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What men want: 5 reasons he will commit | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo
 
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GET MORE HERE: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt163 What Men Want: 5 Reasons He Will Commit To You Think About It… How much easier would your relationship be if you could make him infatuated and devoted to you? How much nicer would it be if you were able to get him to really commit his heart to your relationship? Instead of one foot in and one foot out… - Always looking like he’s waiting for a “better” opportunity… - Never seeing what you have to offer him… - Never seeing that you’re the right woman for him… Wouldn’t it be great if you could just get him to open his heart to you? I’m talking about “speaking his language” of needs and secret desires that he holds inside – and hides from you. I’m going to help you out by exposing what he wants. What all men really want at heart…. Let’s go through the five reasons a man WILL commit to you or your relationship… Learn them – Know them. What Men Want – Get him to commit his heart – #1: A solid foundation… No, “solid foundation” isn’t a clever way of saying “round hips.” (Although, you really can finally stop worrying about the size of yours. Men don’t care about them like most women think.) He wants you to have REAL CHARACTER. You have to be a mature woman that’s all grown up. (You’d be shocked to find out how many wannabe-women we end up dating when we’re looking for The Real Deal.) Character is not really emphasized in women these days. In fact, I don’t know that it ever has. Probably because most guys make their “buying decision” based on appearances. On Looks. But then they rush to do a “trade-in” if they find out you’ve got one of these traits: - Bitchy/Mean – no, ladies, men do NOT like bitches… - Gold digger – if you’re eyeing his wallet more than him, he smells it… - Dishonest/Disloyal – Speaks for itself. - Selfish/Entitled – If it’s all about you, he’s going to wonder if he’ll ever be a priority to you… - Superficial – If you’ve got no depth, he WILL get bored… - Manipulative – Men HATE being played… I’m sure we could go on and on about these. The point is that you have to be a good person if you want a man to invest in you over the rest of your lives together. He wants in you what you want in him. Character is NOTHING about your appearance. It’s everything to do with the Hard Stuff of being a good person. Men want a woman that is investing just as much time and energy into her makeup and hair and clothes as she is in her quality of thinking and being in the world. Skip your makeup and hair and just come over to hang out with him in sweats and a t-shirt. If you can’t be with him on that level, your long-term relationship won’t have a solid foundation. What Men Want – Make Him Commit – #2: R-E-S-P-E-C-T Look, you-know-who might have sung about this one – but she really didn’t understand how incredibly important this is to MEN. We live in a world that pays very little respect to men. Shocking little. The modern media is in the middle of a feeding frenzy. Lots of men misbehave, yes. But here’s the kicker... Learn more in the link above! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What Men Want - 5 Reasons He Will Commit https://youtu.be/kraF8NRkMJs
Views: 20608 Carlos Cavallo
5 signs married man is falling in love with you
 
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FOR MORE - SUBSCRIBE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/youtube How Do You Know If A Married Man Is In Love With You...? It's taboo and it's not for the faint of heart... It's when a guy who's already married starts to show interest in you. But at the same time, you're probably - dare I say it - kinda hoping for a little of that interest? Maybe it wasn't what you wanted at the start, but you've got his interest now - and it feels pretty good, right? BUT - you also might not welcome it. You know it's messing around in a place you don't want to go. Like when a married coworker starts to show interest. I mean, think about it: You spend upwards of 8 hours with some of the people you work with, and usually less with your own family during the week. It can get very intimate. I have a close relative who was once seeing a married guy - ironically right after she got divorced from a husband who had... well, cheated on her. Go figure. So whatever the situation may be for you, you now have a situation to deal with. So how do you handle the possible signs a married man is in love with you? Let's take a look - starting with: Sign #1 A married guy is falling for you: He hides the band... You know that little gold or silver ring he normally has on his left hand? You might see it catching the glint of the sun in a few of his social media pictures. Or when he's at certain places with ... her. But when he's able to just hang out with you, for whatever reason that ring keeps disappearing. You might even see that telltale line on his finger... slight tan line. Of course he's going to feel a little guilty and weird about this attraction, as you probably do. So taking that visual reminder out of the picture is a way to alleviate some of that feeling. And the ring makes him feel like there's an invisible tentacle of "wife" there watching him. Let's be clear here, though: He's not necessarily going to act on this feeling. If his marriage isn't a happy one, sure, it could happen. But most likely he's just looking to flirt and play with that kind of romantic energy every once in a while. We ALL want to feel desired. And it's probably been years since he felt that initial thrill of new attraction with a woman. Married women do this sort of thing all the time. (I should know, I liked to flirt with them, too. ) When the wedding ring disappears it lets him play with the notion that he is free to flirt. It always comes down to whether or not his flirting will be acted on when the time comes, of course. Which brings us to: Sign #2 Married dude is flirting: He gets closer... Body language is inescapable. When we're into someone, we definitely act differently than we do when we're just friends with them. You'll feel that magnetic pull of wanting to get closer to that person, on the chance that you might come in contact with them... feel that static charge of skin on skin. "One of the signs that a married man is in love with you is the physical contact he tries to have with you..." If you're out and about, he will make it a point to be near you, often intruding on your personal bubble. If you ever find yourself excited by the sudden change in distance to him, chances are he moved closer intentionally. When he talks to you, he'll make it a point to touch your arm or shoulder. (Most guys will avoid the hand - it's far too intimate too soon.) He probably has a secret crush on you, and probably wants to know if he actually does have a chance with you. (Whether or not he decides to act on it.) Remember that the body works on a different frequency than the mind. So his subconscious desire for you will act out with his body language. You'll also see him mirroring your body language - facing you, pointing his hips toward you, leaning in, etc. The one thing you can be sure of is that his body is keeping the score - and it will show if he's falling in love with you by how he lets these "tells" out. Sign #3 Married dude wants you: He starts unloading... The reality is that many people --- FIND OUT THE REST IN THE VIDEO! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Signs married man is falling in love with you https://youtu.be/EhpbhqsU1Ck
Views: 78411 Carlos Cavallo
Make him chase you - 5 tricks - No games
 
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Make him chase you - 5 tricks - Get more here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt151 Back when you first started dating him, you wanted to make him chase you. In fact, that’s the natural goal in any relationship. To be fair, there’s a little of each person that should be chasing, but it’s most important for the man to chase the woman first. “Why? I mean, c’mon Carlos… We’re in the land of equality and female empowerment here! We should just be able to stop doing all these primitive mating rituals and just act like one giant genderless society, right? RIGHT?“ Okay, excuse my sarcasm there… Hopefully you smelled what I was cooking up with that. The reality is that ATTRACTION is NOT logical. And, if I may be so brave, attraction is not a CHOICE, either. You don’t get to just pick who you SHOULD want to feel attracted to. We don’t get to come up with an inventory, interview a bunch of people, and pick them out. “Hey, you’re a good match. I’ll meet you for drinks on Friday and get attracted to you.” Sounds silly, right? So why do we argue with this concept over and over? Well, the good news is that you can influence a man’s attraction. In fact, you can downright guide him into falling in love with you… if you want to. But we’ll get back to that in a bit. I had a female friend that used to say: “I’ll get him to chase me until I catch him.” You should make that your personal mantra. It’s GOLD. Right now, I want to show you a few tricks ‘n tips for how to get him to chase you. How To Get A Man To Chase You – TIP 1: STOP CHASING HIM… I know this should be obvious, but I need to say it. If you want him to start chasing you, you have to stop chasing him. Think about it – do you ever see a Chase-Chase dynamic anywhere? The road runner never chased Wile E. Coyote… Bugs Bunny never chased Elmer Fudd… And a ton of other Warner Brothers cartoon examples… There’s a dynamic that’s created by nature, and it’s chase/be-chased. You can let that flip-flop back and forth a bit, but the overwhelming majority of chasing is HIS responsibility. If you are chasing him right now, you need to cut that $#&% out. Chasing is an emotional message, and it reads like this: “I’m chasing you because I find you attractive and valuable. And you have the value that I want to have in my life.” I get it. It’s tough not to start chasing him. After all, the first time a man pulls away from you, your first impulse is to panic. “Oh NO! I’m losing him!” your insecurity screams. But the women who really understand men know that they can’t let themselves fall victim to this panic impulse. If you lack this emotional self-control, you should find a girlfriend that can help talk you down from the ledge when it happens. How To Get A Man To Chase You – TIP 2: Give Him Competition… I know, you’re probably saying – “Carlos! I don’t want to play games!” Too late, dear. Love, Romance, & relationships ARE games. Somewhat complicated, but FUN games. The game playing is wrong when you use it to achieve a selfish end. Or strictly as a shortcut. But social games serve a purpose. And the people that avoid them are typically the ones that often don’t do well at them. Remember: As a woman, you’re the steward of the relationship. It’s up to you to take the leadership role in making your relationship – or marriage – whatever you want it to be. The guy will usually follow if you handle him the right way. So believe me when I tell you that it’s imperative that your man NOT think he’s got you all locked up. You need to leave a little doubt and uncertainty in his head that he’s the only one competing for you. Men THRIVE on competition. We need it to help push us to perform at our best. Without it, we’re lazy slugs that sit around and binge watch shows in our underwear while playing video games… Give him a reason to work for you. The chemicals that get released in his brain during competition are what help to lock him into obsessing over you. Dopamine, serotonin, adrenaline… These are the love hormones that make him want you. So in short, stop trying to NOT-BE-SINGLE. It’s killing your game, woman! Men want a woman that’s not chasing commitment like a cat chases a laser pointer. I’ll tell you some more secrets about how to do that in a bit… How To Get A Man To Chase You – TIP 3: Arouse His ... Want to learn more? Hit play now to get started! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Make him chase you - 5 Ways https://youtu.be/sv5L_55t3ew
Views: 283257 Carlos Cavallo
5 Ways To Keep Him Interested In You
 
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Be Irresistible to him: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt115 One of the questions I get quite frequently is this: “Carlos, why do men come on so strong, then disappear or go cold and distant?” Sometimes they just ask, “Has he lost interest in me?” There’s a very real fear in there, that you’ve lost his interest and his feelings of love and attraction. And underneath that is a fear that you’ve lost a connection with him. So why do guys lose interest so quickly and early in the relationship? Click play to learn more... Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 5 Ways To Keep Him Interested In You: https://youtu.be/O3YbcbHtZ50
Views: 36428 Carlos Cavallo
Learn how to talk to a guy - Dating Advice Guru
 
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How to talk to a guy: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/freereport/ Most women think all men talk about are guy flicks, football stats, muscle cars, and well, women. But those who know what men want understand that there's MORE to it than that. If you want to learn how to make a guy like you, you need to unlearn the common communication myth that you can start a conversation with a guy based on those topics. You might happen to actually like stuff guys are typically into, but chances are you'll have trouble finding common ground with him. In fact, things would get awkward pretty fast if you tried chatting up a man about the usual guy topics, so you're better off using a different approach to talking with a guy. The good news is that knowing how to attract men this way is easier than it seems. I'll give you a handful of well-placed communication strategies that will get you his undivided attention. For example, you'll want to avoid any criticism when talking to a guy. Truth be told, it's like conversational kryptonite to most men, and I'll give you some in-depth reasons why you should hold back on this one. And we'll cover other tips on talking to guys to help you get on the fast track to knowing him better and connecting in a way other woman can't! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What Men Want: https://youtu.be/UzWMAB3YTbg
Views: 46782 Carlos Cavallo
TOP TEN Romantic phrases to tell your man!
 
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Does he love you? https://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt135 What is the last sweet thing you said to your boyfriend? If you're like many women, you start out with wild sparks of romance, and it generally takes more and more energy to up the amount of goodwill. So this video is about what you can do when this happens in your relationship... Showing your love and appreciation for the man in your life is one of the most important things you can do. Communicating the positive is so critical, that many experts suggest that it's the ONLY way you should be talking to your boyfriend or husband. Here's the truth: Nagging will never work. Even when it works. However, the irony is that he'll GLADLY do whatever you like, if you can generate that loving vibe... So, here are the TOP 10 phrases that will stir his heart and make him remember you're The One for him... Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== TOP TEN Romantic phrases to tell your man: https://youtu.be/n3NYypA-6ds
Views: 109327 Carlos Cavallo
Number One Reason Why He Pulls Away- How To Keep Him Interested!
 
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Subscribe now! https://www.datingadviceguru.com/subscribe Connect with his heart now! https://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt132 Does he love you? Find out here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/does-he-love-you I've been coaching men for almost a decade and a half, and I've cracked the code of a man's behavior - specifically why he pulls away. Every woman has experienced this jarring panic at some point or another in their relationship. It may have happened suddenly, taking you by surprise. Or it might have taken some time before rearing its ugly head on you. Either way, it feels terrible – and you need to know how to see it coming BEFORE it happens to you. And before I explain this reason, you need to know why he’s acting this way. Let’s count them down, starting with reason # 5... Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Why He Pulls Away- How To Keep Him Interested: https://youtu.be/WqxiJEv900Q
Views: 31640 Carlos Cavallo
Dating Men Over 40 - 5 Tips | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo
 
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Get him to commit - go here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt172 Dating Men Over 40 – 5 Tips You MUST Know… If you’ve been around long enough, you know that things change when you get a little older. Especially when it comes to love and relationships. Dating isn’t just a giggly trip to the movies like it was in your teens and twenties… Now you have to deal with mature dating – and know how to handle things as a grown-up. Yeah, I know – bummer. But things are better later on. You’re wiser, more confident, and you don’t have time to waste on game-playing with those “players” out there. And if you have to date a guy over 40, you should know how to handle yourself – and not get surprised in the process. So I’m going to cover 5 special tips for you if you’re dating a “silver fox” – that’s a more affectionate way of describing those guys that are a little more gray. First – the benefits: Older guys are better in bed. Usually, anyway. And that’s good for both of you! Older guys are more established in their career, and they have more time for you… Older guys have more interests and hobbies to include you in. It’s not just about playing beer pong on the weekends… Older guys are also in a better place financially. (If you find yourself dating a guy who’s still struggling at age 40 with his money, that’s a red flag, by the way…) Now, that last bullet point leads us right into the first tip: Dating a guy over 40 – Tip #1: Follow The Money… Watch how he treats you, and his money… It goes without saying that if you’re dating a man, you want a guy that treats you right. But you also want to choose a guy that has his financial $#!+ together. Look, let’s be realistic – if you’re a woman dating a man, you care how much he makes. Nothing says “unattractive” like a low-ambition guy who’s content to just scrape by on a minimum wage job. And frankly, if you’re still dating these guys, you need to level-up, honey. “What?? Carlos, are you saying it’s okay to be a gold-digger?” No, I’m not saying you should look for some sugar-daddy to support you for the rest of your life… HOWEVER, if you want a relationship with a real man, you need to choose a guy that’s earning his keep. You see, women are attracted to rich men for a very practical reason: His earnings generally show how ambitious a provider he is. Women are attracted to providers. And men are happy to provide for you. So don’t feel guilty that you’re turning into one of THOSE women. Looking at his earnings potential is just a way of seeing if you’re going to be stuck with Homer Simpson, or a guy who will lift you a bit higher up in life. Oh, and watch how he manages and handles that money, too. Is he stingy and tight? (This is bad…) Is he conservative and frugal? (This is good…) Is he frivolous and a show-off? (Again, bad…) That will give you insight into his character that you might not be able to see until years into a relationship, so pay attention. Courtship After 40 – Tip #2: Don’t Turn On The Change Machine… A guy in his 40s is not going to be clay, my dear. He’s going to be pretty well set in his ways by now… Meaning that you’re not likely to change him. And the worst thing you can do is to turn on your “change machine” and make him into your fixer-upper. I might argue that trying to change ANY man is a bad idea – mostly because it sends the message that he’s not good enough as he is. This is the same as REJECTION to a man. I’d also suggest that trying to change him is even more of a waste of time on a guy in his 40s or later. When a person has reached their 40s, their personality is now set in stone. He knows who he is, and who he doesn’t want to be. And any woman that steps in and starts trying to make him “perfect” is in for a rude awakening. The key for you is to choose a guy that’s “perfect enough” and leave it alone. Show gratitude for what you have. Dating A “Silver Fox” – Tip #3: Remember What HE Wants… If you want to hook a guy who’s in his 40s and is a better prospect for a partner, you gotta know what he’s looking for in a woman. In a study of over 650,000 (yeah, that’s thousands) online dating profiles, here’s the top 2 traits men want in a woman – in order: For the rest - Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Dating Men Over 40 - 5 Tips https://youtu.be/8nxgU3IP0hY
Views: 102942 Carlos Cavallo
Top 10 Things Irresistible Women Do To Capture His Heart
 
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Capture his heart - Top 10 Things Irresistible Women Do: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt147 CARLOS’ TOP 10 Irresistible Things Women Do To Capture A Man’s Heart How a woman carries herself is essential to her success with men. This should come as no surprise. Especially if you’ve been around men for longer than 10 years. (NOTE: I’m typically writing to women that are over 30 and have been around the block a couple times.) One of my favorite self-help authors says that success leaves clues. And if you follow those clues, and you look at what behaviors get results, and you DO those things – you’ll probably get the same results. The trick is finding the good examples – finding the women who GET IT when it comes to men. Well, I’m going to save you some searching today. I’m going to show you the things women do that make them irresistible to men. I’ll show you how to capture his heart. I’ll show you what men want, and what he doesn’t want in a woman… Some might call this ideal female “Alpha Woman” – but I’d prefer to call her the Irresistible Woman. She’s got her act together. Let’s kick it off with: #10 Kickass Girl Habit: She’s done second-guessing her value and her character… These days, the media seems to own our perceptions. All you see are ads, ads, everywhere. And they do little to make you feel good about yourself. In fact, quite the opposite. They’re always trying to get you to feel inadequate, so you’ll buy some new cream or pill. Don’t fall for this Trap. Stop second-guessing who you are. You were born adequate, and you’ll only get better the more you stay away from the lure of conspicuous consumer habits… this constant consumption. If you have something you want to work on, do it. But don’t live your life looking at your glass being half-empty. You’re enough right now – and you will keep getting better the less you stare at every imaginary defect. #9 Kickass Girl Habit: She’s happy single, AND open to finding a great guy to make it better… One of my principles is this: You’re better off single than in the wrong relationship. You might want to check in with yourself on that. Say it aloud and see if you believe it. Most people believe it INTELLECTUALLY, but their “scared to be alone” side starts to undermine that reality. Don’t fall for that inner voice of fear. You have to believe this, because it is true. And staying in the wrong relationship is only going to damage your sense of self. When you really do enjoy your time alone, you’ll be surprised how many people – how many men – want to join you. Try it… #8 Kickass Girl Habit: She’s genuine – even with her faults… Trying to hide or cover up or change who you are to suit other people… OR Trying to keep your imperfections invisible… These things will make you a neurotic mess. You can NEVER feel good about yourself when you’re engaged in an active campaign to hide it… Now, I’m not saying you should broadcast your flaws to everyone. That’s just as weird. But you can’t make the focus of your life being your camouflaging your weaknesses. You can’t be authentic to others that way, much less yourself. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 10 Things To Be Irresistible To Him And Capture His Heart https://youtu.be/h2AgKTDnjuw
Views: 57548 Carlos Cavallo
Make him appreciate and value you - 5 secrets
 
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Get Carlos' Secret Commitment Tips Here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt179 I recently received an email from a coaching client, and she ended it with one simple question: “What can I do to get a guy to commit? What can I say to him? I want him to appreciate me more – I have this innate desire to be cherished…“ To feel really committed in a relationship requires a woman to feel cherished and valued. You want to know that a man appreciates you – for who you are, what you do, and what you can be in your relationship. Well, it’s not like you can just push a button and he will instantly appreciate you – Wait… can you? The key is knowing how men think and value you in the relationship. Today, I’m going to give you 5 essential secrets about how to get your man to appreciate you and value you. First, you need to know what will make a man DEpreciate you and lose his feelings of value for you: How To Lose His Respect – 1: Going to him with drama… It’s not that men don’t enjoy a little gossip from time to time – heck, I still do. However, you need to severely rein in how much of it you bring to your man. He will grow tired of it quickly. Men have a need to move forward to solutions to these kinds of problems after a while, and recycling issues with friends and family will wear thin. Show him you’ve got solutions for your social situations, and balance this stuff with some higher thinking. And share it with him – he’ll appreciate it. And Cherish you. How To Lose His Respect – 2: Agreeing with him too much… He doesn’t want to argue with you, but he wants to know that you’ve got your own opinions. He wants to hear interesting things come from your mouth – including observations, ideas, and plans. He needs to know you’re an independent thinker. Really, being too much of a YES-person in general will make a man lose his adoring feelings. I’m not saying you need to start being DISagreeable… that’s just as much a turn-off. But some women, who realize that they might not care about the details of what they do, tend to be more easygoing about what she does and when. In fact, I’ve heard quite a few women say: “I don’t care what we do, it will be fun to just be out having fun.” Which is fine – to a point. Men bond by doing things WITH a woman (and with their male friends.) So he will occasionally want to have ACTIVITIES to do with you. And it means a lot when a woman has an idea in mind. So don’t be afraid to get specific with him in some way. Make your desires known. If you don’t have a preference, express one anyway. It makes you feel like more of a whole, separate entity to us, which increases our respect for you. How To Lose His Respect – 3: Passive Aggressive Tactics… If you’re not familiar with this form of psychological manipulation – GOOD! But you should know it when you see it. Like when a woman says: “Oh sure, you can go hang out with your friends Thursday. That’s cool. I mean, we haven’t seen each other since last week. No, I’ll just wait at home. I’m sure I’ll find something to do with my time. (sigh)” You hear what’s going on there, right? She’s not saying what she REALLY wants. Guys HATE this tactic. It’s manipulative and it feels really gross. (Literally, it feels like being rolled in oil and dirt, if you want to be vivid.) Avoid this at all costs! Okay, now let’s turn this around and get positive – Let’s talk about the 5 secret ways you can make your man appreciate and value you more… Make Your Man Appreciate You – Secret #1: Expect Him To Rise… People will generally meet your level of expectation for them. Of course, the real problem is ... Watch the video for the rest of the tips! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Make him appreciate and value you - 5 secrets https://youtu.be/vtG-UBb50eQ
Views: 70259 Carlos Cavallo
How to make him realize he's losing you | Relationship Advice - Carlos Cavallo
 
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Get MORE Secret Tips Here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt173 How To Make A Guy Realize He’s Losing You… 3 Tips Maybe you feel like he’s taking you for granted… Maybe you feel like he’s not appreciating your relationship… Maybe he doesn’t notice all the ways you love him… Maybe – it’s time to wake him up! Before you end a relationship, you want to know that you’ve given it your best shot. You want to see if you can wake this guy out of his stupor and get him to see what he has in you. That’s what we’re going to focus on here – How to make a guy realize he’s losing you. I’m going to give you some specific ways to hint to him that he’s messing this up. And while it might feel really great to break up, and then have him come crawling back to you, that’s not something you want to risk. Especially if he might find some other woman in that time apart… Of course he was all into you and paying attention at the start of your relationship – before you two had slept together. That’s when a man is MOST motivated – when he’s working to get you into bed. You might even be tempted to think that he’s only in it for the sex, but that would be a HUGE mistake, too. He wants a relationship. He just needs the right kick-in-the-butt to realize he could lose this relationship. Before we jump in, I have to show you this: The #1 Mistake Women Make when it comes to getting respect in a relationship… This mistake comes up because of how you were probably raised and socialized. (And not by your parents, either!) You see, girls are taught from a very early age that Go Along = Get Along. Unlike male friendships, which are usually based on shared interests in hobbies and activities, the key to female friendships are self-disclosure and emotional support. Both of which are often mutually incompatible with demanding to get your own needs met as a woman. There are women who take the opinion that you need to be liked by and become friends with everyone. SO MUCH that they won’t turn away even from super crappy relationships. That’s an extreme you should obviously avoid. Women are brought up to go along to get along. And it’s imposed as THE rule of all female friendships and social cliques. So be sure to take a good long look at your own habits. Do you fall victim to this kind of thinking? Are you easily manipulated by your need to be liked and approved of? If so, you’ll want to root it out and manage it. Because it can often lead you into very unhealthy relationships – or prematurely end the good ones. Now, let’s get right into it with: Make Him Realize He Could Lose You – Tip 1: Let Him Eat Hot… Nothing. Sometimes the biggest wakeup call for a man is when he starts to sense a change in the dynamic of the relationship. You see, there is a place in a relationship where a guy thinks he’s got the upper hand. It usually happens a few weeks after we sleep with you. WARNING: I’m generalizing a bit here. But I’m also going to tell you “like it is” and not be “politically correct.” That’s why you’re here – Carlos tells you the TRUTH. A guy will lose his interest if it's too easy for him... Which is why you have to find a place to BACK OFF for a while. Go “dark” on him. What I mean is, stop answering his calls and texts for a few days. Give him a little reason to WONDER. Maybe even… worry. If you feel a bit uneasy about doing that, remember that he’s doing it because... For the rest, watch the video - or click the link at the top... ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How to make him realize he's losing you https://youtu.be/Bk-ORPQQDvY
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How to make a man fall in love with you | Relationship Secrets With Carlos Cavallo
 
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Get More Relationship Tips Here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt167 How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You It’s been the goal since the beginning of recorded history… Create a love potion, a spell, or any kind of magical method to make a man fall in love. To be honest, men look for this, too. Remember this song? “I told her that I was a flop with chicks… “I’ve been this way since 1956… “She looked at my palm and she made a magic sign… “She said “What you need is love potion number nine” Yeah, that little ditty is about a guy who wants that MAGIC power. The power to make another person – your beloved – fall in love with you... Well, the truth is that you have that power in you right now. And you don’t need no potion, baby… BUT – there IS a Formula… I want to show you a few of the ingredients here for How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You… And I’m going to avoid the annoying advice like “be yourself” or “Never give up hope!” I am here to not only advise you, but also to pick you up, dust you off, and put you back on your feet. I will try to pump you up a little, but I’m also not going to blow smoke up your skirt, either… Remember, I’m Carlos “Tough Love” Cavallo. Jump right into: Make Him Fall For You – STRATEGY 1: Dial Into His Inner Hero… A man wants to be your hero – probably more than anything else in the whole wide world. When little girls are dreaming of having their knight in shining armor come to rescue them, men are dreaming of BEING that knight. … Your hero. A guy wants to be a masculine force for you, capable of slaying dragons – or whatever it takes to not only win your heart, but win your RESPECT and admiration. This is where many women sabotage themselves when it comes to love. Some insecurity or desperation (or even loneliness) makes her lower her standards for a guy. She winds up with an improvement project instead. Then a certain amount of bitterness creeps in. She knows she deserves more than this… And she can’t summon that respect and admiration she so desires to give him. The irony is that he’s so desperate to earn that from her, that if he just got a little, he’d feed on it like it was mana from heaven… But when you’re caught up in lack, it stifles your ability to appreciate. You have to let him bring that part of him out, no matter how small. He doesn’t have to take on a fire-breathing dragon, but he has to have the opportunity to feel like he did. That’s what he needs – to feel MASCULINE. Every bit as much as you need to feel FEMININE… He wants to protect you, provide for you, and solve your problems. Or at least have a part in that. Don’t pull the feminist slant of “I don’t need no man…” Because when you adopt that attitude, you’re not going to GET no man. And even if you did, he wouldn’t be one you’d be happy with. The hero factor is huge! Ignore it at your own peril… Get Him Fall Crazy In Love With You – STRATEGY 2: Be Grateful & Accepting… This is another symptom of settling when you choose a man. It’s something that GUYS do just as much as women, by the way. When you settle for someone just because you feel an emptiness or loneliness in your life that needs filling, you’re ... FIND OUT THE REST IN THE VIDEO! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How to make a man fall in love with you https://youtu.be/NB4sfLpbfb0
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7 Body Language Signals That a Guy Likes You
 
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Know his TRUE feelings: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/readhissignals Decoding a guy's actions might seem tricky - but only if you don't know the signs. In this video, I'll give you the seven body language signs you need to look out for. If you want to know if a guy REALLY likes you, you can't afford not to know these important indicators of male interest. Things could get awkward real fast if you openly flirt with a guy who doesn't share the same feelings. That's why we'll go through the VITAL body language signals that a guy gives off. This will tell you for sure if you need to move on...or keep at it. (Plus, it'll save you a lot embarrassment and disappointment!) To the passing eye, our gestures and other physical behavior might not mean much. But if you learn to pay attention (as I'll teach you), it has PLENTY to tell you about a person's inner thoughts. For instance, the way a guy looks at you is BIG clue that says a lot about his feelings. There's a specific kind of gaze that gives away a man's attraction for someone. Also, watch out for any protective behavior. This is another good sign he's feeling the sparks between you. If he's trying to screen out "potential threats" (which I'll discuss in detail), then take it that he's into you. I've got plenty of other body language signals you need to learn about in my dating advice video, so click play to see the rest! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/user/connectwithhim?sub_confirmation=1 =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 5 Signs He's Cheating On You: https://youtu.be/hiaKIgYAeSg
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7 Man Melting Phrases That Make Him Fall For You
 
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Go get your free presentation here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt181 How To Melt His Heart There’s a hidden key to getting a man to melt for you and fall for you, and it’s a lot easier than you might imagine… The key is in the intention behind what you say to him. Let me explain: When you talk to a man, what is usually on your mind? Of course, you want him to like you and feel attracted to you. But if you’re only focused on getting him to appreciate YOU – you’re going to miss out on the biggest opportunity of your life. And that’s the opportunity to APPRECIATE HIM! This is probably the single biggest mistake women make with men, but it’s also the easiest to fix. Mind you, I’m not talking about casual compliments on his looks. Those don’t really do much for guys other than artificially pump up his ego. There’s a saying in the business world that you want to “lead with the giving hand.” That simply means that if you want to turn a prospect into a customer, you should think more about what you have to offer them before you try to GET something back from them. So, to that end, I’m going to share some man-melting phrases that will get him to fall in love with you… Man-Melting Phrase 1: Appreciate His Unknown… Every guy has something he does that he’s secretly proud of, and yet almost no one knows about it. He might be good at the violin… … or maybe he’s a swing dancer, or he knows how to tie 57 different knots. Maybe he’s an Eagle Scout… Or maybe he has the world’s biggest collection of arrowheads… Whatever it is – I guarantee you, your man has one – you just need to find it. The key is that it can’t be something everyone else already knows about. When someone hears a compliment about something all the time, they stop registering the compliments after a while. But if you can find the thing he doesn’t talk about or reveal to others, you’ll be the one unique person who saw something in him that others didn’t… And that’s huge! Sometimes that hidden thing is not just the accomplishment. Look deeper, and appreciate him for the character trait that got him there. He might be the top sales person at his company. Most people would compliment the accomplishment without looking at what it took to get that – the persistence and drive. If you mention to him how you admire that quality about him, you’ll light him up with passionate desire. “Sweetie, I’m proud of you – and not that surprised. I’ve always known you have that persistence and focus to get what you want…” Instant melt right there… Man-Melting Phrase 2: Appreciate His Perception… Every guy wants to believe in his ability to make good choices. When a guy makes a good choice, and it pays off in some way, he feels validated on just about every level of his being. This drive to be an effective leader is in every man’s genetic blueprint. So when you appreciate his choices – and by virtue of this, his perception – you validate him. For example, one of the places men often want to get some credit is for their sense of style and appearance. So when you see that he’s chosen some nice jeans, or a fashionable shirt, let him know about it. This is the kind of compliment that a guy WANTS to own. Man-Melting Phrase 3: Appreciate His Inner Tiger… Look, every man wants to think of himself as a “sexual tiger.” A man wants to believe in his virility every bit as much as you want to protect your fertility. So one of the best things you can do is to give him a dose of affirmation. Whenever you have the chance, you want to BE (not just ACT) surprised about him when you two are intimate. For example – you might say something like: For the rest of the phrases, watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 7 Man Melting Phrases That Make Him Fall For You https://youtu.be/H4TlXMvE52A
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5 Ways To Flirt With A Guy
 
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How to get a guy to like you: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/freereport/ In today's video on dating advice for women, I'll teach you the subtle art of dropping hints of attraction for a guy you're into. The biggest challenge in learning how to flirt with a guy is NOT to look like you're flirting with him. You want him to know you exist, and appear on his radar (his "Potential Someone" radar, that is). But you don't want to do it in a way that's TOO obvious or try-hard. Giving away too much interest might turn him off or make you look desperate. You might be wondering, "How do I give him the green light to hit on me *without* going out on a limb and embarrassing myself?" After all, you don't want to risk letting him know you like him if he doesn't feel the same way. Well, I'll teach you how to get around that little roadblock and clear a path of romantic opportunity for that special guy in your life. You don't have to play the "hard to get" game. All it really takes are some simple but effective body language tricks and other methods to show up in his radar in a BIG way... ...all while keeping things casual and pressure-free for him so he doesn't get intimidated or turned off. Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 5 Ways To Flirt With A Guy- https://youtu.be/0wr90qVOung
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Advice on Guys - 5 critical relationship tips | With Carlos Cavallo
 
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For more - go here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt174 Advice on Guys: 5 Critical Relationship Tips When I was 16, I was already wishing I had a manual on relationships and dating… I’ll bet you felt the same, huh? Life would be so much easier if you had a simple “owner’s manual for men,” right? Well, I’m going to give you a few pages of that owner’s manual here today, some powerful advice on guys that any woman can put to use right NOW. And this isn’t that “magazine rack” trash you see at the grocery store checkout. This is the juicy fun stuff! Just a side note that a good friend of mine sent me a story today about a cult in New York that brands – yes, brands with a hot piece of metal! – their members. And they also believe aliens are in control of your love life. When you hear stuff like that, you have to realize that people are desperate out there. Desperate for answers… desperate for a feeling of control over their lives. And THAT is what keeps me doing this dating and relationship advice gig – 16 years later…! Now, let’s get started with: Advice On Guys – Tip #1: Don’t Listen To Guys! Look, the one thing that might tempt you is to ask a guy why he does the stuff he does. It might be SUPER tempting. But don’t do it. (And yes, I tell guys not to listen to women!) The reason is fairly simple: We think we’re rational creatures making decisions from our “logical brains” – but we’re not doing that at all. We all make decisions from our EMOTIONS first. Then we back them up with logic to make them sound good. Don’t believe me? Ask a guy why he bought his current car. Go ahead. You’ll hear reasons like: Gas mileage Safety Ratings and reviews Storage/ipod connection/seat warmers… whatever What he won’t tell you is that he was SOLD that car by someone at the dealership. He probably didn’t even want that make or model at first, but then he wound up paying $10,000 more than he planned because he liked the status and prestige of owning it. THAT is what the salesman appealed to… And the possibility that women would find it hot. Emotions FIRST, logic second. So when you ask a guy why he pulled away from a woman, he’ll tell you all kinds of things. But the one reason that you probably won’t hear is that he just felt an emotional repulsion that he HAD to obey. No guy wants to admit that he doesn’t know why he did what he did. Most women don’t want to, either! So we invent convoluted stories about why we did this or that. The scientific term for this is CONFABULATION. When it comes to understanding why someone did what they did, sometimes you can’t ask that person. But what you’ll get is just more confusion. They don’t really know! Which makes things HUGELY frustrating when you’re trying to understand men. Don’t worry… I’ll clear up some of this for you. On to the next: Advice On Guys – Tip #2: Wait 24 Hours… This is one rule of dating that women everywhere need to take to heart. Sometimes it’s easy to let a man – YOUR man – really get under your skin. For example, he might not have responded to your 8:30 AM text yet… and it’s nearly lunchtime! Is he cheating? Is he out with his friends? Is he … STOP! Stop right there. Before you can make ANY assumptions about what’s going on, you need to obey my 24 Hour Rule: The 24 Hour Rule: If he’s broken his routine – for any reason – you must wait 24 hours before you take any action. The reason for this is pretty simple: There will be times when he gets distracted by life, and doesn’t do what you expect him to do. When he does disappear or act weirdly, you can’t jump to conclusions about the reasons why. Because if you do suddenly panic and leave 10 messages on his voicemail (watch the movie “Swingers” for this… it’s priceless), he’s going to think you’re a lunatic. The 24 hour rule ensures you don’t make this mistake and tarnish your relationship with a gallon size jug of cRaZy. Wait, and see. Chances are, his life just experienced a slight hiccup. And you don’t want to misunderstand and accidentally push him away. Advice On Guys – Tip #3: He’s Not A Woman… Okay, I’m going to get a lot of angry emails on this one – but this is really important: Don’t ... For the rest - watch the video above! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Advice on guys 5 critical relationship tips https://youtu.be/K1qqWNNt8Lg
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Will he come back if I leave him alone? 3 TIPS
 
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For more, go watch this free video: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/passionphrases “Will He Come Back If You Leave Him Alone?” – 3 Priceless Tips How do you know if your man will come back to you? That’s a tricky question for a lot of women. If you’ve felt that ache after he pulls away or disappears on you, you know that feeling. First, you’re worried… Was it something you said? Something you did? Then you feel like you need to do something… Should you text him? Call him? Hang out on his front porch until he comes home? And then the panic becomes real and palpable when you start to wonder if he’s ever going to come back to you. The bottom line is that you want to let him go so that he misses you and wants you back. You’ve probably heard other “gurus” and dating advice experts tell you that you should just LEAVE HIM ALONE. Why do they say you should just leave him alone? If you keep pestering him or forcing your way into his life, he’ll start to feel smothered – and then run even faster… If you want him to really miss you, you have to be willing to give him a chance to miss you. Which means hanging around and showing up is a no-no… Whenever you’re alone and the relationship is in jeopardy, you always fall back on the good parts of the relationship. And that’s what you want him remembering… Most women panic – and start to make a mad scramble to win him back when he seems to be pulling away, which is what you DON’T want to do. Today I want to talk about whether or not your man will miss you or come back to you if you just leave him alone. Because you might be wondering if that will really happen. Will it really work? (Plus I also want to save you from checking your phone every 5 minutes and driving yourself slowly insane.) Let’s take a look at this, because chances are you’re wondering if you can bring him back to the relationship. I can tell you from experience and having been a guy all my life just exactly how you can make that time apart work in your favor. Let’s get started with: Leave Him Alone Tip #1: Don’t turn into the Crazy Ex… Just about the worst thing you can do is to completely lose your cool and start posting insane things on social media. Such as… Images of you and him from the past on Pinterest or Facebook… (Nope… Crazy.) Weird video posts online of you just talking into the camera in a daze as you recall the romantic times you shared… Any social media manifestos of how “all men are pigs,” “oh woe is me,” or any other self-pity parties or bids for attention from anyone online… The fact is that – “Social media is about the worst thing you can indulge in when this happens…” Some things you should definitely NOT do on social media: Don’t update your snapchat story every 3.4 seconds – Anything you try to make him jealous is going to backfire on you. Put down the phone, walk away. Don’t use Twitter as your online diary. Especially if you’re going to post a running passive aggressive rant about how he done you wrong… Don’t check out who is liking his posts or instagram feed… this is cyber-crazy. Deleting or untagging images online, anywhere. Just let that go, because everyone can see through that kind of crazy… Tindering your pain away by getting swiped into empty & casual s*x. You’ll always regret it… Flirting online with men to try and re-validate your desirability. If you’re feeling low, go talk to a counselor or professional. Don’t paint yourself as the pathetic girl who has to flirt to redeem herself… There are other crazy ex things you can do, like showing up at his house unannounced, drive-bys at all hours of the day/night (his home OR office), calling from a “burner” phone to hear his voice, etc. I won’t go into the stalker-ish stuff because that’s a league beyond this article. If you’re ready to do that, I can’t talk you down from the ledge, girl. Just remember one thing from all this – don’t post or add ANYTHING online during this time. For one – you’ll probably scare him off the rest of the way, thus answering your question if “leaving him alone” works… For another – you’ll be leaving a digital record of your coping skills for him, all your friends, all his friends, and everyone in the world to see. Remember the saying attributed to Abraham Lincoln.... TO GET THE REST - Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Will he come back if I leave him alone? https://youtu.be/yl6vXDHQ8tc
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7 Signs He Likes You And Wants To Ask You Out
 
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Connect with his heart: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt113 Have you ever met a man and wondered if he was as into you as you were into him? How do you know if he wants to ask you out? Men are confusing at times, and you might wonder what his behavior is trying to tell you. Guys are first and foremost looking for signals to tell him if you’re into him. This is primarily because he doesn’t want to risk rejection. But I believe that men have a duty and obligation to initiate the conversation, and the next step which is to initiate the “date.” It’s his job to express his interest – and to risk that rejection. Here’s why: Women desire signals, signs, and indications of a man’s interest. In other words – you need PROOF that he feels something powerful for you. Now, let’s dig into the 5 signs he wants a date – so you can know whether to not to give him more signals to “go, go, go!” or not. Hit play to get started! :) Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 7 Signs He Likes You: https://youtu.be/740G7EU7og8
Views: 82943 Carlos Cavallo
How To Be Irresistible To Men - 5 Sexy Tips
 
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For the secret report on being irresistible to men just go here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt152 How To Be Irresistible To Men – and love all the attention… Look, let’s be real for a second here: There isn’t a woman – or man – alive that doesn’t enjoy the attention of the person they desire. We love it because it does so many things for us… - Validates our desirability - Makes us feel special - Makes us feel VALUABLE And much more than that… The thought that someone finds us so attractive and compelling that they can’t even control their own feelings and actions is the ultimate statement of our sexual power. It’s almost MAGICAL… But it’s easy to assume you know what men want, and what men find irresistible in a woman. Be Irresistible To Him – Tip 1: Tame Your Emo Men love women for their emotions. And contrary to what you might think – especially if you read a lot of magazines – men have a lot of emotions for women. They just don’t always offer them up. In fact, men enjoy talking about emotions in the safe context of a relationship that has a safe zone around discussing his feelings. (Unfortunately, safety is something many women don’t understand as a man sees it.) But one thing will stop a man from expressing his emotions to you, and that’s if you’re already over-expressing your feelings to him. It shuts us down. Too much emotional expression floods our nervous system and makes us want to withdraw. So you have to keep a tight rein on your emotional expression with a man. Yes, including the tears. Remember, I’m not saying you can’t express emotions to a man. Far from it. You do need to be aware of his state before you express them, however. The more highly charged the emotion you’re feeling, the more you need to check in on where he is before you launch into that conversation. When a woman demonstrates this kind of calibration and control of herself, men find it irresistibly CONFIDENT and sexy. In fact, if you’ve ever heard that men like confident women, this is the reason why. Confident women tend to have a firm sense of their own emotional state – and they also have a powerful sense of self-control when expressing their emotions. THAT is the definition of “confident woman” to a man. He’s not saying he wants a “bitch” or “aggressive” woman. He’s not saying that he doesn’t want to see you when you’re feeling needy or insecure, either. Only that you have control over yourself. Confidence in a woman is a different shade than confidence in a man… Be Irresistible To A Man – Tip 2: Turn On The Enigma… One thing is for sure – men love a mysterious woman. Nothing captivates us more. When we meet a woman and she’s the quiet & silent type, she arouses our interest – and we find her simply irresistible. So the more mystery you can create about yourself – at least at first – the more likely you’ll get him addicted to you. All men are driven by what we don’t know and what we don’t possess. Which is the key to getting him to chase you and want you. When a woman over-discloses, it’s like someone coming up and telling you the end of a movie… Imagine you’re watching a mystery, and someone walks in and tells you Professor Martin did it in the study with the hammer. Now you have nothing to puzzle out on your own. The fun has been ruined. And not only the rest of the movie is ruined – the time you’ve spent so far is also wasted. So keep the mystery going for as long as you possibly can. Don’t be in such a hurry to get to intimacy. Here are a few things women do that ruin the mystery: - Talking too much about themselves on the first few dates… We want to know about you, but sparingly at first. If a woman tells us a bit too much – which is easy to do when you’re nervous – it can be a Red Flag for a man. Go light on the details about you at first. - Hinting too much that you like him… Men know intuitively that you like us when you accepted our date proposal. That’s a given. We don’t need to be told. And when a guy gets out with you, he’s spending all his time trying to impress you and trying to figure out if your interest in him is getting stronger. You don’t need to work hard to let him know. Just let him keep working for you and chasing you. - Sleeping with him way too soon… This is one of the most common mistakes women make that destroy the attraction in a guy. I’ll explain this one in more detail in the next tip… ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Be Irresistible To Men - 5 Sexy Tips https://youtu.be/HxkJiel0Dl4
Views: 44244 Carlos Cavallo
7 Ways Men Fall In Love - Make him love you! | Dating & Relationship Advice
 
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For More Free Tips: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt180 7 Ways Men Fall In Love – How To Make Him Love You If you could look inside a guy’s thoughts, would you do it? Now of course, you’d want a filter on all the gross stuff, AND the weird stuff… But – if you could listen in on his thinking – right at that moment when he’s falling in love – wouldn’t you want to know what goes on in there? Well, it’s a simple process, really. What makes it seem complicated is that he doesn’t fall in love on the same schedule as you. Men actually fall in love FASTER than women do. It’s been shown in countless studies that men fall in love harder and faster than women. “Studies show heterosexual men tend to fall in love, or believe they have fallen in love, much faster than their female partners…” There is a lot of theorizing why this may be – from the need for a man to claim his “territory” and lock down his mate, to the fact that men can determine a suitable mate based on visual and sexual cues alone. There are a lot of reasons it’s more beneficial to the guy to fall first. “Men are biologically programmed to choose a healthy woman to bear children, while women choose men based on whether or not they’ll be good fathers.” – Helen Fisher – Rutgers University The reality is that men are more vulnerable when it comes to love and the strong emotions of love – at least at the start. Now that you know this delicious little secret, how can you use this to capture a man’s heart faster and easier? How To Get A Man To Love You – Tip 1: Blast Him With The Best… One of the primary reasons a man will fall in love is that he’s blown away with the complete package of YOU. This includes things like: Looks – NO, you don’t need to be a supermodel. But you do need to present yourself like one! Dress well, stay fit, and take care of your appearance… Personality – ABWOY! (Always be working on yourself…) Strive to be a better, more likable version of YOU… Voice – A high nasal voice is something that can be rehearsed into a silky, sultry tone… Loyal – Show him you’re capable of sticking through the tough times… Affectionate – Touching, loving, nurturing… ’nuff said. Fun – Just read any of my articles and you’ll know FUN is the prime factor in him falling for you… Men tend to tally up your best traits and see how they add up. (It won’t just be your boobs or your shimmery hair, sorry…) If he sees that you’ve got a pretty complete package, you’re in! And the best part about the “complete package” is that it’s based on his perception – not always on “reality.” Whatever that is. Which means you can get the unfair advantage when it comes to attracting the man you want. I’ll share more on how to do that in a bit… For now, let’s move on to: How To Get A Man To Love You – Tip 2: She’s Not A Drama Major… Let’s face it, some people get caught up in the drama of their lives, and never let it go. In fact, for many people, drama becomes a reason to live. They just don’t feel alive if they don’t have a lot of emotional turmoil to get caught up in. I’m sure you’ve met a few of these people in your life, yeah? Well, I can assure you that men – on the whole – detest drama! And a quality man will actually run for the hills if he smells that you’re one of those women that loves to stir up the gossip and make a big deal out of nothing. Men find their happiness in PEACE. A lot of men don’t even realize this these days. But if you can give that peace to him, he’ll feel like he’s home – in the arms of love. How To Get A Man To Love You – Tip 3: Smile For Him… One of the biggest factors in a man’s decision to ask a woman to marry him is how much he believes he can make her happy. To put it another way, men leave women that they can’t make happy. That’s really huge – and you should let that sink in. It’s the primary reason the women who “nag” their partners tend to drive these men into apathy and eventual disconnection in the relationship. It’s also the reason that chronically unhappy women tend to only attract unhappy men. Take a minute to tell him he makes you happy – and tell him this in words, and you’ll score extra points. By the way, if he’s not making YOU happy – then you should... For more - Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 5 ways men fall in love https://youtu.be/6MJINmN81AU
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How to keep him interested 5 secret tips | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo
 
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How To Keep Him Interested – 5 Secret Tips Are there secrets you don’t share with anyone? - Maybe you hide your stash of trashy tabloid magazines… - Maybe you keep your phone unlock code a secret… - Maybe there are things you did back in college that would appear scandalous… (but probably not these days) What’s that line in “Titanic”? “A woman’s heart is a deep ocean of secrets…” (Hmmmm….) Well, I’ve got a few more secrets for you to keep today. And these secrets are the kind you’re going to want to keep to yourself, because they reveal a few of the ways to keep a man interested in you. Let’s not waste any time… Here’s the first secret tip: Keep a guy interested in you – Secret Tip #1: Drop The Silly Act… I spend a lot of time researching and compiling information for my articles and videos, and this one is no exception. As I was looking for ideas recently, I ran across an article on a (cough) ‘dating advice site’ that said you should – and I’m not making this up – “keep cookies everywhere” to keep a man interested. Yes, you should have cookies all around your home – I guess so he gets so fat he can’t leave, maybe? Seriously, I actually found that advice out there. Now this falls into the realm of the SILLY. The Silly tips you read are meant to make you think you’re getting valuable ideas and information, when they are really just throwing out empty, mindless articles of garbage to entertain and distract you for a few minutes. What they really do is make YOU silly. Silly for thinking that men are this gullible and stupid… Silly for believing that keeping a man interested in you is like a pretentious parlor trick… Look, if you start thinking that the silly tips are going to work, they will lead you down a very dangerous and pretentious road. One where connecting with a guy is always going to be a challenge because you’re running around doing silly things that have no real connection to a man’s emotions, much less a connection to him. Most of the romantic information and advice you read on the internet is rubbish. It’s stuff that a hired writer spent about 2 seconds thinking up. Me? I’ve spent over 16 years thinking about the stuff I teach. ‘Nuff said. Don’t be silly, or act silly with a guy. When you read a silly tip, laugh and forget it fast. Don’t hide cookies around your house. Don’t resort to cheap tricks… Keep a guy interested in you – Secret Tip #2: Make a List Of His ‘Hot Spots…’ A man’s “Hot spots” are the places in his life where he gets excited. These are the things that emotionally ACTIVATE him. For example, one of my hot spots is board gaming. I love playing intricate board games that puzzle my mind. I watch a lot of review videos and gameplay videos. This hobby especially interesting because I used to really enjoy video gaming. But – even though video games are easy to pick up and jump into – I like the process of handling a physical game with all its cards, dice, boards, and pieces. Every man has these areas of Hot Spot interest in his life… Cars Computers Action movies Video Games Gadgets Music Books Travel A bunch of them are so common that they come up all the time. Your challenge is to find the ones that make him light up when he talks about them. What’s that you say? It’s boring to hear him talk about the same things all the time? Tough noogies, kiddo. This is part of the game when it comes to keeping a long-term relationship going. When you make the switch from short-term romance to long-term love affair, you’re going to have to change the way you think about the world – and him. As the saying goes – Everyone wants to go to heaven, but no one wants to die. Take a look at couples that you see who have that SPARK of delight – even after 10, 20, 30 or more years. They got there by understanding that they couldn’t let any part of their partner be ignored. Or let themselves react with tired disgust every time he tells that joke about the priest and the monkey. It’s not “compatibility” that makes relationships work – it’s the ATTITUDE you take. One of the big secrets about making love last is Discover the rest in the video! Or click the link at the top... ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How to keep him interested - 5 secret tips https://youtu.be/pG-UXaAdW4A
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7 Unusual Signs Your Man Is Into You
 
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For more - go to: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt155 7 Unusual Signs Your Man Is Into You There isn’t a woman OR man alive that doesn’t want the hidden playbook of the opposite sex. We all want the hidden signs to tell us what the other person is thinking. Wouldn’t you just love to know: - What he’s thinking of you right now? - How does he feel about you? - What does he want you to do next? I bet you would love to know… We all want to just KNOW how the other person thinks and feels about us. And that’s why I’m going to give you these 7 Unusual Signs Your Man Is Into You… #7 Sign He’s Into You: His Friends Know About You Guys are actually pretty quick to talk about that special girl they really like. If that’s you, then he’s going to talk to them about you. Because when a guy is into you, he’s going to pull you into all areas of his life. Conversely, if he’s not introducing you to his family and friends, that means he’s still got some doubts about you being The One. The best thing you can do is to watch for this signal – and then get to know his friends along the way. That’s the most flattering and appreciative thing you can do for him. And he will notice – and pull you deeper into his life the more you put effort into his friends… #6 Signal That He Wants You: You’ve Got His Attention We’re in the new age of blue screens everywhere, and ADHD becoming the most common way to describe a person. (I have at least a half-dozen people in my life that think that being ADHD is ‘cool’ in some way…) When you have his attention, you’ll also have an expressway into his heart… When you have a guy’s attention, he will: Listen to you intently – He will actually pay attention to your words. He might even (gasp) bring something up you said from a previous conversation. He will ask questions, seek out your opinion, and respond to you… Maintain eye contact – Yeah, I know – a guy’s eyes can wonder from time to time. (If you want to know why he looks at other women, there’s a reason, and it’s not what you think. It has nothing to do with ‘respect.’) But men will make it a point to focus on YOU when they are interested in you… Lean in – His body language will leave no room for error. He’ll want to get closer to you. He’ll also turn his body to face you directly, which will tell you you’ve got his complete attention… #5 Sign He’s Hot For You: Can’t Keep His Hands Off You I’m sure you’ve known a woman who the guys all seem to paw at like a bunch of kittens at a catnip festival. I think the official term is “handsy.” Heck, maybe you experienced this once or twice? (And as of this writing, famous men everywhere are getting outed in the media for their – cough – “overly affectionate nature.”) But there IS a reason a guy does this – and it’s because men are very tactile when it comes to beauty. We see it and we want to touch it. It’s very hard for a guy to resist. I mean, when you use all that product to make your hair, skin, lips – every inch of you so soft, how can we resist that urge? It’s tempting. And no, that’s not a justification for creepy pawing, just a simple stated fact. Most guys show their physical affection very respectfully. He’ll routinely touch your arm when he’s talking, touch your back, and he’ll hold your hand when the time is right. These PDAs (public displays of affection) show respect, affection, and desire. #4 Sign He Likes You: He calls and texts – FIRST! This one will probably top your list of “Oh, man – I WISH!” Am-I-Right? Most women have come to experience the awesome power of deafening silence when they text a guy. And that right there is the problem. You see, a guy can sense in a heartbeat when a woman is testing him. We’ve gotten used to this “vibe.” It all started when we were buying drinks in bars for women, and we got sh*t-tested at every chance in the conversation. You might not have noticed you were doing this, but we felt it. In every cell of our body. This “test” is when you’re giving us a hard time and testing our masculinity by exhibiting … ahem… bratty girl behavior to see how we’d react. This is part of that natural dance of attraction that is completely normal in flirty encounters. So guys know when you’re up to your old tricks... And you'll learn more in this video ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 7 Unusual Signs Your Man Is Into You https://youtu.be/xfj_ZvxPa44
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3 Reasons Men Lose Interest In You and Pull Away
 
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Subscribe to my channel: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/subscribe If you’ve ever had a guy start out hot and heavy with you – all excited – then he seems to go cold and distant, and eventually disappears, you know why men can feel so iffy. You might be 100% ready to move forward and he’s still playing it cautious. You two may seem to be on the same page as far as the feelings, but not in your commitment. So you need to play it cool. So let’s look into why this happens… Hit play to get started! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 3 Reasons Men Lose Interest In You and Pull Away: https://youtu.be/QOHrKeLzq9o
Views: 20521 Carlos Cavallo
What to do when he doesn't text you back - 7 Texting Tips
 
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For more - watch Carlos' next video: https://youtu.be/2saRNG08B6s Here’s What You Do When Your Guy Won’t Text You Back... Ever had a guy “go dark” on you? One minute you’re chatting away, texting, having a flirty little party on your phone… The next minute – (Crickets…) After a few minutes of radio silence, you feel like responding right away with “YO! Dude? You there?” But you know that sounds desperate, so you wait some more. But still… nothing. First of all, it always feel like you’re the “loser” when a guy pulls this stunt on you. You feel a bit “played” when you don’t get the response you desire from it. That, and the fact that you’ve probably built up some importance to these interactions. And it often hits hard when a guy doesn’t text you back. Why do guys do this? Well, I’m going to enlighten you a bit today about why men do this weird little dance with you. Then they disappear. But first, a couple rules about texting guys – and these are critical for your sanity: TEXTING RULE 1: Guys don’t think texts are all that “important…” As a general rule, most guys don’t place the same level of emotional importance on a text conversation that a woman does. To a guy, texting is just another electronic back-and-forth – like email. Unless there’s something being discussed about meeting up or some logistics, he’s not going to feel an obligation to respond to you. So remember how guys view texting before you get all caught up in the heat of the moment. YOU may think this interaction means something – but he probably doesn’t. It’s just trivial fun he’s having on the side. “A man doesn’t consider texting REAL communication. That’s why you MUST get in person with him…” – Carlos Cavallo TEXTING RULE 2: Guys don’t know how important you think the interaction is… Because of Rule 1 above, you now know that guys don’t consider texts all that significant. AND he’s also not aware of just how much importance YOU put on texting. He just assumes you think of it as some harmless distracting fun on the side. In short: - A man doesn’t think he’s “disrespecting” you by not replying… - A man doesn’t see it as ignoring you if he doesn’t reply… - A man doesn’t think he’s hurting your feelings if he just “disappears…” I know – it seems crazy that he doesn’t see the world the same way you do – but this is also true in the other direction. So don’t assume that he’s doing this on purpose to hurt you in some way. He has no idea that you care as much as you do about this texting session. Or the next one… And really quick – here are a few DON’Ts for you – because avoiding mistakes is most of the battle in keeping him interested… DON’T Do This When He Stops Texting You: Don’t freak… So he didn’t reply to you… Don’t panic. Look, chances are he got interrupted when the texting began, and now you’re left hanging. It was bad luck of the draw. Just breathe, have a sip of wine, and call up a girlfriend who you can decompress with. But the most important thing is to have full control over your emotions and not let yourself get drawn into reacting and doing something you might regret. (Again, if you haven’t seen it, you should watch the movie “Swingers” – and especially the scene where the guy loses control calling the girl he just met. I’ve done the exact same thing – and it really leaves you feeling gross inside.) DON’T Do This When He Stops Texting You: Don’t cling to the conversation… If more than 30 minutes goes by, you have to let that text conversation go – like two ships passing in the night. Don’t text again asking if he got your message…. Don’t give him a follow up call… And don’t – under any circumstances – send him any variation of, “Why aren’t you replying?? Don’t you like me anymore??” DON’T Do This When He Stops Texting You: Don’t Assume The Worst… Don’t assume he’s suddenly lost interest in you in the space of 5 minutes. That’s insecurity talking. He may not be “testing” you directly, but he is watching to see how you react to these things. So you want to be cool, and show him how ‘put together’ and stable you are. Okay, now let’s talk about what to DO when a guy won’t text you… When He Won’t Text You – DO THIS: Keep Your Clown… The best way to handle any potentially awkward social/romantic situation like this is to ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What to do when he doesn't text you back https://youtu.be/jxRqKD9nvIk
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How To Tell If A Guy Likes You - Dating Advice Guru
 
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Learn how to tell if a guy likes you: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/freereport/ Want to know how to flirt with a guy? You gotta learn how to spot the right signals first - and you'll learn exactly that in my dating advice video for women. Maybe it's that classmate of yours that you keep making eye contact with, or a co-worker who seems to find every excuse to talk to you. So now you're wondering if there's something there...or it's all in your head. Here's the thing: knowing how to attract men has a LOT to do with responding to him correctly - if the signals are there. Before you "lay the cards on the table", it's better to know if he's interested or not. If not, things could get awkward if you end up flirting with a guy who isn't feeling the spark. It can be a challenge to decode a guy's behavior, even for women who know how to flirt with a man. But I'll show you how to identify the crucial indicators that tell you he's definitely interested in you. For example, you might notice he's peppering you with questions about yourself. This is a good sign if he's doing this - guys aren't usually comfortable with making small talk, and I'll explain why in my video. Click PLAY and find out the other signs that a guy likes you... Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Tell If A Guy Likes You: https://youtu.be/u2RJasiIcZQ
Views: 24575 Carlos Cavallo
What Makes Guys Shut Down Emotionally And Withdraw | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo
 
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GET MORE: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt165 What Makes Guys Shut Down Emotionally And Withdraw Look, it’s no secret that there are two things that every relationship question boils down to in my experience… - How do I get my guy to ADORE, WORSHIP, and APPRECIATE me? AND - How do I get my guy to stop shutting down and withdrawing from me? He’s distant… And if I’m perfectly straight with you here – and I always am – #2 is pretty much the same as #1, even if it doesn’t seem like it on the surface. Let’s be real here – Guys are not easy to reach emotionally. - We’re hard to read… - We don’t always talk about our feelings… - We even go so far as to hide a lot of our emotional content from you… So yeah, I get it. Men seem emotionally distant. But here’s the honest-to-gosh truth: Men feel emotions just as deeply as women do. We just keep them out of sight. FACT: Men are never rewarded for being “more emotional” or expressive. In most men’s experience, we never win by being emotionally transparent to anyone. It’s how we grew up. So while you might THINK this is a shortcoming, you would actually get really sick and tired of a guy who was emotional all the time. Trust me. I used to pull that on some women back in my 20s, and I noticed that they would lose attraction for me in just a few dates. Almost like clockwork. FACT: Men are not attractive when overly emotional. You know it. No matter how much you WANT a guy to be more emotional, you also know you’d get sick of that really quickly. It’s okay in your girlfriends, but not in a guy. That being said, I think guys need to know how to BETTER communicate their emotions to women. And truthfully, we will share our feelings more – if you do something first. I’ll tell you what that special thing is in a bit, but first, let’s talk about what makes guys shut down emotionally and grow cold. Why he goes distant on you – REASON #1: He’s overwhelmed. Yeah, you might have heard me say this once or twice. Guys don’t respond to women’s emotional expression in the best way. Let me give you a quick example: After a few weeks of relationship problems, you’ve had enough. You’ve reached your limit, and now you decide to have it out with him. Let’s say you’ve just spent 15 minutes explaining your frustrations with him. Hey, it’s easy to “ride the rapids” of emotional purging when you finally feel free to express yourself. THE PROBLEM: This leaves him with about 2 minutes of emotional tolerance left over to talk to you. You see, he just spent 15 minutes coping with emotional dialogue that has probably flooded his system. He’s now completely spent from just keeping his act together while he listened and held your emotional container for a quarter hour. You probably feel GREAT, venting all that anger, panic, fear, and hurt. He feels like dog poop. And now he just wants this whole thing to be over so he can soothe his raw emotional nerves with a game of Call of Duty on the X-box. He feels it all in his body: A big CLENCH that starts from his toes, works it’s way through all his muscles, his gut, and then up the back of his neck into his brain. He’s like a cat backed into a corner. All he wants is OUT – in any way possible. Which means you’re unlikely to get a lot of emotional sharing from him. Recognize that you may have to split this emotional venting session up into two parts… Start out by explaining that you have “a few things to get off your chest.” Then do it. Quickly. And then you have to... FIND OUT WHAT TO DO NEXT - in the link above... ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What Makes Guys Shut Down Emotionally And Withdraw https://youtu.be/5rMXig6YB_k
Views: 17402 Carlos Cavallo
3 Steps To Get Him To Ask You Out
 
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Find your soulmate! http://www.datingadviceguru.com/soulmates Have you ever suffered in silence waiting for that special guy in your life to take you out for dinner, a movie, or a cup of coffee? Let me help you relieve that frustration by showing you the steps how to put your intentions out there WITHOUT trying too hard...or being too obvious. You'll also learn what NOT to do if you want to get a guy to like you and ask you out. Most of the time, women resort to some tactics that backfire because guys see through it and get turned off. So, we'll get that out of the way before jumping into how to catch his attention with subtle but unmistakeable signals of interest from you. I've got a classy way to catch your guy's eye that tells him you're interested and sets things in motion. The next step is to get him involved even more by using a technique that engages him in a conversation with you that will stand out in his mind (and that's a GOOD thing!). Finally, I'll show you how to seal the deal with him and plant the idea in his head to ask you out without him knowing that you "helped" him come to that wonderful decision! So click play and get started with learning how to attract men the RIGHT way! And if you liked this video, make sure to click the thumbs up, share it on your Facebook timeline and subscribe! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/user/connectwithhim?sub_confirmation=1 =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Tell If A Guy Likes You: https://youtu.be/HFCmsdNSQic
Views: 57760 Carlos Cavallo
3 Steps To Keep Him From Taking You For Granted - Dating Tips For Women
 
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Get MORE dating tips for women here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/freereport/ Sometimes, dating can be frustrating, especially when a guy suddenly falls off the radar and reappears only when it’s convenient for him. In cases like these, the most frequent relationship advice I give women is to NOT chase after him. The first thing you should know about learning how to seduce a man is keeping it cool when he’s making himself unavailable - I’ll show you exactly how to do that in this dating tips video. Remember, the best way to avoid relationship problems is to set the standard for good behavior as early as now - the trap would be to give chase when he’s being flaky. Part of knowing how to make a man fall in love with you is NOT giving into the urge to drop everything for him. What men want is someone who’s secure enough in herself to keep her life in order even when she’s dating a guy. The less needy you are, the more he’ll want to stick around. Women who know how to flirt with a guy are good at scaling back when she isn’t being treated like she should be. Check out my video as I talk about that in detail along with other relationship tips. Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Dating Tips For Women: https://youtu.be/MuTy3DW6Xn0
Views: 45023 Carlos Cavallo
How To Make Him Miss You Want You Again - 5 Ways
 
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5 Ways To Make Him Miss You And Want You Again... https://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt149 How To Make Him Miss You And Want You All Over Again... Early in a relationship, you hear it all the time: “I miss you!” “I miss you MORE…” “I miss you the MOST!” Yeah, it’s kind of teenager-y to go back and forth like this, but you get the point… When you’re first falling for someone, you can never get enough of the other person. They’re always on your mind. You miss them even when you’re WITH THEM, for gosh sakes. But as time goes on, you long for the connection you felt at the start. The tingle of excitement when you see his name come up on your phone… Sometimes you wonder if he’s even thinking about you… And that’s when you probably realize: “I miss him missing ME!” All humans crave that feeling of being wanted and desired by another. It gives us a feeling of value we crave. So today, we’re going to take a quick plunge into the world of getting him to miss you – AND want you again. Whether you took a break, or maybe you’re struggling at the moment to get him to love you, you’ll find tips here you can use. Here are the 5 Tips to make him miss you: How To Make Him Miss You & Want You – TIP 1: Pause The Communication… Yeah, this includes social media. There’s a basic psychological principle I want you to understand… We want what we can’t have. I know, I know. Brilliant, Carlos. You just summed up all the game-playing of the last century. But hear me out… The key to triggering desire for something – or someone – lies in how much we think it’s ours for the taking. It’s true of nearly EVERYTHING in your life, whether you believe it or not. I GUARANTEE you that if you really keenly want a hot sports car now, you’ll want it less AFTER you actually get it. I GUARANTEE you that if you really really want that beautiful jacket now, you’ll want it less AFTER you actually get it. It’s Human Nature… You can want it to be different, but it won’t ever be. Not in your lifetime, anyway. And that’s GOOD news! Because that empowers you to steer a man away from some other shameless manipulator and into your arms. Instead of that other woman getting him. I’ll tell you more about how that works in a minute… How To Make Him Miss You & Want You – TIP 2: Trigger His Memory… This one is pretty slick – and I believe it’s the reason women know to use perfume when courting a guy… Here’s a classic trick that works: Send him a postcard (You ever see one of those before? People used to use them all the time to brag about where they were vacationing…) But not just any postcard. Simply address it to him. Put a big fat red kiss on it in red lipstick, and cover it with some tape so it doesn’t smudge. Then, spray the postcard with your perfume and mail it to him. Or, heck, just stick it under his door… When he sees the lips, smells your scent, it will trigger his memory of you. Our sense of smell is directly connected to our deepest memories, and can trigger his emotions in an instant. He’ll be smelling that card daily, triggering his memories of you. Over and over and over… This one is guaranteed to do all the right things and get him obsessed. How To Make Him Miss You & Want You – TIP 3: Cut him off… If you’re in contact with him now, you need to use this one. The big mistake I see many women make with guys is to spend TOO MUCH time with him. When you do that, you’re ruining your romantic value to him. This is directly connected to TIP 1 – except now you have to manage how much time he gets with you. Don’t let your self-control ruin your chances with him… Keep your dates short… Keep your time together limited… We don’t fall in love with someone when they’re with us… We fall in love while we’re wishing they were with us. When he’s actually with you, he’s satisfied. He’s getting nearly everything he wants. (Well, most of what he wants…) When he’s not with you, he’s DIS-satisfied. Which is the state we men LOVE the most. It inspires us to ... ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Make Him Miss You And Want You Again... https://youtu.be/Ban9l9RWVvU
Views: 438590 Carlos Cavallo
7 Signs He's Emotionally Unavailable
 
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Make him yours BEFORE it's too late: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/forever Are you ignoring the dealbreakers in your relationship? Are you head over heels in love that you're not seeing the signs he's emotionally unavailable? I'll show you in this relationship advice video what it means to deal with this kind of man - and the top red flags that he's not ready to be in a relationship. Some men are naturally reserved when it comes to their feelings, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's emotionally unavailable. You'll learn what exactly makes him such, and it's not simply because he "doesn't want to talk about it." Also, take a look at his actions. Is he reliable and you can count on him to show up on time? We'll get into what this means in your relationship, and how it indicates whether or not he's fit to be your partner. Does the thought of changing a guy excite you? Maybe you want to be the one girl who finally gets your man to settle down and change his commitment-phobic ways. Actually, this is a DANGEROUS way to look at things, I'll explain why in this dating advice video. Is he always trashing his ex and complaining about his past breakups? We'll get into what this behavior means and why you need to back off if your guy is doing this. These are just a few of the signs your guy might not be suitable as a long-term partner. To know more, watch my video and learn the other red flags! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 7 Signs He's Emotionally Unavailable: https://youtu.be/nVbOGxDsG74
Views: 46150 Carlos Cavallo
How To Make Him Worry About Losing You - 5 Steps
 
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Get Your Free Chapter From The Program - Go to DatingAdviceGuru. com Make him worry about losing you... Have you ever felt like you could "forget" to call your man - and he wouldn't even notice? Do you feel like he's taking you for granted? Wouldn't it be nice to make him worry for once about the relationship? And even better - make him worry that he might be losing YOU? I'm pretty sure every woman has asked herself these questions at one time or another. Knowing that someone misses you and is afraid of losing you is the ultimate power in relationships. And it's also a power you should be very careful of manipulating. Look, I won't kid you - we all fantasize about this from time to time. Even guys. It's easy to assume that the other person is always going to be there for you. Once a relationship starts, we all hope this means we don't have to worry about losing them, right? I mean, we all want the peace and security of being in a stable relationship. The problem is when the guy doesn't tell you where he is, what he's doing, or who he's doing it with. Leaving you feeling unsure, and insecure. Wouldn't it be great if you could make HIM worry about you for once...? Well you can... And I'm going to show you 5 ways to make him worry about losing you... And let me insert my little "Game Disclaimer" here: I don't approve of game playing... but let's face it - ALL social interactions are a form of game playing. I show you how to do these things not to manipulate, but to leverage the power of healthy interactions to get the romantic results you want... 'Nuff said? Good, let's get on with it: TIP 1: Remind him of life without you... A man will quickly forget how crappy it was without you. He'll forget in just a few days just how alone and sex-free his life was before you came into the picture. So you should remind him on occasion. (Gratitude is forgotten quickly - but loss is felt right down the the bones.) There are a ton of ways you can do this one: - Make plans with your girlfriends on a night you usually spend with him. Be prepared for his best "sad little boy face." Let him pout it out. He needs a little incentive to remember what he's got. - Be vague about plans you've got that don't include him. Let him wonder about where YOU are and what YOU are up to for once. Stop being so accountable for him. - Stop answering his texts so quickly. Yeah, I know - he complains when YOU don't answer quickly, but when HE doesn't you get crickets. Flirt with other guys. No, this does not constitute cheating on your part. We all know women flirt. Flirting does not imply that you're a slut, either. What it does is remind him that you're not a possession - you're a subscription that is always up for renewal. TIP 2: Stand up to him... Here's something about guys you might not know: The reason you don't get what you want from a man is usually because you're offering the OPTION to him. Chances are, you've gotten used to communicating with women - where being firm and telling it like it is will get you thrown out of the group. But this isn't how men work. If you give a man an option, he'll take the one that works best for him. It's not selfishness, really. (Well, okay, it's a little bit selfish.) It's mostly about his convenience. So in a relationship, it's very tempting to a woman to "go along to get along." Don't rock the boat, right? Wrong... Men respond to backbone in a woman. We don't like pushy, annoying women. But we LOVE it when you challenge us. Don't be so easygoing about your relationship. The nature of men is that we will simply take anything for granted that is handed to us. Don't let things get TOO easy in your relationship.  Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP 3: Make him wonder... Our imaginations are a fertile playground...  It's easy to make someone wonder what you're up to. Sometimes we do this by mistake... We forget an important date or event - or the time of some friend's party. And our absence is noted. So right now I'm telling you that you need to intentionally forget your man a little bit. And make him wonder what's going on with you. It reminds him that he's not the be all, end all of your life. For example, texting. Yeah, you know you do it. But why? Because texting is to a woman what ESPN is to a guy... A way to feel connected. In touch with the "score" - if you will - of your priorities. For men, that might be his pro football or basketball team. For women, it's your relationships. And the score is ESSENTIAL. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Make Him Worry About Losing You https://youtu.be/jB2s1ozMU98
Views: 2959094 Carlos Cavallo
What men find beautiful in a woman - 7 traits
 
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For more free tips: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/connection What men find beautiful in a woman - 7 traits Do You Want To Know What Men Find Beautiful In A Woman? Beauty is - as they say - in the eyes of the beholder... HOWEVER - Men behold in very similar ways. We're fairly consistent in what we find beautiful in a woman. This is good for you in some ways because it allows you to not have to worry what different guys are looking for. Sure, we have some things that vary, but by and large most of what a man wants in a woman is easy to outline. And that's what we're going to do here today! So let's start with a very brief definition of "beautiful woman" - at least as men see it: Beauty is appearance - meaning that you don't have to win the genetic lottery, but you want to maximize your appearance. Your clothes, makeup, and style... Beauty is your "vibe" - where you feel like a cool, fun person to hang out with... Beauty is your inner goodness - where we can sense that you have a big heart and a loving way about you... Keep in mind that men may have different "tastes" in women, but those differences go right out the window when we find a woman that "does it" for us. In other words, you don't care if a guy says he's into blondes and you're a brunette. (That "blonde" thing is WAY overrated, btw.) If you've got a pulse, and you know my strategies, it doesn't matter what a man SAYS his "type" is. When we meet a woman that wows us, we'll make up a thousand-and-one excuses as to why we're dating you. We all do that - it's called "confabulation." It's how women justify buying $300 pairs of shoes, and men justify 90 inch flat screen televisions. It's called RATIONALIZATION - and we ALL do it! Do guys prefer blondes? Not really. Just some guys. Does it matter if you have brown eyes instead of blue? Nope. Your ATTITUDE overrides 90% of all physical attributes. So with that in mind - I'm not going to tell you what shade of lipstick or clothes to wear. That's the kind of thinking that got you into this mess. Right now you need to hear what men find beautiful in a woman - the stuff no man (except me) would tell you! What He Finds Beautiful - #1: Mature Appearance Thankfully, there are a lot of studies performed on what each gender finds attractive in the other. We're always interested in finding out more about what the opposite gender wants from us. One discovery was that men prefer women who "dress mature." This doesn't mean you want to make yourself look like an old politician or anything. What the results say are that men like women that look like they've evolved beyond their teenage dress-up years.  This means that the "dress like you're partying in Vegas" crowd is really missing it when it comes to how to attract men. Guys only like women to dressy "sl*tty" when they're thinking kinda sl*tty. Otherwise, he wants a woman that is confident enough to dress like an adult. What Men Find Beautiful - #2: Chuckles If you were to ask a woman what she finds attractive in a guy, a sense of humor usually is right up there, right next to "confidence." This is no surprise, I'm sure. But something you might not know is that it's also one of the top traits on a man's list, too. Why is this? Well try these on - A sense of humor shows a relaxed approach to life. If you're able to joke and have fun, that shows you're not going to be a structured, dull person... You're a survivor - Evolutionary psychologists believe that the relaxed attitude indicated by humor also shows that you have more flexibility and capability to survive in the world. I'd have to agree with this one based on my own experience... You're probably fun to hang out with. If you've got a sense of humor, you're going to be more fun to just chill with. It means you won't be so SERIOUS about everything that you can't have a bit of fun... But what turns out to be even MORE important than your own sense of humor is your capacity to appreciate HIS humor. That's right, even more important than how funny you are is how funny you think HE is. If you appreciate his sense of humor, he's going to find you a LOT more interesting and attractive. Which should tell you something about why you may click with certain guys more than others. This Is Beauty - #3: Risky Business Again, here's a trait that women find attractive in men as well, only in a slightly different flavor. Men are just plain attracted to women who have a ... Want the rest? Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What men find beautiful in a woman https://youtu.be/1X_vD240r-o
Views: 19161 Carlos Cavallo
5 Things He Wants In a Soulmate
 
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Let me help you find The One: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/soulmates Finding the "The One" can often seem like looking for Loch Ness or Bigfoot. Other people have told you about it, but you haven't seen it yourself. A better way to connect with your soulmate is letting him FIND you instead. Once you know the soulmate signs he's looking for in a girl, you've already done MOST of the work. NOTE: By "soulmate", I don't mean a person who's 100% perfect or you NEVER fight with. That's right up there with finding a unicorn. A REAL soulmate is someone who can relate to you in a powerful way that's totally different from your friends or family. And when you feel that unshakable connection, it's hard to let go. And I'll give you the top 5 signs that tell a guy you're THAT kind of person. You see, men are just as interested in finding that one woman who's a perfect fit (read: NOT a perfect person) in his life. I'll explain the psychological switches that convinces a guy you're his destiny - AND which behaviors flip these switches. Are you enriching his life? I'll show you how to do this - it's a vital part of forming the impression in his head that you're The One for him. Guys are after someone who can offer this kind of value, and all it takes is to focus to certain areas in your relationship to really strengthen your connection with him. Playing hard to get is so last century. I have a better way of making him chase after you without the mind games or manipulation. To a guy, a soulmate is a girl he always wants to win over again and again no matter how long they've been together. And it's pretty easy too…but not as easy as hitting play and getting all of these valuable dating tips for women in this quick relationship advice video. (You gotta admit that was a smooth transition right? :D ) Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/user/connectwithhim?sub_confirmation=1 =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 5 Things He Wants In a Soulmate: https://youtu.be/is_jHA02Lp8
Views: 61244 Carlos Cavallo
7 Things You Should NEVER Say to a Guy
 
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Be HIS soulmate: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/soulmates In this relationship advice video, you'll find out the wrong words to avoid BEFORE they damage your relationship. You might have said some things in the past that were considered below the belt without meaning to. It happens to everyone, after all. No harm, no foul, right? Sure, but there are certain phrases, if said TOO OFTEN, could create a negative - or even HOSTILE - atmosphere in your relationship. I'm guessing you'd rather avoid unnecessary relationship problems down the road, right? We'll get into the the top 7 phrases that your man HATES to hear. Even if you mean well, men are hardwired to either reject these phrases - or even make them fire back. Aside from the phrases you should actively avoid, I'll ALSO tell you what to say INSTEAD. I know there will be areas in your relationship you're going to disagree on no matter what, and sometimes you can't avoid getting a case of the slippery tongue. We're only human... But to help you with that, I'll give you some excellent ways to better get your point across WITHOUT triggering a fight (or at least keep it from escalating). So, you'll learn a little relationship diplomacy from good ol' Carlos and know what to say INSTEAD of the 7 worst things you could tell a guy. Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/user/connectwithhim?sub_confirmation=1 =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 7 Things You Should NEVER Say to a Guy: https://youtu.be/K02ZRUSWSd8
Views: 21908 Carlos Cavallo
Does He Love You - 7 Signs To Know!
 
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How does he REALLY feel? http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt99 One of the questions women often ask me is how guys TRULY feel for their partner – how to tell if he's it got it bad for her. Sometimes, I have to remind myself that some women have a difficult time figuring out what's really going on inside their man's head. So, I'll start things off by telling you why men aren't so emotionally articulate as women. Reason #1: Men aren't that that attuned to their feelings as women A lot of guys I know weren't raised to be open with their emotions. In fact, it's the opposite - they're discouraged for the most part to show that side of themselves. Reason #2: He has a hard time understanding what's going on inside his heart This is closely related to the last reason. Men don't have the luxury of working through their feelings, so it's hard for them to put a finger on their emotions or put a specific label on them. So guys require a bit more time to explore this side of himself more than most women do. Just something to keep in mind... Now, what about the signs that he loves you? Let's start with... #1: He's fully immersed himself in you It takes a special lady to rock a guy to the core. And when that happens, it sort of knocks something loose within his heart and awakens a dormant part of himself that he didn't know was there. So he'll be a man possessed, suddenly aflame with a torrent of emotions that will often overwhelm him. It's fairly easy to tell when a guy is in this frenzied state - he'll have that burning passion to be a big part of your life. Stick around because we've got six more telltale signs you NEED to know to find out if he's really in love. Just hit that play button to get started! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Does he love me? https://youtu.be/-qORkCs7OQU
Views: 56519 Carlos Cavallo
Get Him To Commit - Dating Advice Guru
 
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Get him to commit and other dating advice: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/freereport/ Ever wonder why some guys can't just seem to commit? Well, I've been teaching women how to attract men for a while now, and this relationship advice video will crack the male mystery behind making a guy commit to you. There's this stereotype that the majority of men are just hardwired to AVOID committing themselves to one partner. You'll need to re-evaluate these male myths if you really want to understand how to seduce a man and get him to commit to you for good. A lot relationship problems come from a lack of basic understanding about a guy's perspective - so having a better awareness of what men want is a HUGE factor in making him stick around for the long haul. I have to warn you though - some of the stuff I'll cover doesn't fall under "conventional" relationship tips for women. We'll discuss some topics that are a bit of a hot potato, but trust me, you'll learn a lot about how to REALLY get your guy to commit. The bottom line though, is that men can AND will commit to you. They have that ability to stick to a relationship - as long as they think it's worth it. And knowing how to make a guy like you is all about flipping the right switches in his head. If you want to know what these switches are, click that play button and watch my dating advice video! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Get him to commit: https://youtu.be/yXKgLEw3z-k
Views: 15208 Carlos Cavallo
5 signs he's losing interest in you ! Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo
 
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More Relationship Advice: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt170 5 signs he's losing interest in you So you’re thinking he might not be as interested as he once was… It happens in every relationship – the back and forth dance of attraction. Sometimes they’re hot, sometimes they’re not. But when a woman senses a man is disconnecting from her or pulling away, she wants to slam the brakes on and get him back close to her again. It’s scary, and it fills you with panic when a guy looks like he’s losing interest. RULE 1: Don’t Panic! It’s tempting to jump in and start over-nurturing and over-attending to him, in the hopes that this will slow down or stop his retreat. But in all likelihood, it will just speed up his exit. Hey, it’s a major buzz kill to have the guy you’d pinned your hopes on suddenly check out of the relationship! It sucks! But don’t let your emotions run the show. They will just send you into doing things that you know you shouldn’t… Like: - Calling him too much… - Texting him too much… - Lowering your boundaries to get him interested again… - Acting needy… And so much more. I’ll slip you some more rules along the way, but this one is HEE-YUGE! Don’t break it. Now let’s jump into the 5 signals that he’s losing interest in you… SIGNAL #1: He’s Waffling… Yeah, when a guy stops being gung-ho and excited about seeing you… or anything about your relationship – you’ve got a problem, Houston. There is a certain level of excuses that come with this territory, too. You might ask him to do something, and he starts coming up with lame reasons why he can’t. For example, you guys might get together every Saturday for a movie on Netflix, and this is the first week (of the last TEN) that he said he’s going to “just stay home and play video games with the guys.” You might be concerned, and it also might be exactly what he said – a night to hang out with the guys. You see, men need to hang out with each other on occasion to restore those connections. And sometimes he will lower the priority of the relationship when he does his guy thing. It’s not permanent, but he is watching to see how you’ll react to him taking some time for himself. If you’re cool, he’s cool. And he’ll likely be right back atcha wanting to hang out on Sunday night after he’s itched his social scratch. But if you start to get needy, act jealous or possessive – or even try to STOP him from doing this (REALLY BAD IDEA) – he’s going to feel reluctant to pull you back again. And that’s not going to keep his interest. So watch out for his waffling and suddenly becoming a bit uncertain about things. It will come up from time to time. It’s all in how you respond to it that will determine if he comes back with a passion… or not so much. SIGNAL #2: He’s Not So Excitable… You want to know he’s feeling some excitement in your relationship. It won’t be at the peak levels like it was when you first started dating him, but it should still be there. He has to feel a level of “positive response potential.” Which simply means, he’s still feeling good about your relationship. Here’s a test for you: Text him a purely logistical question, like “When does (some new movie) open in theaters?” If he responds with the dry fact of the date, and nothing else, he’s probably in a blah place. Not feeling motivated to get excited. If you sense that he’s just not as thrilled with your relationship, there are a few things you can do to stoke the fire: For more, finish the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 5 signs he's losing interest in you https://youtu.be/ud6JG8NHdcg
Views: 21159 Carlos Cavallo
7 signs you're in a controlling relationship
 
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For more - go to: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt 7 Signs You’re In A Controlling Relationship If there’s one kind of a relationship you want to get out of FAST it’s a controlling relationship. This is a relationship where the person in charge is a personality that can only handle a relationship that they can control. Control – if you aren’t familiar – is an illusion. The idea of control may sound cool, but it’s highly unlikely that you’re as “in control” as you might think. Take it from me – I used to be a bit of a control “monster” for a huge part of my adult life. I wasn’t out-of-control, but I know I alienated a few people here and there. And the funny thing was that I now know that the control I wanted was just a way of compensating for feeling so helpless as a kid. But the thing about “toxic” relationships is that they can be created out of thin air. What starts out as a perfectly normal relationship can also spiral out of control into a really horrible situation. You need to be on your guard to make sure that you don’t fall victim to a controlling relationship. Because a lot of the signs start small, and then only get bigger. And – in contrast to what you might expect – it’s not just men that are controllers in relationships. Women are found to use this behavior just as much as men do. So if you find any “controlling red flags here” just be aware that you might not fit this description, but you should see if you might have used the same tactics. Now, let’s take a look at some of the signs that you might be in a controlling relationship… Controlling Relationship – Sign 1: He’s watching – everything! It might show up as criticism, or it might be a weird kind of surveillance you feel on you all the time… You might feel like you’ve got cameras hidden everywhere and he’s watching you. It’s a weird feeling, but you know that he’s watching you a lot closer than he should. This is another of those insidious behaviors that can start out small: “Sweetie, do you mind not leaving your floss on the counter?” And before you know it, you’ve got a full blown tyrant on your hands: “I’d like you to keep the blu-ray discs in alphabetical order. And the cereal boxes in the pantry…” Or he starts the criticism of you, your friends, your family… or really anything in your life that he doesn’t like. He might even tell you that “I just want you to work on improving yourself” as an excuse for the constant nitpicking. Just recognize that it’s extremely hard to feel loved and accepted when there’s a constant dynamic of criticism and complaints coming your way. This is about as far as you can get from “unconditional love.” Controlling Relationship – Sign 2: It’s flattering, buuuuut…. One of the most outstanding indicators of a controlling personality is that they often wield their most potent weapon in your relationship: Jealousy. Jealousy feels cool every so often. I mean, who doesn’t like knowing that their partner is so into you that they get a little green with jealousy once in a while? It feels like caring and heartfelt love… Until it doesn’t. The key here is being jealous “ONCE” in a while. If it is regular, to the point where you start avoiding going out and socializing with him around because you’re afraid of the consequences, you may have a controller on your hands. This is particularly difficult because their jealousy can seem like YOU are the one hurting them – but it’s really their own insecurities. And it’s especially painful when their accusations make it seem like you’re doing this on purpose to hurt them. Controlling Relationship – Sign 3: Guilty! In a controlling personality’s mind – you are always guilty until you prove ... For the rest - WATCH THE VIDEO! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 7 signs you're in a controlling relationship https://youtu.be/3z48GmT-Oww
Views: 6791 Carlos Cavallo
How To Get Your Ex Back Part 2: Why He Broke Up With You
 
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Learn how to get your ex back and other dating advice: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/freereport/ Welcome to PART 2 of "How To Get Your Ex Back"! Warning: The first thing you'll learn In this relationship advice video is that there isn't a 100% chance of getting back with your ex - but that's a GOOD thing, and you'll find out why. It might be hard for you to hear this, but there might be a chance he's moved on. He could have gotten to the point where too much has happened and he won't come back. But then again, maybe you might look back and realize that your relationship wasn't that great as you thought it was. Maybe moving on is the best thing for the both of you. Still, it's still important for your own sake to recognize the reasons WHY you broke up in the first place, if only to learn from past lessons and avoid repeating them. This short dating advice video will show you some sobering statistics on breakups and how most women feel about their ex. You gotta know this stuff if you want to get your ex back - or find the strength to move on. You'll also get my thoughts on the "no contact rule" - is it really going to help you get him back? Find out by hitting that play button! More importantly, we'll also discuss the REAL reasons why guys break up with their partners AND what you can learn from it. These are valuable relationship tips that you shouldn't miss! Aside from that, I'll help you map out a SOLID, proven plan to get back your guy and make him fall in love with you all over again. To do that, we'll do a little soul-searching exercise to help to figure out your HIDDEN reasons for wanting to get back together with him. Also, do you feel like lashing out? Doing something outrageous in the hopes of getting his attention to get back on his radar? That's a very BAD idea, and I'll talk about the different attention-seeking, destructive behaviors that you need to avoid so you don't dig a deeper hole for yourself. You have to know this if you want to escape splitsville and make your ex want you again. Aside from that, we'll get into what you SHOULD do instead. A healthy mindset and a positive attitude might not directly have an impact on your love life, but it's actually one of the powerful ways to become attractive in your ex's eyes! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Get Your Ex Back: https://youtu.be/JpszpYzCefU
Views: 7964 Carlos Cavallo
How To Bring A Man Closer - 7 WAYS - Even If He's Pulled Away...
 
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Fore more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/youtube 7 Ways To Get A Man Closer To You – Even if he’s grown distant! When a guy becomes cold, distant, detached, or pulls away from you, it’s a scary sensation. It might even remind you of when one or both of your parents were cold and hard to connect with as a kid, which sends our system into all kinds of panic. When someone you really love isn’t close to you, or seems like they’re withdrawing their love, it’s a real shock to your emotional system. It’s sometimes hard to keep a man interested. He might become aloof and distant, and you don’t even know why it’s happening. (I reveal the reason for this in my free ebook: “7 Mistakes That Push Him Away” – ENTER YOUR EMAIL in the form on the left to get your copy…) But the real question most women have is how to get him closer to you – even if he’s growing distant from you. Even when you’re apart… It’s important, because you have to have a deep emotional bond with a man to keep him interested in you – and the relationship. The same is true for the woman in the relationship. You won’t stay close to him if your emotional intimacy needs aren’t getting met. The reality for women, however, is that they know they can’t compete with younger, slimmer girls that might come along. So it’s vital that you understand how to keep your man connected to you by using the power of his EMOTIONS. EMOTIONS are your secret weapon against all the giggly bombshells that sneak in and try to grab his eye. Let’s start out with: Get him closer to you – TIP #1: Keep The Flow! I’m giving you the deadliest trick right up front here – you have to get your man to open up to you and be comfortable confiding in you. Unfortunately, in many of the couples I’ve seen, they have a well-rehearsed routine of cutting each other off and making it difficult to connect. This is going to create a rift between you if you keep doing it. These patterns can go right off the rails. Keep the channels of communication open, even when it’s uncomfortable. Here’s what happens: - Man feels vulnerable and wants to tell her what he’s feeling… - BUT he remembers the last few times he’s tried opening up and telling her the uncomfortable truth, and how she made him feel shamed, or wrong for his feelings - He feels like he’s about to put his “hand in the fire” and pulls back - She senses his distance and tries to pull him back in… - And now HE is in full blown panic mode as he tries to get away from her, thinking she’s just “being needy” You can probably see how that dynamic can get out of control… You have to keep the flow of communication flowing at all costs. Yeah, in order to do this, you have to follow the next tip: Stop Him From Pulling Away From You – TIP #2: Keep him SAFE… So in order to make a man feel safe enough to open up to you and be vulnerable, he has to know that there are no consequences for opening up to you. Some possible consequences he might foresee: You get angry at him – men will work hard to avoid disapproval from a woman. VERY hard… You withhold physical intimacy from him – again, a man has a deep need for bedroom intimacy with his partner, and he will do anything to avoid that… You will go silent – just as bad as you getting angry, but worse because this means you’re playing games by using the silent treatment… Take his emotional needs seriously… Remember that if a guy feels safe enough to reveal what he’s thinking and feeling, you won’t be in the dark as to what’s going on with him. But so often a woman will cut him off and hold a petty grudge that pushes him away from her. Not only does this create distance in their emotional intimacy, it also makes it more likely he’ll try to get that intimacy somewhere else. Yes, that’s right. If a woman comes along with a sympathetic ear, she will snake him right out from under you. Simply by knowing how most women push their man away… Keep Him Close To You – TIP #3: Keep him... Want the rest? Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Bring A Man Closer https://youtu.be/Xp8edYDLYjs
Views: 17124 Carlos Cavallo
Signs that a man doesn't want you anymore | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo
 
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For more videos, click here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt188 Signs That A Man Doesn’t Want You Why do men pull away and lose interest? There are a lot of possible reasons for this. And it’s safe to say that if you could catch this problem before it took root and drove him apart from you, you could probably save the relationship. That’s why you need to be able to read a man’s signals. You have to know what his actions – and more importantly, his lack of action – is telling you. And ultimately, these signs are just that – indicators that you should be paying attention. They do not demand that you jump into action immediately and start questioning the stability and security of your relationship as it is. Only that you stay aware and watch what’s going on. When you see a pattern, thoughtfully take steps to get MORE aware. So while I will say that these could be interpreted as him “not wanting you” – the reality is that if you see these signs you can only know that he is at risk in your relationship. Sometimes these signs are just an indicator that he’s gotten lazy in the relationship and it’s time you held him accountable for more. The real risk I see in relationships day in and day out is that many women simply don’t have the courage to confront men in a healthy, heartfelt way to make him accountable for his part of the relationship. She suffers in the relationship, allowing him to just exist without ever really investing his own emotions in it. And then she is heartbroken when he walks away from something he was never that involved to begin with. As the saying goes, “his heart wasn’t in it.” You have to be different and be accountable as well. Choosing to do nothing or wait is a choice, just like any other. And if you don’t choose to take action, you’re living your relationship by default. Which is to say that you’re taking your hands off the wheel and hoping you’ll just get to your destination… somehow. Let me assure you that this isn’t a “leave it to destiny” approach, nor is it a wise one. And if you choose this method for your relationships, you will likely find yourself traveling through a great many relationships, all of them ending in a similar way. Now, let’s pick up the happier side of this subject as I delve into the 7 signs that a man doesn’t want you anymore. Sign #1: He’s closed off, shut down, and near impenetrable…. There’s a reason you panic when your man goes quiet, and that’s because it’s one of the most telling signs that he’s pulling away from you. The part that makes this confusing is that he can occasionally go quiet even when he IS still in the relationship, possibly just working something out on his own in his head. So it can be a bit of a fine line to walk when you see this in his behavior. The best thing you can do is to find intelligent and sincere ways to inquire about what’s going on inside. Let me start by telling you that the worst thing you can do is to lose your cool and start interrogating him. “What are you thinking?” “What’s going on? Why won’t you talk to me?” “What’s wrong? What did I do wrong? Tell me!” Yeah, as a guy, I’m already wincing. “Labeling his state is never good – even if it’s true.” – Carlos Cavallo So just go easy on the “make me feel better!” dialogue. Phrase your request in the form of a genuine, heart-centered desire to help HIM, instead of demanding that he ease your frightened emotions. Sign #2: He’s turned into a 64 oz can of ANNOYED…. When everything you do annoys him and irritates him… Even the most innocent things you say make him bristle and snap… You’ve probably got a situation where he’s second-guessing the relationship. Sometimes a man will do this for the same reasons a woman will – to push the other person back and get some perspective – or to prepare for a breakup. This is usually a symptom of a woman who has ... For the rest - Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Signs That A Man Doesn't Want You Anymore https://youtu.be/5Wyf0VsqHgw
Views: 129050 Carlos Cavallo
Should I Text Him? 7 Texting Tips | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo
 
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GET MORE: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt166 "Should I Text Him?" Answers To Your 7 Texting Questions It's funny how texting has blasted its way onto the scene to become just about THE most important communication tool of the modern day. Even more than email...! Ever wonder why? I think texting is popular because: - It's quick... you can send a message in just seconds... - Messages are short and to-the-point... - You can think before you speak... - You can also say some pretty racy things in text that you might not have the guts to actually SAY to that person... - You don't need to engage in a 10-120 minute conversation with someone. Just send and forget... - And you don't need to interrupt whatever you're doing... There are many more reasons, but I'll bet you haven't thought of THIS one: - It's kind of addicting to put yourself in a state of "What will he say next?" We like the suspense of not knowing what's going to happen next. It's like the thrill of game shows. We thrive on uncertainty. (BTW - I'll reveal how you're probably making a HUGE mistake with your texting in a bit...) So it follows that I get a TON of questions about texting guys and how to do it right. Now, let's go into the top 7 texting questions I receive from my readers... with the answers! Let's start with: TEXTING QUESTION 1: "Do I text him first?" Good question, and it cuts right to the heart of the responsible roles for men and women in relationships. If you've just met a guy, and you hit it off, and then exchanged numbers - should you text him? In this day and age of "female empowerment" - it might seem like that's an okay thing to do. You might hear a bunch of "gurus" and "experts" out there telling you to "go girl! Let him know you're interested!" I'm telling you that's BS. Plain and simple. Don't buy into that nonsense... Men don't want women to chase them. If there's one thing that's murdered the power women have had in the dating process it's feminism. (In case you just gasped in shock at that, remember that I'm turning over a new leaf here. I'm telling you the nasty, unspoken truth. ) If you just met him, you're going to be on pins and needles wondering if he's interested in you. And the only way you're going to REALLY know is if he texts you first. Or calls you first. "But Carlos, what if he forgets... or doesn't text me?" Then HE WASN'T INTERESTED IN YOU! Your texting him first will not change that ONE BIT. And even worse, if you lack the self-control to hold back - and you DO text him first - you'll have ruined it for him. No more suspense. Now he'll know that YOU are more interested. And he doesn't have to chase or work for you. After all, you're already chasing him. So ... stop doing that.  And - just to be extra clear - even if he was interested, if you text him first you'd STILL be tearing your hair out wondering if he was interested in you. You just gave away your power. A woman needs to see a man's interest for her to believe it. And to feel adored... TEXTING QUESTION 2: "How much should I text him?" There are two sides to this question: How much should you text him in quantity, and in frequency. I'll handle the frequency question in a minute. As far as how much should you put into your text in words... 43 Yup, 43 words and no more. Actually, that's just my way of saying, no one can answer that specifically. So instead I'll teach you the reason why. You have to look at your own habits... Ask yourself: - "Do I tend to work too hard in relationships?" - "Am I a bit too THERE?" - "Do I lean into relationships instead of leaning back...?" Only you know your own behaviors. But if those questions feel like they're familiar to you, you might consider you're the personality that is probably texting too much. It comes from... ...drum roll ... INSECURITY! I was like this in dating for years. I was so afraid of losing out on the woman I was dating that I went overboard on everything. I was too ... THERE. When it comes to dating and texting, women tend to go overboard on the texting. So it's better to swing the pendulum in the other direction - say a little too little. You'll always do better by making him WONDER than letting him know too much about your interest. It's what men work for. TEXTING QUESTION 3: "Do I text him after the first date?" This one is pretty close to the first question, but I've got more to say about it... First of all - you don't need to... For the full article - Click the link above! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Do I text him? 7 Texting Problems - SOLVED! https://youtu.be/xSMUBifapzo
Views: 19525 Carlos Cavallo
5 Secret Tricks To Make Him Fall In Love With You
 
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Make Him Obsessed! https://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt144 If you want to make a man fall in love with you, you have to make your relationship predictable. Mostly because you have to create a pattern that will draw a man into your arms. But love seems very random at times… Love also feels very out-of-control. (Which, by the way, is one of the most important traits of love. If we don’t feel a little out-of-control, we don’t believe that it’s REAL.) But there are a few signals that tell us when we’re falling in love with someone. Here are a few of them: Sign You’re In Love #1: Loss of control If you feel like you’re not able to steer this relationship… You sense that you can’t play games with him, and you don’t want to… You feel a little thrown off because you’re not the one calling the shots, and he’s even a bit intimidating to you. This loss of control is absolutely necessary for you to feel infatuated with him, so it’s a GOOD thing… Find out the other signs by watching my video - click play now! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 5 Secret Tricks To Make Him Fall In Love With You - https://youtu.be/poK09j8Dpwc
Views: 93858 Carlos Cavallo
5 Ways To Catch His Eye and Be Irresistible
 
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Secret to irresistibility: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt112 In this video, you’ll learn how to get him hot and bothered at the mere sight of you…. It would be nice if appearances didn’t matter. But they DO – to an extent, anyway. Sure, a great personality and a mature, healthy attitude forms the core of a stable, happy relationship. Yet, we’re also hardwired to be attracted to pleasant visual stimuli. In fact, it plays a big part in choosing a partner. Both men and women appreciate a little eye candy, and there’s nothing wrong with that. What’s more, you’ll need to present yourself in an visually appealing way to give guys a glimpse of the goddess you are on the inside. After all, a woman who cares enough to take care of herself gives out a message that says: “I’m a fun, happening woman who’s interested in meeting guys…come over and talk to me!” And don’t think that you need to be that svelte, flawless model from those magazine covers and billboards we’re bombarded with. Men love them some curves, so don’t be afraid to flaunt it. Before we get into this slightly risqué topic, let me remind you that I’m not trying to reduce women to sexual objects. Aside from recognizing your other awesome traits, I also want guys to see you as a sexual being. So we’ll talk about how to play up your most attractive physical attributes to make you show up on his radar. By the time you’ve gone through my list of super effective dating tips for women, you’ll look so good that he’ll just want to eat you up. As an added BONUS, I’ll also give you a little tour of the hottest areas of the female body that no man can resist. Combine that knowledge with my 5 attraction tips and he won’t stand a chance! Are you ready to be your sexiest, most glamorous self? Hit that play button to get started! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================
Views: 19802 Carlos Cavallo
5 Ways To Make Him Chase You After Sex
 
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Be irresistible to him: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt107 In this dating advice video, we’ll get into the fine art of keeping the pursuit alive well after the ‘Morning After’. I have a feeling a lot of men are gonna be angry at me after I reveal the secrets to what we REALLY think about you. We kinda like to play it close to chest so some fellas out there might not appreciate me giving you the REAL deal on what truly makes us fall for women. But then again, who knows? I’m willing to bet a LOT of other guys – the kind you want – actually welcome this change. After all, we’d probably save ourselves a lot of mind games (and the grief that comes with it) by laying it all out on the table. So I want to help you to create an atmosphere of romance and attraction with your guy so he’ll come knocking on your door…even AFTER knocking boots with him. (If you know what I mean…) The thing is, while political correctness definitely has its place these days, sometimes too much of it can kill the romantic tension we all enjoy between the sexes. It seems that the spirit of spontaneity and sexual chemistry is slowly giving way to men’s fear of being overbearing…or even creepy. A lot of guys are lot more reserved now when it comes to approaching women for a simple conversation because of this climate we’re living in. And if you’re interested in a relationship, I’ll show you FIVE THINGS you can do to keep those lines of healthy communication open – with emphasis on “healthy.” Let’s face it, there are genuine creeps out there with no concept of personal boundaries. It’s a sad reality we have to deal with, but don’t let that stop you from meeting those quality men you need in your life! If you want to find out how to keep guys chasing you in spite of the hurdles, check out this podcast now. It’s easy to sleep with a guy if the chemistry’s there. It’s a little trickier though when you want him to stick around after the fact. Hit that play button to learn how to keep the game going just when he thinks he’s “got” you! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Make him chase you: https://youtu.be/NxEqK6IOYSo
Views: 102299 Carlos Cavallo
How To Stop Him From Stringing You Along
 
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For more - go to: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/commitment How To Stop Him From Stringing You Along - 3 Tips to keep him from wasting your time... The world is full of time wasters. They clog up our lives like hair at the bottom of the drain. ESPECIALLY if it's a guy that's stringing you along, wasting your love and time on a relationship that's not fulfilling you - and not leading anywhere... You gotta know how to stop these guys from plugging up your life! Time to get some Drain-o for the dudes. Because you need to know whether to give him more time, or to kick him to the curb. I'm going to warn you that if you're prone to needing to blame the guy, or shy away from the tough talk, this article isn't going to kiss your butt. I'm here to give you the straight dope on how to be REALLY happy. Not "deluded happy." We have enough people doing that these days. So let's put on those Big Girl Shoes and dig into some ways to avoid getting strung along and played by the man in your life. Most guys aren't doing this on purpose, by the way. We're just doing what you're doing: trying to find someone to love. But it's up to you to watch out for yourself, so these tips should keep you safe: Stop Getting Strung Along - TIP #1: Make A Reality Check Ask yourself the critical question: Are you REALLY being strung along? What makes you feel that way? Is it that he isn't acting the same as when you two first got together? Because I'll have to stop you right there and tell you wake up and grow up, honey. No one acts the same later as they did at the start. Oh yeah - even you.  The best way to check in on this is to really check your gut as I ask this next question: Do you feel that there's anything actually wrong with your connection? And is there a possibility that this is a common feeling you get at this point in ALL your relationships? At about the same time? (More on this in a second...) A lot of people go their whole lives without really questioning the nature of their reality. Especially when it comes to relationships. Back when I was still pretty amateurish about dating, a friend of mine interrupted me to tell me something I've never forgotten: What's the one thing in common to all your problems? I thought about that for a while... and without waiting for my answer, she said: YOU! YOU are the one thing that is always there in all your problems. And that's when it really clicked for me... That it wasn't every one of my partners that was wrong or bad. And it wasn't me, either. I was just the common element to all of them. I was the hub - the center - of all my problems. If I wanted them to change, I had to change ME. Not them. So really take a few seconds and think that one through. Make sure you have HARD DATA that says "Yup, he's definitely putting me on the back burner." Do you have evidence that leads you to believe that you aren’t as important to him as you’d like to be? That feelings have changed between you? Stop Getting Strung Along - TIP #2: Check Your Stuff... Ready for another serious question? Ask yourself this: Do you tend to make snap decisions when your insecurities rise up? Or do you have a healthy level of self-awareness? Don't be too quick to assume the latter. You'd be surprised how many women rush to conclusions when she gets a bit rattled in her relationship. Also ask yourself: Do you settle up front for less than you know you’ll want later?  A lot of women I know will "date hard" for a month or two... then she will get really frustrated and angry. Then, after another couple weeks of "angry dating," she will get sad and lonely about it all. You can practically hear her standards starting to drop. Eventually, she just takes some guy who is "good enough." He's usually not a strong willed man, and his lack of masculine edge has already doomed the relationship before it gets started. And then what happens is that she's unhappy, dissatisfied, and generally underwhelmed. She might try a "salvage operation" where she tries to fix or change him. (NEVER WORKS!) And when it doesn't work, she turns on the complaint engine - instead of dropping him and moving on. There simply aren't enough compatible guys for you to ... Watch the video for the rest! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Stop Him From Stringing You Along https://youtu.be/m3ujs7EZB6E
Views: 6684 Carlos Cavallo
How To Get Your Ex Back - Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back FAST! (Dating Advice)
 
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Get MORE dating advice here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/freereport/ Getting your ex back is really about AVOIDING the mistakes that RUIN your chances of getting back together. That's why in this relationship advice video, I'll show you the biggest blunders and relationship mistakes you can easily avoid! The key to learning how to make a guy like you again is understanding just how *addictive* being in love is. Once you realize what this does to you, you're already halfway towards winning your ex back! It's important to understand how this addiction fuels the TOP 5 mistakes when trying to get your ex back, all of which I'll talk about in this video. This is CRUCIAL to know because this can cause serious damage, such as: - Acting in a panicked state and making BAD decisions - Looking weak, desperate and insecure - Appearing needy and like a doormat - Being vulnerable to being taken advantage of We'll talk about how to quell that panic within you and why your worst fears DON'T have to come true! Plus, I'll teach how you to avoid the BIGGEST myth about relationships that Hollywood has perpetuated for the longest time! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Dating Advice - Get Your Ex Back: https://youtu.be/_M5RR5DXA90
Views: 21661 Carlos Cavallo
3 Ways to Get Him to Commit - Men and Commitment advice
 
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Make him commit: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt102 "How do I get him to commit?" is a question I often get from my readers. Well, that's exactly what we're going to tackle in this dating advice video for women, so read on... You've probably dreamed about the kind of guy you want right down to the fine details. That includes what you're both wearing, where you date would be and of course, the moment when he confesses his undying love for you. We all yearn for that partner who'll give us that unconditional commitment we want. But getting a guy to commit doesn't have to be remain a fantasy, or feel like chasing after unicorns. We're going to get into how to make him commit to you without the drama, but there's something I'd like to address. I'm talking about the one thing that will make him run from a relationship – and it’s the root cause of almost every broken engagement I’ve ever seen. Would you like to know what it is? The one thing that ruins more commitments and would-be engagements (and sometimes even marriages) is THIS: Focusing on what YOU need more than on what HE needs. I know that sounds harsh and some of you might react to that violently. But I've seen in this in a LOT of relationships. And to be fair, it's JUST AS vital for MEN to focus on what YOU need more than what HE needs. So what I'm trying to say is that the recipe for a growing and thriving relationship… …is when BOTH of you keep your focus on the OTHER person. Not to mention their needs in the relationship. This will create a snowball effect in your relationship. The more momentum it gains, the bigger snowball of goodwill and affection you'll have between you two. Sadly, I've had to help many women who are only fixated on her own worries, fears, needs, and wants. This makes other stuff in the relationship a second priority. This includes making him feel joy, excitement and happiness when they're together. If you want to learn few of the ways you can cast a spell of love and devotion over your guy, go and watch my video now. See you on the other side! Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How to get him to commit: https://youtu.be/zHbAajpos7A
Views: 8444 Carlos Cavallo
7 Signals He's Flirting and NOT Just Being Nice
 
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Read his signals: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/readhissignals Did it really mean anything when he smiled at you? Or is he just friendly to everyone? Sometimes, it's tricky figuring out if a guy is putting the moves on you or not. If you want to know how to tell if a guy likes you, you need to learn the 7 signs you shouldn't ignore. Men are also in that constant struggle of "is she or isn't she into me" with the woman they like. And like you, he's afraid to spell it out because it could mean getting openly rejected. So men will throw out some VITAL clues under the radar - they're often NOT aware that they're even doing this! It's sort of a subconscious way of protecting themselves from point blank rejection which of course, is PAINFUL for a guy. Here's how it works in his head: if you pick up on them and give him the green light, then it's all good. But if you're not interested, at least you can turn him down gently by NOT responding to these hints. Weird I know, but it's one of the things you need to understand if you want to know how to make a guy like you. It's all in the subtle ways he acts around you. It's how he carries a conversation, a certain way he looks and smiles at you, and the kind of humor he uses. Oh, and if his friends know about you...there's something more to that than you think. This is far less complicated than women might believe, and getting to the truth of his feelings is as easy as hitting that play button! And don't forget to like, share and subscribe if you got a kick out of this relationship advice video :) Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you. ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/user/connectwithhim?sub_confirmation=1 =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Is he flirting or just being nice? https://youtu.be/Xnx3QJVeFrg
Views: 264519 Carlos Cavallo
Why He Wants A Break - 3 Reasons | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo
 
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Get The Obsession Switch here: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt164 Why He Says He Wants To Take A Break – 3 Reasons It can come out of the blue… or it might be something you’re expecting – and dreading. He tells you, and you go into an immediate panic… It’s especially frightful when you don’t see it coming. So – Why does a man say, “I want to take a break?” What is it about your relationship that is so frightening to him…? It feels almost as scary as a full-on breakup. And sometimes, that’s the next thing coming down the road after he asks for a break. Let’s take a deep look at this, as I explain the three reasons guys tell you they want to take a break from your relationship… “I need Some Space” – Why? REASON #1: He’s Flooded… Women typically feel more like a woman the closer they are to the man in their life. The more time she spends with him, feeling that connection they’re building, the more she feels whole as a woman. But this is not so with guys. The truth about relationships that many women find painful to hear is that while men are very often completely into having a girlfriend… – he still needs his space to feel like a man. Men need time away from a relationship in order to feel that they are still men. So many men find themselves torn about this tug-of-war they experience in a relationship. On one hand, we really do enjoy connecting and bonding with you. But after a while, we feel flooded from all the emotions and time we spent with you. Flooding is the term for when we feel that our emotional capacity is overwhelmed and we need space to breathe. Men are very easily flooded… I wish I could tell you that this changes significantly the longer you’re together. But in reality, over time, a man simply learns to work through his feelings a bit more quickly and easily. So the time shortens up. However, he will always need time alone and away from the relationship to recharge. In fact, if you really want to create an unbreakable bond with your man – try to be the FIRST one to suggest some time apart. Yes, you heard me. YOU ask for the time away from him FIRST. The fact of the matter is that there is always someone in the relationship who is more INTO the relationship than the other. There’s always a slight imbalance in the desire to jump right in and create an intimate relationship. And yes, usually it’s the guy. FACT: When it’s HIM feeling this need for space, he’s going to find a way to pull away in order to catch a breather. It’s just like a rest during an athletic event, where he has to catch his breath. If you understand this fact, and don’t panic or try to hold on too tight, you’ll do just fine. - You’ll go out with your girlfriends and chill, instead of sending him manic texts at 3:00 AM… - You’ll push him away to do his thing while you do your thing… and he’ll be calling you back up much quicker than the last time… It almost always works – if you have the self-control to do it right. Oh, and there’s also a very real possibility that he’s just busy and needs some time to catch up. Men use peace and quiet and aloneness to recharge. It’s the way we’re built. Men think linearly, not parallel multi-tasking. So a relationship can feel like a burden when he’s trying to get caught up, or he just wants to get some things done in his life. “Let’s Take A Break” – Why? REASON #2: He’s Trying To Break Up Nicely… There is the very real possibility that he tells you he wants to take a break because he’s actually wanting out of the relationship. Some guys just don’t have the directness to just say they want to break up. Let’s be real – it’s an easy out. If I say “break” I might just be hinting at “break up.” I’ve had a few girlfriends who used this one on me without me realizing it, too. It’s not uncommon for both sexes to use this as an excuse. Either way, he’s looking for something outside of the one-on-one devotion you might have in your relationship. Which means you should probably also take a good look at how into him you are versus how into you he is. Take a good long look at your feelings vs. his and figure out what’s going on. If you sense he’s actually looking for a way out, your best option is to – ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Why He Wants A Break - 3 Reasons https://youtu.be/UXqChmAUI7c
Views: 10336 Carlos Cavallo

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