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He sends you a text message. It says “miss u”.
You thought he had disappeared, gone cold.
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i blow my chance to meet my nice guy, i treat them like in a bad way , I don't mean it but I can't resist of myself, I can't help it but hurting myself and everyone, I was like keep myself out of people, I isolated myself, I tortured myself and I feel satisfied Idk why I'm sorry
no woman should take shit from a guy, but this hasn't been the most realistic set of advice that I have heard. from someone who has been in the dating sphere for a while, these are the takeaway points that I think you should have:
1. validation: it is important to avoid valadating people, however YOU also need to address your own validation techniques, as no one is excluded from that issue, we as a society do it too much. If you have previously been giving and recieving validation from this person, the sudden change (or probably change in general) will get him confused, and possibly angry, this doesnt excuse his actions, however avoiding negative situations is ideal.
2. back from the dead text: maybe he's been busy, regardless you should give him the benefit of the doubt and see what he says, then make an action. He could have had bad family or life things going on, or you are a bit hard to talk to sometimes, and he's taken a refresher break to come back with a better head, in both instances "well duh" is a terrible answer, and will probably land you in an annoying situation, made by him, but from your actions.
3. entertain me text: its good for a man to "take the lead with the conversation, but bear in mind that it can be tiring and boring to be doing all the initiating, you've got to remember you are compleating with most other women out there, and if he thinks you are boring, he'll give up. that being said, if someone is just messaging you to get some entertainment or validation, it is reasonable to drop him.
4. flaking: mostly reasonable points, however the "reasonable hour" text seems a bit passive aggressive, which is definantly not a good start to any relationship, if he bullshits you, text calmly and plainly about the situation, in a short text, then leave him be, this tells him that he's been disrespectful, and you won't put up with bullshit, and you can leave at any time, meaning that he'll have to shape up or lose you.
"copy and paste texts...for ANY guy" no two guys are the same, some should be avoided, some wouldn't hurt a fly, some are more selfish than others, analyse the copy/paste answers and think if this suits your situation, and change them where necessary, remember you are talking with human beings, brutish horney ones, but generally intelligent and reasonable ones.
Hey! Why is this stupid opportunist video being shoved across my screen as an advertisement!?? Also Whats with the fake,"Im not sure how long this video will be up B>S! Its been over a year!~ (News flash ,Soy boy, Kiss butt Beta male videos are promoted ! not banned!)) News flash,All these things that you named in this video are annoying things PEOPLE DO! NOT MEN ALONE ! common sense alert, You're talking about virtual communications which equal to virtual relationship. AKA = to not real! Which = to Not important which =simple solution,Block or ignore the caller.
This is how to ruin any relationship 101 -.- these wouldn't work it's just called being a condescending bitch. Fuck. Just reply nicely back and if they're a Dick then block em doesn't require being an ass yourself!
Wow this guy must not think very much of women if he thinks we go weak at the knees form a text that says "Miss you" and show it our friends. If I didn't know a guy long I would think that was pathetic or needy. Thanks but women don't need a man to tell us how to text so we can ensure we get some or get into a solid relationship, believe it or not we can actually think for ourselves, be creative and are actually socially competent.
I got this as an ad and thought it would be terrible but actually this is pretty good, it's boundary setting 101. How to clearly communicate to someone that they can't have you at their beck and call, you aren't there for when they're bored and they need to show commitment to things they arranged with you or you're out
Hey matthew ur videos are so helpful.. thank you for all this! I had a question.. i really like this guy whom i recently met.. everything’s going well.. its just i feel he is going too fast.. he talks about future things with me etc! For me i like him but not in a position to commit my future..
i want to know him more & see where things go.. i want to take it slow but i feel he’s rushing and that even makes me feel a less attractive towards him too.. though i know he’s a great option!
I’d appreciate ur views abt this.. thanks!
I have been texting and talking to a guy that was very sweet and playful but all of a sudden like literally a day after we talked he started being cold and distant in his messages and dodging simple and meaningless questions even. I called him out on that and asked him why he is being cold and distant but he just implied that he was busy. so i reduced my replies and we then stopped texting. One week later he sent me telling me he misses me alot. I'm afraid if i use your text advise that he'd follow that asking me if i missed him too. And I don't know what i would reply to that. Any help?
Dude..u changed my life..! Used ur validate me text reply on a guy! He was speechless! And that left me pretty proud.. coz he has been taking me for granted for a long time..so now, I have controlled the conversation, and sassed him back! 😉 So thank you Matt!! You are really a life saver!
Well I just subscribe to you and that is sooo true it’s annoying because they take sooo long too answer back and I am like saying really i am saying that next time and btw I find you in a ab lol but what will happen if my ex comes back
To be honest, it´s cool to know guys´ ways and thoughts but i don`t like all these tricks and mind games with certain messages and patterns. I mean the tipps are logical but either you are that person who acts like that naturally or you aren`t. Because using certain phrases and tricks won`t get any woman far. maybe in the beginning, but no woman can´t carry a Matthew Hussey guide book with them 24/7 an shouldn`t. Matthew talked about how "dangerous" it can be to wanting to change the other person. Well this is exactly what women are doing. They´re changing their ways into Matthew´s ways just to get the guy but they won`t be able to keep that up because it´s not who they are. It´s who they pretend to be. i love matthew but this feels just like a business with women´s hearts. These are tutorials how to trick guys and how to use certain key phrases to get their attention. it´s not being yourself, it´s being someone else to get what you want.
Ehh, all of these tips appear to be aimed at getting a "player" type of guy. Trying to figure out how often a guy should text, what to say, what to avoid, what the other person expects, etc but if both are playing by some rulebook they won't know the other person until both get tired of pretending and if they don't follow the rulebook they will likely say or do something that gets them labeled as "flaky" or breaking a "rule" they didn't know about in the first place.
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