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How To Make A Kickass First Impression | 5 First Impression Tips

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Darren Eck (10 days ago)
this guy is fucking awesome, great advice and I laugh while its delivered, brilliant!
Connie Conrad (23 days ago)
Watching this because I'm meeting my girlfriend's parents
Mangaka-Sama (1 month ago)
Ok 👌 I’ll use this tomorrow at my new school
Andre J (2 months ago)
Thanks dude, just made it the 2nd interview for a job opening!
Shogun (2 months ago)
The compliment was my trick Alpha, Damn now it's out there! :) Great tips brother keep it up.
ethun (2 months ago)
wish I watched this before I met my girlfriends brother for the first time. The dude is a big shit talker so now doubt he is planting seeds of doubt in my girls head
Seneviratne Family (3 months ago)
Im a girl but i love ur videos. They are so detailed and not boring at all. Aand ur so confident and sure of what you say.
Kamal Hurree (4 months ago)
Have a shave maybe 🤔
Laxman Juwarat (4 months ago)
I'm a student and i want to be like you Alpha.M help me
American Dream (5 months ago)
Question: Whenever I meet someone, whether I'm attracted or not (in the case of women) I always shake their hand. Is that communicating a lack of romantic interest with people I am attracted to? Idk if I'm sabotaging myself unintentionally
Lilly Snow (5 months ago)
Who else didn’t notice his ears until he said something ? X it looks fine and I have elf ears too so don’t worry ahaha
Isla Blue (5 months ago)
am i the only girl who watches these videos hahaha
NUMBER 1 MARCO (5 months ago)
1:31 SO HITLER
salmaan kaka (5 months ago)
Scent matters
Loneranger (5 months ago)
Don’t let a first impression be the guiding point to someone's overall demeanor. Everyone deserves more than just an initial judgment call.
Ryan Reppy (5 months ago)
Dis mans ears
Roem Daug (5 months ago)
Z U C C H I N I A I S L E
Meinex (6 months ago)
To make the best first impression, first of all you have to use Tiege Hanley
Rock21 (6 months ago)
2:13 Tips start
louyancyco (6 months ago)
people speaking filler words habitually are the worst!
Swiftube (7 months ago)
Can you do a video on “how to dye your hair like a gentleman” or how to pull off dyed hair
Christine Haigh (7 months ago)
Great video...well done!
MR.THINK PRACTICLE (7 months ago)
You are fucking good bro 😃
Dave Cullins (8 months ago)
I REAAAAAAAAAALLLY want to know if entering an exam by firing off a good joke will actually be a good idea xD
Yes Man (8 months ago)
U have a great face cut pretty much like Huge Jackman & Saif Ali Khan.
Dominik Hameder (8 months ago)
1 more sub
Tasty burger (10 months ago)
2:09 what happened there ? 🤖
Jetski Jay (10 months ago)
This is so true ever since I’ve started to be aware of what I’m wearing the more I see spicy honeys and realize why I’ve had such hard luck scoring one.
Felipe jaime (10 months ago)
I once heard you should dress everyday like you're about to meet the love of your life, so I started doing that a few months ago, but my wife noticed and asked why I was dressing up so nice all the time, so I told her, yeah that didn't go so well. Lol
David S (10 months ago)
I'm new to ur channel and I like ur advice.. I watched ur video on interviews and ur advice got me my job thank you...
quinne117 (10 months ago)
You compliment some other dude you meet he shrugs it off or ignores that you said it, friendship ruined before it started lol
Taikhoom Vajihi (11 months ago)
Heyy alpha... I have a Stammering problem....whenever I speak to someone sometimes I speak too fast that people don't understand my words nd when I try n speak abit slow then I start stammering....I request u to plz make a video on how to talk to people if u have a stammering problem
Crawford sutton (11 months ago)
good video, but u told us the problem and no solution. keep up the good work though
Elyas Yusuf (11 months ago)
Action is coming
Joey Tatú (11 months ago)
I felt that with this video, your first impression comes across as you know everything, and that you're a little overconfident.
Harsh Vardhan (11 months ago)
2:12
Sage Lionel D'souza (1 year ago)
3:40 OMG wtf alpha😂😂😂😂
Khosro Tohidi (1 year ago)
your first and second impression was so bad
Jonathan (1 year ago)
I always show my best personal package..
ArabicSubtitle Movies (1 year ago)
the first things people see in you is height, skin tone and age (they automatically try to estimate how old you are in a part of a second), or how you look abit like your sister if it's a girl who is your sister's friend, all that before you utter a single word..oh and if you wear glasses, they instantly assume you're a nerd.
Pheebs (1 year ago)
Sorry dude I gave up after 2 minutes - your style of delivery is extremely irritating and off-putting. Not a good first impression for me!
Steelix (1 year ago)
do the ZUBULA
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HelpdeskHonky (1 year ago)
What does one do if they run into their wife in the zucchini aisle??
Memes 4 lyfe (1 year ago)
If they are racist? Screw em, yah can do better
Nancy In the garden (1 year ago)
I love your full steam ahead approach. You go straight to the point. ButI find it exhausting to constantly worry about other people's opinion if me. I dont want others to except me as a fashion model. Just a normal fun personal
James Ali (1 year ago)
Great video
wiston Lawsons (1 year ago)
Hahaha the elf ears people always saying that about me
Susan Elaine (1 year ago)
Superficial Substance, although primal, should not denote total value assessment....sometimes seeing a realistic view or a different version of the “Polished” version....
Andrea Simeone (1 year ago)
Why people hate italians? Hahahahahaha
KelvinShiFTZ (1 year ago)
When you say asian twice lol!!
Ismail Essa (1 year ago)
KelvinShiFTZ it was Haitian the second time I think
The Swayr (1 year ago)
Awesome video, body language is definitely a huge aspect! Strong body language is probably the most important part of any first impression!
Shane Eun (1 year ago)
This sucks
Michael Dodd (1 year ago)
The new filler word is "actually," as if what you're saying doesn't inhabit reality. Hey, maybe it doesn't?
TAINOSUN (1 year ago)
What is the point of making a good impression if you're going to kill it with the second? After they realize the amount of verbal diarrhea that ornamented the first impression, they won't wanna stick around for a second whiff.
Rhyan Peters (1 year ago)
I just an Ted to make friends
Rhyan Peters (1 year ago)
Umm he's hot as fuck
MrEveneser (1 year ago)
"Maybe the person you're meeeting does't like italians, blacks, whites, ASIANS, puerto ricans, ASIANS!!It does't matter!!" xDD ohh Alpha! lol
Allison (1 year ago)
I don't think all girls date a person they just met in ten seconds 😂
Muhammad Ayyan (1 year ago)
Mostly true.. but sometimes.. people make up an impression on complimenting that "what a wierdo.. what does he want!😒
lee Roberts (1 year ago)
i wouldnt date a women who eats zuccini or shops at a store that has a whole isle of them
lee Roberts (1 year ago)
its true his collared shirt is ubutton and and he think hes a douche
BRZY Gaming! (1 year ago)
what is that thing in your left eye?.
John (1 year ago)
I have been binge watching your videos for hours. I never noticed your ears before, but now they are a distraction
Roby Thomas (1 year ago)
Vide0 starts at I got u !!!
ipnotiK from Italy (1 year ago)
Today I'll go to buy zucchini to find my next girlfriend!
Humour Passion (1 year ago)
u r the best alpha m.
TwoFishEric (1 year ago)
As soon as I saw his face in the thumbnail I really wanted to hate him, but damn he made a good first impression.
dambigfoot (1 year ago)
My first impression of this guy, is that he should have starred in Elf movie.
gordopolish (1 year ago)
dear Aaron, ..need a fkin wingman!!!
Markus Rochin (1 year ago)
just skip to 2:10 to watch the real video.
Kishorekumar Moorthy (1 year ago)
Hai am kishore and these videos are very usefull.
Ed Seaver Vinuesa (1 year ago)
Close your shirt and get those pretty earing off!
Scum8ag (1 year ago)
Who the hell hates short dudes? If anything its the other way around. I am 6 ft 9 and the amount of insecurity it tends to bring up with men is astonishing! On the other hand its a great filter so you can tell who is confident in their skin and who feels challenged by this. Also working for a short boss is mostly a big a no-no. One of my best friends is like 5 ft 6 and he is a great and inspirational character. Honestly I have a huge respect for confident (not compensating) short dudes because yeah, it IS a social obstacle, no need to hate on the tall guys though. I don't hate on jacked, muscular dudes, I admire them.
Jonathan Joestar (1 year ago)
LMAO. The first thing he said was being judged for being short and Italian, that's me.
Kath Palmer (1 year ago)
"BOOM. I walk in with these ears, AHH. He can't get away fast enough." OMG I died with laughter!! <3 You are extremely HOT, BTW. <3 ;)
Music Girl (1 year ago)
"gentlemen"?? Hey. Wait. Stop. There are many women looking at your videos too.. amongst me. Sometimes I listen, but I think I'm more watching drooling at you LOOOOOOOOOL ...OK, ignore this comment...
Bboy. Tony (1 year ago)
I fucked up my first impressions with a girl by being awkward as fuck, could I still get her or has she already decided?
ZEROFOXMEDIA (1 year ago)
Depends on the girl, and depends on how awkward you where. What worked for me back when I was awkward was by knowing what went wrong, work on myself and not think about the girl. If she likes the "new" you, she'll give you another chance.
William (2 years ago)
Stay away from judgemental people. Simple as that.
William (2 years ago)
A true person will be kind and understanding
Good News for Life (2 years ago)
Get rid of the earrings
Nicholas Rambaran (2 years ago)
hehehe "wife in zucchini aile"
Android 18 Super Sayin (2 years ago)
everytime I watch his video's I think what happend to me🤕, why is my heart jumping out of my body, why is my mind blank . But then i realize he yust slapped me with his charisma. 😍😍😍😍
Reconzile (2 years ago)
Realized where my problem to tackle was when I had to rewind and rewatch the part about being an active listener. Almost a bit embarrassing. But the videos a so great at making you see those things in yourself.
LEO 10 (2 years ago)
Awesome Videos >>>
tryunicornhunts (2 years ago)
Hey great video you definitely inspire me to become more concise thank you!
i once had a new boss and she didn't like me at all right from the start. after some time we were able to come along with each other and she told me, that she didn't like me because of my moustache. she thought that i'm arrogant and cocky because her former husband had also such a moustache and was like that. just my 2 cents about why maybe people don't like others.....
Josh Grant (2 years ago)
for some reasons all my teachers say exactly what he says but he just seems more intresting for some reason and get the message across
Josh Grant (2 years ago)
for some reasons all my teachers say exactly what he says but he just seems more intresting for some reason and get the message across
D1n0 Fr0g (2 years ago)
Fuck me, this channel is so useful... Thanks alpha 👏🏻
D1n0 Fr0g (2 years ago)
Kevin Neira hot
Kevin Neira (2 years ago)
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Mohamed Osama (2 years ago)
I always give great first impressions but then I give a shit impression for the rest of the time
Hades 1005 (2 years ago)
My biggest fear is being rejected by a girl because it will be awkward between the 2 of us.
Big T (2 years ago)
Be yourself - Don't listen to these salesmen / self confessed "Masters" of psychology. Just be yourself. Understand this - If someone wants to employ you, they will employ you, If they don't, they will not. If you do have to apply psychology before you go into an interview, convince yourself of this fact..... 1) I like these people and 2) They like me.
Ben Mogensen (2 years ago)
Always be the first to smile
Jordan Williams (2 years ago)
I find that women usually prefer the zucchini.
Lil Crip (2 years ago)
I have so much shit to remember, and now I need to remember this too...
Alaa Abdelaal (2 years ago)
Where did you learn public speaking or presentation skills like this?
Daniel Lee (2 years ago)
Meet my potential wife in the zucchini section...why, what a great way to meet someone. What brings you here? That's a mighty fine zucchini you got there.
Hadas Louk (2 years ago)
Hi there! Love your accent:-)
could you lower your tone of voice,I think you will sound more convincing,thanks.
Sonia (2 years ago)
I appreciate that you make fun of what you see as your faults. Using humor to overcome our mistakes makes it so much easier to look past them and continue with a conversation.

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