Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://aaronmarino.com/confidence-course
Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1
Confidence: 10 Steps To Get YOURS! http://goo.gl/1tscvL
My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com
My Services: http://www.aaronmarino.com
Favorite Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com
Best Custom Shirts: http://www.moderntailor.com/?aurl=ihg65tie
In this video men's style, grooming and fitness expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com, talks about the difference between confidence and arrogance. Are you confident or arrogant? There is a big difference between the two.
Now, we talk a lot about confidence. If Aaron Marino had to sum-up what alpha m. is all about in one word, that one word would be confidence. Alpha's goal with these videos is to help men feel great about themselves. The better you feel about yourself, the more confident you become. The downside of developing and having confidence is that people can perceive confidence (personal positivity) as arrogance. But what is the difference?
Confidence is internal.
It's an unwavering belief in yourself and ability. You know you are good enough and smart enough, you know you are valuable, you feel super secure, and you don't have to prove anything to anybody. It doesn't mean that you are confident in every area and aspect of your life, however. There are things that you aren't great at and as a confident person, it's okay. You say 'bring it' to constructive criticism. You embrace, analyze it, and apply it to make yourself the best you can be.
Arrogance is external.
They are constantly trying to show and convince the world of their social worth and status by gloating, being a jerk, and putting other people down to lift themselves up. They run their big mouth, telling anyone who will listen how awesome they are and how you suck. A confident doesn't tell you how great he is or tear you down. He will lift you up and inspires others by their actions.
Sometimes ridding yourself of arrogant people may not be that easy if they are a family member, co-worker, or employer. Take them with a grain of salt, don't buy into it, and don't let them steal your joy or confidence. They are trying to make up for the fact that they are incredibly insecure.
Men lost their confidence as a whole.
Alpha does these videos because he sees men are hurting in this world. Men got lost along the way. Men lost their confidence as a whole. So when Alpha started alpha m., his goal from day 1 was to affect at least one person in a positive way. The deal is that he believes in each and every one of you and wants the best for you. These videos are a small way to show how much he does care.
You deserve to be happy and confident. And don't let anyone tell you otherwise or steal your joy. You are amazing. You need to know it and believe it for yourself.
As I see it, confidence stems from an inner sense of security, and arrogance stems from insecurity and fear. Confident people know that they are enough just as they are, but there is always room for improvement, and they are up for the task. Arrogant people believe that they are their achievements, possessions, abilities, status, etc., and derive their self worth from outer things and not from within. I have more than you, have accomplished more than you, belong in a higher income bracket than you, look better than you, so I am, obviously, better than you. Confident people know that this is not true. They don't play that game. What they have or have achieved doesn't define them, but they are constantly finding ways of improving themselves and their situations because they want to live happy lives and know that self-improvement increases their chances of that happening. Confident people lift up themselves, and others, with positivity, learning, facing new and sometimes difficult or uncomfortable scenarios, and faith in themselves and maybe also a higher power. Arrogant people bring others down by flaunting what they have, constant efforts at proving their superiority over others, and entitlement. Confident people can be humble, too, and acknowledge when they aren't the best in something, but it doesn't hurt their ego, because they are growing beyond that. Arrogant people can never be humble, because even when they are not the expert, they want to be on top of it all. Which means that it's far more pleasant to be around confident people than arrogant people. Confident people want to share their peace and comfort in who they are with others. Arrogant people, on the other hand, want something to lord over others so they can go on believing that they are the best. Confident people want and strive to be the best version of themselves. Arrogant people just want to be the best, and if that comes at the expense of others, it doesn't matter to them.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on confidence vs. arrogance. I appreciate your ideas and your channel!
It's so damn hard to pick up a girl if you're younger nowadays. Like the topic on arrogance and confidence is so far off of everyone's vocabulary that we spill arrogance automatically in today"s generation. I can't even stop talking about myself and my insecurities when I'm with my girl trying to ignore her every now and then. And gravity pulls me to the core of this planet.
Me:I'm the only idiot in my class
Also me: *your not the only one..* ( ͡°_ʖ ͡°)
Confidence:no you're not dude don't lie
(arrogance pretends to hear that)
42. And they swore by Allah their most binding oath, that if a warner came to them, they would be more guided than any of the nations (before them), yet when a warner (Muhammad ) came to them, it increased in them nothing but flight (from the truth),
43. (They took to flight because of their) arrogance in the land and their plotting of evil. But the evil plot encompasses only him who makes it. Then, can they expect anything (else), but the Sunnah (way of dealing) of the peoples of old? So no change will you find in Allah's Sunnah (way of dealing), and no turning off will you find in Allah's Sunnah (way of dealing). (Q.S. 35 :42-43)
Great video, it’s awesome to see you care so much. Keep up the great work Alpha!! Been watching your videos for about 2 months now, I really enjoy them. This is an awesome niche that I’m glad you capitalized on.
Personal experience that I'd like feedback on: (At a new job) I was called cocky indirectly by a client and source at work agreed. Sources assumption was made when I was asked to take a test on a basic procedure at work that I have been trained on, done thoroughly and have many years of experience doing via passed jobs. I asked to take the test without reviewing the basic information and scored a 94%. Since I asked to skip the basic information review and go straight to the test, source said I was cocky. FYI Source is above me hence my concern and the client I met with consistently touted titles, college institution, credentials etc. which I felt was a threat response from client about their importance or standing. Am I wrong to think that I'm competent and confident here?
Alpha you are awesome I started to follow you from 2 years still your tricks i m applying in my life I really!! i don't get bored . Every video a new concept for me. Great Job. And Thank You bro for helping Us!....
Yeah man. My father is an arrogant person I was arrogant person too, I grew up like that being arrogant and after I entered 11th grade it really hurts me because no one was interested in talking to me. I thought what's wrong with these people but at that time I didn't know. I slowly realized this was the issue. I wish I could have seen this video before my 11th grade. In my lower grades no body bothered everyone were friendly so I thought that was the kind of behavior to keep. I was wrong. Man, he discourages me Everytime but alpha says you are a confident person handsome in his other videos. Just to hear them I watch his videos. It feels like an empty world dude.
I needed to hear this video becuz my brother's wife is a bitch she called me arrogant for no reason when I respected her and treated her right as a sister in law. Your videos are epic and given me some great direction keep them coming 2019! ❤️🧡❤️💪🏽
A confident man should act like a tree , providing shelter to others .
He should boost confidence in others and make them happy contrary to the arrogant one who hurts others. You know a lot but not able to make others smile then you are the greatest loser.
A good video.
Yo, you have impacted me so much you don't know. But, you are the most important part of my life.. from like six months or something.. but you have changed my life in many ways in past five months. Way to go brother..
I’m constantly watching your video Aaron but this video here is truly gold. I enjoy watching videos when you express your self and emotions! it’s truly inspiring what you bring to these types a videos! I just want to thank you . Always looking for to my notifications letting me know Alpha is looking out for me lol !
Lots of years I worked with different people. Know them but today your true identity and tears of openess conveyed how nice person u r . Plz bring out new videos. U just earned urself a new subscriber ❤ 👌.
I’m often seemed as a cocky guy even though I’m a quiet person and don’t say much. I’ve literally sat in the back of the room during school taking notes and someone said I was cocky. Any suggestions on why I come off like this?
He just wanna help the world...He knows about the pain he went through and what we are going through and its a really great that you do make these videos.It really comes from his heart apart from teige hanley😋
Alpha you're great man
You know the do and don'ts and i know you wanna make the world a better place and i hope you do...
And god bless you man
You are doing great great work you are awesome man
The only downside is brains with an arrogant man. That's right arrogance is a killer and I would take a chair and Bash it over someone's head without any hesitation! The reason why is because they're the ones that treated people that have disabilities like trash and I don't forget about the preppies or the jocks! So fuck off and leave me alone! 🖕🤬🖕 That's right fuck you and take your confidence and shove it up ass bastard! After going to hell meet up with some demons and then they'll have fun with you, too! Just like you did to all the disabled people that you came across and the only thing is demon are twice your size hypocrite! 🖕🤬🖕 FUCK YOU and fuck your advice little shit! I bet you treat all the veterans like shit too who have lost their arm in combat you son of a bitch! Tell me have you ever risk someone else's life? As a kid I saved my sister after she fell five on concrete so really have you ever seen blood and had a family member break their jaw! You'll just have to relive your lifetime if you have it because dick heads always get what's coming to them in the end! 🖕🤬🖕
I would say an arrogant person goes one step further by being rude in ignoring others and keeping silent. They can make you feel as if you shouldn't exist or don't exist to them. It's like a silent killer. It's absolute poison. Thanks for being real.
I can't necessarily express the words across as to how grateful I am for you, but a sincere and deep appreciation for what you just shared with me is nearly immeasurable. God bless you man, and thank you.
I’m not arrogant I think I’m confident because I’m not sleeping with multiple people I don’t do drugs or over drink I make smarter decisions Than MOST people I know I think good of myself I don’t get embarrassed when I see a problem I get it done when I see someone sad I help them
Ahhhh I like this video Im proud of you, this video gave a huge emotion, and make me feel happy! Sometimes I feel lost with some arrogant people trying to do not let them make me feel uncomfortable like acting like I don’t care or not make them believes that its hurts but later on the day I thought about it. Why I attract arrogant people, May I do I guess that. Or is just part of ours lives, they just exist and they are so miserable and unhappy never satisfied or needy. Thanks
You are amazing Aaron, thank you,
you really help people with stuggles including me. In my point of view, people loose confidence because they lost the ability of interactions and connexions with others. It's more digitalised than in the real world. And when we begin to change back in the real world, we saw the results. And for example sport help to get that confidence, in the real world. So it's my point of view, add something if i'm wrong or you want to tell, thanks.
I really love your videos and I learned a lot from them. I am a very unconfident and humble person, and it really sucks. I want to change and I will listen to you and try to reestimate my abilities and become confident! Thank you man!
Alpha m. You have changed my life completely! A year ago, I was the ultimate Beta, but now I have improved myself, I became way more confident, of course I still need to work on some things but guess who motivated me? YOU! Thanks so much!
Looking for great value single parent holidays? SingleWithKids.co.uk is the largest UK provider of breaks for single parents with a wide range of destinations both in the UK and overseas. We also have a thriving single parent community! Whether you’re bereaved, divorced or simply single, we offer something for all – from fabulous breaks through to a supportive online forum & dating.
Single Parent Holidays.
As a single parent holidays can be a daunting prospect, it can be a lonely experience sitting alone whilst the kids play, feeling like a fish out of water amongst traditional families. Our breaks however are designed BY SINGLE PARENTS and FOR single parents. The biggest advantages over regular tour operators is that you’ll be enjoying your break in the company of other single parent families and with a group leader on hand to make your holiday run smoothly.
Holidays for All.
Whether you’re looking for luxury overseas holidays or prefer to spread your summer over a number of cheap weekend breaks, we’ve something for ALL TASTES AND BUDGETS. Enjoy a touch of luxury on our 4 star, all inclusive holiday in Portugal, find adventure in Lapland; alternatively If you like the great outdoors, you’ll love our camping and glamping breaks. Popular holiday resorts like Center Parcs are much more affordable and fun when in a group of other single parent families.
Fun and Friendship.
Whatever your choice of break and location, you won’t be alone on your holiday – our groups are designed to make sure there’s company for the kids, but fun and friendship for the adults too so that all return home with new friends and lots of fond memories. You won’t be sat alone while your children play, or feel like a gooseberry surrounded by traditional married families.
Our groups are always accompanied by a Single With Kids’ coordinator, with fun get togethers and itineraries, so you can simply sit back and relax (a rare event for lone parents!) Click here to see our great range of breaks, and the great thing is that if you choose to join our Rewards Club, you’ll save a massive 15% on all our holidays!