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How To Flirt Without Being Creepy and How To Approach (Flirting Advice and Tips)

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Compliments Video: https://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/the-art-of-complimenting/ Hot or Not Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.hotornot.app Hot or Not iphone: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/id639584030?mt=8&ign-mpt=uo%3D4 In this video men's style expert and grooming guru, aaron marino, talks about how to flirt without being creepy. Learning how to flirt is a skill you can learn and develop... it just takes practice, time and confidence. There is a fine line between coming across as charming & cute or looking like a potential underwear sniffer. Alpha starts with the real world perspective- flirting with a REAL person in front of you. Technology has changed the game, so at the end of this video, a super new app is discussed. Aaron Marino of alpha m. says you suddenly spot a hottie and you want to make their acquaintance. The first step is to see if there's a ring. Next, make eye contact and catch their eye. Keep glancing in their direction. Don't just stare. Be subtle with little glances. Then use a smirk, head-nod, and look away. Go about your business. When you catch their eye again, give them the grill. Give them the smile like, "You caught me." Now is time to be bold by introducing yourself. Simply walk up and say hello & introduce yourself. Don't freeze. Be prepared with the follow-up statement or question. Alpha sees a compliment as a great follow-up. There's an art to it, so refer to The Art of Complimenting by Aaron Marino. Compliments make someone more likable. The compliment should not be sexual in nature. The key now is not to wear out your welcome. Know when to exit. If you are going to see them again, end the conversation and pick it up next time. If you aren't sure if you'll see them again, ask them for their number. What is the worst thing that can happen? They can say no. If they are hesitant or uncomfortable, leave. Don't keep trying to sell yourself. If you seem desperate, it's as bad as seeming insecure. We aren't born being good at flirting. The more you do it, the more comfortable you become. This newly revised app, Hot or Not, is for single people to connect. After registering, the app shows you single people in your area. You can go through and click 'hot or not' and if you match with someone, you can interact with them. Check out the links below for Android and iPhone.
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Text Comments (5667)
IQof3 (3 hours ago)
5:50 Worst thing that can happen....Can I have your number? No. Next day you get called into Human Resources for sexual harassment and get fired.
Garrick Kita (4 hours ago)
I love your videos, can you do a summarized version of your videos? like quick tips series or something?
My Own Seduction System (12 hours ago)
Few things from this video I agree with, the rest is usual bullshit horrible advices, it is given by a man with zero experience and knowledge of women sexuality.
Milly Rox (2 days ago)
Her or him whatever
Jack Alter (2 days ago)
alpha is a legend lol
Max Fidyk (2 days ago)
That Sparky example made me laugh more than I probably should
Tyler Griffin (3 days ago)
This man makes me feel so god damn confident!
Angel Rodriguez (4 days ago)
I tried, didn't go well Damn it She was a lesbian guys 😭😭
AMANDAbolic (5 days ago)
This is awesome!
Jin Rei Tsung (5 days ago)
You are the big brother I needed XDD
SHoCkWaVe (5 days ago)
My beat tip is *pull out meat scepter*
The flying Horse (11 days ago)
Alpha m plzz tell me how to dress as my butt is big.
You are worthless
Radical JJ (12 days ago)
Normally I'll have a good conversation going and stuff then I'll ask for the girls snap or number and they'll leave me on read all the time and post on their stories talking about how bored they are... It's depressing.
I SHOOT4fun (14 days ago)
Is their an app to practice you conversion with girls
Nathan Rapsang (15 days ago)
Please tell me how to flirt with my self because I love myself very much;;;;
Casey Burt (16 days ago)
"I love your style, I just wanted to come say hi, I think it's very unique."
Casey Burt (16 days ago)
When it seems that you've ran out of things to talk about after initiating the conversation, glance at your watch, look back and say "I'm running late to a meeting. But I definitely want to take you out for a drink sometime. Can I get your number?" She's left with two options: Do I say no and never see this guy again or say yes and see him again.
ThiccMidgetHere (17 days ago)
Literally starts the video being whole levels of creepiness
Clutched (18 days ago)
I made my crush laugh today by calling some coffee beans skittles
Straight on firez (19 days ago)
Nah I can’t do this I’m so shy
TheNames James (19 days ago)
*sees crush* *looks at her* *catches her attention* *made eye contact, smiles then looks down* *pulls out my meat scepter*
Good Day (20 days ago)
Buy her a Cactus they love em sum plants water it..if she feels the pain sunny then she all yours 😎
Robert Jacobs (22 days ago)
5:02 had me dead
Cman (22 days ago)
Hey Alpha M, do you think a man with a stutter can still successfully flirt with women? I feel this makes it 10 x harder to flirt and playfully tease women. I get self conscious and anxious. I'm about 90% fluent but I do get the occasional block. To compensate, I try to speed up and rush my speech to avoid a block just to get my words out but then my words aren't clear sometimes or i end saying something i didn't want to. I was thinking, the best approach might be to talk at a normal pace, and just be comfortable with the blocks, to the point where I can poke fun at them, even use them to help me flirt (because that will show I'm still confident) . Would some girls find that attractive ? Any idea how I can do that ? If you have any advice please help a brother out.
Executive Req (23 days ago)
Watch till end clear history then move on...😀
Thalassaer (24 days ago)
Did the few glances and she smiled and i got embarrassed and never did that again...
Ben Engel (26 days ago)
Lol that ship has sailed! I just died!
Simeon Wilson (28 days ago)
Pritty sure he is gay
stranger danger (29 days ago)
So this is what my lil bro looks up.... Okay
Brandon Pye (29 days ago)
Girls only think you’re not creepy if they think ya hot.
luis saldana (29 days ago)
Me: “hey I’m so & so” Her: “why do I care” My soul: 🙈😭🤮
Seyan (29 days ago)
Need help.. i was walking with my friends then this girl which is my crush called me cute and i said " i have a boy friend" and ran away.. wut to say
Seyan (29 days ago)
Why the hell em i here again? Oh yeah fortnite
Jay Badhia (1 month ago)
Awesome ❣️
Mauricio Alfaro (1 month ago)
Happy 5 years gentlemen, I hope you all have a great year
Hazza Alqubaisi (1 month ago)
RecklessPlayz (1 month ago)
no ring good. im 14 i hope they dont
ARAFAT SIAM (1 month ago)
Arine marino u r a funny guy....
Harsh Darkoid (1 month ago)
I had done the glance before and it actually works.its so funny when u started with the glance part and I immediately understood what you are talking about.
Universal _Wisdom (1 month ago)
Dude honestly if I made eye contact with a girl more than once and she smiled both times. I'd already know what to do. But girls just don't smile in my direction :/
XXCaptainXFalconXX (27 days ago)
I sacrifice myself for comedy
XXCaptainXFalconXX (27 days ago)
How do I glance at her eyes if she's wearing a fur suit?
koroush email (1 month ago)
I fucking died when he did the "gangsta limp"
Danny Popp (1 month ago)
2019 anybody
Jade Malcolm (1 month ago)
I'm a girl and I love these videos, is that weird?
Art Bar (1 month ago)
I'm in a cafe right now...a girl who came with her date is looking at me...she is hot... what to do??? Quick reply please
haydenvdm (1 month ago)
Step 3 drag to bathroom
haydenvdm (1 month ago)
Step two put drug in drink
haydenvdm (1 month ago)
Step one buy drink
vl PsYcHo lv (1 month ago)
Hey alpha is this from personal experience?
Wiz_Gamer (1 month ago)
can u make a video like this again but for a girl that you already know and not just meeting ?
Ryback Nadai Nemu (1 month ago)
Be brave be bold and stay wild
Lord of Cinder (1 month ago)
Just watch JackManleyTv and look at what he does
IRobot (1 month ago)
1.Look at Hand 2.Glance until get caught but dont stare then nod and look away 3.Repeat step 2 Then Smile like huh u caught me 4.Introduce yourself (be Prepared of what to say) 5.Give a compliment 6.Be BOLD littarly 7.If Gonna see them again just end it 8.If Not then ask for number and if she says no well to BAD
JAY REPUBLIC (1 month ago)
5:00 had me rolling
PnG (1 month ago)
This app is actually called tinder
CrammK05 (1 month ago)
I’m not a guy but I’m going for a girl Thx for some advice it kinda helped
Lee sin (1 month ago)
spot her or him whatever ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
SpaceMadness (1 month ago)
No gangsta limp? Even if I walk like that normally because my knees are garbage??😂😂
Jamie Smith (1 month ago)
Here's one. Spell Me. M-E You forgot the D There's no D in me? Not yet ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Flip'n (1 month ago)
Sponsored by: PlayBoy
Jacob Weli (1 month ago)
5:02 got me dying
dayvid tv (1 month ago)
Oh wow really? Tha- *MY DOG*
TheKillingBro (1 month ago)
What if they're in a group of friends?!
J Hokage (1 month ago)
Man this is some good stuff
Dimitrov Peter (1 month ago)
4:38 Be Brave Stay Wild
I'm just gonna stick to ,,be pretty and just do your thing until someone comes up to you and starts flirting or shit and then just go along with it" tactic, much safer and if you just focus on your looks and how you act, you're set.
feres sakouhi (1 month ago)
This episode was creepy
Nick Ashline (1 month ago)
Alpha, what do you suggest for someone via text, and try to get a relationship started with someone who isn't necessarily living in the vicinity of the other person?
LightHimeko .3. (1 month ago)
I went up to my crush and said she got a nice leg
?????? (1 month ago)
Just call em a bitch and you will get em works everytime i do it
Nipa (1 month ago)
Thanks! I'm always creepy.
JAMES AXIOS (1 month ago)
Are you an elf??? Those that can't...Teach
Banana Bob (1 month ago)
What if they don’t have a ring but are already dating someone?
Zahid Mansur (1 month ago)
Hey Aaron I want to ask you a question about the app. Can single guys and girl use this app and any age(Meaning boys and girls who are single and under 18.) or only for 18 years and older?
ethun (2 months ago)
thanks old alpha. your younger self is so comforting
Peter Kuczi (2 months ago)
OMG i love first 20 seconds, i had to play 20 times :D:D:D:D
SoLuna (2 months ago)
Terrible advice from a seedy little man.
LETNASDOWN 104 (2 months ago)
YouTube save you from staying a virgin
ThekinG GaminG (2 months ago)
Your gangster limp had me cracking up
Nessie Bear ! (2 months ago)
who else is that sad single person with a crush who actually searched youtube for how to flirt....
Nessie Bear ! (2 months ago)
who else is that sad single person wih a crush whoa casually searched you ibex for how to flirt.....
Deo Evarest (2 months ago)
I love this guy,all the videos are hot,thank you Alpha
Steady Life (2 months ago)
Gangsta limp lmfao...
Vaibhav Yadav (2 months ago)
Its tinder
Nirvaan Nandan (2 months ago)
I love this man😎
Jack MacArthur (2 months ago)
Didn’t believe your name at first but after watching some vids your a complete alpha
Sergeant Beer (2 months ago)
hahaha 5:01 huh really ?
Nexla (2 months ago)
0:06-0:12 how did this not become a meme
yash nawgiri (2 months ago)
Anyone watching this in 2018??
Gotemm Lil ceareal (2 months ago)
Wtf why am I watching this at 3:57 Aklock
The Real Nicky Nurotic (2 months ago)
His eyes are really glassy here 🤔
Kay Grant (2 months ago)
Smiles work if she likes it she'll really look at you
Kay Grant (2 months ago)
Fyi your right... girls only get nervous around guys they think are Hot.
Ishaan Ganoo (2 months ago)
I am here in 2018 and that intro looks so unsatisfying after all this Alpha development
Ya boi Murph (2 months ago)
What if they gotta bf/gf tho?
Avigail Mendoza (2 months ago)
I love the way you talk. Kinda funny but theres something else😊😍😚
SeCrt sInger (2 months ago)
“Playboy” 😹😹😹😹
Matthew Withers (2 months ago)
My biggest hiccup is always the timing. Girls I start talking to and getting to know its either too soon (and it gets weird) or too late (they move on). I usually go after girls that I know for a fact ill see again
Exelo Gaming (2 months ago)
I did all these and you know what she replied with.... I’m subbed to that channel
Livvylocks 123 xoxo x (2 months ago)
You just joined flirt club.... 1st rule about flirt club... don't talk about flirt club Second rule about flirt club......don't talk about flirt club. You just left flirt club
Erik Camacho (2 months ago)
Any body here in 6th grade

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