurtured by honest communication. It starts with being honest with yourself. You have to try in the relationship. Communication is key! You have to be willing to communicate and be open and honest. Relationships take work. The grass is greenest where you water it and put your attention / focus. If you are committed, make it happen by doing everything in your power. BUT both people have to be invested as it's a two way street!
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Text Comments (72)
Ferricity AMV (5 months ago)
Hey Alpha , How's your relationship
(input name) (7 months ago)
I'm a GOD fearing black single woman and I MUST say YES...it is attractive when a man won't tolerate obvious mess. She's not all together bad YET...but she's getting restless and she'd about to take homeboy on a ride he won't enjoy. Spoken like a true alpha male I applaud this advice (minus any sin...low data can't see the clip) lol
Badass Productions (10 months ago)
Thank you so much Alpha cause I got in a relationship with Someone 2 years younger. We hardly had any problems except for the fact that she would have to run away to meet me. I wasn't really into that because of the distance we were away from each other. Other than that I treated her good. Now all of a sudden she has feelings for her ex and asked for a break cause she still has feelings for me. But now I'm sure about how to end it without hurting her because of how insecure she is and the fact that she hasn't used me like girls before
Edgardo Guardado (11 months ago)
Can you do one for long distance relationship
Lantilun G (11 months ago)
Hey Alpha male can you survive without "link down below"
Altairxx Human (1 year ago)
He is right! Thats bullshit!
Rodney Shaw (1 year ago)
the sides on his hair look shit in this lol
The Terrible Twosome (1 year ago)
I really like the kid who is new this year in my class. He's polite, and acts really nice to everyone. He's also friends with a jerk who tells me I'm ugly ( I'm the girl in my profile pic ) and that everyone hates me. Besides that, the guy I like sits directly next to my best friend and every time I look over there they are laughing and talking. I'm afraid he's interested in her, and vice versa but she won't admit it. What should I do?
Juan G (1 year ago)
There's this girl in my homeroom and I want to get to know her, but I'm to terrified to try. I recently found out she's taking two foreign languages (in other words, she's a go getter) and she's always nicely dressed and super polite, exactly my type. She's got a classy vibe to her and I love it, but I'm afraid to approach her because she's shown no interest in me and we've never really spoken, what should I do?
(input name) (7 months ago)
Hopefully she drops something or almost slips up and you catch her lol You need a miracle ...hope you said hi by now 😊
elizander3 (1 year ago)
Your a g bro
Raja Verma (1 year ago)
u really looks awesome alpha m.
Dominic Buchanan (2 years ago)
yo +alpha m can you do a video on clinginess/neediness?
Sanj (2 years ago)
i like this channel and RMRS.
AmcOzSkyLine (2 years ago)
Where I can contact you alpha, I want to hear your opinion and you to give me a piece of advice for an unusual relationship question
Tom Parry (2 years ago)
He reminds me of Jacob from Crazy Stupid Love. The scene where he takes Cal shopping is like taking Billy shopping.
Jesse Parker (2 years ago)
I got one good question for you Alpha M. if I have friends that are on my Facebook as in 3 of them, that I never seen in person, is it still worth messaging these people sometimes to see how they are doing? one of them lives 20 mins away, another lives a long wase away, and another lives very far away but we text, call, and sometimes video chat. but nothing has been in person yet. I never got into people and relationships and friendships over social media, so I'm finally feeling like myself again. Does this make sense?
f!tness booster (2 years ago)
alpha I love your work but there is a tough problem how to win an argument with girlfriend after break up how to solve and win arguments with girlfriend ..
Raian M (2 years ago)
alpha we love you keep up the good work and make more relationship videos
sagar khawas (2 years ago)
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Ronan7G 5G7G (2 years ago)
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Tou.Long.Vwj (2 years ago)
TheillogicalParadox (2 years ago)
Did I really just hear: "Butterflies and BJs?" DAMN- Alpha ain't raising no fools, huh?
April Storm (2 years ago)
Gee just get to it..lol
JP Alpharo (2 years ago)
Thank you for keeping it real Alpha
Hotshot gamer (3 years ago)
so I'm 12 in high School I just got a girl frend she was from my primary and I wanna kiss her and treat her is this wrong and what gift shall i get her I need help ; )
DeAndre Oglesby (2 years ago)
Hotshot gamer You're young, so don't rush things. Take it slow
Hotshot gamer (2 years ago)
+Just_a_guy So_yeah in England kids join high School when there 11 and 12
Kavrin Jeselin (3 years ago)
can you give an advice how to deal with my girl if i have a fight with her....
Diego87 (2 years ago)
Kavrin Jeselin sorry man if that was rather blunt of me... how's it going with your gf? You guys make up or are you guys still mad at each other?
Kavrin Jeselin (2 years ago)
hahaha that make me speacless...
Diego87 (2 years ago)
Kavrin Jeselin depends on what started the fight or who started the fight..
sbnz0rr (3 years ago)
ok, so when and why do you break rapport ( this is a new word for me )
EdwardFirewalker (3 years ago)
This video was posted on my birthday
Chase Chewning (3 years ago)
The grass is always greener wherever you water it... Damn man, solid point.
Bhavya Shandilya (2 years ago)
-Big Sean in as long as you love me.
Abhishek Sinha (4 years ago)
You are the best! Watching your videos makes me happy.. there is a rise of confidence in me.. thanks :)
365hifly (1 year ago)
It's just your penis
IONS LEGACY (2 years ago)
you're welcome ;)
usserr userr (4 years ago)
Nice videos man! I really do enjoy watching your channel. Cheers from Frank (Bucharest - Roumania).
Kurtis Matheson (4 years ago)
Liking these videos but honestly what is that thing in your left eye? I can't stop trying to figure out what it is
Giorgio T (4 years ago)
Nice v-neck what brand is it?
Bler Podrimaj (4 years ago)
The "slut" thing cracked me up. Awesome. Great work, Aaron.
Helltech (4 years ago)
Can someone please tell me what shirt he is wearing in this video? 
Raj Bhattacharjee (4 years ago)
i want your email id...plz....
Peps Georgieva (5 years ago)
Alpha, It's not always like, that  :/ I grew up with guys, my best friends are guys, and I attract guys when I meet new people, and I do have a boyfriend who is fine with it, he even likes them very much :) The problem is that there is no respect anymore in relationships, and making someone jealous , because you're uncertain is the dumbest thing you can do, and you definitely don't deserve the guy/girl.  But yeah, you definitely have to work hard everyday to have a green grass :)
Furever Bergkanp (5 years ago)
this dude is fucking hot lol.
Michael Weston (5 years ago)
Butterflies and blow jobs? One of those sounds awesome. Butterflies are pretty sweet!
1010Tj1010 (5 years ago)
You look like Legolas from the lord of the rings
Matthew Martinez (5 years ago)
Love your shirt alpha. Where'd you get it?
luilui yo (5 years ago)
Haha butterflies and bj's lol
prajwal rajith (5 years ago)
Terrence Gold (5 years ago)
To hell with em. My way or highway.
nikulauz (5 years ago)
Be a pig. Problem solved x)
Dirk Diggler (5 years ago)
Alpha M turned me gay.
Juan Walker (5 years ago)
+Halley Rai lol
Halley Rai (5 years ago)
hey he made you live with the truth!! embrace it. . . praise jesus
Butterflies and BJs should be a tshirt Lol
Ernie Ortiz (5 years ago)
Yess.... Go make it happen!!
James (5 years ago)
"Butterflies and BJ's"
Isaac Johnson (5 years ago)
Your content is helpful and hilarious at times so screw the negatives! Your pro status!
BlackMambaKO (5 years ago)
Relationship is not worth anything to me anymore. Because that is 24/7 job. Better to make me cash with that time and I will be happier :)
Ferricity AMV (5 months ago)
AmcOzSkyLine Haha but girls will be happy with it
ZygfrydJelenieRogi (2 years ago)
But a nice house will
AmcOzSkyLine (2 years ago)
Cash won't make you happier
ZygfrydJelenieRogi (4 years ago)
Sort of right. The reason to be in a relatioship isn't to cross out "being in relationship" from to-do list, it's because you want to be with a specific person so no reason to sweat it if you find no one. Better be happy on my own until it changes.
BlackMambaKO (5 years ago)
I don't know lol
2pac Shakour (5 years ago)
You know love is what we all neeeed, we are the world.
Cássio Azevedo (5 years ago)
"Butterflies and BJ's" hahahahahahahahaha gonna add this expression to my talk from now on!
sorankurdi (5 years ago)
first lol i know lame

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