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Alpha is insecure about a lot of things. Growing up he was insecure about money, clothes... everything. As he has gotten older, these insecurities have gotten better, but YouTube has created others. YouTube comments pick people apart and point out things that can cause insecurities. In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro talks about insecurity and inadequacy relative to social media and today's world.
In general, Alpha is a super confident person. He is confident, but he is still insecure about somethings. These little voices in the back of your head can say you're not this or that. It sucks. Every person has struggled with insecurities from time to time. However, these insecurities are only visible to the person who has them.
Social media can make people feel bad about themselves, making them think they're missing out. Alpha ends up feeling like he's failing or that others have things figured out that he doesn't when scrolling through social media.
How to Feel Less Insecure
Social media is not reality
Don't compare yourself to anyone but yourself
Surround yourself with positive people that make you feel better about you
Change what you are insecure about
Build your self up - working out builds and boosts your self esteem as well as helping others. Volunteering gives an incredible sense of fulfillment.
YouTube is amazing and beautiful where Alpha has found a home and voice. He wouldn't trade or change it; however, there is a degree of negativity from the comments. It's like life-- you'll always have the haters that want to tear you down. These haters are pathetic and small people! Alpha has thick skin, but negative & hateful comments still sting.
Realize that you aren't alone with insecurity and inadequacy. Alpha is no exception. He gets overwhelmed. He is now focusing on himself, being selfish, and not comparing himself to others. Remember, it's about you and what you bring to the world.
hey uncle A, I watch your videos just because they make me feel better, your advice is great and even though I'm generally a confident good looking person, I still always have doubts, and i feel trapped in my own mind sometimes, which makes me not feel good :/ you on the other hand always bring out a light in my darkness, and I thank you for that
If there is confident there will be insecurity. Confident cannot be there without insecurity... I have face many times.... I don't feel bad anymore because I am not the only one.And thnx for the advices
Not to get mushy, just throwing out a thank you. You’ve helped me on my journey to self improvement and living as myself. Thank you, Alpha. I know there are a lot of guys like me that appreciate what you do, don’t forget it.
He's good. Also, something I've experienced as a photographer is that the other confident photographers, many of whom are working on a professional level, are supportive , humble, and gracious. The insecure egotistical wannabee photographers are the jerks who try to put you down and make you doubt yourself. This is probably true about people in general.
Tnx..I was wondering if I was the only one who dealt with insecure feelings but It's like everyone has them so its our duty to overcome them and I'm sure there is power to do that.It's uplifting and amazing to hear this....stay blessed and pls do more videos.
My issue is number 3, My wife is filled with so much negativity. I wake up in a good mood most days, as she wakes up and starts yelling at our children or me if something isnt perfect. I constantly feel like im not doing enough, and when I do, its not good enough. And when i find things i enjoy doing and she doesnt like than she tells me her issues and if i try to speak about it it turns into an argument, if i continue to do it than i dont care, if i intentionally stop than i feel dissapointment because I cant enjoy something that gives me just a little happiness. Heres an example, she hates videogames. When she was younger she played games like donkey kong, crash bandacoot, but modern games just hates em. So i found a fishing game. Something she actually played the first day i got it. Well last night i sighned up for a bass tournament in the game and it starts at 8am this morning. So i get up, its her day off i let her sleep in. I fed the kids made coffee for her, i dont drink coffee. I sighned into play and start the tournament. She proceds to tell me im going to make her not want to go fishing ever. Like this summer when we go camping. She gave me dirty looks and made me feel like an idiot who shouldnt want to do things like that. Because when she was younger her father used to take her fishing everyday and drink heavely. So me playing a fishing game makes her unhappy. Idk i love her so much i love my kids i love my family. But i feel disposable. Im 26 years old ready to break down crying because how unhappy i feel
I am reminded of all the times I’ve been down and out and of the deep sorrow at the loss of my wife. The darkness can be difficult to overcome sometimes. At times such as these I drop to my knees and thank GOD for all I do have and I stride to endure in the presence of my enemy’s.
I look like a boy even though I’m a girl. My friends said I am too stupid because I didn’t know their secret group code word. I’m too scared to talk to people because I’m scared of people bullying me. My interests are dumb. I look like crap. I hate myself.. I will probably get told off here for commenting about myself and talking about me idk why I am even saying this I’m so sorry don’t read this if you don’t want your day ruined I feel bad now sorry person reading this
Big thanks to alpha and the ones who have helped me get my self better still i have my insecurity's too, I've become a better person my past addictions are not in my life no more my old friends or people who i thought were my fiends aren't in my life no more.
Who ever reads this i hope and pray that you succeed to the highest levels in life three words that inspired me "Never Give Up!"
I workout. I strive to be a good man everyday. I make ok money. I have a girlfriend and man, do I feel so insecure, even in my 30s. I sometimes feel I’m losing my mind. I have it all as a man, for the most part, but I feel unworthy of my girlfriend sometimes and life. It’s hard work. Thanks for sharing this vid.
If in a relationship, the boy has everything like good looks , good degree n rich as well. On the other hand the girl has nothing but still they are in relationship . How to get out of that insecurities that two person of this kind how can be in a relationship. .???
I know about financail insecurities. i am homeless, in a new city. i had no friends when i got here. ive been going to day labor temp agencies while looking for work. been in this city less than two weeks. boned two chicks (seperately) a few days ago. got others numbers. Yet i still feel insecure when i sleep outside with little to no $. I dont loook homeless, i am clean, i still have my pride & dignity. i am 33 years old and work out. any dude with a nice home and car can pick up chicks, but how i do it is true game. still get depressed sometimes, but i wont give up the fight. latter.
I had a problem at a job in the past where I really liked my supervisor and thought she was the greatest but she treated me different from the other guys ie hardly talked to me at all unless she wanted me to do something or I'd done wrong...after months of feeling not good enough somebody told me that some dick told her in the past that I'd said horrible things about her. Which wasn't true .this made me feel a lot better though cos I thought it wasn't quite me that was the problem it was what she thought I'd said about her months and months before...she shouldve just confronted me about it instead of believing bs 😎
I love this video! Before though making changing about yourself, things that are easy to change. I would go through a process of trying to accept it as if It can’t change be changed. If you can’t accept yourself for the way you are, you’ll never be content in the place that you are ❤️
I need your help :'( I court a girl, i gave her roses. And i go not contact with her when i started in gym and i let her know that i will talk to her soon. She didnt reply.. later on she posted in FB status saying " Baby I'm coming home". I dont know what to do.. i feel insecurity.. what should i do?
I.LOVE.THIS. GUY. And for a good reason. You said helping others fulfills you, and that's great. I know you are a smart man because you said social media isn't reality. Social media gives us a snapshot of what they want us to see. You're right! When I first saw you I thought here's a well chiseled guy and anything he wears looks great on him. (Like David Becham) Little did I know you have in your life, felt insecure. We are all the same. We are one. Decades ago I heard someone say the computer was the devil. Well, I sorta believe that because your haters throw shade which makes them feel bigger. They are the losers. I appreciate your forum here because you drop jewels on fashion and humanity. Keep up the great work!
I am a woman and I know most of his videos are for men but man I love watching his videos because they are always so motivational, helpful and when I am sad I listen to his videos and it just brings me up. Thanks!
hey man! i absolutely love you as a person, thank you for boosting my confidence! and i want to see more videos like this! i love it and i want to meet you in person someday! you're awesome! again thank you thank you thank you thank you!
You’re badass dude. I love your videos. Haters gonna hate. They put you down to pull themself up. I’m insecure due to past hurts and unfortunately it cost me a recent relationship. But they great thing is that I learned what my insecurities are and how to fix them. Nothing is a failure if you learn from it and adjust
My girlfriend has a boybestfriend and that boy and my girlfriend has a chitchat conversation 3 years ago. We are in the different school but the same city, but my girlfriend wants him to be a bestfriend and i am insecure.
I'm insecure about my goddamn existence. l'm literally the most unnecessary person I know. I'm not good at anything I do, I'm ugly af, I'm boring, I'm weird, I'm probably corny af and I just fucking suck man... I'm instable too.
I don't want to live but I'm too weak to end my life.
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