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I AM INSECURE! Dealing With Feelings Of Insecurity & Inadequacy | How To Feel Better About Yourself

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robert rios (11 minutes ago)
You’re badass dude. I love your videos. Haters gonna hate. They put you down to pull themself up. I’m insecure due to past hurts and unfortunately it cost me a recent relationship. But they great thing is that I learned what my insecurities are and how to fix them. Nothing is a failure if you learn from it and adjust
L.H.C (1 hour ago)
Really admire your work and your words, help me to get clarity inside my head. Keep going!
Mica Landero (22 hours ago)
I am sooooo insecure. Hate it!
Wesly Diaz (2 days ago)
My girlfriend has a boybestfriend and that boy and my girlfriend has a chitchat conversation 3 years ago. We are in the different school but the same city, but my girlfriend wants him to be a bestfriend and i am insecure.
Wesly Diaz (2 days ago)
Help me outttt
madhur thapliyal (6 days ago)
This man is really a true person ..... He speaks from his heart n never show off
Zee Flicks (6 days ago)
Thank you so much dude :) Thank you so much ❤️❤️
Sundaram Rajat (10 days ago)
you're doing a great job sir.... hige respect for you!! Regards
Harry Twigg (11 days ago)
Thank you
B S (12 days ago)
lol you're like the cool Michael Scott. OR Michael Scott's cool looking twin brother
Fergus Murdoch (12 days ago)
Alpha, I grew up with a father until I was 16, but I never had a dad. I never remember having a real conversation with him. You teach me and help me so much. Thanks
Frank J (12 days ago)
Thank you alpha, you help me every day with your videos.
Reaper Royal11 (13 days ago)
Thank you...you have truly helped me throughout even the toughest times.
Butterfly (17 days ago)
I'm insecure about my goddamn existence. l'm literally the most unnecessary person I know. I'm not good at anything I do, I'm ugly af, I'm boring, I'm weird, I'm probably corny af and I just fucking suck man... I'm instable too. I don't want to live but I'm too weak to end my life.
Elijah Lindsey (18 days ago)
Help people yes,best advice ever
Atak_Development (18 days ago)
Your amazing man. Thanks a lot for your help💪🏽
Michael Haskins (19 days ago)
My entire life has been a struggle of feeling unworthy, undeserving, Unloved and inadequate.Think toxic parenting might be the root? Every adult in my family growing up were religious zealots and failed me miserably. They have all passed on and I only hope that I dont go to wherever they are when I die. And I hope they are suffering wherever they are. My life has been an internal hell on earth due to these assholes. Fuck them each and every one. Damn that felt effen good!!!
Allan Gerena (22 days ago)
Thank you Aaron! Your videos always help me so much! Thank you for being real
Liam dabrowski (23 days ago)
I love you bro, honestly no one can be perfect but your honestly one of my favourite people on the planet i hope i get to meet you one day
Seth Rowley (24 days ago)
I'm glad I'm not alone thank you for helping me
Defstoner Network (25 days ago)
thank you so much for this video. i am a person who forgets things easily so i sure will be stopping by to watch this video over and over again. huge thank you!
Instant Classic (28 days ago)
I'm in college and people constantly talk behind my back about how ugly Iam.
David Lim (28 days ago)
I know this video is kinda old bit Aaron, If you're reading this I just wanna say that thank you for your videos. It change my life and you're my motivator. God bless.
sohrab jafari (29 days ago)
i started my journey 3 years ago/ i was a skinny guy with 0 confidence and self care - by watching your channel i made HUGE progress - i workout for 2years strictly now - i feel a lot more confident then before and i have a great body ----i appreciate the effort you put in on each single video and love ur channel
Geno Jr (1 month ago)
I have a 7 inch cock... And i feel im not enough ...
Oleg Sokolenko (1 month ago)
Your best video. Thanks for your work Hello from Ukraine ;)
Auday MANLA HASAN (1 month ago)
I love this man!
hancy melron (1 month ago)
Aron ur r a true motivational machine Love u 😘 maaaaan
Wirawan Saputra I Made (1 month ago)
Thank you man, you already helping others a lot, keep up the good job.. that's so cool
Mark r (1 month ago)
as you get older you get better at hiding your insecurities
Where did you get that shirt???
Dez (1 month ago)
Can’t change your height lmao 😧
Rachel G (27 days ago)
@Dez Wear heels.
Oli Jess (1 month ago)
Man your ears really stand out today... no just kidding, you look great as always! Love it when people are as positive as you, I try to be it every day as well! Positivity for the win!!! :D
Legend Gamer141 (1 month ago)
Alpha your a great guy. People who pick on other people on certain things show their insecure about themselves because they take it out on someone else
Daniel Recklezz (1 month ago)
That helpt thank you alpha m.💯!
Paras Upreti (1 month ago)
You are a great inspiration for us
Targa Florio (1 month ago)
The Man ! As always. Good, honest truth there. Good on you Alpha M.
hot sauce muay Thai (1 month ago)
Rather than allow ourselves to be jealous when we see other peoples success on social media lets try to just be happy for them. They are not without their own battles to fight
Pro Life (1 month ago)
I like this guy he's fun, Straightforward Helpful to others this is the kind of guy I would like to become
Bisan El-Yazuri (1 month ago)
Thanks for that!
Djely Saint-hilaire (1 month ago)
"If I'm feelin it I might as well talk about it" I like that phrase😀👍
Cool Daddy (1 month ago)
You are an amazing man! Looking at you I would not think you had anything to be insecure about. I have had insecurities all my life, and use to compare myself to everyone else. I would pick myself apart with all my perceived flaws, and never think myself as good as anyone else. It ruined relationships and hindered my happiness. Now at 50's door step, I am just starting to realize all the things you are talking about and working on self care and changing my way of thinking. I Wish it had not took so long to get to this new realization, but I am a young 50 (people think I am 35+) and better late then never. Thank you for this awesome video, I will be watching all of your vids for sure.
Ernestina Quezada (1 month ago)
It’s hard when u live around people who bring u down
AlienSource TV (2 months ago)
You have helped me man, tremendously. I Apreciate your honesty. Positivity is the best. 😁
BluesClueless (2 months ago)
Even tho I’m not a guy I still love your videos. They help me feel stronger, develop better mentalities, and just make me happier. Thanks for that and keep doing the amazing work you’re doing 💪
AntCFCPerkz (2 months ago)
Don't know if anyone can help me realise if it's me or her ... but for a bit cause I'm in a long distance thing I did become clingy so she mentioned just wanted her own space at times. Cause she basically was not texting as much ... so now I give her space she had a go at me for not texting as often.... the fuck do I do?
ITZ_BAQIR BASHIR (2 months ago)
Michelle Sithole (2 months ago)
Stop focusing on the Haters when u have US u know.
Jay Jade (10 days ago)
what do you mean by "u have US"
Michelle Sithole (2 months ago)
If there's one thing all nations have in common ,is a sense of insecurity
Darren baraka (2 months ago)
Am I the only female who is subscribed to this man.... He is amazing... I love your videos
Ramiro Reyes Duarte (2 months ago)
Love this video so much.
Thanks for the video Lad , i needed it ,too much !
CurnoworNever (2 months ago)
Man!! I was only looking for a review for a good MESSENGER BAG. 15 videos later I'm a new subscriber and LOVE this new inspiration! Aaron, alpha m., you are fantastic and amazing!! Keep the videos coming! Maybe a couple more messenger bag videos? lol.
Bob Hicks (2 months ago)
Your a bloody legend if anyone tells you different they’re just trying to put you down
Megh Purohit (2 months ago)
I am insecure about my eyes,skinnyness , hair(I don't oil them ), skin etc etc lol
James L Arnold II (2 months ago)
Thank you alpha.
Alex (2 months ago)
Great video! I’ve been beating myself up lately over embarrassing things
kesh s (2 months ago)
Thank you for this video! I needed this boost of positivity today.
ranbir singh (2 months ago)
U R the Best Man.
Brendan Fred (2 months ago)
Thank you Aaron, this video was really helpful
Carole Jeppesen (2 months ago)
Shame on you people who give a thumbs down or say mean and rude things may karma kick you in the asss!!! Look in the mirror buddy if you are doing it not good!!
Angela Cooper (2 months ago)
That’s ruff buddy.
Mission to be A Man (2 months ago)
Thick skin and beautiful skin... Thanks to that tiege hanly
Raditya Arga Putra (2 months ago)
aaron understands me more than my parents do
Andrew Hallford (2 months ago)
You've helped me alot Aaron, and to reciprocate, I just want to say thank you for all that you do, and never let anyone convince you the hard work you do on here isn't meaningful.
Mike Nesheiwat (2 months ago)
Great video. Your videos are inspirational man. Anyone who hates are projecting their own negativity. Keep up the good work.
iron man tony stark (2 months ago)
I am 5 feet tall and I am insecure about my height and I can't change it
Robert Goldstein (2 months ago)
Well done
Andrew Wilson (2 months ago)
Thank you man you are so sincere
Sibusiso Mkwanazi (2 months ago)
6:43 one or two? You're really help me and every viewer to see it's ok to feel vulnerable and we're not alone; Thank you, it's nice to know that I'm not alone in this😊😊😊😊😊
pol Frauca (2 months ago)
wow dude you did really help me out... such a helpful video and I can tell that you spread such a good vibe on this vid
Akshay V (2 months ago)
You make great videos, love from India 🖤
Darin Auvil (2 months ago)
Most short guys are lol
Matthew Morgan (2 months ago)
well how tall are you? 🤔
CALEB KNOXVILLE (2 months ago)
you have a spirit of gold . I wish I could be as cool as you.
Zadir Zadirian (2 months ago)
Andreia Nunes (2 months ago)
You are amazing!!! I AM a woman from europe and i got Addicted to your YouTube Chanel! Geap The GREAT JOB! 😉
arche maurich (2 months ago)
I appreciate your humility, it's grounding.
JK !Nfin!tY (3 months ago)
Edward Jelley (3 months ago)
Hey Aaron, buddy I have insecurities as well. I think people think money is a big deal and so I worry about that. I also want your positivity.
Kenneth Rathburn (3 months ago)
I'm beyond late to this video, but watching it I couldn't help but get the impression that Aaron was truly speaking from a place of vulnerability. I feel like he had to compose himself for most, if not all of the shots here, just from the look in his eyes and face, the way his voice sounded. I honestly felt like he may have been going through a tough point and was trying to use that to remind people (as well as himself) that it's okay to feel insecure as long as you recognize it and aim to improve. I'm not terribly versed with Aaron's content as of this comment, but of what I have seen, this video struck me as the most genuine, sincere and (once again) vulnerable, and I'm glad he made it, especially if my suspicion has any footing.
William Wills (3 months ago)
This helped me so much. Love this guy, very pure in his thinking.
Ron Ann Rose (3 months ago)
Aaron your videos make me feel better every day 😇 god bless you man
Paulo Ojeda (3 months ago)
You help many mans around the world include me...
Victor Rabbi Tarroni B. (3 months ago)
You are a legend! God bless you!
Bruno Pinto (3 months ago)
Wish this guy was my friend.
Muhammad Huzaifa (3 months ago)
No Alpha M , we don't feel like you are short ☺️ so you should not worry about that
CasualMaster 11 (3 months ago)
Yore an alpha.never forget it ;) :)))
Subhajit Chakraborty (3 months ago)
Wow ...this was some Video ..real appreciation for u Aaron
ER - EF (3 months ago)
Agla Alexander (3 months ago)
Wow wow wow... finally someone who understands, Alpha tells it like it is and not just that, but in a way that truly reaches me and alot of ppl... i will never stop loving this guy...
Adam Reiland (3 months ago)
Alpha, I get why people hate. They envy you. I hate your sales plugs only because I wish I could do that and afford those things. Every hater is someone that thinks that your life is awesome and wants to have it for themself. Ironic. They can't just love you for being great
Sanu (3 months ago)
I wish you were my brother...
subrata pal (3 months ago)
Hey man i love you . You make me happy👌
Bharbryda Zirnundwyn (3 months ago)
He didn't even sponsor an Ad in this video...that should really be telling you something.
just me (3 months ago)
I'm fucking ugly, and I know it.
Azza Khaled (4 months ago)
" I found my voice in the process"
Conner Broeker (4 months ago)
Alpha you have a six pack and drive a BMW. How do you not have an extravagant life
Dhiraj Kumar Muthyala (4 months ago)
You're an alpha, Alpha. :)
Rene Giust (4 months ago)
Great message from a real man. The world needs more honesty and humility. Thank you!
alex taggart (4 months ago)
thank you this is cool bro

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