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Begged and Pleaded With Your Ex Already? How to Salvage Your Situation!
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Begged and Pleaded With Your Ex Already? How to Salvage Your Situation! Hey everyone, it’s Brad Browning here – breakup coach and author of the Ex Factor Guide. In this video, I’m going to talk about what to do if you’ve already begged and pleaded like crazy to get back together with your ex. If you’ve been watching my other videos, then you know that begging and pleading are two things that you should not be doing if you want to make your ex fall for you again. But in case you haven’t watched my other videos, then all you have to do is hit the subscribe button right below this video and check out all the videos I’ve released relating to this topic. So again, one of the biggest mistakes you can make if you’re trying to get your ex back is to beg and plead. In your head, you’re probably thinking, ‘If I just show him or her how much I love them and need them in my life, they’ll give me a second chance!’ While this may seem logical at the time, the truth is, no amount of begging or pleading will make your ex want to be with you again, let alone fall back in love with you. In fact, begging and pleading will make your ex less likely to want to get back together with you. Again, if you’ve watched my videos, then you’ll know that the secret behind rebuilding that obsessive desire within your ex is to rebuild the level of attraction he or she feels for you…and in order to do this, you need to speak to your ex’s “Emotional Control Center”... See, when you’re begging and pleading with your ex, you’re only speaking to the left side of their brain… the logical, rational side of their brain, but when it comes to love and relationships, human beings tend to make decisions based on emotions. What you actually have to do is to talk with your ex’s right side of the brain, or what I like to call the “Emotional Control Centre” of his or her brain. This is the only way you’ll ever rebuild that love and obsessive desire your ex once felt for you. But in order to do this, we’ve got to “wipe the slate clean,” so to speak. See, right now your ex probably thinks that you want him or her back obsessively, and that all you’re thinking about is the breakup. Your ex probably thinks you’re heartbroken, depressed, and angry. So the first step in rebuilding attraction again is to make sure that your ex doesn’t think this. You need to convey to your ex that you’re okay with the breakup and that you aren’t heartbroken. There are a few things you can do to make him or her think this way without being too obvious, and one of the most powerful methods to do this is “No Contact.” I know, I’ve talked about the “No Contact” technique in most of my videos, but that’s because it’s just so powerful. But in case you haven’t heard about the “No Contact” technique, it basically involves not contacting your ex for a period of at least 30 days. By not contacting your ex for this period of time, you are subtly but effectively just telling them that you are over the break up and that you don’t desperately miss him or her. In my Ex Factor Guide program, I have this little thing called “The Clean Slate E-Mail.” And by sending your ex this carefully-crafted e-mail, you’ll immediately erase his or her’s negative image of your from their mind. It doesn’t matter how much you’ve begged and it doesn’t matter how much you’ve pleaded, the “Clean Slate E-Mail” has got your back! If you want to learn more about my Clean Slate E-Mail (and get your ex to obsess about you again), then go to www.BreakupBrad.com. On that website, I have a free video presentation explaining exactly how you can get your ex to fall madly in love with you again. I’ll also give you more detail about the “Clean Slate E-Mail” as well in that video. Now before I get back into explaining how you can salvage your situation, tell me what you think about this video in the comments section below. Have you tried “No Contact” yet? Is there anything you think I’m missing? Or do you simply just have a question? Let me know and I’ll do my best to get back to you. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 367408 Brad Browning
No Contact To Get Your Ex Back - Does Ignoring Your Ex Actually Work?
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- Does no contact with your ex work if you want to get him or her back? In this video, I'm going to talk about the "No Contact" rule. If you haven't heard about it, this strategy just involves ignoring your ex to win them back. Most people advocate for about a month of no contact. So does it work? Yes, it does. The reason why it works is quite scientific. The first reason why it works is because it gives you time to heal privately. After a breakup, you might be really heartbroken and depressed and it won't be open for the public to see. Reason #2 is that it will prevent from doing something stupid (like sending them a text message accidentally). You can't screw up when you're not talking to your ex. The third reason is that is forces your ex to miss you -- obviously the most important aspect of 'no contact'. By doing this you're forcing your ex to miss you. The fourth reason why it works is because it allows your ex to 'forget and let go' of all the negative memories. A lot of the time, human beings tend to let go of the smaller negative feelings while remembering the positive ones. Finally, the last reason is that you're sending your ex a clear message that you're over for them. You're telling them that you're moving on to "bigger and better things." Need some help with your situation? You can sign up for my 1-on-1 coaching service here: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/coaching Thanks! ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 392106 Brad Browning
How To Make Your Ex Chase You (Reverse The Roles & Win Them Back)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- How To Make Your Ex Chase You. Shift the balance of power and make your ex chase YOU! Trust me, it's possible.... Right now you're probably assuming that the only way you can get your ex back is if you can convince them to give you a second chance. WRONG! Play your cards right and you can flip the situation on its head and have your ex chasing after YOU. The best way to win your ex back is to make them decide that the breakup was a mistake and then chase after you trying to get you to take them back. Step 1 -- Steal back the power from your ex. You probably weren't happy about the breakup, right? Even if you agreed with the breakup, I would imagine it wasn't your idea... and that means that all the power was in your ex's hands. Despite your best efforts to save the relationship, you were powerless, and nothing you could say or do would change your ex's mind. That's why you need to steal back some of the power and remove your ex's safety net. Step 2 -- The Disappearing Act. What's the very best way to demonstrate to your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend that you no longer need them in your life? By ending all communication with him or her for a month or so. By disappearing off your ex's radar, you're communicating to them that you're OK with the breakup and that you are ready to move on and replace your ex with some new guy or girl. That may not be true, but you need your ex to think it is, because he or she won't try to call your bluff. Ignoring your ex helps to build nostalgia and allows your ex to forget some negative memories. With you suddenly out of the picture and gone from their life, your ex will begin to miss you like mad and wonder if breaking up was a huge mistake. Step 3 -- Removing Your Ex's Safety Net. Your ex may have told you they still want to be friends and would like you to continue to be a part of their life. Why do they want to be friends? To keep your around as a "plan B" in they don't find someone new quickly, or if they change their mind. Your ex wants you there to fall back on and to entertain them while they move on. You can't let this happen. If you refuse to be friends and make it clear that breaking up with you means you're gone forever... that you're not going to stick around to be your ex's backup plan, and they won't be able to have you back at the snap of their fingers. If your ex tries to contact you (which is likely) then you have another opportunity to show your ex they're no longer in control. You want your ex to see that you're doing well, moving on, having fun, and being chased by many other guys or girls eager to take your ex's place by your side. Step 4 -- Wait For Your Ex To Start Chasing After You! If you've done what I've just described, and if your ex has realized that you're OK without them, and won't be their "backup plan", then it's extremely likely that your ex will try to contact you and maintain contact with you. Your ex may try to re-claim the balance of power by throwing you nuggets of affection and by talking about past memories you shared together. Don't give in to this, and you'll be able to maintain the "power" and likely you'll see your ex start to apologize and chase after you. Obviously there's many complications and you may be facing a unique scenario... if that's the case for you, don't fumble around and blow your chances of getting your ex back... sign up for my 1-on-1 coaching service: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/coaching Thanks for watching -- please subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos on how to get back together with an ex. ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 1211094 Brad Browning
How to Tell If No Contact Is Working (3 Signs To Look For)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Tell If No Contact Is Working (3 Signs To Look For) You and your partner broke up, and you’re trying the no contact period. It’s hard, but you know it’ll be worth it in the end… that is, if it works. Hi guys, Brad Browning here and today I want to talk to you about the signs that no contact is working. As you may already know, I’m a relationship coach, breakup expert and author of the best selling Ex Factor program. Whether this is your first time watching or if you’ve been to my channel before, welcome and thanks for joining us today. If you’re watching this video, chances are that you’ve made the wise decision to try the no contact period. Good job! As you may know, the no contact period is a strategy that I personally encourage people to use, because if done correctly, it can stop a breakup in its tracks. So, how can you tell if the no contact phase is working? Here are three signs to look for: Sign Number One: You’re Feeling Better Now that the storm has passed you’re finally beginning to see the light again. Inside you feel calm, and more like yourself than you did after the breakup. You’ve been spending time working on yourself, and are feeling strong, self aware, and in control. With each day that passes your self respect grows. Best of all, you’re not driven by reckless emotions that have caused you to be careless, and you truly feel like a changed person. This is exactly how you should be feeling, and is one of the biggest signs that the no contact period is working for you. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 763314 Brad Browning
Will Your Ex Forget About You During No Contact?
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Will Your Ex Forget About You During No Contact? Hello, everyone! It’s Brad Browning here with another breakup advice video. Today we’re going to talk about the no contact rule and whether or not your ex will forget about you if you avoid contact after your breakup. Now, before I begin, I’d like to introduce myself in case this is the first time you’ve come across one of my YouTube videos. As mentioned, my name is Brad Browning and I’m a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. I’m also known for my best selling Ex-Factor Guide program, which teaches folks like you how to rebuild a broken relationship with an ex. After watching this video, I encourage you to leave any comments or questions you may have in the section below. I always do my best to answer each of you, or direct you to other videos where you can find more information on the topic of your interest. So let’s get started. The “No Contact” rule. If you’ve been reading my articles and watching my YouTube videos then you will know that the “No Contact” rule is a big part of my Ex Factor Guide program. But what exactly does no contact entail? Well, it’s exactly how it sounds. The no contact phase is a period of time after a breakup where you have no communication with your ex whatsoever. This means no calls, texts, late night visits, liking their facebook posts or showing up at their door. Many people think they have a good reason to talk to their ex during the no contact period, but the reality is that you should avoid contacting them at all costs during this time. The purpose of the no contact phase is to give your ex a taste of life without you. If he or she is like most people, then they’ll quickly start to miss you and the negative memories that caused your ex to break up with you in the first place will fade away and be replaced by nostalgia and the more positive aspects of the relationship. Once these feelings have peaked, your ex will be much more likely to respond to your attempts to rebuild a new relationship together. Generally speaking, the no contact period lasts 30 days, but it really depends on how recently you and your ex split up, and a couple other factors that we will talk about a bit later. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 1445588 Brad Browning
Mistakes People Make After No Contact (And How To Fix Them!)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Mistakes People Make After No Contact Hi guys… in this video, I’m going to talk to you about some of the massive mistakes people make after they have finished the “no contact” period. My name is Brad Browning, I’m a relationship expert and breakup coach from Vancouver, Canada. You may recognize me from some of of other YouTube videos, or have heard about my best selling The Ex Factor Guide program that teaches those like yourself how to rebuild their relationships and get their ex back. Learn more about my program at BreakupBrad.com. So let’s get right into it. By now, I’m sure you’ve heard about the “no contact” strategy to win your ex back. It’s something I talk a lot about in The Ex Factor Guide because it’s such an effective technique. Generally speaking, the no contact phase lasts 30 days, but to some extent it does depend on your unique situation. During this time, it’s crucial that you have no communication with your ex whatsoever. This means no drunk texting your ex, no liking their status updates on Facebook, and no phone calls whatsoever. Many people think they have a good reason to talk to their ex during the no contact period, but the reality is that you should avoid contacting them at all costs during this time. If your ex is like most people, after a period of time without you in their life they’ll quickly start to miss you. The negative memories that caused your breakup in the first place will fade away and be replaced by the more positive aspects of the past relationship. Once these feelings have peaked, your ex will be much more likely to respond to your attempts to rebuild a new relationship together. The time apart from your ex during the no contact period will allow you both to heal, cool-down, and get level headed. It will create a void for your ex to miss you, make them wonder what you’re up to and how you’re doing. At the same time it works as damage control, leaving no room for arguments, disrespect or bad attitudes towards one another. You will both have your space to get organized, fix your bad habits and allow you time create a plan of action to get your ex back. What you say and how you say it after your no contact period ends is crucial. For example, if you’re trying to win your ex back and you unintentionally imply that you want to get back together for your sake, then it’s not going to happen. This is why it’s so important to work on bettering yourself during the no contact period. You need to find happiness and confidence in yourself before reaching out to your ex again. No matter how much you feel like you need them, you need to portray that while it’d be nice to get back together, you can in fact live without them. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 545903 Brad Browning
How to Stop Yourself from Contacting Your Ex
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Stop Yourself From Contacting Your Ex Hello everyone, it’s author and relationship coach Brad Browning here. And today, I’m going to talk about how to stop yourself from contacting your ex. I know I talk a lot about not contacting your ex on my YouTube channel and articles, but again, it is a very powerful tactic. However, for many people, it’s not the easiest tactic in the world to do! I’m sure you’ve spent nights contemplating what you could say to your ex right then and there, so it takes a lot of self-control to actually pull this off well. As I’ve mentioned before numerous times on this channel,it’s always best to cut off the lines of communication between you and your ex if you’re trying to get him or her back. There are many benefits of this — it will make your ex miss you, it will show her you’re strong enough to handle life after your ex, and it can also make them jealous. But, even though you may know all the benefits of not contacting your ex, the urge to talk to them can sometimes be quite overwhelming. Here are some tips and tricks to help you not contact your ex. 1. Put Down The Bottle. Not surprisingly, one of the things that can totally ruin your self-control and lower your natural inhibitions is alcohol. If you really want to win back your ex, and you’re the type to ‘drunk dial’ after you’ve been into the adult beverages, then you really need to think about laying off the booze during your “no contact” period. This might seem like an unreasonable suggestion if you’re the type to use alcohol to numb the post-breakup pain, but a single drunken text message can really push your ex away and upset him or her... or worse, depending on what you’ve said. So, for your own sake, don’t overdo it on the liquor if you’re prone to drunk dialing your ex. 2. Delete Your Ex From Your Contact List. Seems way to easy, right? Well, for starters, many people have their ex’s phone number memorized… which makes this a useless tip. But if you don’t have your ex’s phone number memorized, deleting them from your cell phone contacts list is pretty much the easiest way to stop yourself from contacting your ex. Worried you might not be able to recover your ex’s phone number when the ‘no contact’ period is over and you want to contact her? Write your ex’s contact info on a piece of paper and give it to a trusted friend with instructions not to return the paper to you for at least a month. 3. Remove All Reminders As you probably already know, after a breakup it’s wise to remove any visible reminders of your ex. Take down photos of you together, put stuffed animals and love notes in a box in the basement… do whatever it takes to remove any visible reminders of your ex from your immediate surroundings. By eliminating reminders of your ex, you’ll help push him or her to the back of your mind, making it less likely you’ll feel the urge to contact them. 4. Train Yourself By Setting A Rule Set a rule such as this: every time you think about contacting your ex, put a dollar bill in a piggy bank and remind yourself that not contacting your ex is the best way to get him or her back. Other people prefer more painful or irritating self-reminders… for example, any time you reach for your phone to text your ex, poke yourself in the eye. Or do pretty much anything that’s unpleasant in the hopes that this action will remind you why it’s a bad idea to contact your ex for now. My personal favorite? Each time you grab your phone and think about calling or texting your ex, send yourself a text saying “I must not talk to him/her!” instead. 5. Get Support From A Breakup Expert AKA, me! If you want to learn more about my program and how you can help yourself from contacting your ex, then just go to BreakupBrad.com and watch the full-length presentation on that website. In it, I go over the 3 things you must do if you want to get your ex back. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 239337 Brad Browning
5 Mistakes That Ruin Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Back
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Here are 5 mistakes that will ruin your chances of getting your ex back. After a breakup, you have to recognize that you're in an emotionally irrational state. That means you may do or say things that you probably wouldn't consider normally. This is a recipe for disaster and you risk pushing your ex further away from you. Mistake number one is begging and pleading. This will only make your ex feel less attracted to you. You need to do the opposite of this and build attraction. Mistake number two is getting angry or emotional at your ex. You definitely don't want to be negative with your ex, especially if you want to get your ex back. You need to be coming from a place of positivity. Mistake number three is telling your ex that you love them and miss them. Even though this might be true, you most definitely do not want to say it as this is extremely unattractive. Mistake number four is conveying heartbreak, loneliness, and depression. Even though you are heartbroken and sad, displaying these emotions to the world will work against you. Your ex doesn't want to get back together with an emotional wreck, so don't be one. Lastly, mistake number five -- being friends with your ex! After a relationship, it may seem like a good idea to keep in contact with your ex. A lot of the time, this can be okay -- but not if you want to get your ex back. By being friends with your ex, you're essentially just being his or her "emotional dumping ground". This is no way to build attraction. Watch the full-length video: http://www.BreakupBrad.com ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 322997 Brad Browning
Should You Be Friends With Your Ex?  (Dangers Of The "Friend Zone")
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ - Should You Be Friends With Your Ex? This is a question that I get asked all the time. It's really easy to be friends with your ex. After all, it's better than nothing, right? However, this usually isn't the best route to go if you actually want to get your ex back. The first reason why you shouldn't be friends with your ex is because it prolongs recovery. You need to move on after your relationship, and you can't do that if you're still friends with your ex. The second reason is that you need to make your ex miss you. You won't be able to do this if you're still around your ex all the time. In order for them to miss you, you need to vanish! Just disappear off their radar. Let's talk about science for a second... relationships and breakups are kind of like drug addiction. Seeing your ex again is like having a hit of a drug -- and it's addicting. In order for your ex to miss you, you need to stop seeing your ex, cold turkey. That will make your ex miss you more. The final reason is that you don't want to become their emotional dumping ground. You don't want to be their "breakup friend"... you want to be their lover, right? That is not helpful at all. Need some help with your situation? You can sign up for my 1-on-1 coaching service here: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/coaching ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 223038 Brad Browning
Is Your Ex The Right Person For You? (5 Ways To Know For Sure)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- Is Your Ex The Right Person For You? Hi, it’s Brad Browning here again...relationship coach and author of The Ex Factor Guide, a program developed to help you get your ex back into your arms. I know I’ve been known as the “Ex Back Geek” -- and that’s something I’m really proud of. I pride myself for my ability to help men and women salvage their lost relationships. However, on some very rare occasions, sometimes getting back together with somebody that you miss just isn’t the right decision for you. Of course, when clients hire me, I teach them exactly how to win their ex back… and a lot of the time, they end up getting their ex back...only for the relationship to fail again 3 or 4 weeks later. Sometimes, two people just aren’t compatible at all...and both parties would be best suited to move on completely. Coming to that conclusion can be pretty tough...especially if you still love the person dearly. In this video, I’ll go through 5 tips to help you realize whether you should keep trying or just simply move on with your life. 1.) Do you REALLY love your ex? A lot of the time when someone important leaves you, you begin irrationally wanting them back into your life without looking at the facts. People want what they can’t have, right? If possible, take a step back from the whole situation and take a few breaths. Then ask yourself, “How much do I love my ex? Really?” If you don’t think that really love your ex, then it’s time to just move and find someone that you actually love. 2.) Can you picture a legitimate future with your ex? Sometimes lust can blind your foresight. Believe it or not, I’ve coached couples back together only to hear that one of them is planning to move 2000 miles away for work. You really have to consider the logistics with your ex… would it ever really work out in the future? And an even more telling… would you ever marry your ex? If not, then it’s probably best to cut your losses and find someone else. 3.) Frequency of arguments. Studies show that an occasional healthy argument between partners builds trust and love. However, when it gets to an excessive level, then obviously the relationship was just never meant to be. So think back when you and your ex were together...how often did you have arguments? What were they about? How intense were they? If you were having intense arguments on a daily basis, then how badly do you want that back in your life again? 4.) Ask Yourself Why You Want To Get Back Together With Your Ex… As absurd as it sounds, I asked one client why she wanted to get back together with her ex boyfriend. Usually, I would expect an answer along the lines of… “He makes me feel like no other guy can make me feel.” But instead, I got a rather strange and funny answer...she said, “I want him back because he’s good in bed.” I had a good laugh about that one. While sex is a vital part of a relationship, it should be the reason why you want to get back together with your ex. 5.) Is There A Chronic Problem? If there was something ailing the relationship that just wouldn’t go away, you need to ask yourself… WILL it ever go away? Maybe you kept cheating on your ex (for whatever reason) or if there was drug or alcohol abuse involved, then you really need to assess whether these problems will ever go away. Similarly, if there’s a fundamental disconnect between you and your ex on topics like marriage, children, money… that’s a potential major problem, too. For example, if you’re dead-set on having a big family and your ex swears they’ll never have kids, how will you reconcile that? If watching this video has made you second guess your decision to get back together with your ex, then I’ve done my job. However, if you’re dead set on getting your ex back (and most of the time, this will be true), then I highly suggest you go check out the free video presentation on my website at www.BreakupBrad.com. On it, you’ll get all the information you need to start getting your ex back today. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 147542 Brad Browning
Why Your Ex Gives You The 'Hot & Cold' Treatment (Mixed Messages Explained!)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Why Your Ex Gives You The 'Hot & Cold' Treatment (Mixed Messages Explained!) If you’ve been there yourself, you know how frustrating this can be… it’s like they’ve got your emotions attached to a yo-yo, giving you plenty of hope one day and then crushing those hopes shortly thereafter. So, the first thing you should understand is that this type of behavior is completely normal… your ex isn’t weird or unique because he or she gives you a positive vibe one day and then seems cold or completely indifferent the next. In my experience, women tend to be more likely to send these kinds of mixed messages after a breakup, but men are definitely guilty as well. The bottom line is that it’s very common. Secondly, before I jump into talking about why they’re doing this and what it means, I want to warn you about trying to read too much into your ex’s actions… sure, sometimes you can get a genuine idea of your ex’s feelings by reading between the lines, but it’s also very easy to overanalyze or misinterpret things. I’ve got a video specifically dedicated to this topic, so for now I’ll just say this: try not to spend all your time thinking about things your ex has said or done, re-reading their texts and snooping their Facebook wall. That kind of stuff isn’t going to get you any closer to winning them back, so it’s always better to focus on the things you can control than to stress about what your ex is doing or saying. OK, now, back to the topic at hand… you want to know why your ex keeps giving you the ‘hot and cold’ treatment, and what the hell it means for your chances of getting back together. Well, typically this type of back-and-forth attitude is a result of your ex’s own internal struggles. He or she has obviously decided – at least rationally and consciously – that your relationship isn’t worth pursuing, hence the breakup. But just because they’ve chosen to end the relationship doesn’t mean that your ex isn’t having second thoughts or struggling to adapt to life without you. They’re probably just as heartbroken about the breakup as you are, and, just like you, they’re on a bit of an emotional roller coaster ride. Surely you’ve had your ups and downs since the breakup as well, right? When you’re out with your friends, having fun, everything seems OK… no crying, no sitting around thinking about how much life sucks, and so on. But an hour later, when you’re alone and your friends are no longer around to distract you, those emotions can sometimes come flooding back, and all of a sudden you feel the heartbreak and loneliness again. Your ex is experiencing the same emotional roller coaster… one minute they’re feeling confident about their decision to break up with you, because life is going well, their mind is occupied, and they’re not feeling the post-breakup emotions. The next minute, they’re alone, missing you like crazy, and they cave in to these emotions and pick up their phone to call you or send you a text. Taking advantage of your ex’s uneasiness and uncertainty about the decision to end your relationship is a key component of my Ex Factor Guide program, so if your ex is giving off the hot and cold messages, then head over to www.BreakupBrad.com and check out my free video… in it I talk more about how to overpower your ex’s logical, rational thinking and tap into their emotions, hopefully leading them to cave in and ask you to get back together and give the relationship another shot. Again, the address for that video is BreakupBrad.com. I’ll put that link in the description below as well. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 426756 Brad Browning
Get Your Ex to Chase You Down (And Give Your Relationship A Second Chance)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Get Your Ex to Chase You Down Do you think that the only way to win your ex is back is by begging and pleading with them for another chance? If so, then think again! Believe it or not, the truth is that the ball doesn’t have to be in your ex’s court. In fact, there is a way to turn the tables and make it your decision to give the relationship another try. This may sound impossible, but it’s simply a matter of shifting power. My name is Brad Browning, and today I’m going to talk to you about reversing roles to get your ex to chase after you. As some of you may already know, I’m a relationship and breakup coach from Vancouver, Canada. My online program, The Ex Factor Guide, teaches folks like you how to reverse a breakup and get a second chance with an ex. So, like I said, this video is about how to reverse the roles and have your ex chase after YOU, instead of the other way around. First and foremost, you need realize exactly what is it you’re trying to do here, and that’s shift the power from your ex, to you. At the time of the breakup, your ex was in complete control - They were the one who made the decision to breakup, and you were left feeling powerless. So much so that at the time you would have done anything to convince them to give your relationship another try. But now, since the breakup is still very much a real thing and your ex hasn’t come crawling back, it’s time for you to put yourself in a position of power. To do this you’re going to need to accomplish three things: You’re going to turn the tables. You’re going to remove your ex’s safety net and... You’re going to make them chase you. So, let’s get started by talking about step #1… the disappearing act. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 371664 Brad Browning
Does Your Ex Want You Back? 8 Signs To Look For
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- Signs Your Ex Wants You Back. Look for these 8 different signals that indicate your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend might want to get back together. First, remember: If the relationship with your ex was serious and lasted more than a few months, then it's almost certain your ex DOES want you back to some extent... but the question is do they want you back badly enough to get back together? But, warning!! Don't overanalyze things too much... don't try to read too much into your ex's words and behaviours, because it's not worth the time. Here's a free quiz you can take to identify whether or not your ex wants to get back together with you: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/Quiz Sign #1 -- If your ex contacts you. Especially if they message or call you regularly, ie. once a day. If your ex is reaching out to you, that's a signal. The more frequent, the more interested they probably are. Calls are a stronger sign than texts. And what are your ex's calls or messages about? If it's about personal stuff then that's a stronger signal. Sign #2 -- If your ex wants to hang out with you. If they want to be around you in person, that's a good sign. Sign #3 -- If your ex wants to be friends. Being 'friends' is usually your ex's attempt to keep you in their life, because they're not ready to let go of you completely. Sign #4 -- If your ex asks about you or talks about you with mutual friends (or if your ex is talking about you to their friends) then that's a good indication you're still on your ex's mind. Sign #5 -- If your ex brings up inside jokes or shared happy memories when you talk with them, or if they say they miss you and throw out sexual innuendos, then that's a clear sign your ex is nostalgic and reminiscing about positive things from your past relationship. Sign #6 -- if they flirt with you or touch you a lot. If your ex boyfriend or girlfriend touches you and flirts with you more than they would with other members of the opposite sex, that's a clear sign they're still attracted to you. Sign #7 -- if your ex is jealous. Any sort of jealousy on your ex's part, for whatever reason, is a very strong signal that indicates your ex is potentially interested in getting back together. Sign #8 -- If your ex displays depression, sadness, or if they seem particularly emotional and distraught after the breakup. This is a clear indication that they're having second thoughts about the breakup. Take this free quiz to see whether your ex wants you back: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/Quiz Please like this video if you found it helpful, and leave comments below if you have a question. Thanks for watching, and good luck! ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 1257337 Brad Browning
How to Respond to Your Ex's Texts and Phone Calls (And Win Them Back)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Respond To Your Ex's Texts and Phone Calls What’s up everyone, this is Brad Browning... in this video, I’m going to explain what you should do when your ex calls or texts you. If your goal is to reverse the breakup and get a second chance with your ex, then you definitely need to be prepared and know how to handle things when he or she inevitably reaches out to you. In case you’re wondering who I am, I’m a relationship coach, and I specialize in breakups and helping couples fix their broken relationships… you may have heard of The Ex Factor Guide, which is a best-selling program I’ve developed to help men and women around the world re-unite with an ex. If you want more info on this comprehensive system, visit my website, www.BreakupBrad.com, after you watch this video. OK, let’s move on to another important piece of advice. Since you’re watching this video, I’m assuming you’re set on rekindling things with your ex… and that means you’re also probably checking your phone every 15 seconds, anxiously hoping that he or she will have called or sent a text. That’s perfectly natural… and it’s what your ex will be expecting you to be doing. But sitting around staring at your phone waiting for your ex to send you a message also reeks of desperation… and, if you want your ex back, the last thing you need is for them to think you’re a desperate loser sitting at home waiting for their call. As a result, I actually advise the majority of my clients to ignore any calls or texts from their ex in the first few weeks after a breakup. Even a month or more after the initial breakup, you need to make sure your ex understands that you’re not sitting around waiting for their call… you want them to think you’re out living life to the fullest, having fun, dating new people, and so on… and one way to clearly give that impression is to miss your ex’s calls and texts. How does this play out in the real world? Let’s say, for example, that your ex sends you a text message at 10am on Saturday asking if he or she can pick up the some clothes that they left at your house. Instead of quickly responding to this text, you wait until 8pm that night, and then you respond by saying something like: “Hey, sorry for the slow reply, I was out hiking with a friend all day… I’ve got plans tonight and I’ll be at work most of the day tomorrow, so maybe you can swing by to pick them up on Monday or Tuesday. Call me Monday and we can figure it out. Anyway hope all is well with you, bye for now!” By saying this, you’re still responding to your ex’s initial question, and you’ve been polite and friendly… but you’ve also hinted that you’re super busy, you’ve left things a bit mysterious by mentioning you were hiking “with a friend” and that you’ll be “out late tonight”... even if this isn’t 100% truthful, you don’t have to lie to your ex, you can simply be ambiguous and leave out the details so their imagination can fill in the blanks. Trust me, you’d be amazed at how well this technique works to get your ex interested in you again. Now, this sort of delayed response to your ex’s message or call is only necessary if he or she actually has something to say to you… if their voicemail or text message is essentially meaningless… if they’re simply saying hi and asking what you’re up to, or commenting on something unimportant… then you don’t need to both responding at all. This is really difficult for a lot of people, but ignoring messages or calls from your ex is extremely powerful because it can really open their eyes to the fact that you’re no longer a part of their life and you won’t be around any time they want to chat. I know you may be wondering how the hell you can possibly apply this technique to your situation, especially if things are complicated and you can’t simply cut your ex out of your life completely… I’ve covered all of this stuff in my Ex Factor program, and you can also learn more about how to adapt this strategy to your unique scenario by watching the free video on my website, BreakupBrad.com. That’s www.BreakupBrad.com. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 409051 Brad Browning
How To Keep Your Relationship Healthy And Prevent Breakups
 
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How To Keep Your Relationship Healthy and Prevent Breakups -- http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ 1.) Quit being so needy, and keep a lid on the jealousy. One of the least attractive characteristics you can portray is insecurity. Jealousy and ‘neediness’ are both extreme examples of insecurity, so they can cause some real damage to a relationship. Jealousy is a natural feeling that we all have to endure to a certain degree, but the key is to suppress these feelings of jealousy unless you have a very, very good reason to feel jealous. Most of the time, you simply need to trust your partner and have faith that he or she is not being disloyal. ‘Neediness’ is a similar attraction-killing trait... in fact, it’s so common that I should probably make a video dedicated just to this topic. For the purposes of this video, though, I’ll just leave it at this: no-one likes being in a relationship where your partner is constantly seeking validation, so quit being ‘needy’ or ‘clingy’. 2.) Avoid falling into a boring routine. The first few months of any new relationship are usually exciting and passionate, but things can often quickly become stale if you and your partner don’t make an effort to keep things interesting. Avoiding boring routines doesn’t require anything extreme… you don’t have to go skydiving on Tuesdays and skinny dipping on Thursdays, for example… you just have to mix it up enough to avoid either one of you becoming bored. A romantic weekend getaway, for example, is a great way to break the routine… you could take your partner to a cooking class, try out the newest restaurant in town, or spontaneously give your partner a small gift. Make an effort to spice things up in the bedroom, too -- your sex life is just as prone to becoming ‘stale’. 3.) Don’t give up on all your social life. Some people have a tendency to quickly lose contact with friends and colleagues when they jump into a new relationship. If you’re guilty of this, and you’ve started to grow apart from your friends and social circle since you entered into your current relationship, then now is the time to reconnect with them. No couple, regardless of how incredibly compatible and deeply in love they may be, should be spending 100% of their time together. It’s very important to keep other areas of your life intact, too… a well-balanced social life can really help keep your relationship healthy and assist in keeping your jealousy and neediness in check. Generally speaking, your romantic partner should be one important element of your life, not the only element. 4.) Swallow your pride and accept responsibility. Arguments are normal in romantic relationships, but you need to learn how to have mature disputes that lead to productive solutions. Yelling and screaming, hurling insults, trying to get ‘revenge’... these are all things that can be toxic to a relationship, so both you and your partner need to learn how to settle arguments in a mature way. Sometimes, you may need to swallow your pride and apologize to your partner even if you feel like you were ‘right’ and he or she was ‘wrong’ in a given argument… accept responsibility for fights that get out of hand, and be willing to step up and be the bigger person if it will help settle the issue and avoid further conflict. 5.) Remember that mutual attraction is what holds relationships together. It’s incredibly easy to get wrapped up in your day-to-day life and forget that attraction is the glue that holds relationships together. This is something that’s very important to remember, though, because it will help you identify problems that cause a loss of attraction and stop them before they lead to more serious issues or a breakup. Your partner fell in love with you for a reason… he or she found your personality and the traits you possess attractive, so don’t suddenly introduce new unattractive characteristics that could reverse this attraction. Avoid being clingy, jealous, insecure, and possessive… these are all major attraction-killers. If your relationship is on the brink of collapse and you’re worried that a breakup might be on the horizon, I’d be happy to help you turn things around and make sure that doesn’t happen… you can sign up for my personal coaching service at www.BreakupBrad.com/Coaching I work with my coaching clients on an ongoing basis, and I’ll help you identify the problems that are plaguing your relationship and offer a series of solutions to re-build the attraction and develop a healthier, more mature relationship. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 195106 Brad Browning
3 Things That Will Make Your Ex Want You Back (#2 is KEY)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- 3 Things That Will Make Your Ex Want You Back So you and your partner broke up, and now all you can think about is how to win them back? Lucky for you, there are some key ways to win them back. My name is Brad Browning and I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada. You may recognize me from another one of my videos or know of my best selling The Ex Factor Program. Today I’m going to share with you the three things you can do to make your ex want you again. So, without further adieu, let’s get started. The first and perhaps most important thing you need to do if you want your ex to want you back, is to not chase them. Now you may be thinking, “Well obviously,” or “But how else am I going to get them back?” so let me explain. The thing is, your ex expects you to chase after them so by doing the opposite you’ll not only surprise them, but it’ll also re-spark their interest in you. Since your ex is used to having you around, when you cut off ties with them they won’t know what hit them. But in order for this to work, it means putting a stop to all phone calls, texts, Facebook lurking and messages, Snapchat shots, hangs out... the works. It you can do this successfully for at least 30 days, then your ex will without doubt miss you and wonder where you are and what’s going on in your life. Even if you’re dying to get back together with your ex, don’t be the one to show it. Incessantly calling or messaging them will turn them off you. No one wants to date someone who’s desperate or clingy. So play it cool and distance yourself for a while. Spending this time apart will also give your ex the chance to forget about all the negative things in your relationship that caused the breakup, and replace them will good memories. If you’re worried that they may forget about you during this time, they won’t, as long as you play your cards right. To find out more about how to successfully use the no contact period to your advantage, visit www.BreakupBrad.com and watch the full video presentation. It’ll get you on your way to making your ex want you back. But before you do, let’s first talk about the two other things you need to do to make your ex want you back. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 421424 Brad Browning
Want Your Ex Back? Stop Thinking About Them! (Psychological Warfare)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Want Your Ex Back? Stop Thinking About Them Hey YouTube… as you probably already know, my name is Brad Browning and I am a relationship coach specializing in breakups and divorce. Unlike some of my other videos, this one is hopefully going to be very brief… all I want to do is quickly address a common mistake that I’ve seen a lot of my clients and subscribers make, especially recently. Simply put, most people who want to get back together with an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend spend huge amounts of time focusing on what their ex is doing or saying…. And, as I’m about to explain, this is usually just a massive waste of time. Look, I completely understand that it’s natural to want to know what your ex is up to… we’ve all been guilty of stalking an ex’s Facebook page, asking mutual friends for updates about whether they’re dating someone new, etc. Here’s the problem with that: even though it’s everyone’s first instinct when they’re suffering through a tough breakup, that kind of thing is almost never a productive use of your time. 99% of the time, you’re basically just putting yourself through “self-torture”, and not learning anything useful that might help you win him or her back. For instance, say you hear through a mutual friend that your ex boyfriend is going camping with a bunch of friends this weekend, and you know there will be several single girls there. What are you going to do with this knowledge? Show up at the campsite? Call your ex to tell him that the girls on the camping trip are all losers? Pretty sure you don’t need me to tell you how terrible both of those ideas are. You know what would be a better use of your time? Organizing an even better trip with your own friends, then sharing the crazy stories with your ex at some point in the future. Similarly, maybe your ex said something to you when you broke up that has been echoing in your head ever since…. Something like, “I don’t think we’re compatible enough” or “I just don’t have time to be in a relationship right now”. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 186134 Brad Browning
What to Do When Your Ex Backs Away And Goes Cold
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- What to Do When Your Ex Backs Off and Goes Cold What’s happening YouTube… I am the one and only ‘Breakup Brad’, and in a few seconds I’m going to explain what you should do if your ex backs away or grows cold and distant. If you’re not interested in getting back together with your ex, then this probably isn’t the video for you… but if you ARE working on reversing a breakup and getting a second chance with your ex, then keep watching. As most of you already know, breakups are what I do…. My program, The Ex Factor, is the single most effective guide for anyone trying to get back together with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend… which is, of course, why I’ve sold tens of thousands of copies in over 130 countries. I’m not here to toot my own horn, though. I’m here to tell you what to do if your ex grows cold, becomes distant, or seemingly loses interest. This is pretty common… you use the strategies I talk about in my program and my videos, you start to see results and your ex gets friendlier and more interested in you... everything is looking good… and then you hit a brick wall. Your ex stops texting back, stops telling you they miss you, cancels plans with you…. It can be pretty disheartening feeling, especially if you had made lots of progress and were well on your way to getting back together before he or she went cold. But you know what the real problem is with this type of situation? It’s not your ex’s lack of interest or sudden change of tone. That can usually be overcome easily, if you know how. The real problem is how most people react to this situation. The natural instinct, which is to panic and try to take action to stop their ex from slipping away, is guaranteed to make things worse. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 337226 Brad Browning
Is Your Ex Being Too Stubborn to Admit They Want You Back?
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Is Your Ex Being Too Stubborn to Admit They Want You Back? Is your ex being too stubborn to admit that they want you back? Hi, it’s Brad Browning here – I’m a relationship expert with over 10 years of experience and I specialize in one particular area: BREAKUPS. So if you’re having a tough time with your breakup and you don’t know what to do, then do yourself a huge favour just click the SUBSCRIBE button below so you can get the vital advice you need to help you through this difficult time. One of the most common questions I get is, “I know my ex wants me back, but they’re just too stubborn to admit it – how do I get them to admit that they want me back?” And to this question, I always respond with the same answer: “How do you know that your ex actually wants you back?” See, what happens with some of my clients is that they’ll trick themselves into thinking that their ex actually wants them back… then they’ll overanalyze their situation and try and come up with solutions to get their exes back. But through my experience helping thousands of people around the world win their ex back, I can tell you that this almost never works. When my clients try and solve their relationship issues on their own, they usually end up jeopardizing their chances of ever getting their exes back, and I’m left to help them deal with the unfortunate aftermath. And this is especially true in the case of a stubborn ex boyfriend or girlfriend. So how do you get your stubborn ex to open up to you and communicate with you again? Well, the answer is easy: engage in No Contact. Have you ever dealt with someone extremely stubborn? Do you know what happens when you try to convince a stubborn person that they’re wrong? THEY PUSH BACK. And the harder you push, the more stubborn they become. This game never has a good outcome, so the best thing to do, for now, is to steer clear of them for now. See, directly after a breakup, your ex is probably experiencing a myriad of emotions - loneliness, depression, anger, and in your case, stubbornness. They have made a decision to break up with you and they are unwilling to open up to you, no matter what. In order for them to eventually be open to the idea of communicating with you, you MUST let their emotions fade, and this only happens if you engage in No Contact. But I know what a lot of you are thinking, “Well, Brad… if I honestly know for a FACT that my ex wants me back, why wouldn’t I try to at least convince him/her to give our relationship another shot?” *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 318208 Brad Browning
How To Make Your Ex Miss You (New & Updated For 2016)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Make Your Ex Miss You Want to learn how to get personal coaching from me? -- http://breakupbrad.com/coaching Hello YouTube… my name is Brad Browning, I’m a relationship coach, breakup expert, and author of The Ex Factor Guide program. Like most of my videos here on YouTube, this one is going to give you some tips and advice on how to win back your ex and give your relationship a second chance. More specifically, in this video I’m going to tell you several things you can do to make your ex miss you like mad. Let’s begin by talking about what won’t make your ex miss you, shall we? That way you’ll know, right off the bat, what you absolutely must not do if you want to rekindle things with your ex. Firstly, you must be able to control your own impulses… if you want your ex back, you need to have the self-restraint to suppress your emotions, act rationally, and trust the advice that I’m going to share with you in this video. The steps you need to take to win back your ex are often counter-intuitive, so many people are tempted to ignore the proven techniques taught by breakup geeks like me, and just go with their gut instinct instead. I’ve worked with thousands of clients around the world, helping them get a fresh start with their ex… I know what works and what doesn’t. Sometimes, your emotions will compel you to do something that will really damage your chances… you may feel compelled to pour your heart out in a love letter or buy your ex a lavish gift to try and convince them to take you back. These sorts of emotionally-driven decisions almost always do more harm than good, so my advice is to ignore your own gut instincts and stick to the techniques that have been proven to save relationships. So, back to the topic at hand…. not only should you ignore your own gut instincts when it comes to dealing with your ex, you should also ignore anyone who tells you to talk with your ex to try and work things out. You can never, ever talk your way back into your ex’s heart… any attempt to convince your ex to take you back will only make things worse. In fact, any type of “serious discussion” with your ex -- where you try to sort out the problems that plagued your relationship, or you try to sell your ex on why they should give you another chance -- is not going to make your ex miss you. It’s going to have the opposite effect. All you’re going to accomplish by talking with your ex -- even if it’s friendly and seems productive -- is to remind him or her of the problems that led to the breakup. He or she has decided that it’s time to move on, and you’re not going to change their mind even if you’re the world’s greatest salesman. Simply put, your ex is no longer attracted enough to you to want to continue the relationship. You can explain to them how you’ll change and why they should give you another chance, but that isn’t going to do anything at all to re-build their attraction. In fact, generally speaking, every time you see or speak with your ex you’re actually going to make them miss you LESS than they already do. That’s because your ex already misses you. Just because your ex was the one to initiate the breakup doesn’t mean they’re not going to miss you… in fact, they’re probably feeling the same heartache and loneliness you are. Therefore, if you constantly try to talk to your ex and convince them to take you back, you’re actually going to prevent your ex from missing you as much as they would have otherwise. If they can talk to you regularly in the weeks and months after your breakup, then they’ll be able to slowly adjust to life without you, which is far less painful than if you were to simply vanish all of a sudden. So, the #1 way to make your ex miss you is to completely disappear from their life. As soon as possible after the breakup, you should shut down any non-essential communication with your ex. This is something I cover in depth in my Ex Factor program, and you’ll see other breakup coaches advocating for something similar. It’s often called the “no contact” period, and it’s almost guaranteed to make your ex miss you if you actually apply it the way I recommend. I’m not going to cover the no contact rule in depth here, but you can learn more about how to use this technique by watching the video on my website, www.BreakupBrad.com. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Brad's Website: http://www.bradbrowning.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 855685 Brad Browning
Is Your Ex Testing You? What You Can Do About It!
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Is Your Ex Testing You? What You Can Do About It! Is your ex testing you? Is he or she trying to mess with your head? In this video, I’m going to answer these questions. How’s it going everyone? For those of you who haven’t seen my videos… I’m Brad Browning and I’ve been an all-star relationship coach for over 10 years now. My YouTube channel just surpassed the “11 million views” mark, and I’m rapidly approaching 100,000 subscribers. And I have all of you awesome fans to thank for that! Remember, I do my best to reply to most of my YouTube comments, so if you have a question, feel free to hit me up in the comments section below! Now, before I jump into the goods, I need to make one thing clear: overanalyzing your ex’s behavior is a huge mistake. I’ve dealt with thousands of coaching clients over the past few years and many of these clients tend to overreact every time their ex posts a new picture on Instagram­ or Facebook. This overanalyzing behavior is toxic and it should be avoided at all cost. If you’ve been watching my other videos on YouTube, then you know that one of the fundamental tenets of my Ex Factor Guide program is the need to shift the power away from your ex. If you want to make your ex fall back in love with you again, you need to create an environment where your ex is chasing YOU, and not the other way around. By obsessively “cyber stalking” your ex and overanalyzing everything he or she does, you’re not only wasting your time, but you’re indirectly hurting your chances of getting your ex back. That’s not to say that your ex won’t mess with you, or try and “test the waters”, so to speak. If your ex is continuously contacting you, asking you questions, or deliberately introducing drama back into your life, they may be trying to see if you are TRULY over him or her. For instance, if your ex constantly initiates contact with you to stir shit up, then it’s safe to say they may not be over you. They may be trying to provoke a response from you in order to determine how you currently feel about the breakup. But here’s the most important thing to remember: regardless of whether you want to get your ex back or not, the reaction to this behavior should always be the same – and that is to act indifferently. By showing that you don’t care about him or her and the situation, you effectively begin to shift the power from your ex to you. I don’t want to go into minute psychological detail as to why this works, but just know that it does. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 256730 Brad Browning
How To Talk To Your Ex Again - Establishing Communication With Your Ex
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- How To Talk To Your Ex Again - Establishing Communication With Your Ex Hi guys, Brad Browning here... for those of you who don't know me, I'm a relationship coach and breakup author from Vancouver, Canada. In this video, I'll be talking about how to re-establish communication with your ex... whether you're just finishing up the "no contact" phase or just need some ideas to get the conversation going again, this video should give you a few tips. I'm making this video because I know that, for many people, learning how to talk to your ex again can be really stressful. A billion things are going through your head when you sit down to write that first message... I won't go into depth on why texting is a great way to get in touch again here in this video... But, suffice to say that generally, if you and your ex at least occasionally communicated via text, this is the best method for your first attempt at communication. Regardless of what contact method you choose -- text message, phone call, Facebook message, in-person encounter, telegram, messenger pigeon -- there's 3 things you should keep in mind at all times: 1.) Stay casual, be friendly, and talk about "fun" stuff only... no serious 'relationship talk' whatsoever, just keep it lighthearted and upbeat. 2.) Be the one to end the conversation. Whenever possible, make sure you're the one to end things... say something like: "Sorry, hate to cut this chat short but I really have to run, meeting some friends... we'll have to catch up another time! Talk soon." 3.) Try not to reveal your true intentions. If you seem overly eager at the chance to talk with your ex again, or if you're far too open with your feelings and your desire to get back together, your ex may put up his or her "defences" and shut down the communication. You don't want to ever ask your ex to get back together, you need to build attraction to the point where he or she simply wants to be with you and actually wants to give your relationship another chance. Now, with those 3 things in mind, let's chat briefly about phone calls. If you're planning on calling your ex to get in contact with him or her, then I have to first warn you that you have to be ready for this situation. It's easy to blow it when you're on the phone with your ex. Remember that people can tell how needy you are simply by just listening to your voice. If you're not in a good state, I can promise you it will show... You'll stutter, you'll mess up, you'll sound nervous, etc. And if you do mess up, you'll have to start the process all over again from square one, so be very careful. Ideally, you should call your ex when you know that they won't pickup. Why? Because you want to get their voicemail. Yes, as weird as it sounds, you're going to want to leave a short message on their voicemail first. A simple phone conversation right now will be much too overwhelming with your ex, and chances are, they'll get weirded out. So make sure you're calling your ex when it's likely they're at work or when you know they're likely away from the phone. Late at night is not good either, by the way... you don't want to give the impression this is a "booty call" or a "drunk dial". You'll want to leave a thoughtful voicemail. For example, say something like... "Hey, Stanley's Bicycle's is having a sale on mountain bikes! Thought you'd like to know since you wanted that bike. Anyways, hope all is well." And that's it. Why does this work? First of all, you're making it seem like you want to talk to your ex for a very good reason. You aren't calling him or her to beg, plead, and cry about your life — you're actually providing them with real value. Not only this, but what you're saying is actually quite thoughtful! Another crucial part of this voice message is that you're not asking them to return your call. You're ending the message with, "Anyways, hope all is well." Remember, we're trying to convey to your ex that you're completely over the breakup and you aren't going to accomplish by asking them to call you back. Make sense? More on this topic: http://www.BreakupBrad.com ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 371353 Brad Browning
Signs Your Ex's Rebound Relationship Will Fail
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Signs Your Ex's Rebound Relationship Will Fail How’s it going, YouTube? It’s Brad Browning here with another breakup advice video. And today I’m going to be talking about signs your ex’s rebound relationship is going to fail. This one’s probably going to be a short video because this topic is pretty straight forward. But first I have to say that I know that this situation can be tough and it can hurt a lot. You’ve just broken up with your ex and it can be extremely difficult knowing that he or she is moving on so quickly – almost as if your relationship didn’t even happen at all. But in my 10 years of experience, I’ve discovered that typical rebound relationships typically don’t last that long to begin with. So if you’re worried that your ex has already fallen madly in love with another person, just know that the chances of that relationship actually turning into something long term is relatively low. But how do you know for sure that your ex’s rebound relationship will fail like the rest? Here are a few signs to look for… 1.) They don’t give themselves time to grieve after your relationship ended. If your relationship ended and your ex hasn’t given themselves time to lament your past relationship, then that’s a pretty good indication that they aren’t ready for any relationship all. Chances are, this rebound relationship will only serve as your ex’s temporary reprieve -- right now, they’re protecting themselves from the sadness of your breakup because they’re afraid to grieve and accept the situation. So if your ex doesn’t give themselves at least 3-4 weeks to recover before dating someone else, you can be certain that they’re rushing into a rebound relationship that will probably fail. I mean, think about it...since your partner didn’t give himself or herself enough time to get over the breakup, you’re going to be on their mind all the time -- and once your ex starts bringing up your name to their new “rebound partner”, a rift usually forms and the rebound relationship fades quickly. And since your ex never really got to cope with the sadness of the breakup, your ex will begin exposing this repressed sadness to his or her new partner. This will only serve to end their rebound relationship quicker than you can say, “Thanks, Brad Browning!” *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 188971 Brad Browning
Escaping Your Ex Girlfriend's "Friendzone"
 
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Escaping Your Ex Girlfriend's "Friendzone" -- http://www.BreakupBrad.com Hi, Brad Browning here, and this video is mainly just for men… I’m going to explain how to escape or avoid being “friend-zoned” by your ex girlfriend. This video is just going to be an overview, but if you want more advice on how to re-build the romance between you and your ex, watch the full-length video on my website, www.BreakupBrad.com. Now, let’s start by talking about what your ex girlfriend means when she says she wants to “just be friends”.... Hey, it sounds like a pretty reasonable suggestion when your ex says, “let’s be friends,” doesn’t it? After all, you’ve spent months or years of your life with this person, so you obviously like them and vice versa. So wouldn’t you want to maintain a friendship even though you’ve broken up? Well, yes, it’s nice in theory. In practice, being “friends” with your ex isn’t a good thing at all, because it has a few repercussions: Being “friends” with your ex will never allow you to fully get over them: if you’re unable to get back together with your ex girlfriend, or if you decide it’s not a good idea after all, then you need to remove your ex from your life for a certain period of time (months or years, probably). This will allow you to fully heal and move on to someone new. If you maintain a friendship and see this person every day, moving on is so much more challenging, and you may even turn down opportunities to meet someone new while still holding on to the idea that you may be able to get back together with your ex girlfriend in a romantic way. Your ex won’t miss you if she sees you all the time: As I’ve mentioned before, your ex needs time to let go of any negative feelings she has of you and develop feelings of nostalgia. By not talking to your ex girlfriend after the breakup, she’ll begin to miss you and want you back in her life. How can she develop these feelings if you’re still friends that hang out all the time Your ex girlfriend will be in the driver’s seat: If you say yes when your ex suggests “just being friends,” then you’re essentially telling her that you still need and want her in your life. While that may be true, you want your ex to think that you’re completely fine with the idea of moving on. This will make your ex girlfriend think she’s made a mistake by letting you go, especially if you have other romantic options lined up. She wants the best of both worlds, and you can’t let her have it! So, there’s three very good reasons you should want to avoid the “friend zone” if your ex suggests it… Now, let’s move on and talk about what to do if your ex suggests being friends after the breakup… The simple answer is that you should just say “no”. But, you don’t want to be so blunt about it, so Don’t give your ex a flat out “no” when she asks about being friends even though you’re not together anymore. Instead, try saying something a bit more gentle, such as: “I don’t think that’s a good idea. I was happy being in a romantic relationship with you, but if that isn’t working out, then it’s probably a better idea to spend some time apart. I wish you all the best.” Telling your ex that the ‘friend zone’ idea is not an option gives her an ultimatum: either choose to stay together with me as your boyfriend, or lose me altogether. If your ex girlfriend was using the “let’s just be friends” thing so that she could ‘test out’ what it’s like to be apart from you, giving her a flat out rejection of the idea will make her re-think whether she wants to go on without you in her life. Now, what if you already said yes? Don’t panic: if you already told your ex that you wanted to be friends after the breakup, you can still repair the damage and you still have a very good chance of winning her back. But you can’t waste any more time screwing around and potentially pushing her further away, so head over to my website now and watch the video -- the URL again is BreakupBrad.com. Thanks for watching, and thanks for taking a moment to “like” this video and subscribe to my YouTube channel as well! Talk to you soon. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 84169 Brad Browning
How To Get Over A Breakup (Tips For Moving On Quickly)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- How To Get Over A Breakup (Tips For Moving On Quickly And Minimizing Heartache) To begin with, I need to give you a bit of unfortunate news... and that's that all breakups, regardless of the circumstances, are painful to some degree. There's really no magic solution or quick fix that will make your heartache disappear overnight. There are, however, a few things you can do to help suppress the post-breakup emotions and help you get over your ex as quickly as possible. The first step is to accept the reality of your situation. Don't be afraid to do a bit of crying or spend some time alone in the first day after your breakup, especially if it helps you accept the reality of what's happened. But do your very best to avoid having these emotional breakdowns while your ex is present. In fact, during these early stages, it's not a good idea to speak to your ex at all. In particular, avoid begging, pleading, or apologizing to your ex in an attempt to reverse their decision or in hopes of finding closure. By the way, if you're not ready to let go and you're hoping to get back together with your ex, then now is a good time to tell you about my free quiz tool.... I've created a quiz on my website that will help you figure out whether or not your ex will take you back and what your odds of success are. It takes about 5 minutes to complete, and you can try it out for yourself at http://www.BreakupBrad.com/Quiz. Now, moving on... once you've come to grips with the reality of your situation, it's time to remove all visible reminders of your ex. There's nothing worse than being reminded of a painful memory every time you walk into your bedroom... which is why one of the most important ways to move on is to remove visible reminders around your house. If you're really struggling with self-control and can't seem to stop yourself from texting or calling your ex, I also recommend writing down your ex's number on a piece of paper and giving it to a friend, and then deleting it from your phone completely. You don't need to contact your ex right now, and deleting their info from your contacts list is a good way to make sure you don't do something dumb. You should also lean on your friends and family. Try to avoid being alone whenever possible -- go out with friends or spend time with family, even if it's the last thing you feel like doing. Trust me when I say that being social is one of the single most effective ways of getting through a breakup. It's also important during all of this that you continue to maintain healthy habits. Scientists have proven that vigorous exercise produces 'feel good' chemicals such as serotonin and dopamine in your brain. That means that an intense 30-60 minute workout 3-4 times a week can help you avoid depression and feel better about life in general. It's also important to maintain healthy eating habits and generally take care of yourself so that you don't add any extra stresses on your body or mind. All of those things will help speed up the process and minimize your heartache, but I should also mention that the single best way to recover from a breakup is to find someone new. Finally, if you find yourself struggling with depression and heartache even after you've done all the things I've talked about in this video, try to remember that every day that passes is another step towards a full recovery. You may not feel any better today than you did a week ago, but I can promise that in a month or two you'll look back and realize that each day you spent a bit less time thinking about your ex. Sooner than later, you'll be back to normal and completely over your ex. More on this topic: http://www.BreakupBrad.com ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 1245668 Brad Browning
How To Act Around Your Ex (6 Tips For Handling Post-Breakup Encounters)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- How To Act Around Your Ex. 6 simple things that will improve any interactions you have with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend if you run into them or hang out with them after the breakup. I don't recommend talking to your ex at all -- it's usually better to ignore him or her altogether after the breakup -- but sometimes it's unavoidable. So before you panic and break down, here are some helpful tips for handling encounters with your ex: 1.) Be calm, cool, and collected whenever possible. Don't get emotional when you're around your ex, breaking down and crying won't help... you need to convey indifference. 2.) Don't be mean to them. If you want a good relationship with your ex or want them back, then you can't be rude, cold, or mean. If you want your ex back, you may need to fix any lingering hard feelings before you hang out with them... for more advice on how to get your ex to be more receptive to you, watch the free video at my website: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ 3.) Don't be too nice to your ex, either. This may give away your intentions (of wanting to get back together). 4.) Don't bring up anything serious. There's no need to create drama or fight with your ex, and it won't do you any good. Keep things friendly and upbeat. 5.) Have fun with your ex. While you shouldn't be paying too much attention to your ex, there's no reason to have a bad time with your ex. Be happy and your ex will appreciate it. If you are actually trying to get your ex back, you should also be flirting with your ex too. 6.) Be happy! Remember, you're trying to convey to your ex that everything is okay. They're not going to want to spend time with you if you're depressed and desperate. This will just repel them away. Instead, cheer up and convey to your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend that your life is in going really well. If you have to, pretend! Want more help dealing with your ex? Go to http://www.BreakupBrad.com ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 291813 Brad Browning
3 Ways To Make Your Ex Jealous (Subtle Tricks That Create Real Jealousy)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- 3 Ways To Make Your Ex Jealous. Why would you want to make your ex jealous? Jealousy is painful, and can make your ex second-guess their decision to break up with you (and maybe even make them reach out and start chasing you). BUT BEWARE! Jealousy can backfire, so be careful.... be very subtle and make sure it looks natural and not intentional. That's why I call this "Covert Jealousy". 1.) Get A Makeover And Look Awesome. You don't need to get plastic surgery or buy thousands of dollars of new clothes, just hit the gym, get a new haircut, buy a new shirt, splurge on that teeth whitening product... whatever it is, just take steps to make sure you look great. Preferably even better than when you were in the relationship. Just generally make sure that when your ex sees you, they notice how great you look. 2.) Go on some dates! Date, date, date, date, and date some more. The more you date, the more your ex will think, "Hey, I used to date this really high-quality individual. Why on Earth did I dump him/her?" So go out on dates. I'm not saying you should sleep with the whole entire world, but make it clear that there are tons of guys or girls eager to replace your ex at your side. Researchers and relationship experts call this "pre-selection". Being wanted and chased by others makes you more desirable to the opposite sex. So line up some dates... make new friends... join a club.. just generally get out of your comfort zone and meet people. 3.) Use Social Media. Your ex WILL stalk you on Facebook so use social media to post pictures and status updates sharing details of your awesome, fun new life... post photos of yourself with members of the opposite sex, share pics from your great social life, post positive things that indicate you're thriving... trust me, your ex will see this and become jealous, even if it's on a subconscious level, and that will make them wonder if they should've broken up with you. Remember, BE CAREFUL! Only create jealousy in a subtle, under-the-radar way or else it will backfire and your ex will be mad or upset, hurting your chances of winning them back. Need help creating jealousy? Watch my free video and get my contact info here: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 561974 Brad Browning
How To Make Your Ex Fall In Love With You
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ - How To Make Your Ex Fall In Love With You For the next few minutes, I'm going to talk about how to make your ex to fall back in love with you. But first, I want to talk about why relationships fail. Every single relationship fails for the exact same reason. And that reason is because the attraction fades away. Basically, your ex was attracted to you... you displayed certain characteristics to lure your ex in. And then... things changed. And that change led to a loss of attraction that ultimately caused your breakup. Why is this important? It's because love and attraction are closely correlated. Unfortunately, you can't just simply convince your ex to love you again. It's not that easy -- you probably already know that. So how do you get to that point? First of all, there are some good news. It's possible for your ex to love you because he or she did at one point. So what did you start doing to kill the attraction? Being needy, being clingy, and not having a life are some top relationship killers. So you need to go back and find out what your ex saw in you. What else can you do? Self improvement, of course. Going to the gym, pursuing goals in work, and dating other people are great ways to increase your value to your ex. This is a great way to increase your attraction level to your ex... and I cover a lot of it in my free video. Just go to http://www.BreakupBrad.com and watch the free video presentation there. ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 438225 Brad Browning
Is It Hopeless? When To Give Up Trying To Get Your Ex Back.
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Is It Hopeless? When To Give Up Trying To Get Your Ex Back Sadly, there are some cases where it really is a lost cause. Thankfully, it’s rare that I receive an email from someone whose situation is truly hopeless, but it does happen occasionally so I wanted to make a video to help those of you who might be wondering if it’s time to give up trying to win back your ex. So here is a short list of things to consider when trying to decide whether to continue pursuing your ex or not. 1.) How Long Has It Been? There’s no magic formula to determine how long is too long when it comes to re-uniting with your ex. I’ve had clients get back together with an ex they broke up with years ago… and in many cases, time can actually be helpful, as it allows your ex to ‘forgive and forget’ and gives you a chance at starting over with a clean slate. On the other hand, humans are naturally designed to conquer adversity and sorrow… your ex won’t spend the rest of their life thinking about you and dreaming about the happy times you had together. For the first few months after your breakup, your ex will definitely feel the pain and loneliness, just like you are… but if it’s been many months or even a year, then those feelings will begin to fade, and that will hurt your chances of winning them back. If you and your ex were only together for a few months, and the relationship wasn’t particularly serious, then you probably only have a window of 2 or 3 months in which you will be able to realistically win him or her back. I know all of this sounds really technical and complicated, but if you watch the full-length video on my website, www.BreakupBrad.com, I explain everything you need to know about this subject, so head over there when you’re finished watching this video. On the other hand, if you were married for years or your relationship was very serious and you spent a long time together, then you may be able to win back your ex after months or even a year apart. Essentially, the longer you and your ex were together and the more serious your relationship was, the more time you have to win them back. 2.) Have You Kept In Touch? How much time has passed since your breakup goes hand-in-hand with another issue: how much contact have you had with your ex? If you and your ex continue to be ‘on and off’ or you’ve spoken regularly since the breakup (which, by the way, I don’t recommend), then the amount of time that’s passed since your initial breakup will matter less than if you haven’t spoken at all. If your ex hasn’t taken the initiative to contact you for weeks or months, then that’s not a good sign. On its own, not hearing from your ex doesn’t mean you should just give up all hope, but if your ex isn’t trying to keep in touch or hasn’t taken any steps to reach out to you, then that’s definitely not a positive sign. 3.) Did The Relationship End Badly? Some breakups are the result of major issues: cheating, excessive jealousy, constant fighting, verbal or physical abuse, and so on. If any of these major issues were the cause of your breakup -- or if the last weeks and months of your relationship were plagued with fights and bitterness -- then your ex probably isn’t going to be eager to get back together. In my program, the Ex Factor Guide, I’ve included something that I call the “Clean Slate Email”... this is an email template that you can send to your ex to help get over some of these problems and erase any damage you may have done in the later stages of your relationship or since the breakup. For more details, please head over to my website, www.BreakupBrad.com, where you can watch my free full-length video and pick up a copy of my Ex Factor program. 4.) Was It That Great To Begin With? This is another thing that many people fail to consider when they’re trying to get their ex back. I’ve made another video dedicated to this topic, so I won’t go into depth, but you need to ask yourself whether or not your relationship was awesome enough that you should even be trying to salvage it. 5.) Is Your Ex With Someone New? If your ex jumps into another relationship shortly after you breakup, then you shouldn’t panic, because it’s probably just a ‘rebound’... and it won’t last. But, if time has been ticking by and your ex seems to be happily wrapped up with someone new, then your odds of winning them back are going to drop by a significant margin. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 628048 Brad Browning
How to Respond to Your Ex's Text Messages
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Respond to Your Ex's Text Messages So you want your ex back, but you don’t know what to say to them. You ponder and ponder and ponder, but you’re drawing blanks. Suddenly, out of the blue, you get a text message or email from your ex. Your heart races, but you just don’t have the faintest clue what to say to them… So what do you do? What can you say to them that will make him or her want to give your relationship a second chance? Well, today, you’re in luck. Because in this video, I’ll teach you exactly how to respond to your ex to ensure you have the best possible chance of rekindling that spark and getting a second chance. By the way, my name’s Brad Browning. I’m a relationship and marriage expert from Vancouver, Canada. I’ve spent the last decade of my life studying why people break up… and I’ve developed a system to REVERSE these breakups. I’ll tell you a little bit more about my system in just a minute… So let’s get started. In my other videos, I talk a little bit about what you need to do directly after your breakup. If you haven’t watched those videos yet, then I highly encourage you to check them out first before watching this video. In some of my other YouTube videos, I talk a little bit about what I call the “No Contact” period and why it’s one of the most important tools to use directly after a breakup, along with several other useful post-breakup tips. Now it’s important to keep things in perspective. Just because your ex messaged you does NOT mean he or she wants to get back together right away. There are a myriad of reasons why your ex needs to get in contact with you, so don’t overreact and keep your cool. For now, your goal is to simply establish positive rapport with your ex. Remember, there’s no “secret sentence” that you can say to fix things and establish a new, healthy relationship with your ex right now – getting your ex back will most likely take some time. So without further adieu, here are 5 tips to help you respond to your ex’s text messages. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 206853 Brad Browning
Is Your Ex Dating Someone New? That Could Help You Win Them Back
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- How To Get Your Ex Back If They're Dating Somebody Else Already So, I should first say that this video is mainly for those who broke up within the past year or so. The same things may apply if your breakup happened long ago, but that's a topic I'll cover in another video. In most cases, the new guy or girl your ex is now dating is a "rebound". A "rebound" relationship is essentially just what the name suggests: a 'quick fix' for your ex to get through the sadness and loneliness that they are experiencing in the wake of your breakup. Keep in mind, by the way, that breaking up with someone can actually be even more difficult and gut-wrenching than being broken up with. That means that even though your ex may have been the one to initiate the breakup, it's highly likely that they are just as heartbroken as you are right now. So, what's the easiest way to get through the difficult post-breakup emotions and sadness? Occupy your time and keep yourself busy by finding someone new. In all likelihood, if your ex has 'replaced' you with someone new quickly after breaking up with you, then this person is probably just a "rebound" to help them get over the breakup blues. And believe it or not, this rebound relationship can often be good news for you if you want to get back together with your ex. I know what you're thinking right now.... you're asking yourself, "how the hell can my ex replacing me with some loser help me get them back?" Well, the answer is actually fairly simple. First of all, assuming that this new person that your ex is dating is just a rebound relationship — some guy or girl that your ex met in a nightclub and hit it off with — then it's nothing serious. They're probably not doing candlelit dinners at fancy Italian restaurants... they're just hanging out now and then, relying on the physical side of their relationship to maintain the bond. While it may be painful to hear that your ex is just seeing this new guy / girl for the sex, that's actually a good thing for you. It means that they probably don't have much in common, and they certainly don't have the same kind of bond that you and your ex had. Most rebound relationships last 3-5 weeks. While that's certainly not a hard and fast rule, it's true for most scenarios. That means that it's extremely likely your ex's rebound relationship will be over soon. Once the rebound ends, your ex is going to have to face the reality of their situation... they're single, lonely, and they no longer have anyone to keep their mind off of you! While your ex has been delaying this inevitable surge of heartache and loneliness, you've already been dealing with those emotions. Your ex's rebound just delayed this, and now that the rebound is over, these emotions will surface again. Now that your ex's rebound relationship is over, it's time to pounce. Because your ex is depressed and lonely — and because they just spent a few weeks dating someone who wasn't nearly as compatible as you were — you're probably going to start looking like a very good option. So, with your ex in a fragile state and looking for a quick fix to heal their heartache, you can pounce on the situation by re-establishing communication with your ex. Don't mention their rebound relationship, and don't tell them that you want to get back together. Instead, simply start talking with them again — in a casual, friendly, and upbeat way. The goal is just to remind your ex that you're still around, that you're still a great person with whom they once shared a deep romantic connection, and that getting back together with you is an easy and fast way to make the emotional pain go away. In a sense, then, you're using your ex's rebound relationship to make yourself look good.. and you're subtly reminding your ex that love isn't an easy thing to find. So, if you see your ex with someone new, don't panic... celebrate! Because, if you play your cards right, their rebound relationship might just help you win them back. And finally, if you're serious about winning back your ex.. if this is the person that you want to have by your side in 20 or 30 or 50 years, then you should consider investing in my Ex Factor Guide program. It's a step-by-step system that will teach you all the ins and outs, covering every "what if" scenario.... and I promise it's totally affordable, too. Grab your copy at my website, www.BreakupBrad.com. ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 520290 Brad Browning
How to Build Mutual Attraction With Your Ex (To Win Them Back)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Build Mutual Attraction With Your Ex (To Win Them Back) In this video, I’m going to talk about ways to rebuild mutual attraction with your ex. If you’ve seen any of my other videos here on YouTube, then you’ll know that this is absolutely critical to winning him or her back. You can’t simply convince your ex to take you back with words alone… in fact, that almost always makes things worse. Whatever you do, do NOT try to talk your way back into your ex’s heart, because that’s a recipe for disaster. No amount of logic and reasoning is going to convince your ex that they should give your relationship another shot… instead, you have to tap into their EMOTIONS, and essentially make your ex fall back in love with you so that they’ll ignore logic and give in to their feelings. That’s how you rebuild a romantic relationship… and there really isn’t any other way to win your ex back. Of course, the question now is HOW do you make your ex fall back in love with you? How do you re-build that attraction that your ex once felt for you, so that he or she actually decides on their own that they WANT to get back together? Well, there’s a number of things you can do to make this happen. I’m only going to give you a few examples here in this video, but I describe these methods in full detail in my Ex Factor Guide program, so if you’re interested in learning more please visit www.BreakupBrad.com and sign up for the program to get more info and guidance on re-building attraction. The first thing you can do to re-build attraction between you and your ex is actually quite counter-intuitive, and it’s something I’ve talked about a lot in some of my other videos here on YouTube…. simply STOP TALKING to your ex. Yes, you heard me correctly: ignoring your ex and shutting down all communication with him or her is an effective means to make them fall back in love with you. As crazy as this sounds, this works extremely well. I call this the “no contact” method, and you can learn more about it in some of my other videos, so I’m not going to go into detail here… but essentially, there’s two reasons that ignoring your ex helps to re-build attraction. First of all, when you simply vanish from your ex’s life all of a sudden, you’re “shocking” him or her into realizing what life is like when you’re not around. On its own, this can sometimes be enough to make your ex beg for you to take them back. It also gives your ex time to let go of the negative memories that may have led to your breakup, and revive some of the happier, more nostalgic ones. It’s human nature to subconsciously purge negative memories over time, so by ignoring your ex you’re simply allowing this to happen naturally… the result is that your ex will start to forget about the significance of the negative aspects of your relationship that led to the breakup, and focus more on the happy times you shared together. Lastly, this technique also taps in to another element of human nature, which is the desire to want what you can’t have. Yes, this cliche really is true, and it’s been proven by numerous studies that both men and women are attracted to members of the opposite sex that aren’t romantically available…. so, by disappearing from your ex’s life, you’re making yourself appear less ‘available’, which helps to subconsciously make your ex more attracted to you. This by itself isn’t going to save your relationship, but it’s still a useful tactic and further enhances the effectiveness of the “no contact” method. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 198008 Brad Browning
Does Your Ex See You As "Just A Friend"? (Change That Perception!)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Does Your Ex See You As "Just A Friend"? Does your ex see you as “just a friend” or are they genuinely interested in getting back together? Dealing with a situation like this can be extremely frustrating, but lucky for you, I’m here to help. How’s it going YouTube viewers… Brad Browning here! I’m a breakup “know it all” and I’ve been teaching men and women how to get their exes back for over 10 years. I guess you could say it’s sort of my “superhero” ability. So if you’re going through a breakup of your own, simply subscribe to my awesome channel to get regular updates. So if you’re watching this video, then I’m going to assume that you’re still in regular contact with your ex. You might still be willing to be friends with your ex… but if you’ve been watching my videos on YouTube, then you already know that being friends with your ex is a BAD THING if your goal is to win them back. Why? Well, for a couple reasons… Number one, it allows your ex to get over the breakup with the least amount of hurt possible. If your goal is to actually win him or her back, then you have to make your ex MISS you and CHASE you. If you’re always around when they want you, it’s going to make them slowly recover from the breakup AND it’s going not going to make them attracted to you again. So if you’re still friends with your ex, then consider ending the friendship right now so you can begin the process of making them desire you again. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 108290 Brad Browning
How to Get Your Ex To Forgive You
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Get Your Ex To Forgive You Hi everyone -- here's another video here brought to you by Brad Browning. That's me! I'm a relationship coach, dating expert, and the creator of The Ex Factor Guide -- a program that teaches men and women to get their exes back into their life. The subject of today's video is a little painful... it's going to teach you how to get your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend to forgive you. I know how difficult it can be to get someone to forgive you. It's not easy. The amount of guilt that you feel for hurting someone you love can sometimes be unbearable. The amount of time it's going to take for your ex to forgive you is obviously going to vary depending on the situation. Obviously, if you've done something serious like cheat on him or her, the amount of time required for your ex to recover may be significant. Regardless of the length of time, you must know one thing: You can't make your ex forgive you FASTER. There's no magic sentence or magic potion that will expedite this process. And the difficult thing is is that everyone's different. Some people have a tendency to forgive quickly, and some don't. Now, if you think your situation is a little unique, don't hesitate to drop me a comment right below this video and I'll do my best to answer your question, free of charge. Regardless of what you think about your situation, you have to remember just a few key pointers... 1.) You need to apologize and put your heart and soul into it. I know, this is an obvious one...but hear me out. You need to sit down and look into your partner's eyes and tell them how sorry you are. Make sure they know how badly you feel. Make sure your apology feels real -- not rushed and fabricated. Your apology should come directly from your heart because you mean it. 2.) Don't apologize TOO much. You need to apologize a few times to start (depending on what you've done wrong), but that's where the words end. Sometimes when somebody hurts you, the last thing you want to hear is "I'm sorry" over and over again. Apologizing once or twice, but really meaning it is a lot more powerful than a million "I'm sorry's". 3.) Allow your ex to ask you questions. Your ex probably wants to know the details of why you did what you did. Allow him or her to ask you anything they want about what happened. Tell them succinctly and honestly, but always make sure you have an undertone of regret. Helping your ex understand the situation might lessen the blow a little bit. 4.) Don't just say things...DO things. Yeah, you know the old cliche: Actions speak louder than words and talk is cheap. This is all true. You need to rebuild the trust and love that your ex once had with you, and you simply can't do that just by saying a few words to him or her. You have to take action. If this means buying her flowers or giving your man a massage, then do it. If it means being supportive emotionally through this difficult time, then do it. 5.) Give your ex some space IF THEY NEED IT. Sometimes your ex will tell you to just "GET OUT." At that point, don't linger. Get out of there. You've said everything you've needed to say and now your ex needs some time alone to process the information. And this is a good thing. You don't want to be around your ex when he or she is angry at you... it will only make things worse. Sometimes, giving each other space is the best to get your ex to forgive you. 6.) Promise you won't ever do it again... Finally, you need to promise that this won't happen again. Not really shocking advice, but it has to be said. But now here's the kicker... you need to keep that promise. If you enjoyed watching this video and you found some of it helpful, please click the like button below this video. Also, please click the subscribe button for more videos like this in the future. If you want to learn the full method of how to get your ex to forgive you for everything you feel like you've done wrong (and come back to you), then go to www.BreakupBrad.com and watch the video on there. It's free and jam-packed full of juicy information! ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 142953 Brad Browning
Signs Your Ex Is Thinking About You (And What You Can Do About It!)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Signs Your Ex Is Still Thinking About You Hi everyone, I’m Brad Browning, relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver Canada. You may have come across my YouTube videos or heard about my best-selling “Ex Factor Guide” program, but today I want to talk to you about something that anyone who has ever gone through a breakup has dealt with, and that’s the pestering question of whether or not your ex is still thinking about you. Well, the short answer to that question is yes. In fact, most people still think about previous relationships, despite how it ended or how much time has passed. The thing is, if you were in a relationship that was emotionally intense, then you’re going to still think about the person who made you feel that way. When couples call off a long term, meaningful relationship, both of them will usually experience a tidal wave of emotions; good, bad, sad, angry, regretful, relieved. As time passes it won’t matter how you and your ex ended things or what emotions were flying high, the memories you made together will still come rushing back as you begin to find your own path again. As more time passes these memories may become few and far between, but if you broke up recently, your ex is more than likely still thinking about you on a daily basis. If you have been in a relationship with someone who has impacted your life, then you’re not just going to forget about them. Sure you can return their belongings and replace the things around your house that remind you of them, but still, it’s impossible to erase someone completely. This may be a good thing, or a bad thing, but believe me when I say that for these same reasons your ex hasn’t forgotten about you. So, if you’re still not convinced that your ex is indeed still thinking about you, here are some signs to look for. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 1199262 Brad Browning
How To Get Your Ex Back After Cheating (And Get Them To Forgive You)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- How to Get Your Ex Back If You Cheated On Them. I'm not going to lecture you about the dangers of cheating. You likely already know first hand how damaging it can be to your relationship. But obviously cheating and being disloyal can destroy trust and possibly ruin your relationship forever. However, we all make mistakes, so this video is about winning back your ex after cheating on them. 1.) Don't Deny It Or Fight Your Ex About Your Cheating! If you've cheated on your boyfriend or girlfriend, they will feel betrayed. Accept that this is the case, and don't fight with your ex about why you cheated or who it was with or how much you're sorry. Once you've clearly shown your ex that you realize the cheating was a huge mistake and that you will never do it again, ignore your ex for a while. He or she needs time to get over things, cool down, and let go of some of the worst memories. Don't keep trying to tell your ex you're sorry a million times... it won't help. Give your ex time and space for now. 2.) Be Patient With Your Ex & Wait Until They're Ready. It's going to take a long time to get back with your ex after you've cheated. This isn't a normal breakup; and the time required for your ex to begin to miss you and want to be with you again could be longer than it would if you had been loyal. So, patience is crucial. Accept responsibility for cheating; don't try to pin it on anything your ex said or did. He or she may attempt to 'punish' you by dating other people, trying to make you jealous, and so forth. Be ready for this, and don't get angry... just accept this 'punishment'. Don't do anything 'bad' yourself during this time... Be humble, and stay low key. You can't do anything that might make your ex assume you're going out and having fun with other men or women, because that could cause your ex to write you off forever. 3.) Don't Talk About The Cheating -- Give your ex as few details as possible about your infidelity. Don't talk about who, where, what, etc... even if your ex asks for this information, try to withhold as much as possible. 4.) Start Fresh & Don't Look Back. If your ex chooses to forgive you and get back together, it must be a 'fresh start' and a new relationship. Wiping the slate clean and starting from a clean slate is the only healthy way to ever have a good relationship with your ex again. Promise each other you're going to move forward without looking back. Your future relationship will always be marred by the scars of the past, and this isn't good. Best of luck, wishing you all the best in starting over with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. More on this topic: http://www.BreakupBrad.com ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 121507 Brad Browning
How To Get Your Ex Back (Step-By-Step Guide To Reversing A Breakup)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- Learn How To Get Your Ex Back (Brad Browning Shares 3 Secrets And Breaks Down The Process) I've learned a lot over the years about how to get an ex back. It can be complicated and difficult. However, I have developed a system to make it simpler, and I call this system my "3R System" -- Recovery, Rekindling, and Re-Attraction. Let's start with talking about the recovery phase which is the first phase. This is where you're feeling lonely, depressed, and lonely. This is about the first month or so after the breakup. The goal of this period is exactly what it's called -- recovery! One of the main things you need to do is ignore your ex for the first month or so. Additionally, you want to remove reminders of your ex. Put away all the love notes, pictures, and reminders from your life. Be sure to block them on your phone and on Facebook as well. Also, remember to occupy your time. Go out with friends and pick up new hobbies. Go to the gym and date other people! Be sure to just take your mind off your ex. Remember that every single breakup is caused by one thing -- a loss of attraction. If your ex gave you reasons for the breakup, I'm sorry to the say that they were probably lying. They probably just didn't want to hurt your feelings. This loss of attraction could have been caused by you displaying unattractive characteristics like laziness, cheating, complacency, etc. That, or you probably failed to continue displaying the attractive characteristics. Whatever the reason may be, it's important that you don't overanalyze this. Now on to the Rekindling Phase. This phase is all about reminding your ex about you and setting up the stage for Re-Attraction. One of the most important things in the Rekindling Phase is to make your ex miss you. Again, the key is no-contact. No-contact is the key to making your ex miss you. Scientists have actually discovered that 3 weeks is the peak in which someone will miss you. This is very important! Another thing you need to be doing is changing yourself to the original self that your ex fell in love with in the first place. You need to be improving yourself too -- that means getting fit, being social, and confident and attraction. Make your ex have second thoughts! Another thing that ties into it is what I call Covert Jealousy -- that means making your ex jealous without making them seem like you're trying to make them jealous. You can do this by dating other people! The final part of the Re-Kindling phase is to contact your ex. But you have to start small. Start with a simple text message -- make it happy, care-free, and show them that you're thriving and positive. Remember to avoid all negativity. Remind them why you're so awesome! One of the best ways to do this is by text message. I can't go through all the text messages you can send so go to http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ for more examples. This is my Question Text... say something like, "Remember that beach we found last summer? What exit did we take to get there?" This is good because you're reminding your ex of a great moment you two shared. You're also causing your ex to think that you've replaced them with someone new. This is Covert Jealousy! Phase 3 is Re-Attraction. This is where you need to establish an in-person meeting with your ex. You need to rebuild a physical and emotional connection. You need to pose as a friend first and catch up. It could be drinks, coffee, or whatever -- just make sure it's something casual. Again, stay positive. Be upbeat and happy and don't bring up any negativity. Be fun with your ex. Talk about the new you but don't be so obvious about it. Remember to try and flirt with your ex! Touch them. Be suggestive with them. Make it fun and build that sexual tension. Need some help with your situation? You can sign up for my 1-on-1 coaching service here: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/coaching ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 593247 Brad Browning
How to Get Your Ex Back Using Facebook (Or Instagram and Twitter!)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Get Your Ex Back Using Facebook How to turn on Facebook's "ex boyfriend/girlfriend' filter: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/facebook-breakup-filter-tools_564e2d6be4b08c74b734fe93 Hi there, ladies and gentleman. Welcome to another one of my YouTube videos on how to get your ex back. I release these videos weekly so if you’re interested in getting your ex back, then highly suggest that you subscribe to my YouTube channel and you’ll get notified every time I release a new video. To subscribe, just simply click the “subscribe button” that’s right below this video. Now, onto the important stuff. In this day and age, one of the best ways to communicate with people is through social media. It is estimated that the average American user spends around 40 minutes a day on Facebook. And in this YouTube video, I’m going to be talking about how to get your ex back using Facebook. Of course, Facebook alone won’t help you get your ex back, but it can be used as a powerful tool to help you get started. And by the way, if you have any questions on comments to add to this video, you can do so in the comments section below and I’ll do my very best to get back to everyone! Okay, so here’s tip number one for getting your ex back using Facebook… 1.) Use the law of pre-selection. If you aren’t familiar with the term pre-selection, then listen carefully… it’s one of the most important things to know when trying to get back together with an ex. To best explain what pre-selection is, let me jump into an example: Say you’re a guy and you have hot women constantly chasing after you. The law of pre-selection says that any new women you meet will feel more attracted to you simply because she knows you’re a highly sought after male. Believe it or not, this alone will make her feel attracted to you. And it works the same for women – the more men you have chasing you, the more appealing you’ll be to other men. This concept may sound like a load of balogne, but it’s a phenomena that happens in the animal kingdom as well! And you can use this law of pre-selection to your advantage when creating your Facebook profile. So take pictures of yourself with attractive members of the opposite sex and post them on your Facebook. You’ll immediately look more attractive in the eyes of other people, including your ex. BUT...and this is really important, be careful not to overdo it - I’ll get to that in just a minute. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 85685 Brad Browning
How to Show Your Ex You've Changed
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Show Your Ex You've Changed Hey YouTube, my name is Brad Browning, you’re tuned in to my latest breakup video… today’s video is all about how to show your ex that you’ve changed since the breakup. As many of you already know, this is an important part of my Ex Factor program… it’s a key step to getting your ex back. By subtly and subconsciously dropping hints that your life since the breakup has been absolutely awesome, you’re going to shift the way your ex thinks about you, and cause them to second-guess the breakup. Before I dive into it, let me just quickly say THANK YOU to everyone who comments on my videos and subscribes to my channel here on YouTube… I really appreciate the support, and I’m more than happy to answer your questions if you write a comment below the video here… keep it brief and I’m usually able to respond to most messages within a couple of days. So, if you’ve got feedback for me or you want to ask a quick question, please go ahead and drop a comment below. OK, now, first let’s quickly talk about WHY you need show your ex you’ve changed… and how it helps you get a second shot with them. First of all, there’s no way to ‘talk’ your way back into your ex’s heart. You can’t use rationale reasoning or logical arguments to make him or her love you again. It’s simply impossible. The real key to winning them back is to change how your ex perceives you. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 246751 Brad Browning
How to Steal Your Ex From Their New Boyfriend or Girlfriend (Sneaky Tricks Revealed)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Steal Your Ex From Their New Boyfriend or Girlfriend (Sneaky Tricks Revealed) We’ve all been there before… you’re minding your own business, struggling to get through the day without thinking about your ex…. and then out of the blue, you run into them at the supermarket, kissing someone you’ve never seen before. Crossing paths can be frustrating enough, but if you see or hear about your ex with someone new, the pain can be almost unbearable… and you might think that your dreams of getting back together with this person are now dashed forever. Actually, you’re wrong… Just because your ex is already dating someone new doesn’t mean your chances of getting him or her back are dashed forever. On the contrary — this new person could actually help you get back together with your ex. In fact, you won’t even have to “steal” them back at all. That’s what this video is all about… in a second, I’m going explain further, but first I should probably introduce myself. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Brad Browning and I am a relationship coach and author of a best-selling program called The Ex Factor Guide, which outlines the process you need to follow if you want to win back an ex. For more on my program and additional free advice, go to BreakupBrad.com… I’ll put that URL in the description below so you can check it out after you watch this video. Now, let’s talk about why your ex dating someone new is possibly a good thing for your chances of winning them back… Often, people who have recently been through a breakup will try to jump into a new romance as quickly as possible. You’ve probably heard the term “rebound relationship” before…. The term “rebound” is definitely an appropriate one to describe this type of relationship, because it basically means that you’re quickly finding a new lover after a breakup in order to help suppress the heartache and loneliness that follow in the wake of a breakup. If it’s only been a month or two since your breakup, and you’re in this situation where your ex is already dating someone new, then it’s very very likely that this new guy or girl your ex is with is a “rebound”. Rebound relationships are rarely successful. In rare cases the rebound may eventually turn into something more genuine, but that’s definitely an unlikely scenario. Most of the time, rebounds simply die away once they’ve “served their purpose” (to help your ex cope with the post-breakup blues). Think about it: if finding a new lover was easy and took just a matter of days, there wouldn’t be very many single people out there. The reality is that most people aren’t compatible with one another, and it’s extremely likely that your ex girlfriend and this new guy aren’t right for one another. As a result, their relationship is a dead-end street and won’t last long. Most rebound relationships last 3-5 weeks, and the few that survive longer typically tend to slowly die away after a month or two. The physical attraction between your ex and their new lover may remain (sorry if that’s painful news to hear)... but, that doesn’t mean they’re going to fall in love and live happily ever after. On the contrary, in fact… they’ll probably be done with one another in no time. Now, on to the juiciest part of this video: how to use your ex’s rebound relationship to help win him or her back. We’ve already established the fact that the vast majority of rebound relationships only last 3-5 weeks, and then come to an abrupt halt. If your ex’s rebound is like most, it’s less than a month away from ending. When your ex does end up breaking up with their rebound partner, he or she will probably be almost as depressed as they were when they originally broke up with you. In fact, sometimes the end end of a rebound can be even worse than the initial breakup it was intended to cover up. Why? Well, it’s simple really… your ex was sad and lonely, so he or she tried to replace you with this new person. When they realized that they didn’t have any real future with this new guy or girl… those post-breakup emotions will come flooding back. Only this time, your ex will have also discovered that finding true love and a meaningful relationship is not as easy as they had expected when they first broke up with you. This new rebound lover wasn’t any good, so how many more people will your ex have to date before they finds someone who is compatible? *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 576317 Brad Browning
Will Your Ex Take You Back? 5 Signs to Look For
 
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Can you still get your ex back, or is it hopeless? Take the free quiz to find out: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/quiz --------- Hi everyone, I’m Brad Browning, a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver Canada. I’m also author of The Ex Factor Guide, a program that teaches readers how to reverse a breakup and get a second chance with their ex. In this video, I’m going to talk a bit about some of the signs you can look for that indicate your ex may be willing or interested in getting back together. We all know that breakups can be messy, and it’s not easy to decode what all your ex’s mixed messages actually mean. That said, there are definite signs that your ex does in fact, want you back. These signs may not be completely clear, or even make much sense at first, but when you know what to look for you can interpret some useful information from what your ex is saying and doing. Before I go any further, I want to quickly mention the free quiz tool that I’ve developed specifically to help you determine whether or not it will be possible for you to get your ex back… basically, you just answer some questions about your specific breakup and situation, and the quiz analyses your answers and spits out a score that tells you what your odds of getting back together are. If you want to take the quiz and evaluate your own chances, visit www.breakupbrad.com/quiz…. that’s breakupbrad.com/quiz, and of course I’ll put that URL in the description below this video. At this point, I also want to remind you that, no matter how terribly things may have ended, your ex still has feelings for you. Despite who broke up with who, or how messily things ended, the simple fact of the matter your ex is still thinking about you and your time together. Since it took time to develop your romantic feelings in the first place, those same feelings aren’t going to simply disappear overnight. Right now, your ex is feeling all the same emotions you are… and if you make the right moves, this huge advantage can help you get them back. BUT… just because your ex is also feeling sad and lonely at the moment doesn’t mean you should try to leverage those emotions by asking him or her to get back together with you. There are several reasons why this isn’t a good idea, but the most important are that a.) you don’t want to seem desperate or needy by asking your ex to take you back; and b.) in order for you to re-build a healthy and loving relationship with your ex, you need to re-build some authentic, organic attraction between the two of you… simply asking your ex or trying to convince them to get back together doesn’t help to create that necessary attraction. Now, with those important reminders out of the way, let’s get back to the focal point of this video, which is how to interpret tell whether your ex is interested or willing to give your relationship another shot. What are the signs to look for? *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: https://www.lovelearnings.com Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning
Views: 284344 Brad Browning
5 Golden Rules To Obey If You Want Your Ex Back
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ --- 5 Golden Rules To Obey If You Want Your Ex Back Hi YouTube, you’re watching my latest breakup advice video… I am, of course, Brad Browning… I’m the #1 expert on YouTube when it comes to getting back together with your ex. And, as you can see behind me, I’m currently in the middle of nowhere… the heat out here is sweltering, so I have to keep this video brief…. but I am actually out here in the middle of nowhere for a reason.… I want to show you what happens to people who break one of the 5 crucial rules of getting your ex back. Now, I’m not sure if I’m blocking your view here…. But, somewhere among the desolate dunes behind me, you should be able to spot a poor gentleman who recently broke one of the 5 rules I’m about to tell you about. Look at him… what an awful existence. If he had just followed my advice, he’d probably be happily back together with his ex instead of chasing mirages under the blistering desert sun. So, folks, please remember: if you want your ex back, then you need to listen carefully and adhere to the 5 golden rules I’ll be explaining momentarily. If you decide not to heed my warning and break any one of them, and you end up alone and lost in the middle of the Sahara, don’t say I didn’t warn you. Rule #1 - Don’t let your ex see your emotions. Ok, I get it, you’re heartbroken. Breakups are one of the toughest things in life, and I know exactly how gut-wrenching you’re probably feeling right now. But the last thing you want to do is show that heartache and sadness to your ex… those really aren’t attractive traits. In fact, if your ex knows your life is in shambles because of the breakup, they’ll subconsciously start to think of you as a “low value” individual, and that will reaffirm their decision to break up. Would you want to date someone who looks and acts like this?? Didn’t think so. Worse yet, if your ex knows you didn’t want to end the relationship, they’ll have their guard up any time you try to reach out to them… and the last thing you need is for your ex to know you’re trying to win them back. So, let’s recap -- rule #1 is that you should never let your ex see how upset you are. Put on your happy face and do the opposite of what your ex will expect you to do -- embrace life, be happy, and pretend you’re fully on board with the idea of breaking up. Rule #2 - Don’t be obvious with your attempts to get him or her back. Look, my Ex Factor program is full of techniques you can use to help get your ex to take you back…. And they work really well, when done properly. But sometimes, I’ll have clients who are way too obvious about things, and their ex can easily tell what’s going on. So when you’re using tactics like my Covert Jealousy technique, or when you’re putting on your pretend happy face like I mentioned in Golden Rule #1, you have to be subtle. Don’t suddenly start doing things you swore to your ex you’d never be caught doing…. Don’t post stuff on social media that is obviously specifically written for your ex to see…. Just be subtle, operate under-the-radar, and generally be cool. Got it? Rule #3 - Get out, be social, and stay busy. Nothing can make the pain of a bad breakup suddenly disappear… well, nothing legal, anyway. Only time can numb the heartache you’re feeling… but there is, thankfully, a band-aid fix that you can use until time has healed your wounds, or until you get back together with your ex. And that temporary solution is basically just to stay busy and keep yourself occupied as much as humanly possible… if there’s a 10 minute block in your day tomorrow where you’ve got nothing planned, get your phone out and line up a coffee date with a friend to fill those spare minutes. Make sure you push yourself out of your social comfort zone by meeting new people, going on casual dates, picking up new hobbies, and spending as much time as you can with friends and family. I know that some of you watching out there are groaning right now and thinking “laaaame, Brad… that’s just dumb advice that even my mom already knew about”. And that’s cool, you can call me a brainless dummy all you want…. Just know what this tactic is one of the single most important things you can do to get through your breakup and get a fresh start with your ex. Staying busy and being social, active, and putting yourself out there…. It works, ladies and gentlemen. Do it. This is one of my 5 Golden Rules, and let’s not forget what happens when you break any of my golden rules…. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 375220 Brad Browning
Is Your Ex Moving On? (How To Tell)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ --- Is Your Ex Moving On? (How To Tell) What’s up ladies and gentlemen, Brad Browning here…. You might know me as “Breakup Brad”, because my videos here on YouTube are usually all about breakups and getting back together with your ex. Today’s video is no exception, and this time I’m going to explain how to tell whether your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is moving on and getting over you. I know this is a question that a lot of you have on your mind 24/7 right now, because I’m asked this by my coaching clients and subscribers here on YouTube many times every single day. But I want to start this video by letting you in on a little secret….. worrying about this particular topic is usually a total waste of time. It’s totally natural to wonder what your ex is up to, what they’re thinking or feeling about you or about your relationship…. But, in reality, you’re never going to know for sure. You can spend hours analyzing their latest Instagram post or re-reading those old text messages, but the simple fact of the matter is that none of that stuff is going to help you win them back. Sure, maybe it can give you a rough idea of where you stand with your ex, but more likely you’re just going to misinterpret things or cause yourself a whole lot of unnecessary heartache stressing about what they’re doing or saying. I’ve made videos on this topic in the past, because I really think overanalyzing your ex’s words and actions are almost always counter-productive, so you can check out those videos here on my channel for more about that… but to keep it brief, it’s always better to focus on the things that are within your control… the things that you can do to change your situation and improve your odds. So, here’s what I suggest you do instead. First, finish watching this video, because I’m about to tell you about a few things that will actually give you a clear indication that your ex is moving on and getting over you. But as soon as the video is over, don’t sit there worrying about the fact that your ex has shown a couple of these signs already…. Go use my free quiz tool to evaluate where you stand with your ex. It takes 5 minutes, you just need to answer about 20 questions and then you’ll be given a score and a list of personalized feedback and recommendations based on your quiz answers. The URL for the quiz is www.BreakupBrad.com/Quiz… that’s BreakupBrad.com/quiz. And as always I’ll put the link in the description below so you can just scroll down there after the video and find it there. After you take my free quiz, it’s time to stop worrying about your ex altogether. Like I said, stressing about what he or she is saying or doing isn’t going to help you get back together. HOWEVER… I promised to tell you about some signs that indicate your ex is indeed moving on and getting over you, so I guess I better deliver on that promise. Sign #1: It’s been a long time since your breakup. Woooow, this is a shocker, isn’t it? Obviously the amount of time since your breakup is going to make a difference to their feelings towards you… occasionally time can actually be a good thing, but generally speaking the longer it’s been since you broke up, the more likely it is that your ex is moving on. Sign #2: Your ex stops making any attempt to contact you. Again, this can occasionally not mean anything -- who knows, maybe your ex is also a subscriber to my YouTube channel, and they’re employing the No Contact strategy! But more likely, it means they’re just no longer thinking about you that often anymore, which obviously suggests they’ve moved on. Now, just because he or she isn’t reaching out to you doesn’t mean you need to give up hope -- but it’s not usually a good sign. Sign #3: He or she has been dating someone new for more than a month or two. Rebound relationships are typically something people jump into after a breakup to numb the pain and post-breakup emotions, and very few last more than a couple of months… but if your ex has indeed been dating someone new for more than a month or two, that’s not a great sign. Sign #4: Your ex doesn’t respond at all to your attempts to incite jealousy. This is a tough one to evaluate if you’re not really communicating with your ex very often, but if you’ve used some of the tactics I describe in my Ex Factor program to carefully incite some jealousy and you’re not getting any kind of reaction at all from your ex… that can definitely be a bad sign. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 281646 Brad Browning
The Clean Slate... Text? (The Clean Slate Email's Evil Twin)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ --- The Clean Slate... Text? (The Clean Slate Email's Evil Twin) In my bestselling Ex Factor Guide system, I go through a TON of psychological tips and tricks that will make your ex wish that they never left you. In fact, some of these tips are so powerful that it can only takes a matter of DAYS for your ex to come crawling back. One of my most popular psychological tactics is the "Clean Slate E-Mail"... in this email template, I teach exactly what you need to say to your ex if you've already begged and pleaded for him or her back. And if you've watched some of my other videos, then you know that begging and pleading makes you LESS attractive to your ex, and if you do it enough, you can effectively blow your chances of getting back with your ex forever. Since this was a common issue with almost all of my clients, I designed an email that solves this problem and puts your ex at what I like to call "emotional neutral"... meaning, after reading this message, they won’t harbour any negative feelings for you… they’re at an emotionally “neutral” state. But can the same thing be accomplished by sending a short little text message? Today, we are going to find out! What's up, YouTubers? Brad Browning here. In this video, I'm going to share with you 3 texts that you can send to your ex RIGHT AFTER you've begged and pleaded for him or her back. But before I get into the goods, I think I should explain WHY begging and pleading is bad... and why it makes your ex LESS attracted to you. See, when human beings decide to mate with someone, usually they will try and mate with someone of similar OR higher social status. The higher the social status, the more attractive he or she will be to the opposite sex... and this is true for both men and women. That’s why women are more attracted to the lead singer of a band than the bass player, for example. And in order to get your ex back want you back, you need to showcase your social value without making it seem obvious. Furthermore, begging and pleading shows your ex how LITTLE value you have… and it will reaffirm your ex’s decision to break up with you in the first place. Like I’ve said in many other videos, if you want your ex to come back, you need to do things that will demonstrate how YOU are the catch… and there are a number of behaviours that you can engage in to convey this. But if you’re watching this video right now, you’ve probably been demonstrating some low value behaviour. However, don’t worry, all is not lost! You CAN begin reversing the process of making your ex attracted to you again, and you CAN get your ex back even if you’ve begged and pleaded for weeks. And it all starts with, drum roll please, Clean Slate templates. These are simple but powerful messages that you can send to your ex right now to begin the process of making your ex want you again. And in this video, I’m going to share with you THREE of these text messages that you can use right now to begin this exact process. But first, I gotta warn you that it isn’t as simple as just sending one of these messages and hoping for the best. You must COMBINE this tactic with other strategies I outline in my Ex Factor Guide if you want to optimize your chances. And if you want to learn more about these tactics, then head on over to BreakupBrad.com right now and watch that free video presentation. Again, that URL is BreakupBrad.com. Okay, text number one is called the “Fresh Start Text”. Lemme dive into an example and I’ll break it down for you after. You could say something like… “I have to apologize for acting so irrationally over the last few days. I feel better about myself right now and I’m off to a fresh start.” And just leave it as that. It’s important to not make excuses for your behaviour or you’ll continue to look desperate. It’s important that you own up to the mistakes that you’ve made in the past, apologize for them, and then move on. This is highly attractive behaviour and you’ll make your ex feel like you’re on the right path moving forward. I’ve talked about this before in a ton of other videos, but this text message must be followed by engaging in no contact for at least 30 days… if you feel like you’ve done a lot of begging and pleading after the breakup, then more than 30 days might be required. It’s important to note that you WON’T be able to change your ex’s mind overnight – building attraction takes days or weeks… so keep this in mind. Don’t look for the quick-fix result because it doesn’t exist. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 65317 Brad Browning
How to Keep Your Ex Once You Get Them Back
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- How to Keep Your Ex Once You Get Them Back Hello ladies and gentlemen, thanks for tuning in to my latest video… this time around, I’m going to tell you how to ensure that, once you get your ex back, you’re able to actually keep them and enjoy a healthy and long-lasting relationship. So, my name is Brad Browning… you may know me as the author of the best-selling program that helps readers win back their ex after a breakup. That program is of course called The Ex Factor Guide and you can learn more about it at my website, BreakupBrad.com. In addition to The Ex Factor I also provide 1-on-1 relationship coaching to people like you from around the world. Now, like I said, this video is about what to do after you win back your ex. Hopefully you’re already at this point and you’ve reunited with your ex… but even if you’re still working at it, the tips in this video will help you once you do get back together, or even in future relationships should things not work out with your ex. First of all, I do want to be upfront with you, because the honest truth is that there really isn’t any surefire way to make sure your relationships remain healthy and don’t end in a breakup. You can do all the things I suggest in this video and more, and things may still not work out in the long run. That’s just the reality of love and relationships… it’s not something that can be forced, and some couples just aren’t compatible enough to survive in a long-term relationship. For most of you watching this, though, that’s probably not the case. Most of you will be able to do some simple things to ensure your relationships are healthy and your partner won’t walk out on you. I’m going to finish this video with the single most important tip, so definitely stay tuned to the end…. but first, let’s start with one of the most important things you can do to ensure your relationship stays on track… *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 61559 Brad Browning
5 Things You Should Never Say To Your Ex
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Here are some things that you should never say to your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend if you want to get back together to them. These are some very common things that people say... 1.) "Please give me another chance!" -- This is very common. However, this grovelling and begging looks very pathetic. This will only repel your ex away. 2.) "I miss you" and "I love you." -- While they're probably true, you shouldn't be telling your ex this. You need to have some mystery and keep them guessing if you want to get your ex back. Don't seem desperate or heartbroken. 3.) "I'm so heartbroken/depressed" -- This gives off a VERY undesirable vibe. Who wants to get back together with a broken mess? Remember you need to ATTRACT your ex back into your life, not guilt them. 4.) "I hate you." -- Being mean to your ex won't work either. Causing conflict will only reinforce their decision to break up with you. Even though there was a lot of conflict over the breakup, you don't want to bring any drama. This won't help you. 5.) "Never talk to me again." -- Along the same lines as number 4, you don't want to bring up negativity. Your ex might even take you seriously! More on this topic: http://www.BreakupBrad.com ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 326511 Brad Browning
The 1 Root Cause Of All Breakups (And Why Your Ex Lied About It)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- The Number One Root Cause Of All Breakups.... Each day, I receive a number of emails from my coaching customers that begin along the lines of, “Hey Brad, my ex broke up with me because of…” and then they’ll proceed to tell me the reasons behind their recent breakup. Now, occasionally the reasons for the breakup are perfectly logical… cheating, for example. But much of the time, the “reasons” that were provided by your ex to explain the breakup are flat-out lies. In this video, I’m going to explain why your ex lied about the breakup, and what the actual underlying reason is behind almost all breakups. Let’s start by talking about why your ex would have lied to you when they were explaining the reasons behind your breakup. It’s actually fairly simple: your ex felt that they needed to give you some sort of closure, and felt compelled to explain the breakup, but he or she didn’t want to hurt you any more than was absolutely necessary. Remember: ending a relationship is extremely difficult for both parties, not just the person being dumped. Unless your relationship ended with a screaming match and lots of animosity, then your ex probably felt bad about having to hurt you by breaking up, and they wanted to ‘soften the blow’ as much as possible. That’s why, in most cases, your ex will either blatantly lie about the reasons behind the breakup, or they’ll only tell you part of the truth. After all, when you look at it from your ex’s perspective, what’s to be gained from telling you the truth and hurting you even more? For example, if your ex couldn’t stand your friends and was no longer attracted to you because you’d put on a lot of weight since the start of your relationship, wouldn’t that be a lot more hurtful to hear than if he or she simply said something like, “we’ve just drifted apart and I don’t feel that connection anymore” or “I’m just at a point in my life where I need some time alone”? As I mentioned earlier, often times your ex may have told you part of the truth -- he or she may have picked one thing that was bothering them about your relationship, and told you that was the main reason behind your breakup, when in fact it was just one of several issues that led to his or her decision to end things. And although it’s important to recognize that your ex probably wasn’t being 100% truthful, and it’s helpful have a clear idea of the problems that led to your breakup, the most important thing to understand is that all breakups are caused, fundamentally, by one thing: a loss of attraction. Love is attraction. Attraction is the glue that holds together every romantic relationship. Sexual and emotional attraction is the main thing that differentiates romantic relationships from friendships. When your romantic partner loses his or her attraction for you, the relationship is essentially destined for failure. And that’s why a loss of attraction is the underlying root cause of all relationships… you simply can’t maintain a sexual or emotional connection with your romantic partner if you aren’t attracted to them. Sometimes, a single event or a few main issues can lead to his loss of attraction… if you cheated on your partner, for example, that lack of loyalty can cause your partner to lose his or her attraction for you. Other times, it’s a slow process that happens over time as your relationship becomes stale and your partner loses interest. Whatever the reason, you must understand that if you want to start a new, healthy, lasting relationship with your ex, then you need to re-build his or her attraction for you. That’s why my Ex Factor Guide program is just as much a guide to rebuilding attraction as it is about getting your ex back… you simply can’t enjoy a fresh start and a long-term relationship with your ex unless you can re-build the mutual attraction that is critical to all successful relationships. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
Views: 90276 Brad Browning
When Is It Bad To Ignore Your Ex? Exceptions To The 'No Contact' Rule
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- When Is It Bad to Ignore Your Ex? Now, first of all, what is the "no contact" method? It's a common strategy that's widely recommended by counselors and breakup experts, myself included, that basically involves ignoring your ex completely for about 30 days after your breakup. The strategy is designed to help your ex let go of negative memories, latch on to happy memories of your time together, and begin to miss you and realize how painful it is when you're no longer in their life. Now, when does the no contact strategy become complicated and potentially challenging? 1.) When it's been a long time since you two broke up If it's already been awhile, then there may be little point to avoid contacting your ex. The whole point of No Contact is to allow time to pass without contacting your ex anyways. If you've already been avoiding your ex for 6 months, then avoiding him or her for an additional 3 weeks probably isn't going to do much. 2.) When you and your ex still live together. If you and your ex still live together then No Contact is obviously going to be impossible. Focus on limiting your interactions with your ex. Don't be mean and don't be needy -- convey to him or her that you're happy with the breakup for now, but aim to avoid your ex as much as possible for now. 3.) When you go to school together or are co-workers Similar to point #2, avoid interacting with your ex as much as possible in these two scenarios. Be happy, be positive, and don't bring up the break up at all with your ex. 4.) When you two have kids together If you have kids together, avoiding your ex will be impossible. You should continue talking with your ex about your kids, but limit your conversations to talking about just the kids. Again, don't be dramatic and don't let any negative emotions seep through. Just remain jovial and positive. 5.) If your ex keeps trying to contact you. If your ex keeps trying to contact you, then you should be interacting with him or her. However, there is a very specific way to do this. You shouldn't be having regular conversations with him or her, but you should be intermittently avoiding your ex. That seems harsh, I know, but when someone you loved and hung out with daily for months or years suddenly vanishes from your life, the pain and loneliness can be overwhelming... if your ex is sad enough and missing you badly enough, he or she needs to understand that getting back together and giving your love a second chance is the best and quickest way to stop the heartache. That's an especially appealing option if your ex understands that the alternative is losing you completely. Now, you want to ignore your ex for 30 days, but you can't be rude or cause conflict by repeatedly ignoring them. If your ex sends a pointless message or calls for no real reason -- just to 'chat' or 'see what's up' for instance -- then you don't need to reply, beyond maybe saying "sorry, can't talk now, gotta run to meet a friend".... but if they're trying to talk to you about something important... for instance, to collect an important belonging that's still at your house, or to sort out paying old utility bills... you should wait a few hours and then reply with something polite, friendly, but brief and business-like. Answer their questions without showing any heartache or emotion... just be upbeat and friendly and keep the conversation as brief as possible. More on this topic: http://www.BreakupBrad.com ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
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How To Make Your Ex Miss You
 
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*** WATCH A NEW & IMPROVED VERSION OF THIS VIDEO: https://youtu.be/TSAGOs-VYlk *** --- In this video, breakup expert Brad Browning shares some sneaky tricks you can use to make your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend miss you and want you back. If you want your ex back, then your ex must miss you! This is critical. You can't convince them with words, though... no amount of pleading and begging will make your ex miss you or want you back. You have to build natural attraction. Why did your breakup happen in the first place? Simple: your ex lost their attraction for you. How do you rebuild that attraction? Make your ex miss you! If your ex misses you badly enough, they may want to get back together with you just to make those feelings go away. But how do you get your ex to miss you this badly? The number one way to make your ex miss you is to suddenly disappear from their life. You need to completely drop off your ex's radar. This sudden disappearing act works to make your ex miss you like crazy because it removes something they were so comfortable and used to (you!) from their life suddenly. This disappearing act is often referred to as the "No Contact" strategy. This is a very popular strategy that works well... it involves ignoring your ex for 30 days or so after your initial breakup. This will make your ex miss you! Science has backed this up: it's been proven that your ex will miss you most around 3 weeks into the "no contact" period. The other reason the "no contact" strategy works to make an ex miss you and want to get back together is because it gives your ex time to let go of some negative memories and forget the reasons why they wanted to break up in the first place. And your ex will also start to develop nostalgia . . . There's more to making your ex miss you than what is covered in this video, but if you follow these two tips your ex will definitely be missing you like mad and possibly ask to get back together! Need some help with your situation? You can sign up for my 1-on-1 coaching service here: http://www.BreakupBrad.com/coaching ============== *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
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Why "Experts" Say No Contact Is Bad (They're LYING To You!)
 
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http://www.BreakupBrad.com -- Why "Experts" Say No Contact Is Bad Hello ladies and gentleman! It’s Brad Browning here with another YouTube video. And in this video, I’m going to address some of the other so-called “gurus” here on YouTube that criticize my “no contact” strategy. I never felt like I had to defend this strategy – after all, I’m very proud to say that my videos are the most “liked” and most watched breakup videos on YouTube. Most of you who watch my YouTube videos will see the large amounts of positive comments and likes that this channel gets every single day. And, most importantly, I regularly get this positive feedback on videos that describe my “No Contact” strategy. However, there are a few YouTube gurus here with low-quality webcam videos that spout a number of nonsense arguments against my strategy. Normally, I wouldn’t bother to address these videos, but I occasionally get a few of my viewers who mention how my version of “no contact” is wrong because they’ve watched some other misleading video elsewhere on YouTube. This obviously makes me upset, not because these videos are seemingly attacking me, but because the advice that they’re giving is downright incorrect. And the only reason these gurus want to discredit my strategy is to stir up some controversy to get views on their channel. But as you’ll soon realize the amount of hate comments and dislikes these videos get serve as some level of proof that these imposters are simply trying to get their 15 minutes of YouTube fame. You’ll also run into videos that propose that their version of No Contact is somehow better than mine by calling it something fancy like “The Super No Contact Strategy”. Again, don’t fall for it. These fancy names only serve as a gimmick in their quest to get views and build controversy. *** More from Brad Browning: *** Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: http://www.google.com/+BradBrowning Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/bbrowning Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/brad_browning Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/bradbrowning
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