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4 Great Conversation Starters | Small Talk Tips and Tricks

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אופיר (9 days ago)
Boxing!? This is the best metaphor you could come with to describe relationships?
im a boxer xD
4 player (13 days ago)
You amazing Thank your tip is very good for me . Sorrry if wrong write . my english is low
the gaming pizaa (1 month ago)
بليز put subtitles in arabic
Shawn H007 (1 month ago)
Powerful but does need practice and confidence to pull off.
Quiet (1 month ago)
Starting is not the issue..but keep going is...i cant go more than 2 or 3
Mary Rose Pelaez (1 month ago)
Wow.. this is very good convo starterrr! 😗
JinXy NinNja (1 month ago)
Me: So what is your hobby? Girl: Im sorry I dont have any. Me: :^)))
Matthiau Steelez (2 months ago)
Instructions unclear. Punched girl. Currently arrested.
Chinglemba Meitei (2 months ago)
How to turn her on via text not sexually??
Brother Rafael (2 months ago)
4:09 ends ad
Krrish Shukla (2 months ago)
Best Conversation starter ever: How you Doin...?
Rachel Adkins (3 months ago)
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Mr. Brophy (3 months ago)
btw alpha males are a myth, it was a false observation.
Au Ky (4 months ago)
it helps me a lot thanks to you
Asher YT (4 months ago)
1:27 if ur in a hurry
Impulse (4 months ago)
for a middle age man, have you found nothing better to do than teach little kids how to talk to girls... hahaha
Kenny Plays (4 months ago)
Her: What do you like doing when your not working Me: I enjoy beating my meat under the covers you?
Sat Sh (4 months ago)
So how do you tell a girl she looks like a snack? Loll
Jason Le (4 months ago)
Watch this no info
TCS PuLsE (4 months ago)
All I did was ask for nudes went too sleep came back checked my snap it said your snap is pending till Nicole adds u as a friend
Judith Smouter (4 months ago)
2:40 Yes, I already knew I suck...  When you try your best, but you don't succeed, 'cause you're introvert but you know you need to talk sometimes
Navaneeth Krishnan (5 months ago)
Me: Hey there She: Hy Me: ( whispering) Don't get too familiar
5ygn4 (5 months ago)
@abel youngblood yeah, catnip
H I (5 months ago)
Me: Hey how are you doing? Them: Good how about you? Me: Good, how about you? (Facepalm)
Smoothie Smoothie (5 months ago)
#NEVEREVERGIVEUP!! #MMAFIGHTER!! #FIGHTER!! #GOOOOO!! #MMA!!
Mr. Geo (5 months ago)
U saved me bro!! I ask her about her hobbyes and got the Best reaction. Now she is my crush all because of you! Thanks!!!
Jerey Fergerbuger (5 months ago)
Lucky bro
Major LeeHung (5 months ago)
Apparently I'm a natural at this. But I'm glad I'm subbed.
YOMOMOMAMA (5 months ago)
me: Hi my name is xxxx Girl: go away
Shakhawat Hossain (6 months ago)
U have amazing advices
Himanshu Sharma (6 months ago)
video start at 1:25
fazly rabby prince (7 months ago)
Fucked up today
Reaper Motions (7 months ago)
How to start a conversation with your crush (for teens in school) - Did you do the homework? - Did we have homework? - What was the homework? - When's the homework due? - Where do we turn in our homework? *(ANYTHING WITH HOMEWORK)*
And One (7 months ago)
“boring questions most guys ask girls”
GamingWithWolf (7 months ago)
Just ask a girl hows your day then say something to respond to that then or if u aint ever talk to her just be slick and start a conversation act like u need help and slowly drift into a small talk then once u guys are friends ask for the snap or IG then talk some more then ask her out if she say no its fine so many other girls if ur friends tease u bout it then just dont mind it
CREATIVE ENTERTAINMENT (7 months ago)
Welcome new friend my gmail [email protected] ☺☺☺
Brendan J.T. (7 months ago)
I flirted with this geeky chick in class and she always avoided talking about herself, not because of her lack of engagement, but because she's an introvert. With my humor, she started talking lol
Nivu (8 months ago)
My lame conversation starter: Do you have any pets?. (Literally before I know their name, yes I'm a dork)
Tony G (8 months ago)
I complimented a dude who looked like he weight trained just the other day and asked him what his routine was, etc. There was nothing awkward about that and I am an extremely socially awkward person as it is. I think if you just get lost in the moment and say things like it's normal it will be perceived as normal.
Spicy taco 59 (8 months ago)
thanks i will now punch who ever i want to small talk with
Adam Lavigne (8 months ago)
I sucks lol
Gavin Ball (8 months ago)
Woah a video without a product plug....is this YouTube circa 2008?
black soul (8 months ago)
Thanks
Keona Tsang (8 months ago)
4:02 why am I so relatable
Shanti 'Sanjay' Roy (9 months ago)
How to talk to people: punch them. Got it.
J.R. Goldman (9 months ago)
I like this guy
Alex Jaramillo (9 months ago)
This guy gives away the game..
Trix_310 (9 months ago)
Did you fall from heaven cuz i wanna F**K YOU IN THE ASS
Team Core (9 months ago)
Instead of asking people what they do for a living ASk ThEM HOw MucH THeY MaKe
UNKNOWN SOURCE (9 months ago)
TF I guess I was always a natural small talk conversationalist conissuer, the problem is the people I always ask questions to are always replying with the shortest answers possible. Especially at school, I guess its my damn peers. Well, except thing is I dont speak to girls lmao. And when they ask me the same back, I reply with an answer that actually manages to make myself look interested they end it with "cool" or "oh ok" and it just dies from there. I do that too because they passed that habit on to me but in the end, in reality no one really cares I guess :( ..........
CyberBoom Gaming (9 months ago)
Me : "Nice clothes" Other person : "We're wearing the same uniform" Me : "Oh"
_Danielle _ (9 months ago)
Rude he said masculine lots or females do boxing to
BattleAddict57 (9 months ago)
and thanks for making this video
BattleAddict57 (9 months ago)
man!! you are awesome
god jr (9 months ago)
Me: Wow nice pants, are those Levi’s? Girl: Yeah, thanks! Me: No problem, I really wanted to get one for a friend, is it alright if I can quickly test the zipper to make sure it’s fine? Girl: ... Me: I’m kidding... unless you’re into- nvm.. Me again: Wait aren’t you the terrible employee that works at Subway? Girl: Wtf no? Girl: Yeah it is you! I could tell because.. well you know, you’re making my six inch a 12 inch again without noticing.. Girl: I’m going to go.. Me: Go into out DMs? Girl: Bye
Jerey Fergerbuger (5 months ago)
You may as well go commit die from saying those things
98763 (9 months ago)
What’s up with his left eye
krishna prasath (9 months ago)
man you rock
The TeenBoss (9 months ago)
what if you talked about everything
NGCB ALOHA (10 months ago)
Why does he sound like a lady?
Sam Roberts (10 months ago)
This will help me out so much
Joe Kidd (10 months ago)
Great tips man
Silviu T (10 months ago)
She doesn’t even know that I’m alive ;-;
IWTD (10 months ago)
Social life starter pack
GAMIAS PAPAS (11 months ago)
Where’s the legendary “nice weather”
Marvin K. (11 months ago)
Me: "I have one question for you" Someone: "Okay, go ahead" Me: "Thank you so much!" then leaves...
Jerey Fergerbuger (5 months ago)
I could test your theory
Karim Benzin (11 months ago)
Winner of a video, I've been looking for "tinder best opening lines" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Neeyedaly Romantic Pussnap - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my partner got excellent success with it.
COLD (11 months ago)
This is me _________ Me : sup hows it going Bob: its doing good Me : How was your day Bob: Good Me : *mumbling under my breath* YOU BORING STUPID MOTHERF- Someone interesting ________________ Me: Sup hows it going Jake : Doing good Me: So how was your day Jake: Good because In class i got an A on my test and in class blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah Me: (Oh wow this is getting somewhere)
Kimberly Morland (1 year ago)
Me: what do you like to do when your not working? Her: sleep Me: ...sleep..thats it you just sleep..
Scott Brown (1 year ago)
So uh.. do you like weather?
HotMango Mango (1 year ago)
When I clicked on this video I realized that I'm a very sad human being
COC Attackers (1 year ago)
Ok I suck because my reaction is exactly what you said!
lupe G (1 year ago)
me: okay try to have a conversation me: hey person: hi me: wyd person: chilling hby me: nothing so...wyd ?
Laci Smith (1 year ago)
1:24
Jeff 242 (1 year ago)
A little hey how was your day.. A little about hers.. Then pitch it back to her.. It works for Me! I give just enough to not be boring then pitch it right back to her.
Theres no such thing as an "alpha male'
John Smith (1 year ago)
This guy sounds like and reminds me of so much of Charlie Day 😂
Sheldon Gooch (1 year ago)
Abel u snapped lmao
Benny Kleykens (1 year ago)
Time to find somebody else to talk to, indeed.
Parris Terrill (1 year ago)
This dude nailed it from the start with the boxing analogy
james wilcox (1 year ago)
Me hows your day going? Girl = cheesed off stare!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Me = awkward
Gerald Stanley (1 year ago)
So, what is your favourite kind of porn?
John Bob (1 year ago)
My “friends” suck, they invite each other to do things but constantly leave me out. I want to leave that “friend” group so badly, but if I did I would be sitting alone. So what do I do? Also friends was in quotes because I don’t think of them as friends. I was trying to join in on a conversation once and as soon as I said one thing some guy sighed and told me to shut up. All in all I dread going to lunch.
Steve (11 months ago)
The hell that ain't real friend to me Just beware if they are fake 'real friend' sounds weird huh? I have bunch of em back then. 'oh, we are friend' Me : in your goddamn mouth! . avoid them "AT ALL COST!" if you see the similarity. They will pretend to care and listen to you but in reality they just meh, when you want to get serious like can you help me? they'd just gave you bazillion reason for refusing to offer any help. or when in depth talks they will pretend to listen but just by mmhmm or short answer. Or stab you in the back like leaking your honest secret (worst experience I've had) Use your belonging for their own entertaiment or needs but when you need same help sorry i can't lend you because bla bla bla And? After they got bored of you they'll dump you "we no history" like a damn gum after it ran out of taste. Now 99.9% of my friend were like that i have zero friends because rest of em were bully girls. If you want me to be honest old me were used to be a little bit snob but to my considered friend very loyal and bit honest and helpful (even though my social skill went downhill after 12 years ago or more social trauma) still got stab me in the back after all i done, nothing... Stranger please be careful don't make same mistake i did it is really bad now my social skill are even frozen after this awful second trauma...
Ryownage (1 year ago)
Lmao but what if the violent thoughts aren’t going away is that more of a fourth conversation
Xrep x2 (1 year ago)
The only way I can start a conversation is to disagree with everything the other person is saying😂, well... I mean keep a conversation not START ONE😂😂
Gaming With Chris (1 year ago)
Bout to binge watch all these videos
EPIC_ GAMEPLAY (1 year ago)
Or just be yourself
Susan Jump (1 year ago)
😂
Soko (1 year ago)
Best way to get her into your bed. Me:Hello She:Hi Me:Nice shoes She:Oh thank you Me:Wanna Fuck? Job done.
Jacques Irenge (1 year ago)
Alpha male I have been watching you ever since the beginning of time. If you really care about your fans. Reply to this and give me a shout out. I have a small youtube channel and I would love people to notice that I exist. I hope this shout-out makes a change. One day when I become big and well known, I will remember this act.
Scott Harris (1 year ago)
didnt find this helpful.
Savanna King (1 year ago)
THE SECOND TIP IS TERRIBLE BC U ALWAYS FEEL BAD IF YOUR DAY IS BETTER THAN THEIRS
JFF (1 year ago)
short video and very helpful ... thanks :)
Mungiwara 3019 (1 year ago)
Dude i just posted your video on my page and i put your name channel. Is that okay for you?
GoodMorningRatchets (1 year ago)
amazing smile is good. what's wrong with that? I like the way you walk is wild funny
Sage Lionel D'souza (1 year ago)
*Metaphorically speaking*
Lucas Argandoña (1 year ago)
Dude I think you just saved my life
Joe Valente Jr. (1 year ago)
When your boss treats you like a Afro slave that just got off a merchant ship.
Christian Castro (1 year ago)
thanks glad it was short video
YO! TELL ME?! (1 year ago)
See there is a good reason why I still follow you. You are there to help with any situation I have.
Nizar PdC the egg (1 year ago)
hi i like ure ass ! Oh Thank u

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