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Confident or Arrogant | Which One Are You?

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Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://aaronmarino.com/confidence-course Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 Confidence: 10 Steps To Get YOURS! http://goo.gl/1tscvL My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services: http://www.aaronmarino.com Favorite Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAmAlphaM Best Custom Shirts: http://www.moderntailor.com/?aurl=ihg65tie In this video men's style, grooming and fitness expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com, talks about the difference between confidence and arrogance. Are you confident or arrogant? There is a big difference between the two. Now, we talk a lot about confidence. If Aaron Marino had to sum-up what alpha m. is all about in one word, that one word would be confidence. Alpha's goal with these videos is to help men feel great about themselves. The better you feel about yourself, the more confident you become. The downside of developing and having confidence is that people can perceive confidence (personal positivity) as arrogance. But what is the difference? Confidence is internal. It's an unwavering belief in yourself and ability. You know you are good enough and smart enough, you know you are valuable, you feel super secure, and you don't have to prove anything to anybody. It doesn't mean that you are confident in every area and aspect of your life, however. There are things that you aren't great at and as a confident person, it's okay. You say 'bring it' to constructive criticism. You embrace, analyze it, and apply it to make yourself the best you can be. Arrogance is external. They are constantly trying to show and convince the world of their social worth and status by gloating, being a jerk, and putting other people down to lift themselves up. They run their big mouth, telling anyone who will listen how awesome they are and how you suck. A confident doesn't tell you how great he is or tear you down. He will lift you up and inspires others by their actions. Sometimes ridding yourself of arrogant people may not be that easy if they are a family member, co-worker, or employer. Take them with a grain of salt, don't buy into it, and don't let them steal your joy or confidence. They are trying to make up for the fact that they are incredibly insecure. Men lost their confidence as a whole. Alpha does these videos because he sees men are hurting in this world. Men got lost along the way. Men lost their confidence as a whole. So when Alpha started alpha m., his goal from day 1 was to affect at least one person in a positive way. The deal is that he believes in each and every one of you and wants the best for you. These videos are a small way to show how much he does care. You deserve to be happy and confident. And don't let anyone tell you otherwise or steal your joy. You are amazing. You need to know it and believe it for yourself.
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THE KINGKEVKA (6 days ago)
Real talk from the realist man
Detached Laconian (7 days ago)
- arrogance seeks validation; confidence seeks feedback - arrogance puts others down; confidence recognizes other's strengths - arrogance ignores one's shortcomings; confidence embraces them - arrogance talks the talk; confidence walks the walk
CLOROX ELLA Ella (15 days ago)
my bf has quiet arrogance I hate it.he cooks for me with such arrogance and yells at me yet I pay the rent.idk how to get rid of him
Daniel Cecil (16 days ago)
Thanks bro
HARSH LM10 (16 days ago)
BetaWolfMotivation (19 days ago)
I appreciate you man and you are too
Sreenandanam Vtc (20 days ago)
Alpha please dont cry you are the inspiration to us so please dont cry
apoorv mishra (23 days ago)
Awww ! 😄
Oscar Orfiano (27 days ago)
Thank you man.
Nishant Singh Bal (29 days ago)
Our alpha got emotional...
Cassie Wash-Bowman (1 month ago)
Ty for being real.
Over At last (1 month ago)
About 3.47 i agree with you man keep it up👍
Tewaun the great (1 month ago)
Funny how he changed
General Skywalker (1 month ago)
Where’s the border line between sticking up for yourself and arrogance?
Murti Thinker (1 month ago)
you cannot be arrogant: 1) In the toilet, because you see what comes out of you 2) At the hospital, because you have to obey the doctor. Shame on you humans.
Laura Cordes (1 month ago)
As I see it, confidence stems from an inner sense of security, and arrogance stems from insecurity and fear. Confident people know that they are enough just as they are, but there is always room for improvement, and they are up for the task. Arrogant people believe that they are their achievements, possessions, abilities, status, etc., and derive their self worth from outer things and not from within. I have more than you, have accomplished more than you, belong in a higher income bracket than you, look better than you, so I am, obviously, better than you. Confident people know that this is not true. They don't play that game. What they have or have achieved doesn't define them, but they are constantly finding ways of improving themselves and their situations because they want to live happy lives and know that self-improvement increases their chances of that happening. Confident people lift up themselves, and others, with positivity, learning, facing new and sometimes difficult or uncomfortable scenarios, and faith in themselves and maybe also a higher power. Arrogant people bring others down by flaunting what they have, constant efforts at proving their superiority over others, and entitlement. Confident people can be humble, too, and acknowledge when they aren't the best in something, but it doesn't hurt their ego, because they are growing beyond that. Arrogant people can never be humble, because even when they are not the expert, they want to be on top of it all. Which means that it's far more pleasant to be around confident people than arrogant people. Confident people want to share their peace and comfort in who they are with others. Arrogant people, on the other hand, want something to lord over others so they can go on believing that they are the best. Confident people want and strive to be the best version of themselves. Arrogant people just want to be the best, and if that comes at the expense of others, it doesn't matter to them. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on confidence vs. arrogance. I appreciate your ideas and your channel!
Kumi Kotara (1 month ago)
If you have to label yourself 'alpha' .. you're beta
Bass The Aceist (1 month ago)
It's so damn hard to pick up a girl if you're younger nowadays. Like the topic on arrogance and confidence is so far off of everyone's vocabulary that we spill arrogance automatically in today"s generation. I can't even stop talking about myself and my insecurities when I'm with my girl trying to ignore her every now and then. And gravity pulls me to the core of this planet.
Aaron Ho (1 month ago)
Thanks alpha!
TechEnthusiast (1 month ago)
First thing that popped into my mind was “neither” lol
Jai Bevan (2 months ago)
Yup! What you’re talking about is sin. Separates us from God. Shows us the right way to live. Jesus came to connect us back to him. That’s what’s wrong. You’re awesome alpha! I love your videos!
Jermaine Williams (2 months ago)
I am a woman and you have impacted me
Blake (2 months ago)
Alpha, you are such an amazing man. Keep up the good work. Lifelong fan.
Pinkfish (2 months ago)
Bro u r ultimate😁😁😁
Tear Grande (2 months ago)
i'm not crying 😢😢😢
Hyness high (3 months ago)
Me:I'm the only idiot in my class Also me: *your not the only one..* ( ͡°_ʖ ͡°) arrogance:I'm awesome! Confidence:no you're not dude don't lie (arrogance pretends to hear that) Arrogance:I'm awesome (´;ω;`)
Shaunak das (3 months ago)
Love you brother 💓💓💓
ScottieDoesntKnow (3 months ago)
He's a real man. Thank you Sir.
Mimit Primyastanto (3 months ago)
42. And they swore by Allah their most binding oath, that if a warner came to them, they would be more guided than any of the nations (before them), yet when a warner (Muhammad ) came to them, it increased in them nothing but flight (from the truth), 43.  (They took to flight because of their) arrogance in the land and their plotting of evil. But the evil plot encompasses only him who makes it. Then, can they expect anything (else), but the Sunnah (way of dealing) of the peoples of old? So no change will you find in Allah's Sunnah (way of dealing), and no turning off will you find in Allah's Sunnah (way of dealing). (Q.S. 35 :42-43)
Sheldon Morgan (3 months ago)
Great video, it’s awesome to see you care so much. Keep up the great work Alpha!! Been watching your videos for about 2 months now, I really enjoy them. This is an awesome niche that I’m glad you capitalized on.
Abhishek Saxena (3 months ago)
Confidence without direction leads to arrogance. I feel like I took a wrong turn today I think 😒
Liam dabrowski (3 months ago)
3:13 so glad you left this in the video
l z (4 months ago)
May ALLAH bless you...
Elias De Leone (4 months ago)
Personal experience that I'd like feedback on: (At a new job) I was called cocky indirectly by a client and source at work agreed. Sources assumption was made when I was asked to take a test on a basic procedure at work that I have been trained on, done thoroughly and have many years of experience doing via passed jobs. I asked to take the test without reviewing the basic information and scored a 94%. Since I asked to skip the basic information review and go straight to the test, source said I was cocky. FYI Source is above me hence my concern and the client I met with consistently touted titles, college institution, credentials etc. which I felt was a threat response from client about their importance or standing. Am I wrong to think that I'm competent and confident here?
Livmatrix (4 months ago)
I have two words for you.. Thank You!
Renison Martis (4 months ago)
Thankyou Aaron, I've learned many things from you over time . Respect from India.
GM 3 (4 months ago)
kiran kamble (4 months ago)
Alpha you are awesome I started to follow you from 2 years still your tricks i m applying in my life I really!! i don't get bored . Every video a new concept for me. Great Job. And Thank You bro for helping Us!....
PA¥TRONE_NGE (4 months ago)
Felt that ending. you have made impact on my life for the better since started watching your videos last year. 🙏
Jacob Rock (4 months ago)
I miss this Alpha M.
Reuben C Mathew (4 months ago)
Yeah man. My father is an arrogant person I was arrogant person too, I grew up like that being arrogant and after I entered 11th grade it really hurts me because no one was interested in talking to me. I thought what's wrong with these people but at that time I didn't know. I slowly realized this was the issue. I wish I could have seen this video before my 11th grade. In my lower grades no body bothered everyone were friendly so I thought that was the kind of behavior to keep. I was wrong. Man, he discourages me Everytime but alpha says you are a confident person handsome in his other videos. Just to hear them I watch his videos. It feels like an empty world dude.
Joseph Singh (4 months ago)
love u ...
Wahidah Zaher (5 months ago)
Sweetheart ❤️
509g1 (5 months ago)
I needed to hear this video becuz my brother's wife is a bitch she called me arrogant for no reason when I respected her and treated her right as a sister in law. Your videos are epic and given me some great direction keep them coming 2019! ❤️🧡❤️💪🏽
Devotchka (5 months ago)
"confident" people that try to bring others down are not confident, they lack self-esteem.
maria mistretta (5 months ago)
Confidence. I'm confident. Exactly I don't have to prove things to anyone. 😁🙂 Like confident man not arrogant men. So dump the arrogant man.
Rupa Dass Barua (5 months ago)
A confident man should act like a tree , providing shelter to others . He should boost confidence in others and make them happy contrary to the arrogant one who hurts others. You know a lot but not able to make others smile then you are the greatest loser. A good video.
Dean Mullen (5 months ago)
Cool, love watching your vids👍
MizardOfAwesomeness (5 months ago)
Somone explain Ego and Pride to me
victor 003 (5 months ago)
how could u care about someone that you dont even know
The Bourgeois Redneck (5 months ago)
I came into this video thinking i was quite arrogant.... ehh not really. I honestly dont think i am or have anything that differentiates me in anyway. Normal joe
open minded. (5 months ago)
Excuse of my words, but surely you look attractive, confidence, gifted, and your body shape is sexy . 💥
Bon Koo (5 months ago)
This guy seems arrogant
Erdin (6 months ago)
You have one of the best hearts.
Akshay Shanbhag (6 months ago)
Yo, you have impacted me so much you don't know. But, you are the most important part of my life.. from like six months or something.. but you have changed my life in many ways in past five months. Way to go brother..
Legoracers (6 months ago)
See this website by Dr Zaid Kasim Ghazzawi on Satan personality & yours. Help to understand where pride & arrogance comes from.
jalex9120 (6 months ago)
I’m constantly watching your video Aaron but this video here is truly gold. I enjoy watching videos when you express your self and emotions! it’s truly inspiring what you bring to these types a videos! I just want to thank you . Always looking for to my notifications letting me know Alpha is looking out for me lol !
Kerry K (6 months ago)
Never stop doing what you do. Not only do you inspire but me, a woman.
Brandon Talamante (6 months ago)
Thx for doing the vids man.they help me out allot.god bless you alpha.
chandana chakraborty (6 months ago)
Sir , make more vedios. u r truly a good human being n want to be like u , confident n gentle.
gautam chanda (6 months ago)
Lots of years I worked with different people. Know them but today your true identity and tears of openess conveyed how nice person u r . Plz bring out new videos. U just earned urself a new subscriber ❤ 👌.
TinnitusJuice (6 months ago)
U are not an alpha. U are a beta. I would kill u for a fucking klondike given the chance. And no this isnt a joke. Dude is pathetic and so are all of you.
Dhinil Shanker (6 months ago)
Think some kinda bad memory popped up inside of him.. looked like those tears were the result of some bad memories.. you are doin a great job btw
Move On (6 months ago)
Wow this is amazing stuff thank you Alfa
Infinite Brave (6 months ago)
I’m often seemed as a cocky guy even though I’m a quiet person and don’t say much. I’ve literally sat in the back of the room during school taking notes and someone said I was cocky. Any suggestions on why I come off like this?
sarah tizuka (5 months ago)
It happens to me too
Itamar Simon (6 months ago)
Wow man. The last 30 seconds are worth everything
Anthony Ignacio (6 months ago)
I love you
Master Rohan (6 months ago)
subscribed to you channel since 2 years now watching all the old stuff, I must say you rock man.
Vishnu Varma (6 months ago)
He just wanna help the world...He knows about the pain he went through and what we are going through and its a really great that you do make these videos.It really comes from his heart apart from teige hanley😋 Alpha you're great man You know the do and don'ts and i know you wanna make the world a better place and i hope you do... And god bless you man You are doing great great work you are awesome man
TinnitusJuice (6 months ago)
How naive can you fucking be?
ADARSH RAJ (6 months ago)
Please sir..it's very necessary for all to how to be the best version of oneself...make sure you give the best in it!
ADARSH RAJ (6 months ago)
Please make a video on how to be the best version of yourself!?
Thomas Happy (6 months ago)
The only downside is brains with an arrogant man. That's right arrogance is a killer and I would take a chair and Bash it over someone's head without any hesitation! The reason why is because they're the ones that treated people that have disabilities like trash and I don't forget about the preppies or the jocks! So fuck off and leave me alone! 🖕🤬🖕 That's right fuck you and take your confidence and shove it up ass bastard! After going to hell meet up with some demons and then they'll have fun with you, too! Just like you did to all the disabled people that you came across and the only thing is demon are twice your size hypocrite! 🖕🤬🖕 FUCK YOU and fuck your advice little shit! I bet you treat all the veterans like shit too who have lost their arm in combat you son of a bitch! Tell me have you ever risk someone else's life? As a kid I saved my sister after she fell five on concrete so really have you ever seen blood and had a family member break their jaw! You'll just have to relive your lifetime if you have it because dick heads always get what's coming to them in the end! 🖕🤬🖕
TinnitusJuice (6 months ago)
The dude who calls him self the alpha is normally the beta.
Simar Selim (6 months ago)
Yo Alpha yo mt man I got the confident you thank you so mum man!! We are team ALPHA team bro!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Simon Flegg (6 months ago)
I would say an arrogant person goes one step further by being rude in ignoring others and keeping silent. They can make you feel as if you shouldn't exist or don't exist to them. It's like a silent killer. It's absolute poison. Thanks for being real.
Dr. Amor (6 months ago)
I can't necessarily express the words across as to how grateful I am for you, but a sincere and deep appreciation for what you just shared with me is nearly immeasurable. God bless you man, and thank you.
David Lim (7 months ago)
You're my mentor Aaron. Wish that I found you earlier. You're a great man. 😊
Tech Games - Sophrosyne (7 months ago)
I wanted to hug him. ^_^
BoaSky (7 months ago)
I’m not arrogant I think I’m confident because I’m not sleeping with multiple people I don’t do drugs or over drink I make smarter decisions Than MOST people I know I think good of myself I don’t get embarrassed when I see a problem I get it done when I see someone sad I help them
emmy neo (7 months ago)
Who else is watching in 2018
HAMAS PUBGM (7 months ago)
Make a video about how to not be cocky
Yevon RaiMey (7 months ago)
I love this.
Charlie Slyng (7 months ago)
Alpha, you're awesome. My best big brother, that I never had!
Afshin mohajer (7 months ago)
Man. You're just awesome Keep this up 🙏
Saad Ali (7 months ago)
You rock man we love you brother for all the value videos you share
Every thing (8 months ago)
Sir can I hug you plss??
Lady Red (8 months ago)
Ahhhh I like this video Im proud of you, this video gave a huge emotion, and make me feel happy! Sometimes I feel lost with some arrogant people trying to do not let them make me feel uncomfortable like acting like I don’t care or not make them believes that its hurts but later on the day I thought about it. Why I attract arrogant people, May I do I guess that. Or is just part of ours lives, they just exist and they are so miserable and unhappy never satisfied or needy. Thanks
A MV (8 months ago)
😢😢😢😢 thx alpha you're the best
lim 9 (8 months ago)
Thank you THANK YOU
Nico Wolf (8 months ago)
You are amazing Aaron, thank you, you really help people with stuggles including me. In my point of view, people loose confidence because they lost the ability of interactions and connexions with others. It's more digitalised than in the real world. And when we begin to change back in the real world, we saw the results. And for example sport help to get that confidence, in the real world. So it's my point of view, add something if i'm wrong or you want to tell, thanks.
Kee Lee (8 months ago)
I freakkng love Alpha M.
Thanos (8 months ago)
Dont worry you got me in a very positive life my duuuuude!
Saif Ziya (8 months ago)
You got me "EMOTIONAL". Every time I feel down, your videos boost my confidence. If there'd been an option for '5' thumb-ups, I would've hit them all at once. ❤️
Xuqian Zhang (8 months ago)
I really love your videos and I learned a lot from them. I am a very unconfident and humble person, and it really sucks. I want to change and I will listen to you and try to reestimate my abilities and become confident! Thank you man!
Aldric KWA (8 months ago)
Thank you alpha m. You r fantastic.
RestushLogic (8 months ago)
Thanks this is so motivated me .... you are awesome too
Kevin Xu (8 months ago)
I myself am an arrogant person but I at least show what I'm made of and let people know I shouldn't be the type to be messed with
Christian Ortiz (8 months ago)
Man you rock! Huge fan from México, you're an example of being humble and great at the same time, am following your steps and advice in every way! Just ask my wife lol keep up the great work! Huge hug
Suhail Seedat (8 months ago)
Thank you so much Alpha! You as well as Jose Zuniga have impacted me so much! I truly appreciate it
Atomic Punker (8 months ago)
Alpha m. You have changed my life completely! A year ago, I was the ultimate Beta, but now I have improved myself, I became way more confident, of course I still need to work on some things but guess who motivated me? YOU! Thanks so much!

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